Love-Poems/Quotes » Responsible Men by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Tue, 23 Apr, 2019 - 02:04:48:pm GMT

If a girl cheapened herself for you, don't say, "All are cheap". One person acting cheaply does not mean all are like that. One spoilt egg inside a basket can not make one throw away the full eggs in the basket. At times some women that acted cheap, they don't act because they know or feel they are cheap. They might act cheap because of love, or because of ignorant, or because of laziness, or because of illiteracy, or because of foolishness. As a man, it is very wrong for us to call her names simply because we slept with her. Its wrong! A responsible man respect women not minding how some of them behaved. A responsible man must know that, when he insults women, his mother, sisters, daughters, cousins, nieces etc, are all included. And as a woman, its for you to ask yourselves, "am I acting cheap?" "Am I cheap?" "What can I do so I can't act cheap again?" If you are working for someone and he insists on having sex with you, quit such job. Report him to people, even to his wife, then quit. That's what he'd been doing to all his workers, but still sacked them one day, why? They were all cheap in his mind. In schools some girls do have sex with boys just because of a plate of indomie, or because of hunger. After the boy will say, " that girl is so cheap. I slept with her for N200 indomie. Some girls will be fighting over a boy, the boy will be telling people how cheap you are, because you acted cheap by fighting over him. Start now to respect and value yourselves.

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Re: Responsible Men by: Administrator(m) .:. Tue, 23 Apr, 2019 - 08:58:09:pm GMT

If a girl cheapened herself for you, don't say, "All are cheap". One person acting cheaply does not mean all are like that: One spoilt egg inside a basket cannot make a person throw away the full eggs in the basket.
At times, some women who acted cheap, they don't act because they know or feel they are cheap. they might act cheap because of love, or because of ignorance, or because of laziness, or because of illiteracy, or because of foolishness.
As a man, it is very wrong for us to call her names simply because we slept with her. Its wrong!
A responsible man respect women not minding how some of them behaved. A responsible man must know that, when he insults women, his mother, sisters, daughters, cousins, nieces etc, are all included.
And as a woman, its for you to ask yourselves, "am I acting cheap", "Am I cheap", "What can I do so I can't act cheap again?"
If you are working for someone and he insists on having sex with you, quit such job, report him to people, even to his wife, then quit. That's what he'd been doing to all his workers, but still sacked them one day, why? They were all cheap in his mind.
In schools some girls do have sex with boys just because of a plate of indomie, or because of hunger. Later on, the boy will say, " that girl is so cheap. I slept with her for N200 indomie".
Some girls will be fighting over a boy, the boy will be telling people how cheap you are, because you acted cheap by fighting over him. Start now to respect and value yourselves.

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Re: Responsible Men by: Piwizo(m) .:. Wed, 24 Apr, 2019 - 09:16:41:am GMT

There are several reasons why men think some ladies are cheap. Whereas they are not. Sincerely speaking, i have seen the life of some ladies they say they are cheap, they are not. Many are blinded by love. i will want to list some things that makes men thinks that ladies are cheap. If not all but some.

1. SEX
I found out so far that sex is one thing that makes men thinks some ladies are cheap. maybe they met the lady for the first time and she allowed sex. But can i ask you a question?.....Did she just walk up to you and laid on your bed and she seduced you or you were the one that actually went to her and wooed her, brought her to your house, took her to a hotel? And i am very sure you promised her heaven and earth. You told her how you feel so in love seeing her. You made her feel you were saying the truth. You made her feel she has no reason to be scared. You made her feel she has found the right person.You invited her to your house, you slept with her and lets say its the first time of you both meeting as partners, now you say shes cheap, whereas you were the one that started the whole process, and you might not have known her mindset, maybe she might have thought that you are the good guy or right person for her and she just saw having sex with the right guy for the first time is not bad. You call her cheap cause she did that.
You should be the cheap one here. cause you slept with a girl because you don't need her for anything other than sex. And in fact, you slept with a girl you are meeting for the first time. If we should judge truthfully here, you are the devil here. Cause you made that innocent girl fall for you. You deceived her and went ahead calling her cheap. You should at least have a conscience. As long as you were the one who went for her, then she is not cheap. And as a human, you should know that nobody can easily overcome that temptation of sex. I've seen Pastors falling for sex. I've seen Imams who were very powerful but fail because of sex. their lives destroyed because of one night sex, or one hour sex. If you seduced a lady with your words and body, you made her fall for you. Sex is not easily overcome. So, men should stop saying a lady is cheap because she allows you sex her. Remember, you were the one who went after her.





