Romance » RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Mon, 29 Apr, 2019 - 05:05:20:pm GMT
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Fellybabe(m) .:. Tue, 18 Jun, 2019 - 01:21:53:pm GMT
A woman said, her husband no more cares and love her like before. He stopped having sex with her, at time she had sex once in a week and he won't show interest in the sex.
Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Lana(m) .:. Thu, 30 Jul, 2020 - 01:51:54:am GMT
Resolving marital issues is very important in every marriage. In most divorce cases, you’ll see that the reasons they give is irreconcilable difference. The catalyst for the divorce may have been little issues that could have been resolved but they let it grow into something so big, thereby causing divorce. I heard of a couple who got divorced because of toothcare. The husband used to press the tube of toothpaste from the bottom and the wife presses it from the middle. That was the cause of the divorce. This happened the week they got married. Marital issues should be resolves as quickly as possible. Couples must make a conscious effort to nip every issue in the bud. Communication is very important in solving those issues too. The couples must be able to communicate effectively to one another in case of a disagreement. There shouldn’t be a screaming match or slamming of doors t prove a point. Instead, if your partner feels offended, the or she should be able to tell their spouse who should be ready to listen and make adjustments. Do not downplay or disregard how your partner feels or how your actions affect them. Also never allow a third party in your marriage. Marriage is between two peoples and when there is a conflict, they should be able to resolve it between themselves without involving the external party. However, a marriage counsellor can also be visited in extreme cases. The couples need to also be mature about how they handle conflicts. Marriage is not for children and it is impossible for the couples not to quarrel. Be ready to apologize. Let go of your ego and say I’m sorry, even if you are right or wrong. This shows that you are willing to do all it takes to make the marriage work.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Lana(m) .:. Thu, 30 Jul, 2020 - 01:52:30:am GMT
My parents may disagree from tome to time but they never let it go to the extreme. Marital issues would also affect the children. We used to have this family in our compound. Whenever there was a fight, they would be screaming at each other and you could hear the children crying, begging their parents to stop. At the end, they ended up getting divorced because the fights were too much. Forgiveness is also very important. You must be ready to forgive your spouse at all time. Be quick to ask forgiveness and also be quick to grant it. Do not hold grudges against your spouse. It is very dangerous. Don’t get too familiar with your partner and expect that they would tolerate anything you do. It also not okay to behave badly and not apologize. Get rid of too much familiarity with your partner.
Try and understand each other better. Be a very understanding and considerate spouse. Do not avoid conflict. Confront each issue as soon as the arise. The confrontation should be gentle, sublet and loving. It should not be accusatory. Also take responsibility for your actions, during conflict, it is not a time to be trading blames with your partner. Counselling is also very important. Most couples shy away from counselling because they feel it spells doom for the marriage or they are worried about what people would say when they find out that they are going for counselling. Seeing an expert in marriage counselling helps you the couples to put their views aside ad e seeks professional help. Some conflicts can be resolved on their own. It may need external help for experts. Marriage counselling doesn’t automatically fix the crack in the marriage of fix issues, but if the couples are willing to work together, it would do a lot of good. Do not let little issues spoil something good.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Abbey(m) .:. Thu, 30 Jul, 2020 - 09:19:26:am GMT
Resolving marital issue .
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Nagiano(m) .:. Thu, 30 Jul, 2020 - 10:23:37:am GMT
Resolving marital issue is something that requires you first identifying the issue before you now think of resolving it. Issues that tend to last for a longer time in many marriages these days, do so as a result of the breakdown in communication between the two spouse.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Thu, 30 Jul, 2020 - 11:54:29:am GMT
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Doyin(m) .:. Thu, 30 Jul, 2020 - 05:10:44:pm GMT
I was under a ministration a certain time and the man of God was teaching dispute in marriage, very similar to this topic, he said " I have been a marriage counselor for years and I can only tell you that unforgivenees is the reason why most marriages don't work and then end up in divorce" I didn't see much meaning to it until I began to think deeply, and then I added change of attitude by the default, and I was much pleased with that
It takes two to tangle, it therefore takes two people who were upset with one another to genuinely forgive them selves, and be willing to put on the right attitude necessary for their marriage to work.
For example in every marital dispute or disagreement the reason are always faults, he is always doing this she is always doing that, it is just like having a wife who deliberately downgrades her husband in front of family and friends or a husband who beats his wife. These things affects both gender seriously. But if we can put on the right attitude regardless of the past and forgive the matters and issues of the past, holding on to God the author of marriage himself, I believe that we can resolve every marital issues
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Tue, 04 Aug, 2020 - 06:30:40:am GMT
My prayers to troubled marriages
May God heal such marriages
May God capture d devil nd its device cos d devil attacks homes nd marriages cos parents will b too busy bothering bou heart aches most time neglecting kids nd raising so many different truamatised kids
May the lord grant strength to so many marriages
May the lord God almighty put honey nd salt in d marriages of many people
God is greater than everything
God will b the pillar of every marriages
God grant peace nd restore unbreakable bonds nd unconditional love into many marriages
God will bless every single soul d devil has captured in marriges
Does who weep in marriages the lord will wipe their tears
Nothing can make any thing destroy a marriage ordained by God
In jesus name i have prayed
AMEN
**I am LoyhaL!**
Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Tue, 04 Aug, 2020 - 06:31:48:am GMT
Meanwhile, While we are waiting for responses from the 'elders' based on your question, I would say dealing with anger first starts with you. You must first resolve you dont want to be that way anymore. Then there are ways to manage it depending on what works on your spouse. Be mindful that either the devil or your spouse may want to test that resolve so you need to be committed to it. I used to be short tempered before but thankfully with the encouragement of my spouse i found ways to manage it.
