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Culture » Prostitution by: Piwizo(m) .:. Fri, 19 Apr, 2019 - 04:30:13:pm GMT
Two nights ago I branched the popular maitama at ewet housing estate to relax. I ordered for roasted fish and a bottle of 33 beer(my favorite) As I wanted enjoying myself, someone tapped my shoulder. I turned and beheld this dazzling queen clad in sexy skimpy attire that can make any man go crazy. At first, I thought she knew me from somewhere, so I Smiled and greeted her: 'how are you pretty? ' she smiled, pulled a chair and asked, 'can I join you handsome? ' I nodded, then asked of what she cared for, as she wanted to make her order, one man signalled for her, she excused me to meet the man. next thing I heard was,:, the man: ashawo! prostitute! you think I can pay you that amount, fuck you. the girl replied, 'stupid man, useless man, ashawo man, go and look for your type. So some men no get shame at all. you approached a girl for sex, she doesn't agree on your terms, you start abusing and name calling her, that's a sign of irresponsibility. Ashawo is someone that buy or sale sex. You as a man that patronises sex is also the same as the one that selling it to you. A pot calling a kettle black. Birds of a feather flocks together. A prostitute is someone that don't keep to one man or one woman. Prostitution means engaging in sexual activity with someone for pay. A person who engages in sexual activity with more than one person is a prostitute, which means a prostitute is not just someone that stands on the road to look for customers, but any man or woman who has sex with more than one person. So it's wrong to call another person 'a prostitute ', because we are all prostitutes. I am a prostitute, so are you. Prostitution is only the trade, which means anybody who exchanges sex for money is doing prostitution and anybody who exchanges money, jobs, marks in schools, favors etc for sex, is also doing prostitution. Life had taught me never to condemn anyone. Never to judge! when the girl came back, I had to apologize on-behalf of the man, because such men are disgrace to manhood. I later asked her what pushed her into the kind of life that makes people insult her like that. what she told me, made me almost shed tears. Before you crucify that man, have you asked for his own side of the story? some of we men are the reason most of these ladies do what they are doing. you demand for sex before you can assist or employ her, you are the genesis of prostitution. You don't even care if that girl is married or not, all you care is "sex" before you can help her. Before we try removing that dirt in someone's eye, have you removed yours?

**positive**

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Re: Prostitution by: Abbey(m) .:. Tue, 30 Jun, 2020 - 10:13:31:pm GMT

Prostitution. Some people take Prostitution as their daily job and a means of living. Prostitution is not  a  good thing  to  Involve in sleeping all around with  different  men is not a good idea at all. Prostitution is a  bad habit although  some take it as a  source of income because  they get money from it but it a waste of time, wast of life , and energy. Prostitution is part of those things that God forbid but yet people still engaged in to it. In this kind of work  some people  lost their lives as a result of one disease or the other. Someone can  contact an infection from Prostitution such as  HIV, AIDS, and so on. 
**Abiodun**


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Re: Prostitution by: Blackie(f) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 10:39:37:am GMT

 Prostitution isn't good. Some people go into prostitution because of past experiences or something but it's still not worth it. People call women who sleep with different men for money sake but will fail to remember that a man is also equally a prostitute because he pays the woman to have sex. A man who also pay a woman for the sake of sex is also a prostitute.

      Prostitution is a job of risk. You meet people who involve you in illegal business which might get you in trouble with the law. You might also meet people who are simply looking for young girls to use for their own Fortune (ritual purposes) this might render the girl useless or worse dead. There's also the risk of contacting sexually transmitted infections or diseases like HIV( human immune virus) / Aids( Acquired immune deficiency Syndrome) this viruses are killers. They don't have a cure and people die from them. No one should ever involve themselves in prostitution. It is illegal, dangerous and a sin.

