Romance » WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 07:17:30:am GMT

The biggest mistake a person will ever make in life is to get married to a man or woman who is a cheater. A lot of people can't see beyond their nose and get deceived with emotions , appearance and money. An unfaithful partner will never show his real color until they are caught in the act. When they are caught, they usually say it was a mistake.


Their partners keep giving them chances but the outcome is almost the same. The unfaithful person gets smarter, then look for an opportunity to hide, lie then cheat. A lot of people are in relationships with partners they love so much but have trust issues with them. They often let go of partners crime for cheating on them but can't seem to forget and trust them anymore.

In reality what we mean is "I am sorry" after cheating never removes the scar even after the wound is healed. I'm sorry is only applicable to mistakes made but not when a heart is broken. Forgiving people who cheat on you can be easy but accepting and giving them another opportunity is difficult.

A relationship can have mistakes but never allow that mistake to grow to a point where you break your partners heart, because it ends the relationship. Attitude and commitment is what sustains a relationship. A faithful partner will never cheat irrespective of how bad they are treated or how bad the relationship gets. But an unfaithful person will cheat even though things are perfect.

Cheaters always look for excuses, they see others as the cause of their infidelity. Cheaters are liars and insecure. They often accuse you of cheating and lying. They are demanding, controlling and manipulative. How they treat you has more to do with their reflection. They are not straight forward with you, they are secretive they speak less but faster.

They don't see anything wrong with their actions and you can't help change people like that. There is no difference between a cheater and a whore or whore-monger, for that reason you can't turn them into a husband or wife. You can't give people like that chances over and over again on the same thing.

It is not difficult to know whether you are dating a cheater. If you can't share each other's phone anytime, it is a clear sign you have one. Again, someone who cannot tell a simple truth, but lies even about little things is one. Cheaters are dangerous and can kill you with their behaviour, they are like a snake.

They don't bite you when you first meet them, they rather sweet talk you. Just remember when the snake first showed up in the Garden of Eden, did it start biting? No, it start talking, it started lying. If you are with one now but don't know, don't worry, as time goes on you will get to know them better time solves your problem by uncovering who he or she is, but what time can't do for you is to break up with them. You need to do that on your own.

Never mistaken cheating and lying in your relationship a struggles. They are good reasons for a break up. It's my prayer that God removes from your life anyone lying to you, using you, fooling you, or pretending to love you.

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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 11:58:50:am GMT

True words.... Cheating should only be emphasize among couples who are married. As long as you both are not married, then there is nothing like cheating. If you are still dating then we can say the person is double dating. And as your words are applied to cheaters so also they are applied to those who doubles. And some of the reason I have seen so many girls double date is money. Ladies who loves and cherish money than love tends to double date. They don't care where the relationship is going to and they don't even want to know. What they are so concerned about is money. Money is a good thing but the root of all evil is money. And one of the reason have seen men double date is sex. Some guys see sex to be nothing most especially when they are involve with a side chick. In other to fill their sexual pleasure, they go into dating more than one partner at a time. And some people double date with the feeling that they don't know who will be the right person among the partners, so they play along with them all.

Talking about cheating, this only come up between husbands and wives. You are married but keeping side chicks. It's cheating. Anyone that's a cheater always tell lies. They are not always truthful. They are ungrateful people. No matter how you try to please them, no matter how much you sacrifice your life and time to them. It won't stop them from being who they are. If you like always make sure you wash their clothes, always tidy the house, always cook for them, help them remove their shoes when back from work. Take off their coats, it won't stop them. You can never please a cheater because their mind are not always with her. They always hold on quickly to your little mistakes and react on them, cause they are not having true love for you anymore. They don't care about you but almost get you to hell when you don't care about them. A cheater kills one gently secretly and still pretends to you. They are always pretenders. They are either always missing calls or always busy. They are either visiting a friend or attending a friends party. They are not truly visiting a friend but visiting their side chicks. At times they lie to their side chicks that you are their sisters, some women will say their husband is their brother. They deceive people. The only time they feel love for their spouse is when they are having sex. After that, they forget they've ever known each other. Their are so much about cheaters. But I will advice before getting married, know your partner. If your partner can double date then he/she is capable of cheating on you.

