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Careers/Employment/Vacancies » Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Tony4mega(m) .:. Sun, 16 Feb, 2020 - 02:42:48:pm GMT

1. Eliminate toxic people from your life.

Unfortunately, there are people who will want to tear you away from your work, drain your energy with their negativity, and destroy your dreams and aspirations.

The toxic people are usually just jealous - and often unhappy. If you know people like this, it's time to get rid of them. Instead, associate yourself with like - minded people who will encourage you down your path to success. Who you hang around with does matter

2.Learn to be productive.

Successful people don't wait for things to happen, they make things happen. But lots of activity doesn't necessarily mean productivity.

You need to learn how you work best and you need to learn how to prioritise different tasks and if possible, delegate ones you don't need to be doing yourself.

3.Visualise your success.

Think about the future you want and visualise it. Successful people focus on their vision of success and constantly have to aim and graft for. Unsuccessful people often think about what they can't have, can't get and can't succeed at. Be positive. Keep focused. Be the master of your own success.




4. Seek passion

It's hard to move forward and be successful if you're not remotely passionate about what you're doing.

Every day can become a drag. You don't have to LOVE your job, but you should be passionate about making it work. Otherwise it's too easy to procrastinate, do things halfheartedly and quite. Seek passion in all you do. (Or at least try to be happy!)

5. Do something different and

and to produce different results.

Einstein said: "insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."

If you're doing something and it's getting you nowhere, it's time to rethink, re-examine and re-tackle the problem or project.

The same goes for your dreams: ask yourself, if I keep on doing the same thing, will I achieve my goals and my dreams? If your answer is a no, it's time for you to change your approach.


6. Remain focused.

Life will always throw curve-balls your way as a test your tenacity. Don't give up. View these challenges as an opportunity to learn and evolve. Remain flexible, Remain focused and Remain determined.

7.Believe.

If you don't believe in yourself, you're bound to give up or fail. Self-confidence and action will help you to push on and make a success of your life.

Do you believe that you are able to do it? Do you believe that you are able to make it come true? Start your journey to success by first believing that you are able to.






**Let love lead**

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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Dynameak(m) .:. Wed, 20 May, 2020 - 04:07:08:pm GMT

Those attributes to become successful are very true from talks I've had with successful people in various fields but a good number of successful people always posit that to become successful starts with "knowing why you want to be successful" and that will be my focus as will be developed below.

START WITH WHY

Becoming successful is an endless road because people will always pass success records and the records gets higher than the previous accomplishment. To become successful you have to know the reason why you want to be successful as I once got to understand from a book that those that start with why don't loose focus easily because they know the reason why they want to be successful and that reason stirs them on till they achieve what they envisaged and even more.

Starting with why makes a man follow up with the plan mapped out to achieve the goal to become successful in one area or the other.

The major enemy against success is procrastination;

Procrastination is simply the act of pushing forward what is required for the present to the future. To become successful, you should possess the "do it now" spirit. Do not pile up the activities targeted at achieving a goal because piled up activities can be burdensome and at that man can loose focus.

**Life is a race but with God's element of grace it'll be worth while to explore His goodness. **


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 27 May, 2020 - 08:49:35:am GMT

To me, success is by determination, hardworking and patient. What most people lack is patient which you haven't mentioned here too. A lot of people want to be rich in just a day or two months. To be successful, it takes years, you need to sink that into your head. It takes years of working. You don't just wake up one day and say today you must make it. How much have you work? If I may ask you. 


Reason why a lot of people have killed innocent people just to be rich is lack of patient. 

I told a friend, you might be working hard now, but in the next few years, there will surely be a result. The reason why a 40 years old man still has nothing to show off is because he spent all his youth days working mouth to mouth, daily feeding, not working for tomorrow. 

Some are not even patient, instead of you managing that 40K job, you are home looking for 150K Job, until you will forget all your skills, until you will grow old and start selling meat pie at age 39. 

Nobody was born rich, even those who were brought up in a wealthy home still have to work to secure their parents properties willed to them. 

Patient is a virtue and not everyone has it. If you want to be successful, be patient and know it will take you years. 

**Determined**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Presho23(m) .:. Wed, 27 May, 2020 - 01:10:58:pm GMT

There are many books and many tips to become a success in life, a lot of motivational speaker often at times based their teachings and findings base on their experiences and findings, which might not be all that bad but being successful to me is more than what someone wrote in a book based on their own experience, because i believe that their destiny might be totally different from yours and many a times these motivational cook books have led many people astray in doing what they don't need to do. They paint the picture as if being successful is that easy, it isn't and sometimes they dont tell you the truth.