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Re: Prostitution by: Glamour(f) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 10:56:54:am GMT

This touched me, I am not an outing kind of person but one day a friend of mine (a guy) said he wants to show me a place and I followed him until we got to ashawo house. If you see the nasty words they were using to call guys over, even me beside my friend didn't change their minds. I felt bad for them and grateful to God for my life. I didn't judge because I Know all this are ways they can make money most of them were student of other universities but when I asked my friend the price for their work maximum was 1000 naira. To be sincere if I have a friend that is doing it I would get pissed at her. Especially for that amount, then for men who patronize or give conditions God is watching them. Some of these girls started maybe due to one financial break down and got addicted in the process while some girls have always wanted to have sex for money. But the most important thing is make sure you the viewer of all this don't judge them. Some girls have seen life in  3D version. Our only prayer is that we will not witness that kind of life. 
**God's favorite**


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Re: Prostitution by: Toxyron(f) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 11:19:18:am GMT


@abbey:No matter any situation you find your self in prostitution is still not an option...I get there are problems that make people do things they don't want to do, Prostitution still isn't right, Selling your body in exchange of Money common you are more than that.

    I agree with what the writer said,you have sex with someone and you collect money,the person that had sex with you to,you are all prostitutes.Prostitution doesn't only involve women men are also involved in it I call them Brostititute lol.
     I want you to know there are people facing more than what you are facing and they are still hanging around, doing little jobs they can lay their hands on,They didn't die I repeat they didn't die so why involve yourself in Prostitution.
  To  some men that for every little thing you ask for sex in exchange,To offer her a Job you ask for sex,To Render her help you ask for sex, what's the world turning to...You are also part of the problem.You feel everything his sex.
  The risk and dangers in prostitution is to high,For example ritualist, Falling into the Hand of Kidnappers,Sex traffickers,Hiv and STD's... Using to much Contraceptive pills , Abortion.....I have even seen a story on one removing her womb all this aren't worth it.Live your life the way God wants


**Sharon**


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Re: Prostitution by: Toxyron(f) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 11:19:19:am GMT


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Re: Prostitution by: Toxyron(f) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 11:19:19:am GMT


@abbey:No matter any situation you find your self in prostitution is still not an option...I get there are problems that make people do things they don't want to do, Prostitution still isn't right, Selling your body in exchange of Money common you are more than that.

    I agree with what the writer said,you have sex with someone and you collect money,the person that had sex with you to,you are all prostitutes.Prostitution doesn't only involve women men are also involved in it I call them Brostititute lol.
     I want you to know there are people facing more than what you are facing and they are still hanging around, doing little jobs they can lay their hands on,They didn't die I repeat they didn't die so why involve yourself in Prostitution.
  To  some men that for every little thing you ask for sex in exchange,To offer her a Job you ask for sex,To Render her help you ask for sex, what's the world turning to...You are also part of the problem.You feel everything his sex.
  The risk and dangers in prostitution is to high,For example ritualist, Falling into the Hand of Kidnappers,Sex traffickers,Hiv and STD's... Using to much Contraceptive pills , Abortion.....I have even seen a story on one removing her womb all this aren't worth it.Live your life the way God wants


**Sharon**


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Re: Prostitution by: Phaithh(f) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 12:26:40:pm GMT

Well, there is no excuse for prostitution except in some cases. As you rightly defined: prostitution is engaging in a sexual activity with another person in exchange for compensation (money, food items, jobs). For me, I believe those who go into prostitution are either lazy or morally derailed. You can't tell me that because you wanted a job badly, so have to stoop so low and exchange sex for it.

I know we live in a perverse world, where people are not ready to help without gaining anything in return. But you have to stand for your right and trust GOD. I know of a sister, who was being perturbed by her boss for sex, else he would fire her. She went to GOD, stood her ground and politely declined her boss' proposal. As expected he was wroth, but GOD took control and everything was settled. 

What I'm I trying to say? we need GOD. No matter any situation we find ourselves in, going into prostitution won't help, it will only tarnish one's image.

