Love-Stories » Relationships by: HelenUde(f) .:. Sun, 27 Oct, 2019 - 05:31:53:pm GMT

Please before going into a relationship ensure you empower yourself with the tools, tips and techniques to find happiness and success in your dating life as well as in your relationship. That will help you consider and decide if your choice for a life partner is good for marriage.




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   Re: Relationships by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Mon, 04 Nov, 2019 - 09:47:14:am GMT

Good piece. Personal development is a life time responsibility of everyone, especially those who want to successfully navigate the course of their life.


As a young person, you owe yourself the duty to grow personally, career wise, your business, and generally your relationships. Whenever you genuinely embrace personal development your relationships will likely automatically improve.

This is because when we get better, we get better at understanding people and automatically get better at relating with them. It's that simple and connecting.

There is no quick fix when it comes to sound marital or other relationships. It's takes the habit of embracing personal growth.

Here are the few tips I will recommend:

1. Read. Don't just read books on relationship. The goal is to generally improve your being. Reading has a way of broadening your reasoning and communication skills which in turn help you in relating with people.

2. Network. When you mingle with people, you understand how best to relate with them, especially your clique. Different persons have different personal cultures. It really helps to get to know what works with each individual.

3. Listen more. This can be in line with the second point above. It's surprising when people assume than actually knowing what the next party has communicated. When you empathise with people it gives you better understanding of who they are.

4. Learn more social skills. Empathy is not just enough. Learn other social skills like, caring. Let people know you really care. This simple act goes a very long way in improving your relationships.

5. Work on your habits. Your ability to manage your emotions makes you stand out. We get into habits most times when we are not capable of dealing with negative emotions. Bad habits like exploitation, blackmailing can get into our way to improving our relationships.

**obysuccess**


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   Re: Relationships by: Dynameak(f) .:. Fri, 05 Jun, 2020 - 11:40:22:am GMT

Generally, relationship is one of the currency every man will spend at one point or the other because it evidently impossible to do life all by yourself. To the focus here on love relationships, this type of relationship is the only one you will own heart to heart with your partner because it'll be just the two of you being actors humanly in the relationship while God will be the sovereign being holding the both of you together. God's involvement I'm your relationship will be dependent on opening up to Him to guide your steps in it because as much as God desire to be actively present in your life, He will never force His way into your heart because He gave all men will so as to be able to decide on what they want and He equally gave ability to men to decline what they do not want.


More than it is with schooling from elementary stage to advanced levels of education, marriage is a life time commitment so it is required that those willing to establish a love relationship should have given themselves up to personal development which should be all encompassing so as to have a reasonable balance in foremost areas that a love relationship should be founded upon. These foremost areas amongst others are physical development, mental development, emotional development, financial development, spiritual development. A love relationship isn't for babies, it is for matured Monday that purposefully make a decision to do life together till their dying day.

To invest dutifully in the areas as identified above will make living more intentional and that would help in shaping your relationship with your partner into one that will be able to stand the test of time because truthfully trials will come but it will require commitment from you and your partner to approach the trial with understanding so as to have a healthy relationship.

**Life is a race but with God's element of grace it'll be worth while to explore His goodness. **


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   Re: Relationships by: Blackie(f) .:. Tue, 16 Jun, 2020 - 11:22:11:pm GMT

Relationships are beautiful especially when you are involved with the right partner. We all have our ideal guy or girl but what happens when the person you take a liking to isn't anything close to what you imagined but far more better than that, you go for it. Relationship will only work if both couples pay attention to it. They are always there for each other, always supporting each other's dream, understand their flaws and mistakes. Trust is also an essential factor. A relationship that is builton trust and commitment is one that is likely to bloom the most.

Find the right partner, someone that will love and respect you. Someone that will treat you more than just a boyfriend or a girlfriend but someone thtatt will treat you like a bestfriend.

