Babe-Fishing/Dating » plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Dorcas(m) .:. Sun, 08 Sep, 2013 - 01:00:55:am GMT


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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Bela(f) .:. Mon, 09 Dec, 2013 - 09:45:00:am GMT

Do you have a guy that you'd like to do this to?

That must take courage in Africa

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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Thu, 06 Nov, 2014 - 08:58:08:am GMT


Quote from Bela: Do you have a guy that you'd like to do this to?
That must take courage in Africa

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why did you said it takes courage in Africa,what about other countries.
the way we have some people that will take the lady for granted also happen over there .so your judgement is not right. everything all depend on indiviual perspertive.

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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Velisa(f) .:. Mon, 11 Mar, 2019 - 02:24:28:pm GMT

Well... I think is a matter of decision. But guys are better in it than girls. If a guy woo a girl who accept to be his fiancee and still cheats on her, then tell me how will it be when a girl was the one that woo the girl. Then the cheating will have grade. Seriously... But it actually takes nothing but just making up your mind. Walk up to him, tell him your mind. A musician sang a song that if you love somebody, walk up to the him/her and tell him/her you love am. Because no crime at all in it. So, if you can pick up the courage then you can do it. And my dear, before doing it, make sure the guy loves you too. So you won't regret at the end.
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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Sat, 16 Mar, 2019 - 06:06:17:am GMT

Well I consider it to be very romantic and beautiful, for a lady to see a guy she like and take that bold step to approach him and say her mind is just class, while such trends are not common in this part of the world, I will encourage our ladies to be more open and try something like that, but most of these our girls prefer to die in silence even if they have feelings for a guy they'll just be throwing green light maybe the guy would understand but what if he doesn't understand you, that's how you will loose a great guy you love, so ladies be brave and brace yourself up by coming out of your shell to speak your mind, it is not only men that should always say their mind first when they love someone, as a lady you can say your mind too, and trust me a real guy will not take your ability to open up as weakness or desperation as you might want to call it but he will take pride in it that you could summon the courage to say it and would value you hundred percent!!!
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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 19 Mar, 2019 - 12:38:37:pm GMT

Let's look at this from this angle, what will it cost a girl to tell her mind to a guy, absolutely nothing, there's nothing wrong in a girl wooing a guy she likes as long as you admire him, then you're free to woo him, and it would be a nice idea and gesture towards the guy because you caught him unawares and put yourself in his thoughts, and trust me there's nothing as beautiful as that because the guy will value you so much and give you a lot of respect and regards, so it's advisable for a girl to speak her mind instead of dying in silence or settling for less!!!
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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Victoria(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 04:33:39:pm GMT

What does it take a girl to woo a guy and ask him out. I used to ask that question until I realized what it actually entails for a girl to ask a guy out. Usually girls always say that they can never ask a guy out and that the only way they could ever do that would be over their dead bodies. Now that I think about it, that statement makes no sense.
For most of the girls, their so called feminine pride is the only reason that would not allow them to ask the guy they like out. No matter how much they like a guy they are perfectly content with being in the friend zone. They are also okay being miserable and watching the guy of their dreams remain ignorant to the fact that there is someone out there that loves them.
But me, I'm not like that. I am a very weird person actually. I wear my heart on my sleeves leaving I always show what I feel. It's basically impossible to hide my feelings. I have told three guys about my feelings for them and trust me it didn't end well. The first confession was to my then secondary school best friend. It was in our last year of secondary school. He had already known that I liked him even before I said anything because of my inability to hide it. I was gently rejected though. The second time was in university. It was almost the same thing that happened to me in secondary school. He had a girlfriend and I didn't know about that. I just confessed for nothing. I was highly embarrassed.
The last one was recently and I'm still waiting to see the results of what I have just done. Let's hope I haven't made a third mistake.
For people like me, the reason why we don't want to do that again is because we are tired of getting embarrassed. If this one fails, I'm never doing it again. I'm telling you!

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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 04:54:12:pm GMT


Girls what happened in this kind of situation is that , some time girls also admire boys.

Girls if you see a guy who you like , try your best and go for him don't be discouraged, don't think he will disgraceful you no, if you fall in love with a guy try and get closer to him, he might not know what you think or have in mind but as time goes on in one way or the other he will know.
Go for him let him know how you feel, let him know that you like him, you can chat him if you think you can not confront him physical.
If you know of a friend who is closed to him you can contact the person and express your feelings for him then he will be the one to deliver the message to him, although I'd not easy for a girl to go on and approach a guy not easy at all but if you are a victim of such, don't keep quiet speak out what is on your mind, he might be your future partner

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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Phaithh(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 08:51:24:pm GMT

Hmmm, this is deep...
It's not right, like morally right for a girl to woo a guy, I mean, how will she do it?
"Hi handsome, I saw you from across the bar, and instantly my heart leaped and butterflies filled my stomach, I know you are the one for me.., please say yes, can you be my boy?". This is hilariously ridiculous!
Guys are well known for wooing girls and not the other way round. Many a times, it comes with embarrassments because the guy might look down on you or do any other unpleasant stuffs. He might not really like you and will just play along just to extort you.
There are other ways you can go about it. You can play the "notice me" game - doing all things possible to get his attention. It's still better than than asking him out.

But come to think of it, as a lady, do you know that you are a treasure, a priceless treasure for that matter, waiting to be found by the right pirate? It's not possible for the treasure to go looking for the pirate? Is it?
It's the duty of the guys to find the ladies, it's their responsibility. "He that finds a wife...." Prov. 18:22 and not
"She that finds a husband...".
All you have to do is work on yourself to be that priceless treasure. Allow him come himself.


**Jesus junkie**


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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Bookie(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 09:32:38:pm GMT


@Phaithh:It's not right, like morally right for a girl to woo a guy, I mean, how will she do it?

"Hi handsome, I saw you from across the bar, and instantly my heart leaped and butterflies filled my stomach, I know you are the one for me.., please say yes, can you be my boy?". This is hilariously ridiculous

Lol .but why not? why can't a lady approach a guy she likes. Well, she may not use those words but I believe she can still find a way to let the guy know how she feel about him.

I think it is more of a cultural thing. I mean we all grew up believing that it is the duty of the man to approach a lady. It has become engraved in our hearts. But what if the guy is the shy type and it is obvious he is into the lady but does not just have the courage to express himself.

I believe if a lady likes a guy, she can play her seduction game well till the guy dances to her tune or simply come out straight and let him know what she feels for him.

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   Re: plz frds,what does it take a girl to woo a guy and also ask him out by: Phaithh(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 10:44:15:pm GMT


@Bookie: And that's the problem...

If the guy is too shy to ask a girl out then he isn't ready to be in a relationship. He is supposed to man up and that is why he is a man.
Shyness is not an excuse. Let him get over his shyness and meet the girl head on, he will be respected more.

Ok, so let's assume, the girl did the asking out and it went well, will she be the one also to propose?

**Jesus junkie**


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