Although, there are people who were being forced into it. I know of a lady who right from when she was a little girl was sold into sex slavery, and one whose Dad subjected her to rape and she eventually contracted the "sex rush" disease. This kind of people are not happy engaging in such an act and so they look for means to set themselves free. Unlike most prostitutes who see it as a profession and find joy in it.

Growing up for me wasn't easy, I had to face a lot of challenges (still facing it though). There was of course, this option of going into prostitution, but I didn't, not because I have it all but because I know who I am. It might be school fees, hostel fees, employments, whatever it, don't stoop so low. Prostitution can never be an option. Trust GOD.  


**GOD is Love**


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Re: Prostitution by: Davzee(m) .:. Fri, 10 Jul, 2020 - 10:38:53:am GMT

Prostitution is the practice of a occupation of engaging in sexual activities with someone for payment. It is also the practice of engaging in relatively indiscriminate sexual activities with someone who is not your partner or lover, in exchange for immediate payments in money or in other valuables.


Causes of prostitution
Except from the sexual drive, the main reason for prostitution in all groups is money. Sure we have to pay for housing, food, day care for their children, some will pay for their drug abuse and other material things.

Types of prostitution we have.
1. Street
2. Escort
3. Private
4. Window or doorway 
5. Brothel

Risks of prostitution are
1. Domestic violence
2. Physical assault
3. Substance abuse (drug abuse)
4. Eating disorder 
5. Suicide attempt
6. Successful suicide attempts
7. Psychological sequelae of of this traumatic stressors: post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
8. Depression.

Prostitution calls in a variety of forms and it's legal status varies from country to countries (sometimes from region to region within a given country).

Thank you.

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Re: Prostitution by: Princessprecious(m) .:. Fri, 10 Jul, 2020 - 10:59:03:am GMT

Im moved by this..... Prostitution..... Both male and female getting themselves involved in this kind of act, they are both called PROSTITUTES.... Ladies, we should know our worth..... Money cannot be used in exchange of our body, we have our pride in us. Then I would also add contentment 


Ladies, when you are contented with the little you have,then men wouldn't be coming around, enticing us with money. Money is nothing... The funniest thing is that no matter the amount you get in prostitution you wouldn't use it to build a mansion. You only get latest wears and all. Latest phones... But that isn't the end of life.... Lets know our worth.... 

Thanks 

**Precious**


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Re: Prostitution by: Abbey(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 05:19:13:am GMT

Prostitution. 

This is a  very  important  issue , I wonder why some  ladies  lay down  their  bodies  just  to get money. Now  let think  of it this  way, some  of these ladies  who engaged  in  Prostitution  are okay  they are  beautiful  they are  good looking  they are  mentally  all rights. 
Why did they  choose  to be  a  prostitute, is it  because of lack of  emoyment, is it frustration,  giving  your  body to any man anyhow, at any time, this act  of  doing is a bad idea. 
Prostitution involved  both men and women, you may ask  me  why, those  men  who  went  to  the  prostitute in order to  have sex are  also  prostitute. 
That is  why I said  I involved both male and female. Given  out your  body  in exchange  for  money  even  God  says our body  is  the temple  of  God, you might  loss away  your  glory  during  the  act of sleeping with different men all around. So to any one  in this  act please put an end  to  it.. Thanks 

**Abiodun**


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Re: Prostitution by: Ipfy(m) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 12:51:22:pm GMT

Prostitution,the practice of engaging in relatively indiscriminate sexual activity, in general with someone who is not a spouse or a friend, in exchange for immediate payment in money or other valuables. Prostitutes may be female or male or transgender, and prostitution may entail heterosexual or homosexual activity, but historically most prostitues have been women and most clients are men. Perceptions of prostitution are based on culturally determined values that differs between societies. In some societies, prostitues have been viewed as members or recognized profession, in others they have been shunned, reviled, and punished with stoning, imprisonment, and death. Few societies have exercised the same severity toward clients,indeed, in many societies, clients suffer few in any legal repercussions. In the late 19th century a variety of changes in Western societies revived efforts to suppress prostitution with the rise of feminism, many came to regard male libertinism as a threat to women's States and physical health.
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Re: Prostitution by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 01:17:25:pm GMT

i am trying to get the moral of this article but i still cannot find anything. let's call a spade a spade, prostitution is very bad and it is not ideal for anybody that want people to address them properly. You will lose your dignity and self-respect once people know they can sleep with you for a price. The girl is a commercial sex hawker and should be used to such treatment. If she was not a sex hawker, she would have given the man a dirty slap for telling her such rubbish.

