Hiring » Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Wed, 05 Nov, 2014 - 07:26:23:am GMT

"This is the rare area, compared to other topics i've done surveys on, where women's old-fashioned beliefs about sex roles seem to apply." I know this sounds a bit superficial â€" like we need a man to have a job so they can shower us with gifts and take us on dates. But I think whether he can hold down a job tells us more about a man than his net worth. It is a sign that he's responsible, ambitious and has goals in life. In today's economy, it's not unusual for people to be out of work or between jobs, but even a man working a non-ideal part-time job while looking for and applying for work in his field is sexier than one who is content with living off mommy and daddy's hard-earned cash. Men, on the other hand, are much more accepting of unemployed women. Nearly two- thirds of men said they would have no problem going on a date with a woman who doesn't have a job, while only 8 percent said they would absolutely rule it out. Ladies, I know where you're coming from. Nothing is sexier than a man with a plan, but try to keep in mind that nowadays it's not so simple to land the high-paying job of your dreams. Give it time. And please, if you're in a committed, loving relationship, don't kick him to the curb just because he's out of work. Try encouraging him and helping him in his job search. Seriously,No lady is ready to date because am jobless. To even talk to a lady now is difficult for because all ladies now will ask you what you do for living and to me I don't think I can say have something of which I don't. Good people please let hear your comment about women not dating a jobless guy like us.
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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Wed, 05 Nov, 2014 - 07:30:55:am GMT

Post is not to be here so sorry, I will need to post it in the right place. Just telling you these in case you find it in another topic room.thanks.
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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Davzee(m) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 08:42:12:pm GMT

Thank you ladies this days want rich guys they don't care how he earns is money, that is wrong ladies should understand that all fimgers are not equal. Some men are having hard time seeing a good job that pays well.


Understand where ladies are coming from, you can date a broke guy and still live happier rather than dating a rich guy who makes you sad.

Ladies if you dating a man who doesn't have dreams or that is lazy please help him realize his dreams if he doesn't want to listen break up with him asap. Be with someone (a broke guy ) who is hard working has dreams because one day those hard work and those dreams will come to pass soon.

Men should figure want they want because ladies don't like suffering. Thank you for bringing up such a wonderful discussion.

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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Toxyron(f) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 10:13:25:pm GMT

The Jobless guy like us got me lol. I feel this isn't really necessary,as long as he has plans,dreams and also working towards it. It's really fine by me.

Before you start shouting about dating unemployed men,must you be dependent on a man I don't really understand relationships this days to demanding. Funniest part is this same women do not have anything doing, I have seen one telling her boyfriend to Join this Yahoo scamming scheme, Imagine Funniest part is this men accept you even when you are unemployed.
It's not that easy to get a Job this days,with the way this country is going so it isn't entirely their fault. There are still men out there hustling legitly but you want a white Collar Job, In short you need a rich guy.
Everything is about money nowadays.


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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 04 Jul, 2020 - 05:58:22:am GMT

Unemployment is a common phenomenon in most of the country, especially African countries, this is because most of the African countries are unable to provide job opportunities for their citizens. Now what is unemployment it's self , unemployment is when a person who is willing and qualified to secure was unable to secure job. Now to the woman , although some time getting married may involve money. But what everyone thinks is that they will not get married if they are not employed, interesting . Most of male graduate feel on till they get a good job before going into marriage, let consider the woman said should a woman go into marriage with an unemployed man, yes a woman can go into marriage with an unemployed man, and they start to build their families, not everyone will be able to secure a good job, most of the graduate of the country are unable to get a job, so if a woman is 50 year and still looking for a man that has good job, then it means that the woman is not serious with her life. So to the woman you can go into marriage with your spouse with out employment. God knows the best thanks
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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Flochords(f) .:. Sat, 04 Jul, 2020 - 12:22:06:pm GMT

I will like to say this more precisely that women don't even marry a man that doesn't have a job except on rare cases whereby he is called by God into a full time ministry or he is disabled or bed ridden. But a normal man, that is complete, and is not working, just lazy doing nothing please don't marry him, run for your dear life because marriage is responsibility and there are lots of expenses in it, if you marry such a man you will be the one carrying all the responsibilities that both of you are supposed to take care of together. You will become the man in the house taking care of everything instead of your husband doing that, then your husband will become the wife, sitting down at home and sleeping, watching TV waiting for you to come back from work and put food on the table for him to eat, this is a very bad life to live in marriage and such a man is a shameless man, because even women are working aspiring to make it in life and a man is now doing nothing? Then he is supposed to cover his face in shame because that shows he is not man enough.

A man must have a good work before he even thinks of marriage. Yes! A man that doesn't have a source of income and can barely feed himself should never think of marrying a wife at all, because he is not capable to marrying a wife talk less of taking care of the wife when he eventually marries her. So before you think of marriage as a man, think of a job first because even before God have Adam Eve, he gave him work in the garden of Eden to dress it and keep it in the book of Genesis, it was after then God have him Eve. So dear men, it is work before marriage. Thank you.

