Family/Parenting » *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Ayodayo(f) .:. Tue, 12 Feb, 2019 - 04:25:31:pm GMT

He woke up horny.
He started touching his wife on her breasts.
He flipped her over. Got on top of her.
He started kissing her, but she seemed not interested.
He turned his game up. Kissed her on her neck as he spread her
legs. She looked off.
"What's wrong?" He asked.
"Us" she said.
"What do you mean?" He asked.
"The only thing we do great together is having sex" She said.
"I thought you loved our sex. I am faithful to you, I don't cheat"
he told her.
"I do. You sex me good. But marriage is more than sex. It is not
enough to be faithful, marriage needs to have depth, substance
not centered around sex. I don't want us to be two empty souls
that are faithful to each other. We had it, we used to have depth.
I want us to talk, to laugh, to pray, to date again even in our
marriage, to cuddle, to make memories, to play with our
children, to travel and see the world, to debate on topics like we
used to, to play a sport, to go for concerts, to have intimacy in
our marriage. What we currently have is not marriage, but a
sexual arrangement. Sex is just not enough" she lamented.
"Ouch! That's painful" said he.
"The painful truth" said she.
He started stroking her hair gently and said, "You are right.
Things changed when we got kids, life got busy I guess"
She looked at him and said, "Darling, people make time for what
is important. I want to be more than the mother of your
children, I am your wife, I want to feel like a wife. I want quality
time with you like we used to have not a lot, just enough. I want
to be loved and talked to. I want our time. When was the last
time you stroked my hair like you are right now?"
"A long time ago" he answered.
She placed her finger on his lips and said, "Exactly, you haven't
taken time to look at me because we both are always in a hurry.
You know a woman doesn't ask for much. Even something as
little as you stroking my hair touches my heart.
So many wives are tired of sex in their marriage: They fake
orgasms, fake headaches or exhaustion and some pretend they
are on their periods just to escape having sex with their
husbands because they don't feel married. I want to feel married
my love. I don't want to become like those women. This home is
not a lodge for you to come, sleep, get sex then leave day in day
out. This is our home, our bed, our marriage. I need you my
"I need you too" he told her and kissed her.
The kiss was sweet, intense, not rushed and not sexual. It was
He reclined back to the bed.
He placed her head on his chest and for a while they talked as
he played with her fingers. They laughed, randomly prayed,
opened up and emotionally connected.
Since then, their marriage is not centered around sex and when
they do have sex, it's not sex, it's making love.
Have you made your marriage empty as you hide behind sex?
There is more to marriage than sex.

**blessed child**

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Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Charity(f) .:. Tue, 12 Feb, 2019 - 05:10:41:pm GMT

I love this.... So many people thinks marriage is all about having sex at night and morning to make babies and train them. Forgetting that marriage is all about dating all over again and again. So many marriages crumble cos the couple's are too busy for each other. No time to go oyt as usual, no time to play around, no time to go see movies,all they think about is work! Work!! Work!!! How to beat traffic and the rest.
**God is good**

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Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Mon, 11 Mar, 2019 - 12:24:34:pm GMT

This is just a bitter truth and I wish some men will understand this. There are some men when you tell them this, they get mad at you. I don't know if I should call it pride. "So, you mean with all I've none doing, you feel I only love having sex with you? So you feel I don't give you Time enough? After all I do for you daily. So, you sees me as someone who is just after sex?" They tend to raise this type of question. I've came across some men like that. Let's understand this that love is not all about sex. Marriage is not just having sex, giving birth to children, working and training them to school. No, marriage did not say you must only focus on your children. Marriage doe snot say you shouldn't have good time with your wife. Marriage does not says you should be so serious that the only time you laugh or say I love you is only when you need sex. Intimacy is needed. Your wife needs you. Your husband needs you. Keep that love burning. Go for dates. Show surprises at times. Remind your partner of how you met. Spend time only playing and running round the garden. Look into each others closely at times even if it's for a minute. You will feel that love, that romance. Look into her eyes, tell her you love her after some minutes. Make your marriage wonderful. It's a lifetime thing. Do wonders till you are old.

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Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Sat, 16 Mar, 2019 - 01:01:53:am GMT

The truth of the matter is that marriage is more broad than sex, the reason for marriage isn't having sex or making out but having a companion, someone to lean on, some one to call your confidant, someone to trust and someone to share beautiful moments of your life with, let me put it like this, without sex in marriage will you still get married? Many people wouldn't still get married if they removed sex from marriage, that's where you fail it as a man or woman, sex is good but having a shoulder to lean on is better, sex is good but building trust, and being in a relationship that your partner only wants the best for you is very important, don't base your marriage on sex that will last for few minutes, don't base your relationship on that, it doesn't pay at all, I tell you, life is worth more than sex, so don't allow people see you as an object or a sex toy but as a human that needs to be loved!!! If what you can give in a relationship is only sex then that relationship won't last, so get your priorities right!!!
**Graced **

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Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sun, 17 Mar, 2019 - 05:35:24:am GMT

It's so sad that some people don't know or understand the purpose for marriage, marriage is beyond sex, it's the coming together of two people with the same vision, goals, intentions, aspirations, ideas, and belief to achieve their dreams and purpose!!! Marriage is a union, the idea for marriage is for companionship, to raise a family that will last and stand the test of time, marriage is like a commitment in partnership, having that one person you find comfort and inner peace with, to share every moment of your life with, having a standby and confidant, someone who can inspire you and motivate you, it's also being with someone who makes you better, also know as your better half. So no human being should just marry because of sex, if sex is the idea for marriage, it's better to go to the harlots homes or hotels to get laid, because those people are professionals when it comes to having sex, but marriage is beyond that!!! So we need to be wise and act matured for us to have an awesome family, sex is good but family is the best!!!

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Re: *THERE IS MORE TO MARRAIGE THAN SEX* by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:25:08:pm GMT

Yet there are those who believe that marriage has got to be all pain no gain. That the only good from it is children.

You cannot blame them though, the only time marriages make the news nowadays is when something bad has happened. For the good side, we just tuck that away.

Marry the right person and every issue you have to deal with as a single person becomes split in half.

Your responsibilities become shared.

You are guaranteed a friend who will always be there even when the whole world turns against you.

Your house becomes a home.

You start getting blessed for things that would ordinarily have counted as sin - yep, especially sex, which you must think is boring... sorry to disappoint you.

It's all in what you put into it.


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