Babe-Fishing/Dating » THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Mon, 24 Dec, 2018 - 09:32:31:pm GMT

Imagine the moment you see couples wedding pictures,most especially when you are single. You just wish you were the one there. You wish you can just marry immediately. You start thinking of marriage. Yeah! It's usually a good thing to marry. But not a good thing to marry wrong. My dear! There is something more than that day,more than those beautiful pictures you will snap,more than the dance and kisses of that day. Now think ahead of that day. Think of after that day. And the phrase that says "Together forever! Till death do us apart". In struggle,poverty,sorrows,pains,e.t.c. still till death do you apart. So,my dear don't just jump into marriage. A wedding day,is just a 24 hours. So,think of after that day. Learn more about marriage. Seek marriage advice. Do a lot of study about what can sustain your home when you marry. Before you go into it. Know your spouse. So,you won't regret ever jumping into it. Cause those who are regretting and divorced also did wedding. They snap those wonderful pictures,kisses each other,dance together,but they still end up like that. That should teach that it is not just that day.
Don't marry because of money. Marry because you love the person and you found the person is the type you want.


**Gooddypye **


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Velisa(f) .:. Sun, 24 Feb, 2019 - 05:17:41:pm GMT

Marriage is a union of two people who are legally recognize as spouse. Being married also gives legitimacy to sexual relations within the marriage. Marriage is just Noun... A name given to a kind of ceremony like when naming ceremony. But what the name is, isn't what matters but what it entails. Why are other ceremonies not called marriage ceremony?. Why are other union not called marriage?. That is why it is special. Marriage is more than bearing the man's name. Marriage is more than having rings on from each others. Marriage is more than being recognized as a matured person. Before you take the decision of getting married, look into this ideals am bringing out soon very well.


1. Have a job or have a skills: you are the man or the woman, I don't want to know. Just have a job before getting married. Though men takes responsibility of bills but women needs to support. You are both meant to help each others. It is not one person job to do all but both to work together. Man should have something doing at hand, tell me how you want to care for your family when you have no job or skills you are into.

2. Have savings.... Don't go into marriage without savings, without you planning down finance. Not that after your wedding, you will start battling with hunger with your new wedded spouse. No! Let both have savings. Both have savings that will help immensely after wedding.

3. Plan your wedding according to what you can afford: cut your coat according to your size before you stand at the altar. Don't lavish all your money on wedding day both your savings. No! It's bad. Make a budget of what you will spend and what you will save. And if at all you need money from your savings. You can just take very small. Cause that wedding day is just a celebration day, the rest days are the battle days.

4. Choose your spouse wisely.... It is truly that at times we can change someone from having that bad habit they are used to. But if you can't change someone before marriage, then that person can not change again. Choose your spouse wisely by choosing the right person. Don't think of changing anyone after marriage let him totally change before marriage.

5. Know your partner blood group and genotype before planning marriage. Don't marry an AS or SS if you are AS or SS. Don't marry him or her. Save the life of your future children. Don't because of ignorance put your children life in danger.

6. Know your partner. To avoid characters you aren't used to. Know your partner very well. Know him or her very well. Know the good side and the bad side.

7. Be fully ready... Before getting married.. be fully ready. Make sure nobody is pushing you into it. Make sure you are not rushing. Cause if you rush in you might rush out the same way. So, take your time to decide and make plans.

**Determined**


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Piwizo(m) .:. Mon, 25 Feb, 2019 - 06:01:36:am GMT

Relationship is more than love it's a commitment to be in each other's life for the long term or the short term, so if yours is heading for the long time in the form of marriage, you have to be a hundred percent sure about it because all that went right can probably change in the twinkle of an eye, so we need to be wise when it comes to marriage so we won't start filing for divorce in the nearest future. Get married to the right person for you and be the right person for your partner.
**positive**


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Confidant(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jul, 2019 - 11:16:17:am GMT

PLAN FOR A MARRIAGE NOT A WEDDING

It has taken a while to realise it but for many of us, marriage is not what we thought it would be. The romance is gone, the fights keep coming and we are clueless as to how to resolve them let alone find an equilibrium of understanding that lets us coexist peacefully. Growth is affected, everything is affected and we know now, what we didn't know then.

