Love-Stories » Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Thu, 04 Apr, 2013 - 08:45:54:am GMT

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If you want to
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Number 10

Learn the secret language of manhood

When you become a real man -- an independent, strong man who is on his own path -- you'll begin to communicate differently: You'll move differently, you'll hold yourself differently, you'll respond to situations differently, and you'll use different words. It's easy to spot guys who don't get it or are trying to fake it, but it's just as easy to spot the http://doubleyourdating.com/11714/index.asp?spid=TZZZVG" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px padding: 0px list-style: none text-decoration: none color: rgb(18, 79, 136) cursor: pointer border: none outline: none font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif text-align: left ">guys who do get it. Just like guitar players know whether someone is a great musician or an amateur within the first few notes, women know if you're a real man in a matter of seconds. This is why it's so important to work on yourself, your self-image and your "Inner Game" until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you're a real man. When you do, you'll attract women fast and naturally.

Number 9

Make "certainty" part of who you are

People like certainty. If you can provide it and communicate it, you'll be more attractive. If you can't, it's game over. If women think that you're secretly a wussbag -- that you're only acting cool, but underneath you're a clingy, insecure guy just waiting to smother them -- they're going to bail. But if you can communicate a strong, stable, secure, and masculine maturity, women will be less likely to flake out on you because they have more certainty about you. Learn to communicate certainty in everything you do and you'll attract women fast.

Number 8

Certainty versus teasing

I often tell guys to find fun, playful ways to indirectly answer the questions women ask. This includes the typical questions like what you do for a living and where do you live. So, you might ask, "How can I create certainty in women if you're telling me to keep them uncertain about these things?" My answer is simple: They want certainty that their experience with you is going to be fun, not certainty about the details of your life. Keep this distinction in mind when you're flirting -- you'll tease women and http://doubleyourdating.com/11714/index.asp?spid=TZZZVG" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px padding: 0px list-style: none text-decoration: none color: rgb(18, 79, 136) cursor: pointer border: none outline: none font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif text-align: left ">give them a sense of certainty at the same time.

Number 7

The more personal, the more universal

My mentor, Gary Ballinger, taught me something that he learned from his mentor: that the more personal something is to you, the more universal it probably is. Realize that each of your insecurities is actually quite common, then stop hiding them -- be transparent. This can be very liberating. When a woman interacts with a man who isn't hung up about his "hang-ups," not only does it help her relax, it also communicates to her that she's dealing with a real man who is comfortable with who he is. And this is precisely the kind of man that women are naturally attracted to.

Number 6

Stop reliving your emotional past

It's a fact we humans remember things that happened in the presence of emotion. And we often respond to our emotional imprints of situations from the past, rather than to the actual event taking place in front of us -- right now. So, you got dumped three years ago, and now a woman does something that reminds you of your ex and you start freaking out about it. http://doubleyourdating.com/11714/index.asp?spid=TZZZVG" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px padding: 0px list-style: none text-decoration: none color: rgb(18, 79, 136) cursor: pointer border: none outline: none font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif text-align: left ">Becoming a man is about breaking those connections, living in the present and taking each new situation for what it's worth in today's terms. Women dig guys who can break through the emotional baggage of their past and live in the "now."

If you're searching for ways to attract women fast, we have five more after the break and

Number 5

Figure out where your power comes from

Have you ever asked yourself http://doubleyourdating.com/11714/index.asp?spid=TZZZVG" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px padding: 0px list-style: none text-decoration: none color: rgb(18, 79, 136) cursor: pointer border: none outline: none ">where your own personal power is based? Take a sec and ask yourself: Is your competition with other men based in a powerful, masculine and secure maturity? Or is it based in a weak, insecure and over-compensating immaturity? Do you respect mature men and treat them as worthy allies (or adversaries) or do you secretly harbor thoughts of superiority? Is your ability to persuade based on whining, tyranny and tantrums? Or is it based on credibility, authenticity and wisdom? Take a few minutes and figure out if your personal power is rooted in scarcity or abundance, then practice living your life from a place of mature, masculine power. This is great for your life, plus you get the added bonus of attracting women fast.

