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Romance » Should a man pay the rent for his girlfriend? by: SamuelKingsley93(m) .:. Wed, 08 Mar, 2023 - 11:04:46:pm GMT
There was a video that was focus on a conversation between a man and woman.
The woman was like 'can you pay for my house rent' and the man was like 'no I can't' . And she was like 'why but what if we in a relationship and you ought to take care of me'. And the man said no that it is the role of the father to take for her. And she was what if my father is dead, and he reply her mom. She said 'what if she's dead', the man responded 'her Uncle'. She asked again what if she doesn't have then the man replied 'let her go get a job'.

Is the man right?
Obviously he is paying for her bills or house rent . To be precise it isn't the duty of the man. He can only assist or only if he makes the decision to. It is not compulsory.
Unless it is the man's idea for her to be alone or he made a commitment to.

What do you guys think?


**Samuel Kingsley**

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Re: Should a man pay the rent for his girlfriend? by: Queen(f) .:. Thu, 09 Mar, 2023 - 01:49:50:pm GMT

As far as they are not married, he does not ow her. But as a man who love His girl friend, why won't you help if you have.

The problem with these days relationship is boundaries.
Both parties should know their boundaries. There is a limit to what you should give or do in a relationship because you are not married tet.
When you become husband and wife, the relationship and responsibilities becomes different.

My advice is be sure of the kind of relationship you are going into, learn to define your relationship, from the beginning ask questions so that you will know what to expect. If a
man thinks he is not responsible for paying your rent because he is not your husband, then you should tell him that it is not your responsibility to give him sex because he is not your husband simple.
A relationship that will lead to marriage expecialy a Godly one has its rules.

Be wise.
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Re: Should a man pay the rent for his girlfriend? by: Queen(f) .:. Thu, 09 Mar, 2023 - 01:51:54:pm GMT

As far as they are not married, he does not ow her. But as a man who love His girl friend, why won't you help if you have.

The problem with these days relationship is boundaries.
Both parties should know their boundaries. There is a limit to what you should give or do in a relationship because you are not married tet.
When you become husband and wife, the relationship and responsibilities becomes different.

My advice is be sure of the kind of relationship you are going into, learn to define your relationship, from the beginning ask questions so that you will know what to expect. If a
man thinks he is not responsible for paying your rent because he is not your husband, then you should tell him that it is not your responsibility to give him sex because he is not your husband simple.
A relationship that will lead to marriage expecialy a Godly one has its rules.

Be wise.
****
**It is well**


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Re: Should a man pay the rent for his girlfriend? by: Queen(f) .:. Thu, 09 Mar, 2023 - 01:51:56:pm GMT

As far as they are not married, he does not ow her. But as a man who love His girl friend, why won't you help if you have.

The problem with these days relationship is boundaries.
Both parties should know their boundaries. There is a limit to what you should give or do in a relationship because you are not married tet.
When you become husband and wife, the relationship and responsibilities becomes different.

My advice is be sure of the kind of relationship you are going into, learn to define your relationship, from the beginning ask questions so that you will know what to expect. If a
man thinks he is not responsible for paying your rent because he is not your husband, then you should tell him that it is not your responsibility to give him sex because he is not your husband simple.
A relationship that will lead to marriage expecialy a Godly one has its rules.

Be wise.
****
**It is well**


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Re: Should a man pay the rent for his girlfriend? by: A_bFonte(m) .:. Mon, 13 Mar, 2023 - 07:49:38:am GMT

Truly he owes the lady nothing but all the same we can't but state the fact that should both of them find themselves in love with each other, there is no sacrifice too big to pay for. Sometimes itrepsvtive to the fact that the parents are there or the uncles are functioning and not forthcoming and the said lady is in need provided he can support her and he has the resources, and he should support her in every way.

Most of us just think love is just defined by relationship but no, love is a language that should be expressed and this should as well not be misunderstood because you aren't the lady's parent. I feel you should show love, there can be a possibility of issues at home and the said fund isn't coming as it ought to, if you love her and cherish her, support her with whatever you can afford.

In all the man should be able to pay for the girl's rent if she isn't just an ordinary girl cos her position is different and she isn't just some random babe.

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Re: Should a man pay the rent for his girlfriend? by: Obajichi(f) .:. Mon, 13 Mar, 2023 - 04:41:04:pm GMT

It's not compulsory but it can be done if he is financially capable of doing it and he wants to do it out of kindness or as to lend help.

He shouldn't also do it just because he has the intention of marrying her, because what if she later decides not to marry him ?


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