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I think winning your ex back all depends on how the previous break up happened.
But many attimes it might be as easy as you think.
There's a thin line between love and hatred that is why alot of people find it very hard to forgive their ex when they are hurt.
Most of the time they don't recover from the emotional trauma...
@lilcent:. U're right about that which is it's so hard to win them back.
My question is that in the first place why did you breakup , normally it will be very hard to win back your ex , if someone is been consider as your ex then there will be limitations to what both of you are doing before.
Your ex has gone so I don't think you should be thinking of getting him or her back for what does not that means you won't to start over and again since is your ex I think both of you should just go on your ways.
To my understanding I know it is not easy but the way you two relate will determine if you two can come back together without any difficulties .Relationship now depend on your pocket because some ladies now give more attention to your money rather than you and you don’t expect someone who depend on your pocket should beg you after seeing a good offer someone who is richer than you or maybe popular than you 🙃.
Well, with my little experience, I don't think it that hard to win back an ex. I mean have once fall in love with a guy and we break up many times and make up many times.
It was easy for this guy to get me back because I so much loved him and I believe he's the best guy. So he just needed to be much more persuasive and I will take him back. Untill I realized he's upto no good.
And today, I don't think there's anything that can make me accept him back expect he shows beyond every reasonable doubt he's the best guy. And i haven't find someone else.
So I think at the end, the level of love that existed between partners matters. If they love each other deeply and their break up wasn't because one of them was a jerk, then winning back is very easy. One just need to start doing the things that warms the other partner's heart.
However in a case when one becomes a jerk which lead to breakup and then they changed completely and the love is still there. Winning them back won't be hard.
But if one of them was a jerk and is still a jerk, I advice the other partner to run. That's what I think, I stand to be corrected though.