Religion » food for your soul by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Thu, 13 Nov, 2014 - 11:00:54:am GMT

Professor was teaching about Proverbs 15:1. He asked his students, 'why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' The students thought for awhile. One said, because we lose our calm. But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Asked the professor. Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry? The students gave some answers but none satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained, 'when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their hearts psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are,the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance. Then the Professor asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are psychologically close. The distance between them is very close. The Professor continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They don't speak, only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all.....So next time you shout on a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person's heart. Proverbs 15:1 says a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."Life is easy"..Stay Blessed..Jesus is LORD.
**kenny g**


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Re: food for your soul by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Tue, 11 Jun, 2019 - 11:16:48:am GMT

Anger is one of the strong devices of the devil.


Hardly will you see someone who can overcome anger.

But like it is said here, when you are angry and shout, you are creating a distant in the heart.

And I so much support this.

Every one can't be mad at the same time. Let one be calm and the other angry.

This morning, my uncle was beating up his stubborn daughter. He asked her to keep shut but the more she gets more angry and shout.

They both began shouting and he got really anger, took a rod not a cane and started hitting her with hit.

Anger can cause you do not Ethan you can ever think of, if you don't control it.

You should learn to control your anger.

Talk gentle. In fact, don't talk when you are angry.

Only brake when you feel calm and better.

Then you can now settle everything.

**Fearless**


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Re: food for your soul by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 11 Jun, 2019 - 03:32:11:pm GMT

In life in general one thing we have to understand is that people will always hurt us and get on our nerves but how we react and respond is a proof of our maturity, they are some people who intentionally take pleasure ad delight in seeing you hurt, they are glad if you are not fine, it gives them joy, they always look to use your weakness against you, that is why i tell my friends that they should be mindful who they share their secret with because not everyone is their friends, there are some unfriendly friends, i call them wolves in sheep clothing.


Anger per say isn't all that bad at all, it is natural that when you see something you don't like you get angry but where i am more concerned is how we respond when we are angry, how we can control our actions, because many relationships, business and families have suffered a great deal as a result of anger, and this occurrences are always happening on a daily basis in our society.

Whenever we are angry one thing we should learn to do is not to shout because if we shout the other person will not hear us, our messages might not be conveyed, and if for example we shout at someone who offended us, and the person in return shout back at us, just that shout we shouted at the person who offended us might lead to a serious fight and we will finally get hurt and sometimes regret our actions. We should not be ignorant of the devices of the devil or his agents that he has put in place to tarnish our image or reputation.

Take for example someone has been offending you and you have been quiet about it, you keep swallowing it up and maybe one day he just did something little because you have kept stock of all the evil things or wrong deed he or she might have done to you, you will just escalate and start creating a scene and someone that might just see you for the first time will get the wrong impression of you, so the best way to control anger is to say your mind anytime something wrong is done to you, don't take it to heart, tell the offender that this thing you did to be i don't like it, it saves you a lot of things you might not know.

Another thing is avoid friends who constantly get on your nerves, let them be a gap between you and them so you wont constantly get hurt, then finally the way to overcome anger is walking in love, when you believe that everyone loves you and you relate with them on the basis of love, you wont easily get offended because your love will be too strong to condole you being angry or acting crazily just because you are angry.

**positive**


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Re: food for your soul by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 12 Jun, 2019 - 04:56:43:pm GMT


@piwizo: I agree with the whole of your point. Though it is not easy not to shout when angry but you can start learning it. You can overcome anger.


It's the device of the devil and it steals away 'ones happiness.

It's destructive also cause it puts a wound in the heart.

It brings separation between two souls.

The fastest way for devil to enter ones home is through anger.

I will advice it's better you don't get angry at all. And you can do that, you must not always react to everything people says or do.

Learn to overlook. Anger kills the soul. The makes the Holy Spirit in you step back in your life, that means, your spiritual life will be weak. Because light and darkness has nothing in common.

Learn to avoid anger.

**Determined**


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