Hiring » Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Wed, 05 Nov, 2014 - 07:26:23:am GMT
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Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Wed, 05 Nov, 2014 - 07:30:55:am GMT
Post is not to be here so sorry, I will need to post it in the right place. Just telling you these in case you find it in another topic room.thanks.
**kenny g**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Davzee(m) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 08:42:12:pm GMT
Thank you ladies this days want rich guys they don't care how he earns is money, that is wrong ladies should understand that all fimgers are not equal. Some men are having hard time seeing a good job that pays well.
**No doubt**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Toxyron(f) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 10:13:25:pm GMT
The Jobless guy like us got me lol. I feel this isn't really necessary,as long as he has plans,dreams and also working towards it. It's really fine by me.
**Sharon**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 04 Jul, 2020 - 05:58:22:am GMT
Unemployment is a common phenomenon in most of the country, especially African countries, this is because most of the African countries are unable to provide job opportunities for their citizens. Now what is unemployment it's self , unemployment is when a person who is willing and qualified to secure was unable to secure job. Now to the woman , although some time getting married may involve money. But what everyone thinks is that they will not get married if they are not employed, interesting . Most of male graduate feel on till they get a good job before going into marriage, let consider the woman said should a woman go into marriage with an unemployed man, yes a woman can go into marriage with an unemployed man, and they start to build their families, not everyone will be able to secure a good job, most of the graduate of the country are unable to get a job, so if a woman is 50 year and still looking for a man that has good job, then it means that the woman is not serious with her life. So to the woman you can go into marriage with your spouse with out employment. God knows the best thanks
**Abiodun**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Flochords(f) .:. Sat, 04 Jul, 2020 - 12:22:06:pm GMT
I will like to say this more precisely that women don't even marry a man that doesn't have a job except on rare cases whereby he is called by God into a full time ministry or he is disabled or bed ridden. But a normal man, that is complete, and is not working, just lazy doing nothing please don't marry him, run for your dear life because marriage is responsibility and there are lots of expenses in it, if you marry such a man you will be the one carrying all the responsibilities that both of you are supposed to take care of together. You will become the man in the house taking care of everything instead of your husband doing that, then your husband will become the wife, sitting down at home and sleeping, watching TV waiting for you to come back from work and put food on the table for him to eat, this is a very bad life to live in marriage and such a man is a shameless man, because even women are working aspiring to make it in life and a man is now doing nothing? Then he is supposed to cover his face in shame because that shows he is not man enough.
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Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Sharpminds(m) .:. Wed, 12 Aug, 2020 - 08:22:56:am GMT
@Flochords:Unemployment is a common phenomenon in most of the country, especially African countries, this is because most of the African countries are unable to provide job opportunities for their citizens. Now what is unemployment it's self , unemployment is when a person who is willing and qualified to secure was unable to secure job. Now to the woman , although some time getting married may involve money. But what everyone thinks is that they will not get married if they are not employed, interesting . Most of male graduate feel on till they get a good job before going into marriage, let consider the woman said should a woman go into marriage with an unemployed man, yes a woman can go into marriage with an unemployed man, and they start to build their families, not everyone will be able to secure a good job, most of the graduate of the country are unable to get a job, so if a woman is 50 year and still looking for a man that has good job, then it means that the woman is not serious with her life. So to the woman you can go into marriage with your spouse with out employment.
**Whatever is impossible with God has not been created**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 12 Aug, 2020 - 09:26:41:am GMT
Unemployment is an issue we are battling with in our country Nigeria, so women should not marry unemployed men I don't think is the right decisions, both men and women were unable to get a good job, the rate of unemployment in nigeria is getting worst every day.
**Abbey **
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Krainaix(m) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 07:11:10:am GMT
Ladies are always on that shiit...i mean i would be scared to ask a lady out because of the insult am i get because am not okay financially but ladies do know that tables do turn ,that's why they get to be the victim of those kidnappers or ritualist because most girls are the one making guys go into those illegal shiit and unworthy stuff.
**Krainaix**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Abiodun(m) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 10:27:16:am GMT
women don't date unemployed men. it is l probably won't date another unemployed women in the future. it's not about money. it's more about personality. if a woman doesn't work now. that may be an indication of her character. it might limply that she is looking for someone to pay her way. I'm not interested in a woman like that. it may also indication that she has a bad personality and can't follow the rules that employees have. these would include punctuality attitude or behaviors. I don't want to be with a woman who has problems in any way of those areas. l guess it would depend on why he was unemployed. if he lost a job and was working hard to find a new one. them l would. if he didn't work because he was essentially lazy and looking for a free rid. I would not .people who do not have some kind of occupation and responsible for supporting themselves are usually boring.
