Babe-Fishing/Dating » Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Fisher(f) .:. Mon, 04 Feb, 2013 - 07:57:07:am GMT

1.lack of understanding
2.lack of money
3.poor listening
5.lack of respect
6.over demanding of sex
7.denial of sex
8.Drug addiction
9.long distance

others specify...

As for me, it purely over demanding of sex... lol

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Administrator(m) .:. Tue, 05 Feb, 2013 - 03:43:52:am GMT


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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Nico-gold(m) .:. Tue, 25 Feb, 2014 - 06:05:56:am GMT

4 and 5.dat is why I broke up with my ex

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Diane(f) .:. Tue, 25 Feb, 2014 - 07:11:49:am GMT

Quote from Nico-gold: 4 and 5.dat is why I broke up with my ex
You mean that you lack respect and have ill attitude?

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Funmo(m) .:. Mon, 16 Mar, 2015 - 01:44:58:pm GMT


Though a breakup is painful an experience, but in some cases it is justifiable. Like they do say, a breakup is way better than a divorce. It takes strength to break up or get broken up with, no matter what the cause might have been. But lessons must be learnt from our mistakes and shortcomings, that is why a breakup must make you better, not bitter. Only that pathetically, people take break up too far. Life is not a bed of roses. Get that!!!

That being ranted, I think a (NOTE I SAID I THINK) breakup is justifiable with these reasons.


This is so justifiable. Any form of abuse physical, emotional, psychological, or intellectual, calls for a breakup. This is because in most cases, it is addictive an habit for these abusers. They just don't stop easily. If you are taking a gamble if the abuse being meted on you will stop or not, the probably of will stop to won't stop is like 80 to 20. Nobody in true love with you will ever abuse you intentionally, they would rather sacrifice for your sake. A breakup is better than consistent breaking of bone and self.


If your partner is deceptive, full of lies, hiding secrets, lying about the past and emotions, you are better off single. Nothing hurts more than discovering the truth after having been told many lies upon lies. A partner full of deception will eventually break your heart, you have an upper hand by making the first move.


You shouldn't stay in a relationship with someone who sees you as multiple-choice type of partner. Someone cheating on you is indirectly letting you know your worth. What is your worth?


If you lack these two, you will do well with someone who also lacks them. Birds of a feather flock together.


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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 28 Feb, 2019 - 07:09:36:am GMT

Reasons why Break up leaves a pain in the heart for days

Love: some break ups in relationships comes either from you or your partner. But you feel so much pain when you are even the one who broke the relationship. Can I ask you why you break up then? You so much love the person but there are some habits or doings the person has refused to change from that keeps hurting you. Even when you always make sure you do everything to make him/her enjoy the relationship. Even if the person was the one who broke up the relationship but you still weep because you so much love him/her. Within you, you don't want to loose the person but he/she is ready to walk out. Even with all pleading.

Lack of forgiveness and forgetfulness: If you lack this. The relationship will eventually come to an end one day. You should learn to forgive and forget the mistakes of your partner. Learn to let go. That is a true example of love.

Pride and ego
Pride kills. It destroys and never build. Just because of pride. You can't say I'm sorry to your boyfriend or girlfriend when you are wrong. You feel your partner should be the one to say I'm sorry when you are wrong. You want your partner crawling to you when you are wrong. Pride will only destroy your relationship. Let go of pride and learn to say I'm sorry. You feel you are the man, so saying am sorry to the weaker vessel is crazy but you knew right inside of you, you've done wrong. Then you aren't building a good relationship.

Lack of trust
Not trusting your partner can lead to relationship break up. You always see your partner as a cheater and all that. Can lead to break up because you will eventually one day abuse him/her with that in just a misunderstanding which he/she won't take lightly especially when they are not. Trust your partner if you must save your relationship.

Either not enough or in excess can cause break up. No money is worst because many ladies don't want to stay with a man who is not working. A man who has nothing. No money. They need someone to buy them clothes e.t.c. money should not be taken higher in a relationship but it's needed. The truth be said. Excess of it will make you not to know the right person. The ones who will come your way are only coming to send your money finish and when you find out you break up with them. Some flee with your money.


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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sat, 02 Mar, 2019 - 12:27:40:pm GMT

I have had quite a few relationships and many of them are beautiful ones but the reason I broke up in majority of them is because of insecurities from my Ex as a result of jealousy or feeling that I am not faithful or something like that and it really gets on my nerves when someone you love and appreciate so much thinks of you in such a way, after I took it upon myself that a change might happen and it didn't happen then I am left with no option that breaking up, though some of the relationships I was in previously if you ask my partners at the time they will tell you am a bit of a womanizer but it's not the truth even though I am closer to the opposite sex, in my defense we are only friends, and i never cheated on any of my partner but because of their lack understanding we always break up but I am hoping to change as not to get more breakups in my relationship with my present partner because she means the world to me and wouldn't want to loose her for anything in the world, finally what makes a relationship works is commitment to one another.