It is not enough that you read a book and you get inspired, inspiration isn't bad, being successful isn't about being inspired by a book, you often hear people on countless occasion say, wow i read this book and i became inspired, that alone to me is a problem, you are already a failure if you have to read a motivational book to get inspired, why do i say this? I say this because right within every man is the ability to be a success, but many arent fulfilling their dreams in becoming what they were destined to be in life because of they are looking at the wrong thing, they have the wrong attitude and there is a common saying that goes this way, your attitude determines your altitude.


Having said that, lets proceed into the little points i have, why are people not successful, first and foremost your environment is a factor that affects you positively or negatively, and the kind of environment you find yourself in determines whether you will become a success or not because your environment determines your circus. You have heard as a man thinketh in his heart so he is, and i strongly believe that you cant think beyond your environment, it takes adequate and consistent discipline to become a success in a challenging environment.  


Secondly in your quest to become a success you must have a goal, what drives you, you must have a dream. A dream is not something you are not certain of, a dream is more like a passion a drive, what you stand for because you cant really separate a man from his dream. A billionaire was once asked that if they should take everything he had in form of all his wealth and all he has being able to acquire in his lifetime, how would he feel and what would become of him? His response was if he was the one that acquired all that made him who he currently is then there is no cause for alarm because the same he acquired all that he had is the same way he will still acquire more than what was taking away from him.


This means being successful is all about having a mindset of a success and mindset is what separates the best from the rest, that is why fifty people would go for a job interview and only one would get the job in an organization or firm. The reason is because why the rest 49 were hoping to get the job the guy with the mindset of a success goes to that interview and tell them the strategies and plan hiring him would give the to the firm, he'll sell himself to his employees because a success is confidence in his ability and its that confidence and self believe that makes them to be in high demand. 

So i wrap up by saying that life doesn't necessarily give you what you desire but what you demand, there are places  Aliko Dangote goes to today and he commands respect and also you have understand that a success doesn't go anywhere, so even by your actions and how you organize and plan your daily life, one can detect if you will become a success in the future or not.

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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: ACETONE(m) .:. Sun, 14 Jun, 2020 - 09:29:40:pm GMT

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Successful people are where they are today because of their habits.  Habits determine 95% of a person’s behavior.

Everything that you are today, and everything that you will ever accomplish, is determined by the quality of the habits that you form.

By creating good habits and adopting a positive behavior, you too can become successful and live a prosperous life.

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The first habit is to become goal-oriented.

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  1. The first is the practice of continuously learning so that you become better at what you do.
  2. The second practice is that of time management. This means setting very clear priorities on what you do and then concentrating single-mindedly on the most valuable use of your time.

All really successful people are intensely result-oriented.

3) They are Action Oriented

The third major habit you need to develop is that of continually taking action.

This is really the most important habit for material success.  It is the ability to get on with the job and get it done fast.  It is your ability to develop and maintain a sense of urgency, and a bias for action.  Fast tempo in whatever you do is essential to your success.

You need to overcome procrastination, push aside your fears and launch 100% toward the achievement of your most important goals.  The combination of goal orientation, result orientation, and action orientation, in themselves, will virtually assure great success.

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5) They are Health Conscious

The fifth habit that highly successful people develop is health consciousness.

This means that you must fastidiously watch your diet, and always eat the right foods in the right portions.  You must exercise on a regular basis, continually using every muscle and joint of your body to keep it limber and fit.  And finally, you must have good habits of rest and recreation that will enable you, in combination with diet and exercise, to live out your years in a healthy state.

Remember, your health is the most important single thing you have, and it is completely subject to the habits that you develop with regard to the way you live.

6) They are Honest

The sixth habit is that of honesty and integrity.

In the final analysis, the character you develop as you go through life is more important than virtually anything else.

Honesty means that you practice the “reality principle” in everything you do.  You are completely objective with yourself and with the world around you.  You set very clear values for yourself and you organize yourself around your values.  You develop a vision for yourself and then you live your life consistent with your highest ideals.  You never compromise your integrity or peace of mind for anyone or anything.

This attitude of honesty is critical to your enjoying all of the other good habits that you are developing.

7) They are Self-Disciplined

The seventh habit, and the one habit that guarantees all the others, is that of self-discipline.

Your ability to discipline yourself, to master yourself, to control yourself, is the most important single quality that you can develop as a person.  The habit of self-discipline goes hand in hand with success in every area of life.

