Yeah, its not everything you tell your wife, its not everything you tell your husband. But when that secrets its so thing important and critical like the few points listed here, you should probably tell your partner:
In today's relationship, it advisable to know your partner medical history and you too share with your partner also your medical information.
You need to inform your partner on your medical condition. Yeah, sometimes it hard for you to break it all up that you have STD, asthma in fear of losing your partner.
But hiding the medical information will you do more harm than good if your partner eventually found out.
2. RELATIONSHIP GOALS
Relationships can easily break because of mismatched family goals. So its much better to discuss your relationship expectation with your partner to find out what and what goals you guys have common and the ones you guys can accomplish.
3.CAREER PLANS OR GOALS
Your career plans or goals are also merge into one when you guys are in serious relationship or marriage. It is advisable to let your partner know of your career, your career goals. For example, if your career is a travelling type and you won't always be around for your partner and children.
So its something you discuss about and reach a favourable conclusion its not something you keep a secret till you started travelling and your partner just get to know about it.
4. YOUR FEARS, YOUR WORRIES
The internet is flooded with stories of wife or husband committing suicide and your partner is scared because of one or two information you heard over the internet.
Your worries and fears should be communicated early enough with your partner so he or she knows who and what she's going to be dealing with. Not when you are in the relationship and the signs starts showing and you are stucked and the only option is to break the relationships because you guys never communicated your fears and worries to each other.
Lol most men love doing things on there own and start neglecting there responsibility as a true husband. Thank you for this post brother😉
There are so many things you shouldn't keep as a secret from your partners. The relationship is not a secret cult - it is an avenue to display openness and honesty between your partners. Many relationships today have crumbled due to hidden secrets of both partners and the funniest part is that many of the things we call secrets are not even a secret because there's someone that knows the truth.
The moment you are sure about the person you are in a relationship with, you should not keep any secret no matter how it may sound or how dirty the secrets might be. Although wisdom is needed when you want to reveal secrets. That's why I will advise people that have some past that they termed a dirty past to pray before informing their partners.
Don't allow fear to cloud your mind because when fear sets in you will be afraid to tell your partners which when not revealed and later found out can cause problems. Therefore say it as it is and allow peace to reign.
**Always put God first **
You must also never hide your past from your partner.
If you keep mute about your past, it's like sitting on a keg of gunpowder in your marriage.
A lot of marriages have exploded because of such hiding of secrets.
What if your partner uncovers it in an embarrassing way?
That would be devastating.
Think of all those that will be affected by that rude shock.
**I love being me.**