Number 4

Realize success won't solve your problems

Most immature guys think that money, power and success with women will solve all their problems and make them happy. How great would that be, eh? Unfortunately, it's simply not true. Often, the things we think would make us happy create new problems of their own once they're achieved. A mature man understands that he is responsible for his own results. He doesn't get jealous when others succeed or angry when a successful person complains, and he doesn't live in a fantasy world thinking that if he had success in a particular area of his life (for example, women and dating) that all of his other problems would be magically solved. Understanding this is an important step in growing up and becoming the type of mature, grounded guy women find irresistibly attractive.

Number 3

A mature man plans ahead

Aristotle said that a sign of a mature man is forethought. Part of maturity is having the ability to think future events all the way through with discipline, instead of guessing, wishing and leaving things to luck. When you've thought scenarios through, you can http://doubleyourdating.com/11714/index.asp?spid=TZZZVG" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px padding: 0px list-style: none text-decoration: none color: rgb(18, 79, 136) cursor: pointer border: none outline: none ">move forward with strength and confidence, knowing that you've planned for most of what could happen, and the odds are on your side. By doing this, it frees your mind to deal with the exceptions as they arise. With women, a mature man has thought through all the possible situations and scenarios, and has planned accordingly. The immature, Boy-Man thinks that he has done the same, only it's not the same at all.

Number 2

How to know when you're manipulating

The Boy-Man uses tricks and techniques to manipulate, and only lives for instant gratification in the moment. Here's a test that you can apply to see if you're being a manipulative Boy-Man: Ask yourself if what you're doing feels manipulative, sneaky or dishonest in any way. If it does, then you're allowing the Boy-Man inside of you run things, which will ultimately lead you to a feeling of less fulfillment, not more. If the feeling inside of you is one of strength, authenticity and desire to want to add to your woman's life experience and joy, then you're on the right track.

Number 1

Commit to becoming a naturally attractive guy

The most important thing you can do right now to http://doubleyourdating.com/11714/index.asp?spid=TZZZVG" target="_blank" style="margin: 0px padding: 0px list-style: none text-decoration: none color: rgb(18, 79, 136) cursor: pointer border: none outline: none ">attract women fast is to commit to doing whatever it takes to become the kind of guy who naturally attracts women. That you'll take the time to learn from guys who are great with women, iron out the "quirks" in your personality, and continue moving forward until you reach your goals. The best thing about this is that you don't have to wait until you've arrived to get rewarded -- every step you take to improve yourself is going to feel great.



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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Easta(f) .:. Tue, 09 Apr, 2013 - 04:10:12:pm GMT


Quote from : All these are answered by money, no romance without finance
Would you then sell romance for money, could you date a guy for the finance?
That would be as good as prostitution in my opinion. lol


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: MatureBeauty(f) .:. Wed, 10 Apr, 2013 - 04:30:14:pm GMT

Quote from Easta:
Would you then sell romance for money, could you date a guy for the finance?
That would be as good as prostitution in my opinion. lol
If you ask me, i'd say, i wouldn't sell romance for money, in fact, romance is not something that you can sell, but sex is. These said, i wouldn't like to date a guy who is a broke looser, let him first get a job because, no romance without finance.
What do you say, anyone?


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Fri, 12 Apr, 2013 - 07:48:01:am GMT

well, relationship is polished with money


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Fazil123(f) .:. Mon, 15 Apr, 2013 - 02:34:58:pm GMT

Quote from ogiejoe: well, relationship is polished with money

So, have you got some lol?