We planned for the wedding the build up to this being a relationship that focused on the shallow and the material (the thought of wanting to settle seemed like it was all the depth we needed) so we did it good, proposal on point, date on point, introduction on point, asoebi, jollof, on point. Instagram hashtag on point, reception party on point, honeymoon on point.

But that was it. We planned for the wedding and we had the wedding. Unfortunately, we forgot to plan for the marriage. We forgot to plan for misunderstandings and know how we'd try to resolve between us always. We forgot to plan how to handle pregnancy and childbirth when it comes on time, beyond just the bump and baby shots. We forgot to plan for the wait for the pregnancy and child when it doesn't come on time. We forgot to plan finances when they are good and how to stay solid when not the best, we forgot to agree and plan what financial model. We forgot to learn and plan how to fall in love with ourselves over and over again.

So, here we are, but today, we are not smiling at you, not posting 'photoshopped' pictures, not painting you an image that does not exist beyond the virtual.

Today, we are asking that you do not make the mistakes that many of us made. Plan for a marriage beyond the wedding.

Many of us got here because nobody told us these things. Be the reason someone knows about it. Be the reason they stand a change at creating better marriages and homes than we managed.

**Courageous**


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Dynameak(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jun, 2020 - 02:32:31:pm GMT

Wedding ceremonies are beauty to behold but it's a day event into a life time journey known as marriage, thus, it is expedient to prepare more for marriage than a wedding because at the end of the one day ceremony the lights of reality will penetrate into your consciousness for a heart of commitment till death do you and your partner part. Marriage is a beautiful union, though it's not all time rosy but older ones who have been in the institution for a while have clearly outlined how the not so good times has helped in strengthening them through life events. It's beautiful to see activities unfold during wedding ceremonies ranging from the church procession to the reception where there would be a grand entrance of the couple into the hall, camera flash from various angles, the couple dance and more but after wedding the bulk of the institution plays out in marriage which is an eternal commitment.

The single period of a persons life shouldn't be just for youthful fun, it should be a period of investment for marriage because your preparedness will show from the time you choose to be in a relationship with the opposite gender and will help you lead a productive relationship. You should be prepared emotionally, spiritually, physically, financially and mentally before you walk down the aisle. Your preparedness for marriage will frame your mind up to view marriage as an institution with positive results and at that you will consciously give in your best to the relationship.

**Life is a race but with God's element of grace it'll be worth while to explore His goodness. **


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Blackie(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jun, 2020 - 04:29:32:pm GMT

For real! Marriage is not a joking matter, it's as serious as a student taking his or her final exams. You just don't rush the question just because you think you know the answer. Analyze it first, break it into simpler ones them answer it if you're really sure, same with marriage. Be careful and wise don't rush into it. Take your time then you'll see the true Beauty of Wedding.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Flat(m) .:. Sun, 14 Jun, 2020 - 12:27:28:am GMT

The Beauty of Wedding
Seriously, it is only someone that is not on this planet that have not dreamt of his or her wedding day. To the extent that some have even plan the day even when they haven't see the person they wants to marry. But with all sincerity of the heart, every human that is still single can not wait for this day to come.
Now, what is the beauty of wedding. This is a question I kept on asking myself. You see that the wedding is just a day program. Wait self, it is not a day program but rather a program that is done between 8-10hours. So, what's the beauty in it.
But rather, what this mean is that what comes after the wedding. After the dancing, kissing, hugging, eating, marital vows, etc. What happen next. Many do not think about this, all that they think off is for that day to come fast and let them be the most happiest creature on earth for that day.
Without deceiving ourselves, there is a lot behind the bars, if only we are carefully watching it from far. Therefore, in order to enjoy the beauty of wedding, there are some questions we need to ask ourselves. The answers to these questions requires our utmost good faith. These questions are:
&bullre"> Am I getting married to the right person: Most times you see people complaining about their wives or their husbands, then you begin to wonder if they brought the wife or husband from the village or other planet to them. After the wedding day, or petitions about the person you have chosen to get married to should be torn because it becomes irrelevant after that day.
&bullre"> Required Stability: Sometimes I wonder what a person that is still living under the parents roof will use to feed the family after the wedding day. Please ensure you have gain stability financially, spiritually, educationally, psychologically etc. This stability are very important because you will definitely face challenges in that marriage and thereby you need to have gotten enough stability to withstand this time.
&bullre"> Vision and Mission: Most couples have only dreamt of their wedding day, they did not bother to make projections about their future in the marriage. This question is so vital to the extent that if it is missing it could lead to the destruction of a whole generation. In as much as both parties has their vision for their life's there is an utmost importance for them to create a family vision which will be beneficiary for their children and the family as a whole.
Hmmmmm... Considering this questions, although not all, but with reasonable level of assurance can give you a beautiful wedding day. Before I forget, never ever go into debt just because you want to have the best wedding day, please do not work according to your budget but rather work according to your pocket or probably bank balance. It is highly unreasonable to see people highly indebted after the wedding day, starting your marriage with debt payment is not ideal enough.
Enjoy your wedding day.


