Romance » SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 02 May, 2019 - 12:26:13:pm GMT

As a man you don't have to be mad at her for refusing to stay with you when you have nothing. Deciding not to settle for anything less than what she is created to enjoy does not mean she's looking for an 'already made' man. It is wonderful for a woman to stay and build with a man, but if we can tell ourselves the truth sometimes, it is selfish to expect a woman to stay and build with you when you are comfortably sitting at a level where on your own you will naturally won't agree to stay and build with yourself.

A woman is not designed to stay and build with a man who has nothing to chase.


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Re: SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Thu, 02 May, 2019 - 01:14:12:pm GMT

No grown woman wants to stay with a man who doesn't have a Jon

For a good woman it doesn't matter what you do. You can be cutting grass, lifting tyres or handing deposit slips to customers at the bank, as long as you are doing something that gets you out of the house in the morning and brings you back home at night. Women find their men more attractive when they are out working. Ask her, she knows.

I know you might be sitting there saying, " I don't have a job yet but I have a dream and a goal I am working towards and soon it will materialise, she knows this."

Yes she knows it will materialise but listen, there are three classes of men:

The first class are men who have no dreams, no goals, but they have a job that comes with a pay cheque at the end of the month.

The second class are men who have big dreams, big goals, but they have no job to keep them busy while they are working on their dreams.

The third class are men who have big dreams and big goals, but while they are waiting for it to come through, they have a job or something on the side that takes care of their little needs and helps them be the man in their relationship as well.

A good woman wants her man in the first or the third class of men. There is everything wrong in having a dream and a vision and still depending on her for something as little as airtime credits.

She appreciates the fact that you are a Martin Luther King but who is going to pay for the ice cream at the mall, her?

Uncle Joe I am not trying to talk you down, or paint your situation in black, all I am trying to say is while you are intentionally working out your dreams get a job, do something on the side. When you are out together it is heart breaking for you to have to turn to her when it's time to pay the bus fare. Get yourself a job brother. Be a man, it is a natural charge!

Women are attracted to ambitious men. She wants to see you moving. When she runs Into trouble she wants to run home to a man who is able to say "relax girl, I got this." A good woman wants to be with a man she can count on to have her back as she' is working herself out to have yours too.

And don't judge her for wanting to feel that security in her man, no matter how much she makes, it is the little you provide that truly counts.

**Graced **

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Re: SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 28 May, 2019 - 08:01:06:am GMT

I concur to what you just, women are treasure they are gold and they are very pure, God didn't create any woman to live in penury or to live a life below standard, i agree with all that but a woman also should work and bring something to the table, i can never date a lady who has the mindset that she is not created to suffer and doesn't offer me anything in return, after all women are called helpers, so they are not just there to consume after a man has gone out to look for the daily bread of the home, this is the reason i can never marry a house wife.

The women we have these days am sorry to say are opportunistic women, they just go where it is happening, where everything has been set and when their heart is broken they come out to say all guys are the same, to hell with that, who told you that you were supposed to date all guys in the first place, a girl will be in love with a guy but because the guy doesn't have anything presently they will leave him and go for the one with money and wealth even though they know that were they are heading to there are girls already there, they will still put their head there.

Now after years past the stone they rejected has now arrived and become the chief cornerstone, then they will want to return to him and want the guy that they abandoned to love them when they ran away in his time of preparation, that's the highest level of disrespect for a guy to see his woman abandon him for another guy like him just because he doesn't have at the moment, where is the patience, where is the love, where is the commitment? she didn't show all these in the time of his trails and the days of his little beginning and now wants to come and enjoy in the days of his plenty, it cant work.

So my advice to women is that yes you have a right to your decision but when it backfires, don't come back and start begging that you made a mistake because it will not work, the same way you made a mistake is the same way we guys we make our own mistake in the time of plenty and abundance, you cannot reap in a place you didn't sow, that's being a gold digger, a word is enough for the wise!!!


