The biggest mistake a person will ever make in life is to get married to a man or woman who is a cheater. A lot of people can't see beyond their nose and get deceived with emotions , appearance and money. An unfaithful partner will never show his real color until they are caught in the act. When they are caught, they usually say it was a mistake.
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 11:58:50:am GMT
True words.... Cheating should only be emphasize among couples who are married. As long as you both are not married, then there is nothing like cheating. If you are still dating then we can say the person is double dating. And as your words are applied to cheaters so also they are applied to those who doubles. And some of the reason I have seen so many girls double date is money. Ladies who loves and cherish money than love tends to double date. They don't care where the relationship is going to and they don't even want to know. What they are so concerned about is money. Money is a good thing but the root of all evil is money. And one of the reason have seen men double date is sex. Some guys see sex to be nothing most especially when they are involve with a side chick. In other to fill their sexual pleasure, they go into dating more than one partner at a time. And some people double date with the feeling that they don't know who will be the right person among the partners, so they play along with them all.
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 04:08:23:pm GMT
Reasons why people cheats
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 07:44:38:pm GMT
Cheating and the cause of cheating may varies base on the individual and the relationship he or she finds themselves in, there are a whole lot of factors that can affect one cheating amongst these are,
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Fri, 01 Mar, 2019 - 08:27:43:am GMT
Cheating is as old as man, in every man is a potential cheater, women too are not exempted from the list, our world today is filled with many beautiful women and handsome men, that's a statement of fact and some of the these people are single, while other are married, some are divorced because of heartbreak while the last set of people are players, so there is a whole lot of causes of cheating.
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Tue, 16 Apr, 2019 - 08:21:16:am GMT
One pastors' wife I know very well was caught cheating. Every body were like, "Jesus! A pastor's wife?' I want to talk about people with their mentalities. Because she married a pastor doesn't automatically made her a pastor. She is still the normal woman she was before being married People do expect a pastors' wife to be one perfect woman like that.
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Fellybabe(f) .:. Fri, 21 Jun, 2019 - 06:50:22:am GMT
The most useless and foolish people I've ever seen are the those who cheats on their wives or husbands.
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Davzee(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 05:27:34:pm GMT
Causes of cheating are as follows
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Dynameak(f) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 06:04:36:pm GMT
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Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 06:11:25:pm GMT
**Creativity lies in the imagination of man**
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: TYMartins(f) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 07:19:09:pm GMT
**With God nothing is impossible**
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 09:43:14:pm GMT
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 06:17:28:am GMT
Cheating was, is and will continue as one of the major challenges of contemporary marriage!
The are no straight jacket rules in dealing with this challenge based on different factors :
The tolerance level of faithful partner
How remorseful the offender is
The kids involved
The religious orientation of those involved
Societal expectations. Etc
In all these, we should all bear in mind that FORGIVENESS is the key as no one is perfect!
ALSO KNOW that in divorce/separation, the KIDS SUFFER MOST!
We must prayerfully make efforts to avoid home breakers
For the Men, please play your part as head, provide for your spouse! (every toto na the same, the difference dey for packaging)
PROVISION IS NOT LIMITED TO MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS BUT INCLUDES HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS, YOUR TIME, ATTENTION ETC
For the Ladies, CHECk YOURSELF TO BE SURE YOU ARE NOT PUSHING YOUR HUSBAND INTO CHEATING - lack of proper home management, improper dressing, bad culinary skills, NAGGING etc
NB: OUR KIDS NEED BOTH PARENTS FOR BALANCED UPBRINGING!!!
**I am LoyhaL!**
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 06:18:26:am GMT
What next after cheating.
If it's texting and sexting and all the other emotional stuff but no actual fuckery then I'd forgive him after some initial drama. And only after he's managed to convince me he's stopped.
If he actually gets and keeps a side chic that he sleeps with then I'm out. Might take me months to move out but I will, life is too short to be married to a guy who sleeps around. He would never let me take his kids so that has to be done while he's away. I might later agree to let him take them on some holidays
What constitutes repentance? For social media affairs I'd have to be given all your passwords and access to your phone, login to all your sm accounts. For real life cheating I don't care about repentance. Once a cheat, always a cheat. We might make up again in ten years or something tho, if you remain celibate and beg me
Logistics: I know they say keep a stash of money so you can always leave if a marriage goes awry. But I find keeping a 'running away' money to be almost as deceitful as cheating. You'd have to cheat first then I'd start saving my exit money so that next time you do it I'd be ready. I believe there would always be a next time for the cheat. Besides it's easier to make a case for yourself when he's done it twice than just once.
For all these randy chronic cheaters that you keep finding text messages from other girls on their phones, girls panties, other girls calling me, me calling other girls, you beating me. I've never been able to befriend, date talkmore marry such men. If I ever find myself in such a situation, I'd full scale move back to my parent's house and never go back. I'd make all my independence plans from under my parent's roof. Again I'd still let him have the kids for holidays.
If he's not ok with the time I allocate for him and the kids then we'd do the whole divorce court thing. If not then I'd live on my own until he initiates divorce. I'd never remarry neither would I initiate divorce because did you know there are some government positions you can't hold if you ain't married and Nigerians are just too bush to handle divorcees. I'd keep the name, I'm not gonna be stigmatized just because someone couldn't control his preek.
**I am LoyhaL!**
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: MissDairo(f) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 09:34:45:am GMT
Exactly. I so love this article.
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 02:52:15:pm GMT
The reason why people cheat in a relationship
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Fashnet(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 02:59:57:pm GMT
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Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Holashayo(f) .:. Sun, 09 Aug, 2020 - 10:28:55:pm GMT
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Luckygeorge(m) .:. Mon, 10 Aug, 2020 - 04:12:06:pm GMT
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Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Tem(f) .:. Fri, 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:24:23:pm GMT
Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Ipfy(f) .:. Fri, 14 Aug, 2020 - 01:56:19:pm GMT
Cheating is very common between the two gender but mostly common to men. Women can do without sex for months while men cannot do that, if a man made love to his wife 15 minutes ago check him again he is ready to do another one. Meanwhile the woman is very tired and satisfied with the one her husband did but don't forget the man is ready to go again. Some women cheats because of hunger,if their husband cannot meets or provides for the family, some to satisfied their sexual urge
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