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   Re: Relationships by: Blackie(f) .:. Tue, 16 Jun, 2020 - 11:22:13:pm GMT

Relationships are beautiful especially when you are involved with the right partner. We all have our ideal guy or girl but what happens when the person you take a liking to isn't anything close to what you imagined but far more better than that, you go for it. Relationship will only work if both couples pay attention to it. They are always there for each other, always supporting each other's dream, understand their flaws and mistakes. Trust is also an essential factor. A relationship that is builton trust and commitment is one that is likely to bloom the most.

Find the right partner, someone that will love and respect you. Someone that will treat you more than just a boyfriend or a girlfriend but someone thtatt will treat you like a bestfriend.

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   Re: Relationships by: Blackie(f) .:. Tue, 16 Jun, 2020 - 11:22:15:pm GMT

Relationships are beautiful especially when you are involved with the right partner. We all have our ideal guy or girl but what happens when the person you take a liking to isn't anything close to what you imagined but far more better than that, you go for it. Relationship will only work if both couples pay attention to it. They are always there for each other, always supporting each other's dream, understand their flaws and mistakes. Trust is also an essential factor. A relationship that is builton trust and commitment is one that is likely to bloom the most.

Find the right partner, someone that will love and respect you. Someone that will treat you more than just a boyfriend or a girlfriend but someone thtatt will treat you like a bestfriend.

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   Re: Relationships by: Yetunde(f) .:. Wed, 17 Jun, 2020 - 06:06:37:pm GMT


@Blackie:having a relationship is not just based on getting the right partner ...is also based on discovering yourself ...knowing who you are as a person,knowing what you are capable of doing .dating the right person without discovering yourself is just like when you like someone and you don't know if the person will like you too because you haven't discovered yourself ,discovering yourself in the aspect of knowing what you are capable of doing whenever something happen ,for example you know you are someone that get angry easily and you intend falling in love with someone that also get angry easily ,doing that the relationship can't work...As a girl or a guy put God first and discover yourself with that you can overcome any shortcomings the relationship will bring
**God's child**


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   Re: Relationships by: Ayomide(f) .:. Thu, 18 Jun, 2020 - 07:59:24:am GMT

Tips for building a healthy relationship

All romantic relationships go through ups and downs and they all take work,commitment,and a willingness to adapt and change with your partner. But whether your relationship is just starting out or you've been together for years,there are steps you can take to build a healthy relationship. Even if you've experienced a lot of failed relationships in the past or struggled before to rekindle the fires of romance in your current relationship, you can learn to stay connected, find a fulfilment, and enjoy lasting happiness.
What makes a healthy relationship?
Every relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. Part of what defines a healthy relationship is sharing a common goal for exactly what you want the relationship to be and where you want it to go. And that's something you'll only know by talking deeply and honestly with your partner.
However, there are also some characteristics that most healthy relationships have in common. Knowing these basic principles can help a keep your relationship meaningful, fulfilling and exciting whatever goals you're working towards or challenges you're facing together.

**Precious**


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   Re: Relationships by: Dynameak(f) .:. Fri, 10 Jul, 2020 - 01:45:59:pm GMT

Nice one!

Personal development is very important before making marital choice so as to not get confused on how to run your relationship when it eventually starts. Firstly, both genders should understand themselves respectively before thinking of a love relationship that will be leaving to marriage because without understanding of oneself it will be very difficult.

In personal development you will get to understand your likes, dislikes, things that trigger excitement and otherwise. With these knowledge you will be able to channel appropriately to do the things that will make you a better person and worthy to be related with because no one wants to associate with a mediocre.

Also, you should know what you want in a love relationship (expectations). A love relationship that will be leading to marriage should be one with two mature minds because marital expectations shouldn't be based on irrelevant things, those expectations should be supportive through the times in the union.

Knowing what you want in a relationship will help you not yo waste time when you are observing a person for a love relationship. No sensible persons gets into a love relationship without observing an intending partner from a distance then take it a step further by relating closely so as to get better knowledge about the person. It is therefore expedient to observe and ensure that your observations are aligned with your expectations.

**Life is a race but with God's element of grace it'll be worth while to explore His goodness. **


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