Though the man is also wrong for calling the girl names, but it also show that he is not responsible that is the reason he has the boldness to confront the lady in public drawing attention to himself.

Ladies must learn to respect themselves irrespective of their circu,stances or situation. Poverty is never a cause of prostitution, the real cause of prostitution is greed. I'm sure she has been in the business for a while, if it was because of poverty, she would have stopped and begin a small scale business. If all the poor people decides to use their situation as an excuse to engage in anti-social activities, then, we all will not be safe.

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Re: Prostitution by: Fashnet(m) .:. Tue, 22 Sep, 2020 - 04:47:46:pm GMT


  Women generally are seen as prostitutes by some men. They believe that all woman are just the same no matter what the woman or lady might try to claim or whoever she might say she is or wherever she might be from.

 Though I still wonder till date how women boldly gathers and calls themselves prostitutes or whores without been ashame of themselves. You would see you g and promising ladies without pimples or wrinkles queuing up in the public almost totally naked, looking for men to sleep with and in the course make money.

 My question is how long do they want to be doing this type of business or portraying this. Some are even old with children and they still do this prostitution and even with the fact that they are now mothers. When I see things like this, I really feel sorry.

 It is with all these and many others that made some men to conclude that all women are the same everywhere you go. Some men just need to go through proper orientation and proper counseling and guidance for them to be corrected and to realize that all women are not the same.

 Conclusively we all need to have change of mind. If we all have change of mind and we are all God fearing them the case of prostitution would gradually deteriorate and keep on wiping out bit by bit till the case of prostitution becomes a thing of the past and everyone become faithful in relationship to one another.

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Re: Prostitution by: Holashayo(f) .:. Mon, 05 Oct, 2020 - 09:26:20:am GMT

Prostitution!!
Of course, one does not engage in that without a reason.
Those prostitute you see outside there are not happy with what they are doing, but because they don't have choice that is why they involve themselves in such act.
Men are the first being to practice prostitution because of Thier constantly demand for sex from ladies. So ladies, knowing that as the only thing that can move men and make them spend their money, toke it up as Thier job to satisfy men and collect their money.
Some men aren't making life easy some women, they maltreat them, threatens, abuse them sexually, forcing them to have sex against their will, all because they need to satisfy their sexual desires.
While some women engage in this act because of Thier problems, so also some women are doing it for pleasure.
It is not something that is too shocking, just that it happens in one way or the other.


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Re: Prostitution by: Obajichi(f) .:. Tue, 06 Oct, 2020 - 07:23:59:pm GMT

     Prostitution is a two way thing because the one who patronizes & the one who commercializes sex are both in the game.

As they say, it takes two to tango.

     If you know anyone who is into prostitution or you can prevent one from it , then do so with all kindness of your heart.
You never know what magnitude of havoc you are helping to prevent.

**I love being me.**


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Re: Prostitution by: Abbie@21(f) .:. Tue, 06 Oct, 2020 - 10:15:18:pm GMT

  The simple truth is that no one practicing prostitution feels happy doing that, believe it or not, nothing makes one happy from being treated and used as a slave.

 
    What is prostitution?, Prostitution is an act or a practise that one gets involved in with one major goal, money for sec or sex for money. Prostitutes are not just females  , males can also do the job as well. The main reason why prostitution is practiced is to render services to your client  makin sure they get satisfied from your service rendered and getting paid in return.