**Determined**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 04:08:23:pm GMT

Reasons why people cheats

1. People cheats some times because they don't get the love they want from their partner. The care and love that are supposed to get from their partner is missing so, when there is someone who is ready to give thethem that love and care. They rather go for it.

2. No joy and happiness: in every relationship. Happiness is required. In everyone's life and in every home, happiness is very important. But in some relationships, happiness is very lacking. If they are happy today, tomorrow misunderstanding and quarrelling begins. So, due to the repeated incident of unhappiness, once any of the partner finds someone who can give them that happiness. They go for it.

3. The partner who cheats might not actually love his/ her partner and they might just be together for reasons. Like a story of a guy which loves flexing. He saw this beautiful and decides to go into her. Not that he loves her but just want to taste her. But not knowing it will hang in his throat. He talked to the lady and on their first meeting, he sex her. But unknown to him, the girl didn't use the condom he asked her to use before they sex. Some weeks later, the lady found out she was pregnant. And that was how she refused to abort the child and they were both forced to marry. They both ended up cheating on each other because there was no true love from the start. He hates the lady a lot till she gave birth. If not for his family members, he wouldn't have marry her. So, lack of love from foundation brings cheating.

4. Lack of trust: some partners don't trust their partners. So, they tend to keep side babes, so should invade she fucks up. So, they don't really have that trust that should be among partners.

5. Lack of ability to bear children: either from the man or woman. Just because the man is impotent, she begins to cheat on him. so, some faults of cheating are actually as a result of unbalanced relationship.

**Fearless**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 07:44:38:pm GMT

Cheating and the cause of cheating may varies base on the individual and the relationship he or she finds themselves in, there are a whole lot of factors that can affect one cheating amongst these are,


* low performance of your spouse or partner in intimacy, there are times when your spouse might want to be intimathe with your and maybe after few minutes your partner becomes tired or not into it, tell you he wants to rest or giving you flimsy excuses, this might result into cheating

* Another thing is lack of attention and time, when the person you're a relationship with doesn't have your time or gives you the necessary attention you need then there's two thing that can be involved here, one is either your partner is cheating that's why he isn't giving you time or his busy with his other responsibilities and hence can't balance work and pleasure, it could also result into getting that attention from outside since your partner isn't offering it anyways and in that process of seeking attention outside since you're not being given the required attention, you might end up cheating too,

* Then finally as a lady you have to understand that most men love sex and can't be satisfied no matter how much you offer it to them they will always want to go outside and try other girls.
**Graced **


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Fri, 01 Mar, 2019 - 08:27:43:am GMT

Cheating is as old as man, in every man is a potential cheater, women too are not exempted from the list, our world today is filled with many beautiful women and handsome men, that's a statement of fact and some of the these people are single, while other are married, some are divorced because of heartbreak while the last set of people are players, so there is a whole lot of causes of cheating.


1. If you're not good in bed your partner might result into cheating, because sex is a phenomenal pleasure that can't be over emphasized, so as someone in a relationship increase and improve on your sex drive,

2. When you're always keeping late nights, due to work or appointments, being business inclined, not having time for your partner chasing after money that you allow your other responsibilities to be lacking behind, not being available, it might result to your partner cheating.

3. When you always feel comfortable with sharing issues that bother you with the opposite sex who is your friend than your partner, cheating might occur from both sides, another thing is employing a sexy made or a handsome security officer when you know the nature of your job doesn't permit you to be home always cheating will definitely occur.

So how then do we stop cheating?

1. By creating time, like enough time for our partner, and doing those things you used to do when you first came across each other.

2. By being romantic to your partner it's your duty, taking him or her out, go for touring, see movies together, bond together and always surprise your partner, catch them unawares, be different and surely your partner will appreciate and value you.
**Graced **


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Tue, 16 Apr, 2019 - 08:21:16:am GMT

One pastors' wife I know very well was caught cheating. Every body were like, "Jesus! A pastor's wife?' I want to talk about people with their mentalities. Because she married a pastor doesn't automatically made her a pastor. She is still the normal woman she was before being married People do expect a pastors' wife to be one perfect woman like that.


