Family/Parenting » respect by: HrhIamDinmaBeryl(f) .:. Mon, 17 Nov, 2014 - 02:31:27:am GMT

A gentleman respects every women in his life. If you can't respect your own mother, forget about respecting your wife.

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Re: respect by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Tue, 18 Nov, 2014 - 11:44:19:am GMT

i don't think in a real sense we can see a man that will not respect the mother but is possible for a man not to have respect for the wife.
**kenny g**

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Re: respect by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:16:57:pm GMT

Wives should respect their husbands.........and don't take your husbands for granted as well.

It is increasingly getting common to find wives who want to complain when issues have gone bad, forgetting how for long, they kept taking a piss.
A husband who can tolerate you is not easy to find. Don't push him wrong because eventually, everyone breaks....and when he breaks, you are unlikely to like the new person.

At that point, it may no longer matter who you ask for help, his mind would already be made and you'd have lost him.

On the surface, you may get defensive, deny, argue but deep down, you'd know it's on you and that would make it sting more especially when others know it and remind you of it.


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Re: respect by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:19:29:pm GMT

@Gooddypye: Respect should be reciprocal. Men should also respect the wives. A good wife is not a fool, don't take her for granted.

Many of the cases that come to me on this issue are those that could have been avoided if husbands had taken time to learn to appreciate their wives.

Everyone has a breaking point and if you keep pushing, it will get to the point where she wouldn't care anymore.

Unfortunately, this point, where it is almost too late, is where we begin to care. Some wives are nasty by default but many became that way because of things that happened to them at the hands of husbands.

Nobody's perfect but do your bit. Stop taking her for granted.


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Re: respect by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:26:07:pm GMT

The truth of the matter is that we exude what we are. What you can't see in yourself, you can't see in others and what you can't give yourself you can't give others.

Every respect starts with oneself. When you can't respect yourself, you can't respect others. Talking about a man's mother is going too far. You must be able to look at how a man treats himself and that is exactly he is treating himself and the mother. That is the simple truth.

Who gives what he doesn't have. Every human lives his life from the abundance of who he really is. Who gives what he doesn't have? Nobody.

**Obinna Oguji**

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