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Re: Responsible Men by: Piwizo(m) .:. Wed, 24 Apr, 2019 - 09:17:17:am GMT


2. MONEY
Without emphasizing much on this. We all know that men feels ladies are cheap because they requested for money meeting them for the first time. don't judge her wrongly. What if she was not a lady but a man that requested money from you meeting him for the first time, won,t you help? She is in need that's why she felt asking you for it might help. Since you promised her the whole world. Since you promised her marriage. What is now wrong in telling you she needs it? See, as long as you are dating her, it isn't wrong when she request money from you. Some ladies don't request because they are shy, why some is because they don't know how to tell you, some don't even want you to feel they are cheap. Because see ladies who request money from them to be cheap ladies. But i am totally against this. It is poverty mindset that makes you feel so. When you have money, giving money to your Babe won't mean anything to you.

Some men might say, "she is cheap" just because when ever you give her money, she feels more happy but when you don't she feels bad. Some will even say, "she is after money" nope! she is not. You are the one actually getting it wrong. Let me ask you this... When you are in need of money for an important something, and you don't have he money, or you were not able to get it. How do you feel? am very sure, you feel really bad. At times you feel sick. Yeah, that's how a lady feels when she needs money for an important something but couldn't get it.

But, though i am not saying, all ladies are the same. But watch very well, if a lady is always asking you for money before sex, she is actually telling you, she is not interested in the relationship. She must have told you that at the beginning. But you are still pushing on her. So, she brings an ideal of just using you. So, stop saying she is cheap.



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Re: Responsible Men by: Piwizo(m) .:. Wed, 24 Apr, 2019 - 09:17:31:am GMT

3. DRESSING

The way a lady dresses at times makes her look cheap, and it makes people say "she is cheap" But i really want to shock you. Some ladies just love dressing in that way. I've seen a lady who dresses, exposing some parts of her thigh and body but was a virgin til marriage. She says "men go for ladies that are responsible, most especially in dressing and talking" In other to avoid men the more, she dresses to look cheap and the rate of men coming after her reduces, cause they feel she is cheap.
Now, imagine this type of lady. Her husband was surprised when he found out, she was still a virgin. Imagine his first question. " How did you do it?" Yeah! it worth such a question.
There is an adage that says... "The way you dress, is the way you will be address" A crazy adage i would say. But i hope people will know that the world is not facing one particular place anyone. People are inventing in different things daily. What makes Mr A might not make Mr B. It's a true fact. Don't judge people physically. Nobody has made you judge over anyone. so, Stop seeing a lady cheap just because of the way she dresses. Those who dress saint are worst. Some are green snakes under the green grass. They dress like they are virgin mary but yet they are jezebel. I have a friend that does not use to expose any part of her tender body anyhow, i mean, she dresses decent, not even wearing trouser but she is one of the baddest. She does not just like dressing awkward or cheap.


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Re: Responsible Men by: Decentpaul(m) .:. Fri, 03 May, 2019 - 06:48:40:am GMT

@ decentpaul

Nobody easily resists sexual temptations. It's so uncommon. Let's nobody renders anyone so cheap because he or she succumb to the demands of the other.


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Re: Responsible Men by: Decentpaul(m) .:. Sun, 05 May, 2019 - 05:22:20:am GMT

@decentpaul:


I believe both ladies and gentlemen are humans faced with hurdles of life. Both of them are faced with dire needs and one (especially ladies) should not see the gentlemen as being virtually free from challenges of life which indeed prompt them to overloading the gentlemen with a whole lot of their needs.Decentpaul.....

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