When God calls a man, He do give the man the Grace to overcome temptations When God calls a man, He called him because He trust him. It was not God that chose the wife to the man. The man saw a woman he fell in love with, and desire having her as his life partner. Since God didn't call the woman as a pastor, she will be the one to work out her own Grace. She has weaknesses she is trying to fight against. She has weaknesses she is always asking God for the Grace to overcome.

If a pastors' wife do any mistake, people will condemn her as if she was a God. Pastors' wives are just normal wives like other men's wives. They are not spirit beings, they are not supernatural people. They all need our prayers They need our supports
**Graced **


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Fellybabe(f) .:. Fri, 21 Jun, 2019 - 06:50:22:am GMT

The most useless and foolish people I've ever seen are the those who cheats on their wives or husbands.


Any man or woman who lies a lot to you who is their spouse, know that person is a cheater. He is a pretender.

Especially men, they are the highest rated cheaters in the world. They carry the highest score in cheating.

A cheater is the most foolish man I've ever seen.

When you check on your wife, you lay down your responsibility for her to carry. Therefore, God sees her as the head and as the man of the house but you become the baby of the house cause you abandoned your responsibilities.

There is a reason God does not bless some men, they don't deserve to be blessed. If you notice a man who cheats, he life doesn't end well, he will maybe later face challenges that will destroy everything he has being building.

The sin of cheating has a great punishment that destroys a man entirely. You will see a married man after being caught having sex with the secretary in the office will be sacked... His life starts to face challenge sand problems that will make him regret ever cheating.

There is no sin that doesn't come with punishment. Every sin has punishment most especially when it involves sex.

A cheater never go unpunished by God. Because when you cheat, the soul of your wife cries and wail bitterly.

It's like the story of Cain and Abel. When Cain killed Abel, Abel was dead already but his blood cried unto God. Which made God to punish Cain. How can a dead person cry when he knows nothing anymore but that bus to tell you that when you hurt a soul, it cries unto God cause God is the creator of the soul. So, God revenges when the soul unto him.

So, when you cheat on your wife, she might not know bit her soul feels hurts for cheating on her, and the cry of her soul will get to God. You will face problems that will make you regret ever cheating on your wife.

Same also goes to those who breaks people's heart or hurt people. When the soul of those you hurt cried unto God, then you will face the revenge for hurting a soul cause God has instructed us to love one another.

Cheaters, you can continue cheating but just know there is a day coming, that you will face the consequences of your sin. No sinner goes unpunished.

**God's light**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Davzee(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 05:27:34:pm GMT

Causes of cheating are as follows

1. Lack of love
Feeling that your partner is not "The One" for you. No longer feeling passionate love or even falling out of love. Perceiving the relationship to be boring, dull or stagnant. "Lack of love is a powerful motivation it's definitely one of the stronger ones,".

2. Sexual desire
Feeling unsatisfied with the sex life you have in your relationship, perhaps because your partner has lost interest or you want to try something new that your partner can't give you.

3. Neglect
Feeling that your partner is not paying enough attention to you or not spending enough time with you. Not feeling appreciated.

4. Situation
When you're in a different setting or not quite yourself perhaps when you're on vacation, drunk or under a lot of stress you may have a momentary urge to sexually explore that would not necessarily be part of your stable.

5. Variety
You live by the motto "You only live once," so you want to try lots of sexual experiences with as many partners as possible.

6. Low commitment
This is oriented toward people's who are in a relationship, but they haven't specified that the commitment level is high or the exclusivity is there."

7. Esteem
You feel sleeping with others will improve your sense of self-worth, signal your independence or increase your social status and popularity.

8. Anger
You suspect or know your partner has betrayed you, so you want to get even.

This are reasons why People cheat.

Thank you.

**No doubt**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Dynameak(f) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 06:04:36:pm GMT

People cheat for various reasons but the major reason is hinged on the lack of sense of commitment. Commitment means being bound emotionally/intellectually to a course of action or to another person/other persons. When you make up your mind to be committed to a course, it simply means you are willing to stay through even when situations in it are comfortable and at other times difficult. Commitment allows for dedication to a course and it makes man stay focused through the course.