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Getdownonit(f) .:. Thu, 18 Apr, 2013 - 04:32:27:pm GMT


Quote from MatureBeauty:
If you ask me, i'd say, i wouldn't sell romance for money, in fact, romance is not something that you can sell, but sex is. These said, i wouldn't like to date a guy who is a broke looser, let him first get a job because, no romance without finance.
What do you say, anyone?
Perhaps you haven't been offered the amount of money that would lure you into it


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: BigSister(f) .:. Sat, 20 Apr, 2013 - 04:48:11:pm GMT


Quote from Getdownonit: Perhaps you haven't been offered the amount of money that would lure you into it
Money answers (and i mean buys) all things


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Greatbabe(f) .:. Sat, 17 Aug, 2013 - 05:07:41:am GMT

I agree. Money answereth all things, even in a relationship
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Bridget_violet(f) .:. Thu, 05 Dec, 2013 - 08:11:52:am GMT

we know that money is the root of all evil, but to me i would say that everybody should respect his or her dignity, dont sell your dignity all in the name of money.

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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Kissy(f) .:. Thu, 05 Dec, 2013 - 12:39:00:pm GMT

@ Ogiejoe, do you attract women since you know all 10 ways?
**Seeing is believing to those who do not have faith**


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: HotCakeAt43(f) .:. Fri, 06 Dec, 2013 - 11:58:21:am GMT


Quote from Kissy: @ Ogiejoe, do you attract women since you know all 10 ways?
**Seeing is believing to those who do not have faith**
Good question...
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Stara(f) .:. Fri, 06 Dec, 2013 - 02:21:45:pm GMT


Quote from Kissy: @ Ogiejoe, do you attract women since you know all 10 ways?
**Seeing is believing to those who do not have faith**
Lol
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Kissy(f) .:. Sun, 08 Dec, 2013 - 12:49:28:pm GMT

OP, WHERE ARE YOU, WE NEED TO HEAR FROM YOU NA
**Seeing is believing to those who do not have faith**


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Laila(f) .:. Fri, 13 Dec, 2013 - 06:19:09:am GMT

Why is the op not responding to these question? these are interesting and spot on questions
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Administrator(m) .:. Tue, 17 Dec, 2013 - 05:28:29:pm GMT


Quote from Laila: Why is the op not responding to these question? these are interesting and spot on questions
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Me too, I'm interested to know...
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Mon, 07 Apr, 2014 - 12:13:01:pm GMT


Quote from Stara:
Quote from Kissy: @ Ogiejoe, do you attract women since you know all 10 ways?
**Seeing is believing to those who do not have faith**
Lol
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well, yes I believe so. some times you just don't have to do them just because you don't want to get yourself into having different women. you get the one you need and you could stop the tease.
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Mon, 07 Apr, 2014 - 12:15:58:pm GMT

yes Y'all. base on your questions, well, yes I believe so. I believe I do attract them. but some times you just don't have to do them just because you don't want to get yourself into having different women. you just get the one you need and you could stop the tease.
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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Funmo(m) .:. Sat, 21 Feb, 2015 - 04:48:26:pm GMT

HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE TO THEM LADIES !!!

Being attractive to ladies is easy, provided you master the tricks. The typical lady will fall for you if you master these features ladies look forward to in any man. You can just work on one strength or decide to have every needed points garnered in order to become the ladies' man.

SELF-ESTEEM

Ladies want a man with high self-esteem. Always carry yourself high. Don't mistake this with pride. It is just you knowing your worth and the stuffs you are made of. This reflects in the way you talk and relate with a lady, how you handle pressure and situations. Work on your self esteem.

LOOKS

This can be a plus and added advantage in most cases. You don't necessarily have to be dashing (like me... winks). But your looks must reflect neatness, tidiness and self-appreciation.

CONFIDENCE
If you are confident, you can win any girl's heart. Work on your confidence and become a ladies' man.

MATURITY

Ladies love men that act like men and not like boys. The way you act and react shows your maturity level and it goes a long way in attracting or distracting ladies from you.

CARE

Ladies yearn for this a lot, if you can be caring enough, and get to know what type of care is wanted by a lady, you will win her heart.

LISTENING EARS

If you can be a shoulder to lean on and somebody who listens when a lady wants to share a word with you, you will be liked.