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**Mumdiamond**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Yetunde(m) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 03:11:42:pm GMT


First you must believe that success is possible .There are a lot of voices out there telling you that the structures of society are aligned against you,or that the government has not done enough to provide the  opportunities you need to succeed ,Or that someone has hurt you so badly you can never make it in life ,or that your past is holding you back ,or you have family issues.

Well ,i promise you that if you believe the universe or structures of society or your family or your past are preventing your success ,you will never be successful.

If you think that way, your mind is becomes bigger than your obstacles holding you back.And it doesn't even matter if it's true or not because the power to achieve or not achieve isn't in or outside the factors .It's in you .


Self reliance :
The second attitude that you need to be successful is the attitude of self reliance .This attitude refers to the way we think about ourselves and our agency in the world.

Work:
The third attitude is work ,not just work 'HARD WORK'.The opportunities that we have today to succeed and to achieve are far beyond any other time in history.Never has it been easier to start a business ,never has it been easier to build an audience .

'WORK HARD AT THINGS THAT ARE EASY TO DO'

Growth:
The final attitude that you need for success is an attitude of growth.It's an eye opening experience when  you begin to realize that your success will not change unless you change.In fact ,the whole world can change but it won't change your success if you remain the same .

**God's child**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Blackie(f) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 04:30:51:pm GMT

 The attribute you have written above will surely make you successful. To be success is actually a simple task in as much as you have done the right thing in the right time and place. 

     Firstly you need to set Goals for yourself. What are the things you want to achieve, what is it that you want for yourself? You can write down a resolution.  A resolution is a list of things you'd like to achieve no matter how long it takes. 
      Secondly you need to analyze the set pf people arround you, ask yourself  questions like will this people allow to make it to where I wanna be? Will they support my every step? Will they encourage me? If the answer is yes then keep them by your side but if no,  then eliminate them from your life .  I'm not saying you shouldn't talk to them anymore, I'm just saying you should know the kind of stuff you discuss with them.
     Also learn from success stories and failure stories. Read other people life history to know what it took them to become who they are today. Learn from other people's life story.
     Be passionate. Be passionate about your dreams,  believe you can do it. Allow the the spirit of perseverance and persistence into your  life. Never giveup so easily. Don't allow people's negative comments to destroy your path. People will always be jealous of good things.
    Pray. Always pray, remember that Prayer is  the key. You have got God by your side.  He will never lead you astray.  Always remind yourself that you were born to succeed and lead.

**--Temmy**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Princess(f) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 06:42:43:pm GMT

Being a successful person implies one who has achieved his or her set of desired visions and planned goals. 

Everyone wants to be 'successful', but they have defined this in terms of how rich one is, which is not totally true. You become successful when you unite people, share your ideas with them and you achieve it together. You become successful when you help others succeed... On and on it doesn't just revolve around money.
Success is only achieved with hardwork. To succeed you must have the desire and utmost determination. 

Firstly, you must believe in yourself and your ability to succeed. There's no success without self confidence. Without believing in yourself you have already lost the race. There will be no way others would believe in you. In everything you do you should show high level of self-confidence.

Secondly, you must be hardworking. Success doesn't just happen, it takes well planned steps fostered by discipline. As the famous quote says, "Heights of great men reached and kept were never attained by sudden flight, but they, while their companions slept, kept toiling onward through the night."

Thirdly, educate yourself, taking training courses for necessary skills and become qualified. Never assume that you know all, invest in yourself, get equipped to get the desired results.

Fourthly, you should have good manners. Treat everyone you come across with regard and respect. Things like remembering people's name and keeping to time are very important. A famous Jamaican proverb goes, "Manners carry you through the world and back without a penny."

Finally, believe that being successful is possible. Be committed to what you do. 


**Toluwaneeme**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Phaithh(f) .:. Sat, 04 Jul, 2020 - 03:01:39:pm GMT

DEVELOP A BURNING DESIRE TO SUCCEED
Success is elusive to a man who has no strong determination to succeed. It is however real to a man with a burning desire to win.

Having decided what your goal is, you should develop a burning desire to achieve that goal. A burning desire is like the fuel in our car; without fuel the car cannot move. But as long as fuel is supplied into the engine, the car will work well. We should think our goal, pray our goal, work our goal, dream our goal. It should be most important in our life. Great achievers in history in history were the men who had a burning desire to excel.

KNOW THAT DEFECTS DON'T MATTER
No matter your handicap, once you have an urge to succeed, you will accomplish your goal. History has a long list of great men who had defects and still made it to the top. Beethoven was deaf, while Milton was blind, yet they succeeded in life. Helen Keller, born blind, deaf and mute, wrote 27 books in her lifetime.