People cheat in love relationship because they are not committed. Have you heard of a committed person cheat? I will answer first, No! I haven't. No committed person will cheat, once a committed person cheat then he or she stops being committed. A committed person has a sense of responsibility to his or her partner and that makes the partner to be held in high esteem which makes room for faithfulness in the relationship. No sane person will cheat on the one who he or she claims to love. When you profess love for a person especially in a love relationship, on a path you are confessing positively to stay faithful to that person but in the world today there's a twist to love profession in relationships because people profess a thing in love relationship and mean another thing as seen in their actions.

More to the subject of commitment is that it creates a sense of accountability to your partner such that both of you will be in on what's going on in your lives respectively and that will create necessary boundaries for the options to cheat because with accountability trust will be built and no committed partner would want to break the trust of his or her partner by cheating.

**Life is a race but with God's element of grace it'll be worth while to explore His goodness. **


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 06:11:25:pm GMT

Man is polygamous by nature, that is the reason cheating is very rampant. The Christian Religion and culture has gone a long way in helping us to manage the polygamous nature of man especially among its believers.

Women of these days are also not helping matters. They dressed loosely and seductively in open places exposing all their body parts to the world. You can hardly walked across a street without getting turned on. It is just too worrisome.

The media has also not help issues. Music videos are filled with clips of nude girls with big booty and bum bum dancing seductively. One can hardly tune on the TV without staying turned on. People have now normalize the trend without understanding the implication.

**Creativity lies in the imagination of man**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: TYMartins(f) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 07:19:09:pm GMT

I think the real cause of cheating is " the choice to cheat". There are so many things that can lead to people cheating on their partner but everything that happens still boils down to your choice in that situation.
People blame falling out of love as the excuse of cheating on their partner. Others blame the change of behavior by their spouses, most blame the devil, others the way they are being treated by their partner and many more. However, all these are just leaving factors to your choice to cheat. You chose to
There are people that have given the same reason as yours but still didn't cheat. Are they saints? I can't say, but one thing I can say is they chose not to cheat.
I have a friend who no matter how he tries to cheat as a result of fights and arguments in his relationship, he can't just bring himself to. He said, no matter what the girl does, he would rather break off the relationship than to cheat on the girl. That was however not the case with the girl, cause she was cheating on him. Funny right. Both of them were presented with an opportunity to cheat, one chose to the other chose not to.
Cheating boils down to your choice to cheat. Don't blame anyone or anything, not even the devil. The devil may try to make you cheat but the choice is yours to make.


**With God nothing is impossible**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 09:43:14:pm GMT


People cheat for some reason, you can he just chest with our your reason, let consider some point

1.sex.most expecially men, we men cheat because of sex, if you are the type who do not allow your partner to have sex with you definitely he will go on cheating you, sex is important is the life of two lovers sometime you need to feel the soften please of your partner.
2..communication. When you and your partner lack communication this can make you to cheat on him or her but when you communicate often and often your love will keep improved and there won't be any problem.
3.lack of love. When the person whom you are dating did not have feeling for you, when he or she did not show you some kind of love then you will cheat because along the side you find another person. Who will show you love care for you , gradually you have started cheating on your wife or husband

**Olatoke **


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 06:17:28:am GMT

Cheating was, is and will continue as one of the major challenges of contemporary marriage!

The are no straight jacket rules in dealing with this challenge based on different factors :

The tolerance level of faithful partner
How remorseful the offender is
The kids involved
The religious orientation of those involved
Societal expectations. Etc

In all these, we should all bear in mind that FORGIVENESS is the key as no one is perfect!

ALSO KNOW that in divorce/separation, the KIDS SUFFER MOST!

We must prayerfully make efforts to avoid home breakers

For the Men, please play your part as head, provide for your spouse! (every toto na the same, the difference dey for packaging)
PROVISION IS NOT LIMITED TO MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS BUT INCLUDES HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS, YOUR TIME, ATTENTION ETC

For the Ladies, CHECk YOURSELF TO BE SURE YOU ARE NOT PUSHING YOUR HUSBAND INTO CHEATING - lack of proper home management, improper dressing, bad culinary skills, NAGGING etc

NB: OUR KIDS NEED BOTH PARENTS FOR BALANCED UPBRINGING!!!
**I am LoyhaL!**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 06:18:26:am GMT

What next after cheating.
If it's texting and sexting and all the other emotional stuff but no actual fuckery then I'd forgive him after some initial drama. And only after he's managed to convince me he's stopped.