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Flochords(f) .:. Mon, 22 Jun, 2020 - 06:14:03:pm GMT

Smiles. Wedding is beautiful, wedding is awesome. Every man thinks of his wedding day but beyond the wedding, everyone should think of the marraige, which starts the day after the wedding ceremony. Wedding is a ceremony while marraige is for a life time. Wedding day becomes a memora le day for the couples continually when the marraige is still standing.
The wedding day is the day the wife dresses in white beautiful gown, the husband on an elegant suit both of them looking both beautiful and handsome on this glorious day of theirs,they snap awesome pictures, receive numerous gifts and congratulations, they are all happy that day giving glory to God Almigty. Wedding sucess does not equal marraige sucess, there are many successful weddings that have failed marraiges today, so beyond the beauty of the wedding day, aspire for the beauty of your marraige forever.
Dont be so occupied planning desperately for your wedding day and not planning for your marraige. Marraige and wedding are always mistaken to be the same of which they are different, more than you plan for your wedding, plan better for your marraige for your marraige to work out and last till death do you part.
wedding is beautiful, plan for it, make it memorable with wisdom,but dont do that and forget marraige because marraige is the one that is for a life time, but wedding is just a day event. Enjoy your wedding day, and most importantly, enjoy your marraige forever with your darling husband/wife. Love is a beautiful thing seriously .#Smiles#.

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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Glamour(f) .:. Tue, 23 Jun, 2020 - 10:02:14:am GMT

Weddings are beautiful, that particular day makes you feel wonderful wonderful and cherished. But like you said look forward after that particular day trust me marriage itself is not easy. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman who leaves their respective houses to come together and become one. Marriage is different from courting, you might have spent three months at your spouse's apartment but this time is forever. You have to be fully prepared for whatever comes, marriage isn't filled with happy stories and so much love it has its own up and down. but it's how you come out from this bad times that matters a lot. During weddings it is advisable to spend wisely, so you don't go into the real deal lamenting. If you can't afford a wedding it's not a big deal there is no law that says you have to throw a party. just go to the presence of God with eye-witnesses possibly 10 or 20 people and your pastor I think that is enough. Forget what will people say about my wedding,how is mum going to feel about this decision. It's your wedding you and your spouse alone knows how much you can affordable.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Glamour(f) .:. Tue, 23 Jun, 2020 - 10:02:33:am GMT

Weddings are beautiful, that particular day makes you feel wonderful wonderful and cherished. But like you said look forward after that particular day trust me marriage itself is not easy. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman who leaves their respective houses to come together and become one. Marriage is different from courting, you might have spent three months at your spouse's apartment but this time is forever. You have to be fully prepared for whatever comes, marriage isn't filled with happy stories and so much love it has its own up and down. but it's how you come out from this bad times that matters a lot. During weddings it is advisable to spend wisely, so you don't go into the real deal lamenting. If you can't afford a wedding it's not a big deal there is no law that says you have to throw a party. just go to the presence of God with eye-witnesses possibly 10 or 20 people and your pastor I think that is enough. Forget what will people say about my wedding,how is mum going to feel about this decision. It's your wedding you and your spouse alone knows how much you can affordable.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Glamour(f) .:. Tue, 23 Jun, 2020 - 10:02:48:am GMT

