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Family/Parenting » THE POWER OF MEN by: Charity(f) .:. Fri, 08 Feb, 2019 - 05:54:20:pm GMT

Dear Men..

Sometimes I wonder where you draw your strength from.

You stay for months without buying clothes for yourself all because you want to put food on the table...

You stay hungry just so your family can eat and survive..

You get dressed and leave the house without direction, but you come back home with money after toiling day and night..

Some of you have been embarrassed, disgraced and abused because you can't afford to get a decent job and when you bring home peanuts, they throw it right back in your face..

I know how you have deprived yourself of basic education just so your children can eat..

Most times you are insulted, abused by people you are older than, but you take the insults all because of your wife and kids..

Your parents look up to you for survival and they don't even care if you have a job or not, you just have to provide for the family..

You pay huge bride prices just to marry the woman you love and you end up taking care of her family, take care of her siblings and even train some of them..

How you do all these amazes me and I pray the good lord to bless your hustle..

Stay alive for your mother, your wife and your kids!! , your loved ones in general

If you have a man that tries, a brother that tries,take one day and appreciate him, he might be starving just for you to survive!!

Dear men, thou art blessed!!

**God is good**

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sat, 09 Feb, 2019 - 12:54:55:am GMT

Being a man comes with a lot of responsibilities, it is not easy to lead a home and a family, we go through a lot as men, because the word itself Man is a big word with a wonderful acronym M??"??"??" stands for morning A ??"??"??" stands for afternoon N??"??"??" stands for night so every man knows the value of his mornings that�s why as early as possible we are up and ready to go out to look for how to convert work, efforts into cash, we are determined not to fail our spouse and our family who look up to us, hence we don�t mind hustling till the afternoon, even when the boss in the office sends us on different routines or task that ordinarily we may not want to go and do but because of our families and because we need to put food on the table and pay the bills we do all within our power to make our families the best it can be, we sacrifice a lot to see our family stand and our Joy is being able to come back home and see that everything is in place and when you see your wife doing good, your kids are happy, your parents are proud of you, and what you�ve accomplished, you have this inner peace that you didn�t fail those that really mattered to you!!! Being a man is not about giving birth to many kids, it�s not about complaining when things are wrong or not going fine, it�s all about providing a solution to your family needs, once your impact could be felt positively then you�re a man!!!
**positive**

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Gooddypye(m) .:. Sat, 09 Feb, 2019 - 10:22:24:am GMT

Being a man is not easy at all. Cause man passed through a lot. But the truth is the strength of man has already being given to man. That's why the bible see them as the stronger vessels while the woman is the weaker vessel. If a woman is said to bear the responsibilities that men bear. In two weeks they will start complaining. Women can't bear insults, just little words they start crying. Just a word they will begin to regret being created and feel hurt. Women feel betrayed a lot than men because they are cold in Heart, anything hurts them. But the strength given to a man is very strong. Some women will say, what a man can could, a woman can do better.and at times I would laugh. Because if they know how what man faces as man they won't say so. Some men after the whole insults and all of that from work they will still get home to meet a mad wife. Who is never seeing the hardworking of her husband. She is always barking in everything. All she knows is money to buy party clothes. Some men are really men. But not all. Some are women. Lol...
**Fearless**

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Velisa(f) .:. Sat, 25 May, 2019 - 07:23:32:am GMT

Well, not all men. Because there are lot of men who make sure they wear clothes or eat not even thinking of what their children or wife will eat.

There are men who loves fashion than women.

This you are talking about only goes to those men who are very poor and they don't even have a job.

But, anyways..... If you have a man who cares so much about you. Don't turn him down for that rich guy who does not have time for you.

I found .a truth that, it is only poor guys who have no job that care most. Cause they are always with you. They give you the little money they have does not mean when they are get a job and start making money, they will do the same.

**Determined**

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Thu, 30 May, 2019 - 08:11:16:am GMT

Well articulated. In this world today when there is no thick line between the both genders in domestic roles, articles as this are highly appreciated.

Men have emotions too. This we must know to appreciate their brotherhood and fatherhood both in families and societies at large. How often has research trace some societal problem to lack of fatherhood at different homes? How often has the society traced the depression of many to lack of brotherhood of men at different families?

Most times men sacrifice financially, emotional, and economically just so their subordinates can thrive and become better. Other times this gesture is extended to the society mostly when a man is living in his higher calling.

Dear men, you are not flattered. This is your core. This is who you are. It will be abnormal, for men, to act otherwise. Embrace your responsibility of fatherhood and brotherhood to respond to your core.

For as many who are living their dream. For as many who are responding to their calling no matter how difficult things may seem, you are the pillars on which the economies, families and societies are thriving on, whether male or female.

**Obinna Oguji**

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Sun, 28 Aug, 2022 - 10:29:30:pm GMT

Dear men!

You are powerful and excellent in your dealings. Parents have always put caution in a man right from birth and this has made them think faster than an average lady. An average lady might not think a man will think simply because she believes one day a man will cater to her.

When things go the way they are meant to go, a man should be the one to cater to his household, not what we now do these days, which is a wife bringing her quota to support the household. Although I'm not saying it is not right, I'm trying to show us what the world has turned into.

As a woman, when things don't go well with the man, please don't despise the man or keep nagging him. Learn to support, pray and rejoice; these three things help to boost their morale.

**Always put God first **

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Obajichi(f) .:. Fri, 30 Sep, 2022 - 10:44:48:am GMT

Honestly, I admire the strengths of men . I don't bother envying or competing with them in any thing.

It's just their natural make up.
I pray to have sons but I don't ever pray to be a man if there'll be a next life.

I'm really contented being a female.
**I love being me.**

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Re: THE POWER OF MEN by: Kizzyvibes21(m) .:. Sat, 01 Oct, 2022 - 09:34:44:am GMT

It is trul when they say to be a man is not a days job, our fathers really are doing a great job at being the head making sure things are up and running in the house. They don't rest like we do, sometimes through out the whole week, month or even year they are working to provide for their family.
**If you can dream it, you can be it**

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