If he actually gets and keeps a side chic that he sleeps with then I'm out. Might take me months to move out but I will, life is too short to be married to a guy who sleeps around. He would never let me take his kids so that has to be done while he's away. I might later agree to let him take them on some holidays

What constitutes repentance? For social media affairs I'd have to be given all your passwords and access to your phone, login to all your sm accounts. For real life cheating I don't care about repentance. Once a cheat, always a cheat. We might make up again in ten years or something tho, if you remain celibate and beg me

Logistics: I know they say keep a stash of money so you can always leave if a marriage goes awry. But I find keeping a 'running away' money to be almost as deceitful as cheating. You'd have to cheat first then I'd start saving my exit money so that next time you do it I'd be ready. I believe there would always be a next time for the cheat. Besides it's easier to make a case for yourself when he's done it twice than just once.

For all these randy chronic cheaters that you keep finding text messages from other girls on their phones, girls panties, other girls calling me, me calling other girls, you beating me. I've never been able to befriend, date talkmore marry such men. If I ever find myself in such a situation, I'd full scale move back to my parent's house and never go back. I'd make all my independence plans from under my parent's roof. Again I'd still let him have the kids for holidays.

If he's not ok with the time I allocate for him and the kids then we'd do the whole divorce court thing. If not then I'd live on my own until he initiates divorce. I'd never remarry neither would I initiate divorce because did you know there are some government positions you can't hold if you ain't married and Nigerians are just too bush to handle divorcees. I'd keep the name, I'm not gonna be stigmatized just because someone couldn't control his preek.
**I am LoyhaL!**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: MissDairo(f) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 09:34:45:am GMT

Exactly. I so love this article.

I came across a post that says " how to make your husband faithful" and I was shocked
A cheating partner will always cheat.
They would always look for thousand reasons why they cheated. Blame it on the wife not been able to keep her home.

If you're a cheat. You cheated because you're a cheat not because you were forced to.
If you feel you aren't satisfied in a marriage and you can't work things out then rather than engage in extra marital affairs why don't you breakup.

If you're dating a cheating partner, please reconsider that marriage. Don't deceive yourself by thinking he/she will change.
It's better late than never. Don't go into marriage with a cheating partner aND expect that you can change him.
You're not God. If he doesn't change when you're dating don't expect him to change after marriage.
Love is good but peace of mind is better.

**MissDairo**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 02:52:15:pm GMT


The reason why people cheat in a relationship

A. People cheat because they lack communication. In a relationship where communication lacking there is tendency for both to be cheating on each other, if you are in a relationship please try and communicate with your spouse often and often
B. love in a relationship where you love your spouse but you did not get the love back in return, then it can make some one to cheat in a relationship, a person need to love and also be loved back
C. Truthfulness. In a relationship where you dictate that your spouse is not been truthful and faithful with you then that can lead you to cheat on him or her.
D. distance relationship, I personally I don't like distance relationship simply because it encourage cheating in a relationship, just imagine a situation where you are in lagos state and your wife or husband is in sokoto state the distance between the both of them is too much and by this distance it can lead to cheating in a relationship
Thanks

**Abbey **


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Fashnet(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 02:59:57:pm GMT


@Velisa:

I totally agree with you as cheaters are game players. They appear like a shinning diamond but totally with hidden agenda which confirms the statement "NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS ARE GOLD".

Ladies watch and pray and be ready to work out the relationship. An adage in Yoruba says "suru lere" which means patience later pays.