MONEY

It takes finance to run romance.

**ORIGINAL, CREATIVE AND A SUPERSTAR IN THE MAKING**


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Re: Top 10: Ways To Attract Women Fast by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jul, 2019 - 08:55:13:am GMT

If you want to attract a woman... Then you need to first know her want.

What women want...
1) ATTENTION
PLENTY ATTENTION
It's why I'd advice, if you as a Man, you know you are busy,
Doctors, Pastors, Nurses etc, you're going to run into some issues or lose relationships if you're not wise and careful.
Yes, Attention, Women flourish on attention
Call her daily, call her for no reason, call her just to hear her voice,
Text her,
Visit her,
Take her out.
Sit down and gist with her
Play Ludo or scrabble with her.
Don't make her fight for your attention, other wise, you'll make her feel unloved, she'll begin to doubt your love, and you may end up losing her.
If you don't have time to give a woman attention, why ask her out?

(2) AFFECTION/INTIMACY
Study her and speak her love language
Let her see the affection even if she closed her eyes.
She craves your love, except it's your money she's after.
Every woman wants to be intimate with her, husband except she doesn't love him or she has given up on the Marriage. Stop being unromantic, and spend some quality intimate moment with your Wife at home, just playing with her hair.

(3) YOUR LOVE VOCALIZED
If you are in a Relationship or Married, ask your wife or fiancee, if she'll ever get tired of hearing "I love you" from you, You already know the answer.
I've asked before, them no dey tire. Speak the Love daily let her hear it
Write it down as letters, let her read it.
"she already knows I love her" will not do."

(3) PAMPERING
Heck, Even me I love pampering, so what are we not saying.
A Woman wants to be spoilt, no matter her age
Pet her. Be gentle with her. She's not a Man,
Be patient with her (especially when mood begins to swing)
Cuddle and pet your Wife like tata (little baby)
Spoil her with your money, as God has blessed you with
If I tell you these things are easy, I'll be lying. ????, it's not going to always be a stroll in the park, sometimes you won't be in the mood, it can become tiring at times, some women can make the job even more difficult, their attitude and all, but with God's love and God's help, and with your determination to make your Marriage work, it's possible.

(4) HONESTY AND OPENNESS
Most Men find it difficult to be honest and open with their feelings to their wives, unknown to them Women crave this more.
Most Men still try to be tough before their wives, try to put up a "Man of steel" display before their wives.
Sir, It's okay to be vulnerable, and emotional before her, she's your Wife or Wife to be,
A woman wants to know her husband's fears, his weakness, his greatest secrets, trust her with them, she wants him to be "naked to her and not ashamed", then she feels safe and free to reciprocate, trust him with her own secret and her everything.

(5) FINANCIAL SUPPORT
You were thinking i wouldn't mention this?
No way.
Even if she were a millionaire, your money means more to her than hers.
Every Woman wants the financial support and backing of her husband or fiance, forget "feminists" oh.
As you spend on her, she feels loved and valued. She's not being materialistic, no, she's being a Woman.
Women naturally seek comfort, so seek to provide her that via your money.

(6) COMMITMENT
Yes, Women desire commitment.
If they love you, they want to marry you.
If they marry you, they want children
They always seek deeper connections,
They want you to keep to your words, commit to your promises, be there for her, for the kids, do right by your family
Be Responsible...

(7) LEADERSHIP
No, she's not lost
No, she's not clueless or stupid
She can as well lead herself,
But when she decides to become your wife and accepts your being her head, she voluntarily allows you play that role.
So step up Spiritually and otherwise.
...............When you are constantly doing all these, her Submission will come naturally on auto pilot, she will happily follow your leadership, take your corrections, easily forgive your short comings, respect you, honor you, she will surrender everything about herself to you and do anything to make you happy,

Loving a Woman isn't as easy as it seems, That's why you start learning by Loving her God. Start practicing it this week and see the change this things can make.

**Fearless**


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