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 06 Mar, 2019 - 06:54:56:am GMT

I didn't bring the break up but he did. Though I love him but I am better we broke up. Cause I was really fed up of everything. We are always having misunderstanding, some last for days and it really hurts me any time we have misunderstanding. I won't be able to concentrate or do anything at all. And he was the type always seeking for sex. At times we sex more than three times a day. It was too much. I became fed up. He has this habit of not even hearing my words out. Once I tell him to do something that I felt it's right, he wouldn't unless his family tell him so. He is so much concerned about his family more than me. He listened to the least of his sibling in the house. It is when the thing backfire he would start complaining and I told him to do the right thing but he refused. And he was the type that used to have useless chats with ladies. Sex chat and all of that. And he will tell me he is only chatting, nothing behind it. He would say he has nothing to do with them. Even promising and planning marriage with one of the ladies. Considering all he was doing to me altogether. At times I become frustrated that I will even bring misunderstanding and even wants to break up with him cause he is not truthful and never gave me a single respect as his fiancee. But at times I would change my mind and we will reconcile because I love him so much. A day eventually came we had to break up. It was really becoming too much. And I love it that we broke up though I love him. But he's way of life does not prove the type of man I should marry. He tell lies like one dying on the truth.

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Victoria(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 05:54:54:pm GMT

Why did I break up with my ex? There were many reasons why I didn't want to stay with someone like that. Way too many ready and when I think back, I wonder why I ever got into the relationship in the first place. It was a waste of time, money, energy, resources, brain power even. For real though, it was that bad.
I broke up with my ex because he cheated. The funny part about this was that I didn't do it soon enough. When you read this you would understand.
So, we started dating in my second year of the university. I was younger than he was with years and he had more experience thank had so I looked up to him for guidance and the way to go about things since it was my first relationship. After three months, he told us to take a break because he wanted to focus on his academics, Iaccepted but a few weeks later, he was dating his so called best friend. After three months, they broke up and then he came back to me and I stupidly took him back.
Within the space of the first month, he had already cheated and I didn't even know. When I found out, he apologized and said he wouldn't do it again. I let it slide as I didn't want to lose him.
The second time, I wasn't in school for a particular semester because I had to go for IT, before I came back,he had already found someone to replace me. I wouldn't have found out if not for his hostel mates that told me that they thought we had broken up and that he had another girl who was always coming over. He cried this time around begging. He said he was lonely and said a whole bunch of things to make me feel guilty. I fell again.
The third time was the worst. This girl was someone who he told me he had nothing to do with. I had my suspicions but he said it was all in my head.
The main point was that he cheated and I broke up with him. I should not have let it slide the first time. Maybe I would have found someone better.

**Live, love and heal...**

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Bookie(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 07:47:20:pm GMT

Looking back now, the question I often ask myself is that why did I even agree to date him in the first place. Maybe I agreed due to the fact that I was naive or just because he was all over me. He asked me out for almost six months and he went through some of my friends then before i agreed to date him. Honestly I felt nothing for him but I agreed because he wouldn't let me be and my friends did not help matters.

This guy was insincerity personified, he had insecurity issues and I have not seen a guy that can nag like him. He can nag for Africa. It got to stage that whenever he says he loves me I always ask him to repeat in order for me to be sure if he was actually saying he hated me.

This guy must not see me with any other person ,he will embarrasse me and the person. I found out later that he was dating two other ladies and when I confronted him ,he simply said I caused it by not giving him sex

When I decided I had had enough of his lies and deceit, I simply sat him down, talked to him and we both agreed to be friends. Some relationships are just worth it like the relationship I had with my ex.


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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 09:58:02:pm GMT

Why I break up with my ex girlfriend is due to some reason, my ex girlfriend is a person who is addicted to telling lies and I don't like, telling lie , I like it when you say the truth , even say it at any cost , the another thing I discover in her is that she don't have time for me some time if I called her phone number she won't pick up the call and when she saw the call she won't call back, and lastly she doesn't listen to corrction if you correct her instead she will repeat it again

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 06:02:27:am GMT

I was a dyckhead, and she had to leave to get her life back in order. My angel and the queen of my heart is gone, but I'll always love that girl. kiss It's almost a year but I still get flashbacks sometimes! sad

But hey, the break-up made me find myself, and taught me how important good black women are. If I could turn back the hands of time, I'd go back to her and start all over again. Shyte happens but I don't want to a player anymore. I played my cards right for a long time, till the cards played me. grin

Nothing lasts forever, but I still cherish and adore my ex. That one girl turned my life around..

Gotta to love beautiful, strong, educated, loving, and caring black women - if there were any definition of what women should be, black women definitely fit the bill.
**I am LoyhaL!**

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   Re: Why Did You Break Up With Your Ex................. by: Fashnet(m) .:. Mon, 10 Aug, 2020 - 11:53:37:pm GMT

The Bible says can two work together except they agree. The one I am talking about is number 1 which is LACK OF UNDERSTANDING.

The relationship surely won't work out or there will be fight almost Everytime if the two parties involved do not understand themselves or come to a compromise

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