George Bernard Shaw had only elementary formal training, but he wrote several books and became the most powerful playwright of his time. In 1925, he received the Nobel Prize for Literature. Stevie Wonder is blind, yet he is a leading musician in America today.

Do not allow excuses to debar you from achieving your goals in life. Make a hero of your goals. Do not  surrender leadership to excuses.

CHARACTERISTICS OF A BURNING DESIRE
Napolean Hill, in his popular book, "Think and Grow Rich," listed six factors that make up burning desire as follows:
1. Self-reliance;
2. Personal initiative;
3. Imagination;
4. Enthusiasm;
5. Self-discipline;
6. Concentration of effort.

According to Hill, "Any dominating idea, plan or purpose held in the mind through repetition of thought and emotionalized with a burning desire for its realisation, is taken over through whatever natural and logical means available. 

**GOD is Love**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Davzee(m) .:. Sat, 04 Jul, 2020 - 03:27:16:pm GMT

Your points are very very right. Toxic people can destroy your success, if you discuss about your success to a toxic friend he will find means he will use to destroy your success or happiness. Keep off from bad company.


The part of you being productive you are right. To be successful you don't need to wait for things to happen you make it happen. Be creative think of businesses or things that will make you successful.

A successful person will always see him or her self as also over he or she wants to be. Visualise youself being successful.

Love whatsoever you want to do, you can't just say you want to be this and you are not passionate about it.

Do something different. Love the way you quote Einstein keep it up.

Keep your focus on who you want to be. Don't be distracted.

Believe in yourself. Always look in the mirror and tell yourself I can do it. Don't doubt yourself. Pursue your goals.

Nice write up by the way.
Thank you.

**No doubt**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Sat, 18 Jul, 2020 - 04:13:06:pm GMT

There are attitudes that will need to cultivate in order to be sucessful. There's a principles for growth in life. There's also a principles that will need to follow in order to successful in all ramifications of life. 


1. PLAN
If you want to be sucessful in life you need to have a strategy plan. If you fail to plan you will plan to fail. When you have futuristic plan that will help you in the endeavors of life. The first step you need is to set a good plan for yourself and make sure you follow the plan. 

2. SET A GOAL
After planning you need to set a goal. When you plan you don't just write it down but the next step is to include your goal. Your goal is what motivate you to do better in life. 

3. RESEARCH
After the listed steps above you need to have a proper research for your goal. You don't just venture into any business or anything expect you've look for more information about it. Through your research you will be able to know the do's and don't of the Business. 

4. HARDWORK 
Lazy man or woman don't do exploits. Exploits is only meant for hardworking people. You need to be serious and always ready to do the task always. 

5. COMMITMENT
Some people do think business just bloom without been commited to it. You need to be full commited to any given task you are ready to venture into. 

6. PERSISTENT 
God is always happy when we are persistent and consistent with the work of our hands. No matter how tough the business might look like once you are persistent about the work you will surely excel in it. 

7. PRAYERS
Anything you don't commit into God's hands might not be productive like the one that's committed into his hands. He said commit your ways unto me and I will direct your path. You need to be prayerful in order to be sucessful in life. 

**Always put God first **


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Olatoke(m) .:. Sat, 18 Jul, 2020 - 04:57:30:pm GMT


If you want to be successful in life . 

1 . you  should  be patient. If you won't  to be successful in life you should  have  patience, be patient in what ever  you  are  doing, do not  rush your self, be calm. 
2.be hard working. You  need to  be hard working, don't  be a lazy type, you need to work  hard  so that  later  you will  enjoy  the results  of  your  work,. 
3.have passion. If you have  passion  for  a certain  things, then you  need  to  believe  that  you  can make  it , and definitely  you will  make it,. 
4.if you  fail do not fear. Failure make  some  people to loos hope in life  it is normal  to fail , but  when  you  fail  pick up  your  race and  continue. 
5.dont relent. If you  seem  you are tired never relent  keep  on going  surely  you will get  there even life is full of risk. 
6.prayer.. Make sure that you are prayerful  prayer make  all things possible with  God, try and pray along  then success will come your  way 

**Olatoke **


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Mima(f) .:. Sat, 18 Jul, 2020 - 07:51:33:pm GMT

Successful people we see today did not just become successful,they Improved on their character, saw their weak points and worked on them . They were not lazy, arrogant, rude, selfish, etc, when we listened to their life story or should I call it 'testimonies' we hear them saying challenging words that pierce our souls making us wish to be like them. Yes, we can be like them. We can be anything we want to be as long we are ready! 

