Recipes/Cooking » some women don't know how to cook. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Sat, 15 Nov, 2014 - 04:36:30:am GMT
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Mon, 29 Dec, 2014 - 12:46:35:am GMT
I think I got answers . Many women don't know how to cook because of how there mother handle them when it comes to kitchen. Any time a mother is in their office (kitchen) I believe he should call her daughter's attention . Most mother's don't do that. I know of a lady ,she so lazy to the extent that she can't cook for herself and is the curse of her mother. I Noticed when the woman is cooking the daughter will be busy with phone or TV. One day I talk to the Daughter , how will you cope with a guy when you don't Know how to cook, she said they have to seek for a house help. I can never forget that statement. So laziness,I don't care attitude,no respect for men,parental implications are reason most ladies don't know how to cook.
**kenny g**
Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Funmo(m) .:. Thu, 22 Jan, 2015 - 05:31:52:am GMT
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Charity(m) .:. Wed, 06 Feb, 2019 - 01:43:41:pm GMT
For me, it's not that my mum didn't teach me, my mum though not a caterer but she's d best cook in d world. She always tries to teach me but I just couldn't learn rather I always get it wrong. Though, I know wat to do but it just doesn't come out right,it always taste awful and I do wonder y. Maybe cooking isn't my thing cos I've tried,I'm still trying to do it right yet it's not working... Wat do I do????
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Piwizo(m) .:. Wed, 06 Feb, 2019 - 02:04:10:pm GMT
Well first of all let’s get this straight a woman’s office is not the kitchen, I didn’t marry my wife because I want her to cook for me, I married her because I love her and I see as a partner in fulfilling destiny, i still maintain it is not the duty for a woman to cook, in the house anybody can cook, am I saying you should hire a house help? No not at all, if your wife can’t cook what is the point in teaching her if you as a guy knows how to cook better than her, will the ground open up and swallow you if you do that no, it’s here in this part of the world that we complain about everything if you married that woman because you want her to cook for you go to the restaurants and pick any chef there and marry, and if you have a woman that cooks for you appreciate her it is not easy, she goes to the market and still cook omg inhaling all those smoke and stuffs that comes with cooking of soup stew and all those delicacies, remember she’s your wife, understand that, and if you overwork her she will get old rapidly older than her age suggests, if your child wants to learn how to cook the mom can teach her same way the dad can teach her, she could also enroll for all this catering or food and nuts class how they improve you to become a better cook but wat I don’t like is calling the kitchen the woman’s or wives office, I don’t buy the idea!!!
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Dynameak(m) .:. Tue, 19 May, 2020 - 10:13:50:pm GMT
@kenny11973: Half way into the teen age I experienced this in my family because my dad believes a child should concentrate so much on excelling academically and it's expected of the mother to keep up with every other household chore. Oh my!
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Dynameak(m) .:. Tue, 19 May, 2020 - 10:22:03:pm GMT
@piwizo: I agree with you so much that it's not the sole responsibility of a woman to cook but it's quite unfortunate that various cultures have made it so because it's largely accepted that a woman with good kitchen skills can hold the home together and make her husband long to be at home at the moment close of the days jobs. To an extent that's true but it's important to note that cooking shouldn't be restricted to the female gender and thankfully, the male gender is scaling heights in the professional sphere of cooking as it's no more news that the best chefs belong to the belong to the male gender. Thus, in a family cooking shouldn't b hung upon the wife as the husband should willingly take up kitchen roles sometimes so as to add spice to the feeding pattern of such family. Smiles......that way the family will be a better place as the wife and children will excitedly look forward to eating dad's meal again.
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Doyin(m) .:. Fri, 24 Jul, 2020 - 11:19:25:pm GMT
We can't put all blame on the woman she has turned out to be , it started from her up bringing her parents or guardian. Many people are product of how they were raised in their homes, the mother has a role of raising both male and female children properly as well as teaching them to cook several meals, it will help them save money when they find themselves alone. It also goes down to the father, it will surprise you to know that some fathers are the reasons why their daughters don't know how to cook, Yes! They will be like she is too young to be with you in the kitchen, she has to preapare for that exam and all those excuses, when the child is then grown she would be difficult to tame, she would begin to give excuses like "I'm not used to it" I believe we are all responsible to teach her to cook, from the family, to the community, to the religious organization and to her school.