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Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Chamak(f) .:. Sun, 22 Nov, 2020 - 09:38:50:am GMT
This is really a topic that should be discussed because there are many unemployed men out there in Nigeria.
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Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Flat(m) .:. Tue, 01 Dec, 2020 - 03:32:28:am GMT
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Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Wonders(f) .:. Mon, 07 Jun, 2021 - 10:46:17:pm GMT
Women don't date unemployed men? Do you know that there are so many reasons why people date? Not everyone dating is actually dating because they wants to marry the person they are dating.
If am dating for fun? I can have no problem with you being jobless. The truth is I can't be serious with someone who just wanna sleep all day.
In Nigeria, I have come to realised that we are the ones that like to compound our life's problem. We give ourselves problems that God didn't give us. We all know how difficult it is in this country even for some rich people and yet I see jobless people get married, they don't stop at getting married, they proceed to given birth to children, they won't even stop at three, they will be having five children with little or no money at all.
My question to everyone, is life all about marriage? You don't have what it takes to give your partner and unborn children the best, why go into stuffs like marriage? Why can't you be content with the level you are no matter your age and continue to try and become better.
I know what it feels like to have people that God has given responsibilities to meet your needs and yet they couldn't and that hurts deeply. I have promised myself that instead of me to bring children into this world to suffer, I will rather stay alone!. Life isn't all about dating, marrying giving birth etc. We need to wake up.
The whites will have everything yet they won't be given birth like pigs and here we are we don't have anything and we want to get married and have children that we will just bring into this world to suffer. I know money doesn't buy happiness but instead of me to bring people to my misery, I will rather suffer alone. No one deserves it not my future partner or unborn children!.
**Wonders**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Samuel23(m) .:. Wed, 23 Jun, 2021 - 08:20:38:pm GMT
You're right
**Olasunkanmi**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Iyanu(f) .:. Tue, 14 Sep, 2021 - 06:34:54:am GMT
Unemployment is now a general problem in this generation say woman should not date unemployed men is not the solution.
We produced thousands of university graduate every year where is the job for them to do.
Unemployment is of different categories if your fiance is self employed I think both of you can still be together self employment is very good .
That is why some people get it wrong look for a rich guy or rich lady to settle down with.
**Oladipupo **
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Iyanu(f) .:. Tue, 14 Sep, 2021 - 06:40:40:am GMT
Nothing like been employed if you are employed you will be fine and good your wife and children will enjoy you that is if the man get job.
Women run away from men who does not have job , during your courtship he many not have job but he can have job later or sooner are you getting me right.
We ladies sometimes shouldn't look at money but the joy ,love,Care in a relationship, what of if you get married to someone who has a good job and everything but you dont fine peace,love in his home you wont be happy.
**Oladipupo **
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Sun, 05 Jun, 2022 - 02:03:40:pm GMT
We can't just conclude that dating an unemployed man is the right thing to say. Instead, we should say dating an unemployed man without a vision is a big risk for every lady. Some men are unemployed but have a vision and are ready to take appropriate actions to make their vision come to pass.
There are so many criteria every lady should look out for in the person they are planning to date. Everything is not about money although when there's money love is sweeter but every lady needs to see beyond the man's financial level. As a lady no man is designed to care for all your needs during dating it is never done that way. Every lady needs to have something to do to support themselves financially.
When dating affairs are taking a new turn into courtship and then courtship into marriage affairs, the financial aspect needs to be considered. There's always an indication to know if a man is serious or not, therefore as a lady, you need to evaluate your man and know who he is. Make sure he has something to do no matter the amount, it will still go a long way in the family.
Don't despise a man that's hard-working but doesn't have enough money now. Instead, learn to pray and encourage such a man till his dream comes to pass.
**Always put God first **
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Queen(f) .:. Sat, 19 Nov, 2022 - 12:23:50:am GMT
If you want to date an unemployed man no problem but don't dare get married. Else, it will be the beginning of the end of your life. A word is enough for the wise.
**It is well**
Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Obajichi(f) .:. Tue, 22 Nov, 2022 - 04:51:54:pm GMT
Women will tell you they have lots of bills to pay. They don't want who will be a burden on them...
An unemployed man is a burden but the worst is dating a vision less man.
That a man is unemployed today, doesn't mean he'll continue to be unemployed except he's just lazy or has spiritual problems.
I guess women are naturally created to reason that way but some ladies or women try to get jobs for who they even intend marrying because in the long run, it is for the good of both parties.
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