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Family/Parenting » WHEN WE LOSE by: Osaroju(m) .:. Thu, 19 Aug, 2021 - 09:44:56:am GMT
This is something that nobody expects, but it happens.
There's life and there's death. We celebrate life and react to the news of death so badly.
Of course it's not really to lose someone, whether a friend, relative or close family member.
The pain we feel at that point in our lives is so great that for some it overwhelms them and they fall into something negative.

We should understand that there's life and there's death too. These two opposite ends have their own time, and we should be adequately prepared in all ramifications on either any of them happening.

Also, another thing that matters is where the soul of the deceased goes after death. We need to reconcile with our Lord, Jesus so that we are assured of spending life after death in paradise.

Lastly, as we live our lives, especially those of us who are matured and have people we take care of, let us not live our lives in ways that out passing away would bring not only pain but suffering to others left behind.

I pray God gives us all the wisdom to accept this message.

**Don't be a good student and a bad teacher.**

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Re: WHEN WE LOSE by: Jerrythegifted(m) .:. Sun, 29 Aug, 2021 - 04:24:52:pm GMT

I agree with you. Loosing someone shouldn't make us feel negative.

Like a quote in a movie- "Black Panther"by Late Chadwick Boseman
He said " In my culture, death, is not the end. It's more of a... stepping off point". He was right.
After people die, their souls go on another Journey to eternity.

A soul doesn't die,it's just the flesh that dies.

Of course , we will miss their earthly presence, the memories we had with them will make us feel sad sometimes because they're no longer with us.
But you shouldn't stay in that sadness for long. It's okay to cry
But then, you move on.
As long as the person who died was saved and is a child of God, there should be this happiness you will feel knowing the dead has left this wicked world full of troubles and has gone to meet God who is the giver of peace and rest.
That is why as long as you are alive, always try to make your ways right with God. So that when you die, you won't be scared of where you will spend your eternity.
Being saved gives one peace of mind.
You will have this blessed peace of meeting God in the end.
Accept Jesus today and have a sure assurance of making heaven on the last day.

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Re: WHEN WE LOSE by: Jackson2(m) .:. Tue, 31 Aug, 2021 - 11:01:14:pm GMT

When we lose it is not a good feeling at all cause no one likes to lose, but losing isn't all bad because when you lose you can bounce back even better then before.

look at it like this, that when you lose it an opportunity for you to get better at what you lose at. . When you lose it make you better at the thing you lost at.
**Life is good**

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Re: WHEN WE LOSE by: Fashnet(m) .:. Fri, 03 Sep, 2021 - 07:13:49:pm GMT

What I actually see to this write-up is that life has its package and it is full of ups and downs and there can be differentuncertaintied also what life has fallen everyone that lives on Earth and everyone that has this life with the breath in it.
So one needs to be prepared for whatsoever comes to the way of any man. I have read the holy scriptures which says vanity upon vanity, all is vanity.
Even the things that mostly gives man and a woman the happiest time of their lives can later turn to sadness and one would wonder what type of world we live in.
To some it can be sunny while to others it can be rainy at a particular time. In all these things man needs to learn to adapt to situations like this and to know how to deals with both good times and hard times as it might turn out to be.
With this knowledge and understanding one would be able to deal with the different situations that one faces in life. One would be able to fit into each phase appropriately.
**Help the needy and love everyone**

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Re: WHEN WE LOSE by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Thu, 16 Sep, 2021 - 09:58:23:am GMT

This is well articulated. in addition, let me live YOU with these quotes, “Think of the life you have lived until now as over and, as a dead man, see what’s left as a bonus and live it according to Nature. Love the hand that fate deals you and play it as your own, for what could be more fitting?” – Marcus Aurelius

“We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more in imagination than in reality.” – Seneca

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Re: WHEN WE LOSE by: Osaroju(m) .:. Thu, 16 Sep, 2021 - 08:12:54:pm GMT

Thanks all. You have all said beautifully on the topic. As it seems everyone has had knowledge and even more had an experience of such unfortunate occurrence.

I'm glad concerning our positive mindset towards what seems negative.

Finally, may God help us all to live the rest of our lives as the best, fulfilling our purpose
**Don't be a good student and a bad teacher.**

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