» Why Do Women Find It So Hard To Approach Men? by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Fri, 19 Dec, 2014 - 11:48:03:am GMT
Let me know ladies, why is it so difficult for women to express their newly founded admiration for a guy? But seriously, women need to be more forward and go after something they like. Standing their and hoping he says something to you is getting boring to me, step it up! It's a two way street. If lady walk to and say her mind, seriously I will take her as a diamond. Hope you understand what diamond means. So ladies,lets hear your taught
Re: Why Do Women Find It So Hard To Approach Men? by: Funmo(m) .:. Wed, 18 Feb, 2015 - 01:46:37:pm GMT
SHOULD WOMEN APPROACH MEN? THE DEBATE
In many cultures and climes, the men are the ones to always tell ladies of any feelings they have for them. It is more like the accepted standard and norm. It has been like that since time immemorial. Only of recent, with feminism becoming popular, people have been of the general opinion that women should approach men if there is need to. Some women have missed good Mr. rights all because they didn't tell him their minds, as they thought it a taboo. Is it right for women to approach men? I weigh the pros and cons.
YOU MIGHT BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF
This is the number one fear of most ladies that want to approach men. Men that are really not interested in them and don't want to turn them might take advantage of them. Dumping them at the end. Six out of ten men will do this.
INTEGRITY COULD BE AT STAKE IF YOU GET REJECTED
The fear of being rejected is also there. And God help you (or not), the man approached has a loose mouth. Every of his friends get to hear and you could become a laughing stock. This alone makes even the strongest of ladies get shivers and low self-esteem.
YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO BE DIFFERENT
It gives you a chance to break from the norm. Not many people are doing it. If you tell a man how you feel and he feels the same way you feel for him, it is perfect.
YOU HELP A SHY BROTHER OUT
A man may want you but might be shy to express his feelings. If he gives the signs, and you approach him, you would have successfully helped a brother relieve stress.
**ORIGINAL, CREATIVE AND A SUPERSTAR IN THE MAKING**
Re: Why Do Women Find It So Hard To Approach Men? by: Piwizo(m) .:. Fri, 08 Feb, 2019 - 07:42:57:am GMT
This is an interesting topic, wow so wonderful, everything happens in the mind, it's a mindset and mindset is what differentiates the best from the rest, when I was in Ukraine doing my studies one thing that struck me was how the ladies made guy feel comfortable around them, the whites are so free especially when they like you or have feelings for you, as a guy you will know, they buy gifts for you, visit you more often, take you to the restaurant to have a beer, they also go on a walk with you in the park, at this point what she's doing is giving you green light as a guy, so you have to understand that she loves you, but if you're still being dumb she throws u a question like do you like white girls and what's your kind of girl, if you still dumb not to understand she gives you the golden buzzer, what's up dude I really love you and what us to be in a relationship and trust me you can't say no because for her to keep on going and going to that extent during the process she already knows if you like her or not, it's just about being spontaneous, if you love a guy there's no crime in telling him, but too bad in this part of our world that really doesn't happen because no girl wants to be disrespected, so they kill their heart desire in their egos or in what will people say, I give you an anology in the western world it is totally normal if the girl propose to a guy it's even romantic but here the guy will take an offense in it, then what's the whole idea of love then, if a woman ever approaches me and tells me her feelings for me, I tell you I'll just marry her that moment, because it takes a lot of guts to do that and for me all women are beautiful!!! Cheers!