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Re: SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Tue, 04 Jun, 2019 - 09:17:53:pm GMT

Kings are attracted to queens, but most times while still a prince a princess may doubt his capacity of becoming a king some day. The same applies the other way round.

Your ability to recognise potentials and help fine tune the potential for their maximum use is priceless. Of course one must start building before another recognises one's ability to build.

The problem most times is hoping to end up with a great personality without working hard on ourselves to be a match to our expectations.

Level up.

**Obinna Oguji**

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Re: SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 05 Jun, 2019 - 07:48:10:pm GMT

@piwizo: There are ladies who were later abandoned and cheated on by the same guy they suffered with. Once they became rich. They forget the same woman who had supported them.

Some of this poor guys just pretend faithful and nice just because there is no money yet. Once they arrive, you will see their true colour.

It's true that women are helpmate but it shouldn't stop you as a man for not doing your responsibility.

And you said you can not marry a house wife. Well, that's your choice. And at times it comes as a result of poverty mindset. Does it mean those who's wife are house wife are fools? Nope! I guess they are.

Many of those wealthy men, though their wives have a career, yet they still take care of the responsibility at home.

A woman is expected to help you as a man when you broke... She is not met to always bring two when you bring four.


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Re: SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Fellybabe(f) .:. Thu, 20 Jun, 2019 - 07:04:22:am GMT

Many women still don't know that they have right to make any decision they wish to make. They allow their eyes to be blinded by love. Even when they know that the relationship isn't the right one for them.

Ladies, don't allow yourself to be deceived by some so called men who have no vision or mission, but wants you to suffer with them.

A man will no vision is like a blind man cause he lost his spiritual sight. He can't see what others are seeing. He can't accomplish anything cause he won't even start anything that will bring accomplish. He is blind

Some guys will just expect a young lady to stay and suffer with them. Are ladies met to always suffer with you? Must they always be the old bag you used while hustling? Don't they have their own choice.

You don't have money, you are going into relationship, you are a man, a man can marry at anytime. Work and save then you will have a good relationship whereby suffering is out of it.

Should you always want to suffer? Can't you even think of enjoying yourself. Must you always think of suffering before making it? Does suffering makes way to success? When you suffer, does it guarantee success?

**God's light**

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Re: SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO HER DECISION by: Confidant(f) .:. Tue, 09 Jul, 2019 - 05:54:25:pm GMT

Dear beautiful daughter of Zion praying for a great man to marry and settling for a great man. Do you have what it takes to make a man great?

Is greatness in you? If it is not, no matter high a man has gone in life, you will bring him down! If greatness is in you, no matter how low, poor and suffering a man is, you will bring him high up to greatness.

What is in you? What do you carry? Blessing or curses? Failure or success? Greatness or obscurity. What you have is what you will give in a relationship and what you will eventually become!

Ladies who spend half their lives watching African Magic, reading meaningless romantic novels and gossiping all over the street will never attract great men.

Ladies who don't read, are very lazy, can't do any business that will yield profit and are late comers to work will never attract great men of great destiny!

Greedy ladies who always go into relationship to collect recharge cards, demand for the money they didn't work for and command men to take them to eateries and eat like gluttons will never attract great men of vision!

Ladies who are proud, pompous and sassy and look down on others because of their social status attract abusers and women haters not husbands.

Ladies who jump from bed to bed like frogs and sleep with anything in trouser in the name of dating are not good wife materials!

No sane man wants to marry a liability!

If you do nothing sensible with your life and you are waiting for a hardworking, promising prince charming to come and rescue you from your self imposed problems, you will wait till you grow white hairs!

Do something sensible with your life! Add value to yourself! Be a multiplier not a divider and a consumer!

Be an asset to yourself and everyone around you and you will be an asset to your husband.

Stop begging for money, make your own money!

Stop begging for love, love yourself and everyone around you and true love will find you!

Stop sleeping around, save your body for the great man God has ordained for you.


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