Some of the attitudes(right) we should build up are :

1.Prayer : In everything we do God should be involved and when God is involved our prayer life should be on a very high key. Prayer is one of the right attitudes we should brace up and refresh in our lives to make us successful. When we are prayerful, it hinders any obstacles /barriers that may come our way. 

2.Studious : nobody reminded them when to read. They planned themselves. 
They read when others are sleeping. They are never tired of reading especially when they know what is ahead of them. 

3.Honesty : learn to be truthful always, it takes us far in life. Do not think you are wise when you lie instead it takes away opportunities meant to come your way. 

4.Diligence/Focus : Do not look back. Keep striving. Be focus. Do not allow anything at all be a barrier to stop you from succeeding. You may say things like 'I am from a poor background, many people in my family actually started but could not finish',hey! What did you hear of Bill Gates and his likes? They failed, some were dropouts but did not allow that discourage them we see them successful. Take that challenge and you will see the positive outcome soon.

**Just me**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Mima(f) .:. Sat, 18 Jul, 2020 - 07:52:19:pm GMT

5. Hardworking : Laziness should be an enemy to your spirit. Do the right at the right time. Avoid procrastination, it is the thief of time. 

6. Socialization : Do not be a lone ranger. Interact with people especially the good and intelligent ones. Equally teach those who don't understand. An idle man is the devil's workshop. When you are alone, the devil put evil imaginations, enticing you to smoke or involve in bad things. Try to socialize with the right people anytime. 

7.Punctuality : When you are given a specific time to attend a meeting do not follow 'African time '. Go before time. We hear how people lost their jobs as a result of late coming. To be successful be in the right place at the right time. 

There are still many attitudes (good) that can help us to be successful :Humility, commitment, endurance, etc but the seven above have been helping me and I hope  it helps you too one way or the other. But one thing I think you should know, start building on the right attitudes that can help you. Examine yourself.

**Just me**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Temmylove(f) .:. Wed, 29 Jul, 2020 - 07:48:36:am GMT


Seven attitude that will help you become successful 


1. Confident in God:
  
Jonathan in the Bible was confident in God ,he and his armor bearer won the battle over the Philistines. 1Samuel 14: 6-10

KJV:And Jonathan said to the young man that bare his armour, Come, and let us go over unto the garrison of these uncircumcised: it may be that the Lord will work for us: for there is no restraint to the Lord to save by many or by few.

KJV:And his armourbearer said unto him, Do all that is in thine heart: turn thee; behold, I am with thee according to thy heart.

KJV:And Jonathan said to the young man that bare his armour, Come, and let us go over unto the garrison of these uncircumcised: 

KJV:If they say thus unto us, Tarry until we come to you; then we will stand still in our place, and will not go up unto them.

KJV:But if they say thus, Come up unto us; then we will go up: for the Lord hath delivered them into our hand: and this shall be a sign unto us.

What is the result of his confidence in G od,  they prevailed and God fought the battle for them. Be confident in God, rely on Him in everything you do and Him making way where seems to be no way. 

2. Hard work: To become successful, you  have be hardworking. When you work hard in any field you find yourself, you will definitely excel. 

3. To become successful in life, you have to have a vision. It is not enough to be hardworking but hard work plus vision will bring success in time. 


4. To become successful, you have be a person of integrity. 

5. To become successful,  you have to  be persistent in whatsoever you do. Persistency is one of the  key to success. 

6. To be successful, you have be a person that keeps relationship. 

7. You have to be prayerful. 



**God's will be done**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Temmylove(f) .:. Wed, 29 Jul, 2020 - 07:53:23:am GMT








Seven attitude that will help you become successful 


1. Confident in God:
  
Jonathan in the Bible was confident in God ,he and his armor bearer won the battle over the Philistines. 1Samuel 14: 6-10

KJV:And Jonathan said to the young man that bare his armour, Come, and let us go over unto the garrison of these uncircumcised: it may be that the Lord will work for us: for there is no restraint to the Lord to save by many or by few.

KJV:And his armourbearer said unto him, Do all that is in thine heart: turn thee; behold, I am with thee according to thy heart.

KJV:And Jonathan said to the young man that bare his armour, Come, and let us go over unto the garrison of these uncircumcised: 

KJV:If they say thus unto us, Tarry until we come to you; then we will stand still in our place, and will not go up unto them.