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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Sharpminds(f) .:. Wed, 12 Aug, 2020 - 08:22:56:am GMT


@Flochords:Unemployment is a common phenomenon in most of the country, especially African countries, this is because most of the African countries are unable to provide job opportunities for their citizens. Now what is unemployment it's self , unemployment is when a person who is willing and qualified to secure was unable to secure job. Now to the woman , although some time getting married may involve money. But what everyone thinks is that they will not get married if they are not employed, interesting . Most of male graduate feel on till they get a good job before going into marriage, let consider the woman said should a woman go into marriage with an unemployed man, yes a woman can go into marriage with an unemployed man, and they start to build their families, not everyone will be able to secure a good job, most of the graduate of the country are unable to get a job, so if a woman is 50 year and still looking for a man that has good job, then it means that the woman is not serious with her life. So to the woman you can go into marriage with your spouse with out employment.
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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 12 Aug, 2020 - 09:26:41:am GMT


Unemployment is an issue we are battling with in our country Nigeria, so women should not marry unemployed men I don't think is the right decisions, both men and women were unable to get a good job, the rate of unemployment in nigeria is getting worst every day.

So women I have a question to ask, so majority of the women will not get marry because there husband or finance was unable to get job, till how many years did you won't to wait for employment.
Although it is good for a man to have a good job, and a reliable source of income, but if it turns around to the other side in which your spouse is unemployed so won't you marry.
If you are unemployed you can stand on your own, you can be self employed find something to do and earn money at least it will serve you and your family a little bit

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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Krainaix(m) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 07:11:10:am GMT

Ladies are always on that shiit...i mean i would be scared to ask a lady out because of the insult am i get because am not okay financially but ladies do know that tables do turn ,that's why they get to be the victim of those kidnappers or ritualist because most girls are the one making guys go into those illegal shiit and unworthy stuff.
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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Abiodun(m) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 10:27:16:am GMT

women don't date unemployed men. it is l probably won't date another unemployed women in the future. it's not about money. it's more about personality. if a woman doesn't work now. that may be an indication of her character. it might limply that she is looking for someone to pay her way. I'm not interested in a woman like that. it may also indication that she has a bad personality and can't follow the rules that employees have. these would include punctuality attitude or behaviors. I don't want to be with a woman who has problems in any way of those areas. l guess it would depend on why he was unemployed. if he lost a job and was working hard to find a new one. them l would. if he didn't work because he was essentially lazy and looking for a free rid. I would not .people who do not have some kind of occupation and responsible for supporting themselves are usually boring.
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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Chamak(f) .:. Sun, 22 Nov, 2020 - 09:38:50:am GMT

This is really a topic that should be discussed because there are many unemployed men out there in Nigeria.

The truth of the matter is that it's the woman's decision on whether she wants to date an employed individual or a man without a job.

Whether women date unemployed men or not, it doesn't guarantee whether the relationship will be successful and lead to marriage. At least, we are all seeing what is happening around us especially when we even look at the many situations of women who are in a relationship with an employed man.

The best thing for me is that any woman who feels she needs a relationship should know what exactly is the outcome she is expecting from that relationship. There are many single ladies out there who are really doing well, will now tell them too not to date an unemployed man if they find one that they like?

I have seen many marriages that it was people that supported the man to do his wedding but immediately after the wedding, things began to go fine and he becomes employed. We are in no position to tell anyone who they should date or not because we can't really tell who is the right one until we are in the relationship.

For me, if an unemployed man puts smile on the woman's face then I feel she can date him if she wants and if she has connections, she can equally assist him in getting a job. So I don't see any problem with dating an unemployed man unless he is the type that is not serious and is not ready to work when the opportunity presents itself.

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   Re: Women Don't Date Unemployed Men. by: Flat(m) .:. Tue, 01 Dec, 2020 - 03:32:28:am GMT

Hmmm! Sincerely speaking, this is funny because it's coming from a guy. You see, will need to be sincere with ourselves, if a woman says he is not dating unemployed man, she is right in-fact if she says she doesn't even want to see an unemployed man coming to approach, she is equally right. Going to the point of dating means there is a responsibility that we be shouldered upon us not in terms of we taking care of the total responsibility but we can also do that if there is capacity to do so. But we need to understand the concept of unemployed here, when we say someone is unemployed it simply means the person is willing and able to work but their is no job for the person. So, this tells us that the man is not actually lazy and that doesn't mean he will be dependent on the woman's money or something.
So, it's a choice but if a man truly wants to be respected and never wants his dignity to be tarnished for anything, there is need to find something profitable doing before getting into a relationship, no matter how little it might look like, it is very important because giving is necessary both occasionally or planned, there is need for communication to come into existence and so many others that needs the assistance of money before they can come to play. Again we need to understand that even if it is God's will for you to be unemployed because you are going into ministry, it is very important that you understand that will and how it will function, I mean understanding the ministry you are going into by seeking God's knowledge of how o go about it because all ministry needs the intervention of money.
So, saying no to an unemployed after the approach is not wrong but not understanding the reason for the unemployment is not right. Therefore, understand why the man is not employed before you turn down the dating offer.


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