First, whenever my husband made me so angry, i would quietly go and vent by writing down how i felt. I noticed when i did that the feeling disappeared...no words were spoken, no confrontation. Then i was able to address that issue with a better approach. So you need to find what works for u so u dont do/say what u'll regret.
**I am LoyhaL!**
Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Flat(m) .:. Wed, 05 Aug, 2020 - 02:24:46:pm GMT
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Tokadex(m) .:. Mon, 10 Aug, 2020 - 09:33:49:pm GMT
In marriage, misunderstanding or confict is inevitable. Conflicts/misunderstanding is not actually the problem but the manner of resolving such is a matter. Understand this, the way you present a case of conflict must be highly put into consideration. This is the area most couples get it wrong.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Tokadex(m) .:. Mon, 10 Aug, 2020 - 09:34:11:pm GMT
In marriage, misunderstanding or confict is inevitable. Conflicts/misunderstanding is not actually the problem but the manner of resolving such is a matter. Understand this, the way you present a case of conflict must be highly put into consideration. This is the area most couples get it wrong.
**Be good to all**
Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: ObakaEmmanuel(m) .:. Wed, 19 Aug, 2020 - 06:35:06:am GMT
Many good marriages slip into crisis because we don’t or won’t believe how much work it takes to keep relationships healthy and thriving. It’s just like when you stop investing in the house you are living in. It will easily fall into disrepair. Think back to when you first started to pursue your wife. It required commitment, hard work, and imagination. If winning her required that back then, why does it surprise us when neglect creates marriage problems after we walk down the aisle? She wouldn’t have married you if you took her for granted. Why risk everything now?There are many good strategies if you want to restore your marriage.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Victoria(f) .:. Sun, 20 Sep, 2020 - 11:14:31:pm GMT
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Mattins_iv(m) .:. Wed, 23 Sep, 2020 - 05:51:20:pm GMT
Marrital issues mostly end in domestic violence
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Abbie@21(f) .:. Wed, 23 Sep, 2020 - 07:44:05:pm GMT
Resolving marital issues is not something new, couples fight everytime , they misunderstand each other and when these things occur most of them talk to their families about it and it leads to even bigger problems most of the time and unreaolbed issues between them both.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Flat(m) .:. Sun, 06 Dec, 2020 - 08:43:02:pm GMT
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Holashayo(f) .:. Sat, 19 Dec, 2020 - 03:02:48:pm GMT
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Abbey(m) .:. Thu, 11 Aug, 2022 - 07:16:05:am GMT
Issue will happen in a marriage no matter how careful you are it will occurre and when it happen it must be rectify with love and each one should forgive and forget what has happen in the past.
The word sorry has a long way to go in a marriage because saying sorry sometimes can change things for good , if it was the wife that did wrong apologize to your husband and if it was the husbands that did wrong apologize to your wife ,never give room for sadness in your home.
Don't take divorce as an option in your marriage if you eventually get divorce think about your children who will look after them.
**Abbey **
Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Iyanu(f) .:. Tue, 27 Sep, 2022 - 05:46:05:am GMT
There is no how two people will be together and you won't see each other mistakes that is not possible conflict will come .
What is that which cause to problems , what is that which brings issue always, what is that which brings no as understanding .
If you can point out those things which cause issues then you have the ideal of bringing things back to position .
Not until your family members come to settle things for you befor you resolve your issue husband and wife will have issued you should settle it peacefully without another person interfere in it.
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: Obajichi(f) .:. Sun, 02 Oct, 2022 - 07:30:04:pm GMT
One of the ways to resolve family issues is by getting rid of spouse envy.
Some men are always jealous of their wives career achievements.
This makes her feel the man is not interested in her progress.
Things like this cause marital issues.
If she comes home late from work, he becomes suspicious of her.
If she buys new things for herself and the children or the family, he begins to feel inferior.
Resolving marital issues is by understanding and that requires maturity..
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Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: PrinceBenjamin(m) .:. Tue, 04 Oct, 2022 - 09:48:12:am GMT
For actually the best way to avoid marital issues is at the first dating of the two individuals because love is not blind, your the one that refused to notice the other person's character at the beginning of your relationship. One thing we need to do is at the beginning of any relationship the two parties must recognise each other characters very well, eg what he or she likes, hates were he or she loves to go, the kind of friends he or she associates with because there's a saying that states; show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. I hope this is helpful.
**Prince Benjamin**
Re: RESOLVING MARITAL ISSUES by: SamuelKingsley93(m) .:. Tue, 04 Oct, 2022 - 10:39:24:pm GMT
Marital issues are easy to resolve especially if it is from that family. Before you marry your wife or husband, you must have known her likes and dislike, his likes and dislikes. How she will be reacting if you do something that will offend her and likewise the husband. And if its stress from work, the affected partner can easily notice it.
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