Family/Parenting » *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Ayodayo(f) .:. Tue, 12 Feb, 2019 - 04:25:31:pm GMT
Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Charity(f) .:. Tue, 12 Feb, 2019 - 05:10:41:pm GMT
I love this.... So many people thinks marriage is all about having sex at night and morning to make babies and train them. Forgetting that marriage is all about dating all over again and again. So many marriages crumble cos the couple's are too busy for each other. No time to go oyt as usual, no time to play around, no time to go see movies,all they think about is work! Work!! Work!!! How to beat traffic and the rest.
**God is good**
Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Mon, 11 Mar, 2019 - 12:24:34:pm GMT
This is just a bitter truth and I wish some men will understand this. There are some men when you tell them this, they get mad at you. I don't know if I should call it pride. "So, you mean with all I've none doing, you feel I only love having sex with you? So you feel I don't give you Time enough? After all I do for you daily. So, you sees me as someone who is just after sex?" They tend to raise this type of question. I've came across some men like that. Let's understand this that love is not all about sex. Marriage is not just having sex, giving birth to children, working and training them to school. No, marriage did not say you must only focus on your children. Marriage doe snot say you shouldn't have good time with your wife. Marriage does not says you should be so serious that the only time you laugh or say I love you is only when you need sex. Intimacy is needed. Your wife needs you. Your husband needs you. Keep that love burning. Go for dates. Show surprises at times. Remind your partner of how you met. Spend time only playing and running round the garden. Look into each others closely at times even if it's for a minute. You will feel that love, that romance. Look into her eyes, tell her you love her after some minutes. Make your marriage wonderful. It's a lifetime thing. Do wonders till you are old.
Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Sat, 16 Mar, 2019 - 01:01:53:am GMT
The truth of the matter is that marriage is more broad than sex, the reason for marriage isn't having sex or making out but having a companion, someone to lean on, some one to call your confidant, someone to trust and someone to share beautiful moments of your life with, let me put it like this, without sex in marriage will you still get married? Many people wouldn't still get married if they removed sex from marriage, that's where you fail it as a man or woman, sex is good but having a shoulder to lean on is better, sex is good but building trust, and being in a relationship that your partner only wants the best for you is very important, don't base your marriage on sex that will last for few minutes, don't base your relationship on that, it doesn't pay at all, I tell you, life is worth more than sex, so don't allow people see you as an object or a sex toy but as a human that needs to be loved!!! If what you can give in a relationship is only sex then that relationship won't last, so get your priorities right!!!
Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sun, 17 Mar, 2019 - 05:35:24:am GMT
It's so sad that some people don't know or understand the purpose for marriage, marriage is beyond sex, it's the coming together of two people with the same vision, goals, intentions, aspirations, ideas, and belief to achieve their dreams and purpose!!! Marriage is a union, the idea for marriage is for companionship, to raise a family that will last and stand the test of time, marriage is like a commitment in partnership, having that one person you find comfort and inner peace with, to share every moment of your life with, having a standby and confidant, someone who can inspire you and motivate you, it's also being with someone who makes you better, also know as your better half. So no human being should just marry because of sex, if sex is the idea for marriage, it's better to go to the harlots homes or hotels to get laid, because those people are professionals when it comes to having sex, but marriage is beyond that!!! So we need to be wise and act matured for us to have an awesome family, sex is good but family is the best!!!