KJV:But if they say thus, Come up unto us; then we will go up: for the Lord hath delivered them into our hand: and this shall be a sign unto us.

What is the result of his confidence in G od,  they prevailed and God fought the battle for them. Be confident in God, rely on Him in everything you do and Him making way where seems to be no way. 

2. Hard work: To become successful, you  have be hardworking. When you work hard in any field you find yourself, you will definitely excel. 

3. To become successful in life, you have to have a vision. It is not enough to be hardworking but hard work plus vision will bring success in time. 

4. To become successful, you have be a person of integrity. 

5. To become successful,  you have to  be persistent in whatsoever you do. Persistency is one of the  key to success. 

6. To be successful, you have be a person that keeps relationship. 

7. You have to be prayerful. 



**God's will be done**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: MichealThankGod(m) .:. Tue, 04 Aug, 2020 - 12:27:12:pm GMT

Well said sir, indeed patients really matters.
If a man does not have the spirit of patient he might not get anything before he die.
I have come to realized something in life and in my searching, trying to be successful, to give my family that are to come the best life they can ever desired, to eliminate poverty, it is not chasing after money.
Doing all kinds of hard work, all kinds of work that comes your way, just because you're looking for money. No you can't get money that way sir / ma.
There are things that attract money, I mean there are things you can have, money has not choice but to surely come your way.
To erase poverty or to be financially free, there are two things 
1.no matter or how worst a man can be on earth , a certain time would come that he would have access to big money( the money would come In a big one )
2. When it comes, think of multiplying it, by investing

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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Goddy(m) .:. Mon, 02 Nov, 2020 - 04:09:36:pm GMT

To be successful and having a bright future, a person must have some principles that would help you become successful.
 1. IDENTIFYING YOUR NEED:before an individual would be able to achieve anything, such person should be able to identify his or her crucial need and not only for ours but for those around us. The owner and founder of Amazon once believed and said that he would be the first to have an e business that would be able to sell everything need a person wants. This later became possible and now, he is
 the number one richest man in the world. The owner of amazon, Jeff bezos had a need and so he accomplished it.
 2. INNOVATION OF STRATEGIC METHODS:after knowing your needs and what others want, you should be able to have the mind to create methods to meet up their needs. In everything, we should put our mind into it. Jeff bezos after knowing what he needed, he dedicated himself and mind towards what he said. In this state, we should render a supportive service to what the people needs. After doing all this, that is satisfying the people's needs, they would give you whatever you propose and they would pay.
 3. IMPLICIT FAITH IN GOD:it is not possible to do something without the help of the lord. We should have an unwavering faith and looking unto God, and God would fulfill our heart desires.
 4. HARDWORK:before we can succeed succeed, we must put in our physical and mental abilities into work. A person must be hardworking to achieve what he or she has proposed in his heart(his or her needs).
 5. INTEGRITY :a person should be upright and honest in all his endeavors. Such individual should not indulge in fraudulent activities.
 6. A STRONG WILL:diligence and strong determination should be an individual motto if such wants to be successive in life. We should not have any circumstances stop us from our goal be it small or great circumstances.
 If we should follow and practice the above principles, you will notice a great and tremendous change in our life and we will become successful. So in conclusion, shun from idleness. 

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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Abbey(m) .:. Mon, 02 Nov, 2020 - 06:56:20:pm GMT

1.self control. If you won't to be successful you should be able to control yourself all the time, don't put your mouth in an issue that  doesn't concerns you know your personality as a person another thing in self control is to be satisfied with what you have don't compare yourself with another person way of life 

2.be time conscious. Make proper use of your time, don't be delay with any other thing sleep at the right time and work at the right time also don't be carried away with materials things, time is  a life copping skill to have success 
3.read and make research. If you won't to be successful in life you have to read and  make research read ahead of exam make a research work on new discovery in the world don't just stay only in one place move around and see how things were been done, learn from  people with in your environment study hard  every one already know that he who read will  pass  and he  who  doesn't read will definitely fail. 
4. Don't make too much friends. As a youth who is  aspiring be successful at the end it is advisable not to make to many Friends because if you  have  much friends you won't have time to sit and study rather going to party, clubs, make less friends and even make it with the good ones. 
5.you should be focused. Have focus on what so ever that you are doing don't be discouraged by the situation around you  put your mind forward and hope for the  best 
6.belive in yourself don't fear and don't panic alway have positive thoughts towards yourself believe that you can do it if you  fail  or make mistakes keep on trying your best and you  shall have  a successful end 