**Help the needy and love everyone**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Holashayo(f) .:. Sun, 09 Aug, 2020 - 10:28:55:pm GMT

Cheating is a very dangerous weapon the devil use in a relationship or marriage. There are so many circumstances that triggers cheating which supposed to be for seen before entering a relationship but some people greediness won't allow them to look that path. Some ladies go into marriage because of money without thinking about the consequences that cannot be endure such as the man not satisfying her sexually or not giving her attention...so she is left with no choice than to go and cheat. And also when the man lacks financially, that is a big reason for cheating. Same thing is applicable to a lady who has her own lapses.
So many things are ought to be considered when choosing a life partner cause there is not going back. When cheating occurs in a normal dating relationship, we assume that to be a game but not in a marriage ( it is for better and for worse). It is a sin to cheat in marriage.
Many thought are crossing some people's mind that " it is good to better test your partner act sexually before marriage to avoid regrets" . that is a good idea but not biblical. That is why firstly, before accepting a proposal you pray fervently on it. You will have to know each other characters very well along with the flaws of each other. Your partner must be someone you love and will love forever more because love conquers all. When there is love in a marriage, the thought of cheating will not come through your mind.
Some other physical aspect you have to consider are: your partner's temperament trait, his or her love language, his or her likes and dislikes. All this have to be put into consideration to know whether he or she is a person you can cope with before going into a marriage. Your partner must be someone who will help you achieve your purpose in life and not against it.
It is said that those who have head have no cap and those with cap has no head. Fingers are not equal and nobody is perfect except God.
Though marriage has its own challenges but understanding, love and patience in a marriage are vital weapons to fight against cheating.

**Damiswag**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Luckygeorge(m) .:. Mon, 10 Aug, 2020 - 04:12:06:pm GMT





Romance » WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 26 Feb, 2019 - 07:17:30:am GMT
The biggest mistake a person will ever make in life is to get married to a man or woman who is a cheater. A lot of people can't see beyond their nose and get deceived with emotions , appearance and money. An unfaithful partner will never show his real color until they are caught in the act. When they are caught, they usually say it was a mistake.


Their partners keep giving them chances but the outcome is almost the same. The unfaithful person gets smarter, then look for an opportunity to hide, lie then cheat. A lot of people are in relationships with partners they love so much but have trust issues with them. They often let go of partners crime for cheating on them but can't seem to forget and trust them anymore.


In reality what we mean is "I am sorry" after cheating never removes the scar even after the wound is healed. I'm sorry is only applicable to mistakes made but not when a heart is broken. Forgiving people who cheat on you can be easy but accepting and giving them another opportunity is difficult.

A relationship can have mistakes but never allow that mistake to grow to a point where you break your partners heart, because it ends the relationship. Attitude and commitment is what sustains a relationship. A faithful partner will never cheat irrespective of how bad they are treated or how bad the relationship gets. But an unfaithful person will cheat even though things are perfect.

Cheaters always look for excuses, they see others as the cause of their infidelity. Cheaters are liars and insecure. They often accuse you of cheating and lying. They are demanding, controlling and manipulative. How they treat you has more to do with their reflection. They are not straight forward with you, they are secretive they speak less but faster.


They don't see anything wrong with their actions and you can't help change people like that. There is no difference between a cheater and a whore or whore-monger, for that reason you can't turn them into a husband or wife. You can't give people like that chances over and over again on the same thing.

It is not difficult to know whether you are dating a cheater. If you can't share each other's phone anytime, it is a clear sign you have one. Again, someone who cannot tell a simple truth, but lies even about little things is one. Cheaters are dangerous and can kill you with their behaviour, they are like a snake.

They don't bite you when you first meet them, they rather sweet talk you. Just remember when the snake first showed up in the Garden of Eden, did it start biting? No, it start talking, it started lying. If you are with one now but don't know, don't worry, as time goes on you will get to know them better time solves your problem by uncovering who he or she is, but what time can't do for you is to break up with them. You need to do that on your own.

**Freaky freaky for jesus**


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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Tem(f) .:. Fri, 14 Aug, 2020 - 12:24:23:pm GMT

some people are born to be a cheater but most chases where partners cheat maybe because the foundation of their relationship was not built on love
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   Re: WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF CHEATING? by: Ipfy(f) .:. Fri, 14 Aug, 2020 - 01:56:19:pm GMT

Cheating is very common between the two gender but mostly common to men. Women can do without sex for months while men cannot do that, if a man made love to his wife 15 minutes ago check him again he is ready to do another one. Meanwhile the woman is very tired and satisfied with the one her husband did but don't forget the man is ready to go again. Some women cheats because of hunger,if their husband cannot meets or provides for the family, some to satisfied their sexual urge
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