Weddings are beautiful, that particular day makes you feel wonderful wonderful and cherished. But like you said look forward after that particular day trust me marriage itself is not easy. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman who leaves their respective houses to come together and become one. Marriage is different from courting, you might have spent three months at your spouse's apartment but this time is forever. You have to be fully prepared for whatever comes, marriage isn't filled with happy stories and so much love it has its own up and down. but it's how you come out from this bad times that matters a lot. During weddings it is advisable to spend wisely, so you don't go into the real deal lamenting. If you can't afford a wedding it's not a big deal there is no law that says you have to throw a party. just go to the presence of God with eye-witnesses possibly 10 or 20 people and your pastor I think that is enough. Forget what will people say about my wedding,how is mum going to feel about this decision. It's your wedding you and your spouse alone knows how much you can affordable.
**God's favorite**


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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Administrator(m) .:. Tue, 23 Jun, 2020 - 12:29:01:pm GMT

Quote from Glamour: Weddings are beautiful, that particular day makes you feel wonderful wonderful and cherished. But like you said look forward after that particular day trust me marriage itself is not easy. Marriage is the union of a man and a woman who leaves their respective houses to come together and become one. Marriage is different from courting, you might have spent three months at your spouse's apartment but this time is forever. You have to be fully prepared for whatever comes, marriage isn't filled with happy stories and so much love it has its own up and down. but it's how you come out from this bad times that matters a lot. During weddings it is advisable to spend wisely, so you don't go into the real deal lamenting. If you can't afford a wedding it's not a big deal there is no law that says you have to throw a party. just go to the presence of God with eye-witnesses possibly 10 or 20 people and your pastor I think that is enough. Forget what will people say about my wedding,how is mum going to feel about this decision. It's your wedding you and your spouse alone knows how much you can affordable.

I refer to the highlighted part: you do not really need 10 or 20 people, you can do it with 2 or 3 witnesses because, according to the scripture, that is what is actually needed for every word to be established.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Glamour(f) .:. Thu, 25 Jun, 2020 - 02:27:02:pm GMT


@Administrator: thanks the correction, I just felt maybe the two or three people may deny being involved thats why i used such number atleast out of 10 people one person would not forsake you. But i have learnt from your correction.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Glamour(f) .:. Thu, 25 Jun, 2020 - 02:28:03:pm GMT


@Administrator: thanks the correction, I just felt maybe the two or three people may deny being involved thats why i used such number atleast out of 10 people one person would not forsake you. But i have learnt from your correction.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: Glamour(f) .:. Thu, 25 Jun, 2020 - 02:28:03:pm GMT


@Administrator: thanks the correction, I just felt maybe the two or three people may deny being involved thats why i used such number atleast out of 10 people one person would not forsake you. But i have learnt from your correction.
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   Re: THE BEAUTY OF WEDDING by: TYMartins(f) .:. Mon, 29 Jun, 2020 - 09:53:01:pm GMT

Weddings oh, weddings! A beautiful sight to behold. Just thinking about it can make you blush as a woman. From the gown, to the decorations, to the guests invited, to the way you would dance, the food you would eat and every other thing just makes you blush. Oh my, what a day!
It's amazing how people especially ladies take almost their entire growth to imagine how their wedding day will be. It's really a beautiful thought in our heads( you won't imagine, guys). However, with growth comes maturity and illumination.
Wedding is just a day, it's not even up to 24 hours, yet we spend the bulk of our time planning to make it the talk of the town. One thing we fail to take into consideration is that the wedding and all its paparazzi is just the bridge we would cross to the final destination "Marriage". You don't spend up to a day for that glamorous event yet you get to spend forever after that beautiful breathtaking ceremony. Marriage is the real deal. After the lecture (wedding), comes the exam (marriage). What will you write down ?
Weddings ought to be beautiful, however, the bulk of our time shouldn't be spent on how perfect we want our weddings to be but on how perfect we want our marriage to be. It's a transitioning that is determined by the couple. Would it be from frying pan to fire or from Earth to heaven and which would you want. Marriage is forever, did you get that F-O-R-E-V-E-R, no trial and error. So amidst the beauty of wedding, marriage should be the ultimate priority.
Ask yourself, how do I make this wedding debt free, how can we limit our liabilities, what matters most in this wedding? It helps you plan your wedding well with your marriage in sight.


**With God nothing is impossible**


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