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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Francis(m) .:. Mon, 02 Nov, 2020 - 07:42:37:pm GMT

To be successful in life, one has to work with successful people with positive mindset. As it is not possible for a blind man to lead his fellow blind man, so it is applicable to ones life journey. 
You are not educated and yet you care moving with an illitrate, how will you gain and learn new things.
Your mindset also determines, when planning your life. Negative mind will always brings failure while positive mind attract good luck. 
Avoid Having walking with friends that has nothing to offer you but has many things to take away from you. Walk with someone that has what you don't have and vise versa. This life is give and take.
Avoid living a fake life, because those that want to help you may see you as someone who has it all.
Be yourself and be cheerful wherever you are. Character speaks louder than beauty, maintain good character.

**Francis**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: AdaJesus(f) .:. Mon, 09 Nov, 2020 - 10:33:04:am GMT

Seven attitudes that will help you become successful 

1. DISCIPLINE
Everyone that will be successful in life must learn to be be discipline. Discipline in the ways you spend your time,  your speech and disposition to people.  
One must be disciplined in money expenditure,  and making budgets.  One must be discipline in friends making,  and also in events attending.  As one that wants to be successful, you cannot afford to attention to every party or every events you are invited to. 
2. ENDURANCE 
One must be able to endure and be patient in certain circumstances.  One that will be successful will have to overlook so many things so as not to eat to your future now. 
3. CHOICE OF FRIENDS
Not everyone can be your friend,  not everyone can be close to you. You have to have preferences in choosing friends.  Some friends come to make sure you remain at the same level with them.,  some will try their best to wreck you with wrong advices. 
4. READINESS TO LEARN
A success aspirant must be willing to lay down every form of ignorance and embrace knowledge.  As no man is an island of knowledge,  everyday is an opportunity to learn something new 


**AdaJesus**


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Vickybrown(m) .:. Mon, 09 Nov, 2020 - 11:55:19:am GMT

             Nice quote bro, but you should also note that there are some habits that would prevent a man from being successful. Those habits include: 

1. Gambling habits: when a man has a gambling habits this would prevent him from having any savings and this is based on the fact that most these gambling organizes the game play in such a way that you are not meant to benefit anything from it when you're involved in it. 
A lot of people have lot their life time savings on gambling of different kinds.
2. Habit of womanizing: when a man loves womanizing, it prevents him from being focused and aside that he spends alot of money trying to impress these ladies, take them out and also buy lots of good stuffs for them. This prevents him from saving which would affect him on the long run.
3. Habit of procastination: originated from the Latin word procastinus, it is the act of delaying or postponing something. It is known to be one of the greatest enemy of successful as it limits you from doing what u're supposed to do at the right time.


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Omotayodavid(m) .:. Mon, 09 Nov, 2020 - 01:41:14:pm GMT

      To become successful in every sphere of life these are the attitudes you need to inculcate:


1. DEVELOP A POSITIVE MINDSET AND RIGHT MENTALITY: The bedrock of success is having a positive mindset, when you think rightly, things that becomes impossible for others would be perceived differently, any given task would always be achieved with a high level of optimism. Success does not come so easy, where others are having several set backs you don't get demotivated, your mindset pushes you to becoming an achiever regardless of what other people say to you. Your greatest motivation is you.

2. SELF-DISCIPLINE: ''If you fail to discipline yourself the errors and outcome of your indiscipline will come back to discipline you''. To be successful you have to inculcate self-discipline as this directly or indirectly affects the steps and move you make regarding the achievement of your goals and objectives, lack of discipline would only lead to total failure.

3. WILLINGNESS TO LEARN: Anyone who wants to be successful must have a teacheable spirit, and flexible enough to learn everyday, having this believe that you know it all would limit your versatility chances and this would affect your productivity level. An attitude of constant learning is pivotal for success.

4. RESILIENCE AND CONSISTENCY: Another key attitude required for success is to have the ability to endure setbacks and challenges keeping your head high, ''when the going gets tough, only the tough gets going''. when others decide to quit that is the point a resilient individual gets back up on their feet with a firm consistency in doing what i required in order to succeed.

5. WORK SMART AND THINK DIFFERENTLY: What makes an individual successful is when he does not think the way others think, a potential successful individual sees things differently, sees opportunities in challenges and coin out a way which is working smart to achieving his goals.

6. PRAY: It is vital to make prayer an attitude if you are willing to be successful, prayer is very important as it backs up our human capability and effort to bringing in to fruition. Prayer would only produce results when it matches with hard work.