 The poor are the sufferers when it comes to this deadly a t called prostitution, this people don't get treated well and they end up begging in streets for meals and comfort, for fear of that and to prevent such a thing from happening, many of them gets involved in such disgusting act, you see most of 5hose young teenage girls going for porn video shoot, and you begin to wonder , are these young girls not ashamed of showing their faces, getting fucked or showing the nude and private body parts of themselves to as much viewers that will be willing to pay just a small token just to watch them?, If you have ever taught that way, the truth is these girls are, but they have no choice, they have no one to stand up for them, they have no place to call home, most of them were homelesss   before   they  got picked up , and unless they so what they must and what they feel they are only good at, their debts may never get paid and they may never gain their freedom and most of them want to comply because they don't want to get killed by their boss.

 These people go through pains, they get infected sexually and some of the infection could be incurable like HIV,  the worst part of it is if they don't get treated well, they will have to live with the disease till it slowly kills them from inside out. 

 Prostitution is never enjoyed leave it or take it, no one ever enjoys going into prostitution, so now the question should be how can it be stopped? We can stop it in two ways but with one source which is the government. Yes the government can help as much less privilege people as possible by getting them engaged in things they would love to do and of course no man is useless, we all have one special thing in us that we are very good at doing that God placed in us, and secondly banning prostitution from each country in the seven  continents, prostitution is not lawful, it is immoral and God's word kicks against such.  

**Christ's**


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Re: Prostitution by: Bigsam94real(m) .:. Tue, 22 Dec, 2020 - 07:53:02:am GMT

Prostitute is a person who performs sexual activity for payment, especially a woman. This as led many ladies to their untimely death, because through this act some politicians, even wealthy ones in the society that deals with ritual money uses that as advantage of where they can see whom to use for sacrifice. Some prostitute has contacted incurable diseases like,
HIV
AIDS
DIARRHEA etc
That lead them to serious sickness which make them to spend all what they have and the sickness will not leave them. And some prostitute has used the work for great things like, seeing whom to marry, gotten house and cars with good children and better home. Some prostitute were declared womb spoilt because of many abortion been done through the process, while some loses whom they should marry. A woman was to b e introduced to her husband parent and after gotten there she only met the father of her husband and they both discovered that the father as been her sugar daddy for long and both of them don't say anything pertaining to that, and after that the mother came in some hours later, the mother and the lady looked at themselves sadly and the mother shouted the marriage will never be approved. After asking her what happened, the mother told the family that the girl as always be coming to their hospital for abortions and if she to count all it will be more than eighteen times she as been seeing her coming their for the abortion. The girl left the work years ago but what as happened as happened, the woman insisted she can't marry her son. This made what they have been planning for years scattered just in a day and the girl regretted her action of what she as done for past. Prostitute is not something good, some ladies are looking for quick money and they go for that so to have it whereas there are some work they can do without doing that sort of work. Been a prostitute can make someone not to have integrity in anything one does because is not a work one can be bold of. 

CAUSES
poverty
greed
love of money
covetousness  etc. 


**Bigsam**


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Re: Prostitution by: Obajichi(f) .:. Tue, 14 Feb, 2023 - 06:16:31:pm GMT

Anyone who asks for sex in place if favour has wittingly promoted prostitution.

This is because the lady or guy you are putting under pressure may not have the boldness to turndown your request since you may be his / her last hope of getting that help .
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Re: Prostitution by: SamuelKingsley93(m) .:. Thu, 23 Feb, 2023 - 09:19:19:pm GMT

Well, In my own perspective, prostitution is like a business. Most prostitutes makes more money than most persons in just a day. Imagine sleeping with 5 men and they pay you 50k each that's 250k for just one day. I'm in no way supporting prostitution. But I believe in simple belief system "Minding your business" as long as it does not hurt or affect anybody.
Before you judge a prostitute, you first wonder why he or she choose to live that kind of lifestyle and how you can help them. Most of them are forced into those act while some had no choice but to join. Is just like fraud or what you popular know as yahoo yahoo. Have you tried asking them why they chose to defraud person for a living.

**Samuel Kingsley**


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