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Mima(f) .:. Sat, 25 Jul, 2020 - 08:04:02:am GMT
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Glamour(f) .:. Sat, 25 Jul, 2020 - 02:19:48:pm GMT
Quote from Kenny11973: I kept wondering if some women don't know how to cook. For who you are, either rich or poor. If you as a woman you don't know how to cook is a very bad thing. How will you be cooking for your husband , oh sorry you employ a cook or what will you do. But if you heard that your husband is sleeping with the cook, you better don't complain. If as a woman you really want to win the heart of a man, the best way is good cook. Tell me why you don't know how to cook. I as a man,I can cook 90percent of our foods here in Nigeria. Tell me what you are doing when your mum is in the kitchen or you want to tell me your mum don't know how to cook either. Please I need some answer why some women don't know how to cook.
... Because there is no law that says all women should know how to cook. If your wife can't cook but she's good in making money, you can take up the job of cooking or teaching her how to do the cooking. All women can't know how to cook, that is what makes the world balanced. The same way some men don't know how to repair little electric stuffs. Some men can't fix bulb before they met their wife, you either learn or leave it to someone else to do the job. Women are not destined to be cooks, I wish men would understand that. If all women can cook, the word "the way to a man's heart....", won't be useful anymore. To balance this life that is while we have some ladies who can't cook.
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Davzee(m) .:. Sat, 25 Jul, 2020 - 04:16:52:pm GMT
Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: MissDairo(f) .:. Sat, 25 Jul, 2020 - 09:36:17:pm GMT
Let me start this by saying cooking is a life skill and not gender based.
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Bookie(f) .:. Sat, 25 Jul, 2020 - 10:30:05:pm GMT
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Flat(m) .:. Sun, 26 Jul, 2020 - 12:48:25:am GMT
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: ChukwukaEmmanuel(m) .:. Tue, 04 Aug, 2020 - 09:51:49:pm GMT
It is really disheartening that our generation is full of ladies who have been enticed and wooed off by social pleasures and carefree life that they forget the role of responsibility in their life's. Part of the roles and functions of a woman is her ability to be vast in the preparation of home dishes. This is a skill that all women ought to acquire.
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Abbey(m) .:. Mon, 27 Sep, 2021 - 04:13:10:pm GMT
The most important thing a woman should know how to do is to cook ,as a woman you should know how to prepare food for your husband and children .
I can't get married to a woman who does not know how to cook ,simple because I like food .
I used to appreciate women that know how to cook very well .
Don't forget food is important .
Food make us survive.
**Abbey **
Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Lilcent(m) .:. Wed, 29 Sep, 2021 - 03:30:24:pm GMT
The fact that a woman doesn't know how to cook doesn't make a bad person neither does it mean she has a bad upbringing..
When she gets married the major thing there is she can sort that out with her husband.
Once he's ok with it, then they are good to go.
Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Olatoke(m) .:. Tue, 24 May, 2022 - 01:40:12:pm GMT
That is unfair every woman should know how to cook food because one day you will get married to someone who will be your husband.
It usually happens and it's not funny been a woman and you don't know how to cook .
There are some children there parents did not trained them properly , I have seen a girl of twenty four years old who did not know how to cook and that is very bad idea.
**Olatoke **
Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Obajichi(f) .:. Thu, 15 Sep, 2022 - 02:56:36:pm GMT
For those ladies who can't cook, its either they have what you call mageirocophobia or they didn't learn how to do it.
If a grown lady wasn't trained to cook by her mother, she can always learn from friends or other distant relatives.
If your family doesn't train you to do certain necessary things, you can always train yourself.
We can never fully learn everything about life only through our parents.
Learning can be done outside the home.
Some ladies who didn't know to cook, enrolled in catering school.
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Re: some women don't know how to cook. by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Sun, 12 Mar, 2023 - 07:29:03:am GMT