7. BE EXPECTANT: Success is deliberate not an accident, after all been said and done, you must always be optimistic about getting a positive result, shape your thinking faculty into believing you would achieve every goal you set your heart on.

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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Mon, 09 Nov, 2020 - 04:20:07:pm GMT

There are attitudes that positions us for sucesss in life though success is everyone's goal in life but only few people understands that success has rules and regulations that guides it. Everybody want to be sucessful but few people are ready to pay the price and they've forgotten that nothing of value comes free and even in free town not everything is Free. 


God has redeemed back into his enormous wealth and he has given us the grace to have access to it but some people are not ready to take the responsibility even though God has make everything avaliable to us. In this article I will be talking about 3 laws that guide success. 

LAWS OF SUCCESS

1. THE LAW OF SELF DISCLPINE
Indiscipline can rob anyone from his/her inheritance. The law of self discipline is one of the essential law to follow in order to get into our next level of success. Success is not meant for Child it is meant for Son that's Matured minds and people who are ready to take responsibility. You need self disclpine in your Spiritual life, academics life, business and many more. There are some prices to pay for success which are not always convinent but it's demanding but indiscipline robs you from it. 

2. THE LAW OF HARDWORK
This is where many people are missing it because some believes it's God that will still work everthing out for them neglecting the fact that we also have our own part to play in whatever things God has promised us. Hardwork is what opens speedy door unto our promises because the word of God says, "Faith without Work is Death". Don't be too lazy to do your part when God has fulfill his part and the most amazing thing about God is that he won't leave you only to do do your part instead he will give you divine backing and that strengthen you the more. 

3. THE LAW OF CONSISTENCY
The difference between a quitter and a winner is simply not giving up that's why they say "A quitter never wins and a Winner never quit" same thing is applicable to success. To become successful is not an overnight journey instead it takes alot of consistent on your work before you can see the results. Consistency also brings patience because without patience you can build on success. 

In conclusion, don't allow ignorance to blind you from seeing the truth. Knowledge is worth seeking for amd untill you are ready to take up the responsibility, you will continue to be a liability. Shake up every form of idleless and take up a work.  

**Always put God first **


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Flat(m) .:. Thu, 10 Dec, 2020 - 08:02:34:pm GMT

It is important for us to know that success is not a thing of a group but rather it is individualistic, am not saying we can’t be successful as a group but I want us to know that being successful as a group is determined by our individual self. So, everyone crave for success, everyone wants to get to the top but the question is, are we ready to pay the price? We need to be realistic with ourselves, it is not just about exposure the educational background that we have, it is not just about the that we have, it is not just about the orientation that we have, it is not just about how connected you think we are or we can be, if we have all those things and our attitude, character and behaviour are nothing to write about, then we shouldn’t stress ourselves on the topic of success. This three things go a long way to really define who we are beyond those things that we have. Lack of them can make someone at the top before to come down and likewise, their existence is enough to get one to the top. So, work on your attitude, character and behaviour.
Another thing is to define what you want to be. A lot of people want to be successful but when you ask the what they want to do to get that done, they then become confused. So, it is expected that you really define what you want to be, understand it, recognise those that have walked on that part before, look at how things is being done and begin to nurture yourself in that area.
Again, get God involve in it. You see, it is not an act of being religious, we need to know that when the God factor is removed then nothing can be done. So, let’s always get God informed and involved about our decision and ask for guidance and we will see ourselves flourishing.


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Abbey(m) .:. Tue, 21 Sep, 2021 - 10:36:48:am GMT

Some time our attitude brings about the ways to which we are going to be successful, what are the things you are doing , who are the friends you are moving with.

A. You should know the types of friends you move with.first thing in life is for an adult to move with friends who will impact positively to their life.

Friends can change your life style from good to bad and friends can can your life style from bad to good.

B.set a goal. What goal are you working on if you have plans for your life you will become successful .
C. Time. Use your time in a meaning full way , don't wast your time unnecessary do what is right at the right time.
**Abbey **


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Re: Seven Attitudes that will help you become successful by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 08 Dec, 2021 - 06:48:12:am GMT

If you won't to be successful there are some steps you should take as an individual
A. Have a purposive objective .how do you have a purposive objective here there should be a reason for doing things , then at the end you should achieve your reasons.

B. Think positively . here let your email thought be positive you see things can be very hard by the thought you developed in your mind will lay a way out for your success.

C. Don't see yourself as a failure. Once you see yourself as a failure you will not be successful , don't be tired to try the second time .
**Abbey **


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