Family/Parenting » Parenting should be done by a plan by: Adedoyin2727(m) .:. Sun, 20 Sep, 2020 - 10:41:02:pm GMT
**Everything one does in life is choice **
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Holashayo(f) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 08:48:19:am GMT
**Damiswag**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Temmylove(f) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 12:39:30:pm GMT
**God's will be done**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Obajichi(f) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 01:44:11:pm GMT
Even if there is a plan for parenting, it may not always be the case that one size fits all.
**I love being me.**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Adegboyelove(m) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 02:11:27:pm GMT
Parenting is a very huge tasks, but most people do not view it as that because they tend to think that every child can be raised in the same manner and they tend to compare one child with another which is not supposed to be because every child has it own supposed interest in a particular thing.
**Loveth**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: WisdomUche(m) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 02:37:36:pm GMT
Although Parenting is not an easy task,members of the household excluding the child's parents can also play a pivotal role in the upbringing of the child.Examples of these ones are the Child's older siblings and neighbors.
**Wisdom Uche **
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: DamilolaOluwadahun(m) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 02:51:50:pm GMT
You are very correct. Parents often make the mistake of comparing their children with each other. They expect that if child A is doing something right, child B should follow suit.
**All things work together for good to them that love God**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Sardyne(f) .:. Tue, 22 Sep, 2020 - 04:20:07:pm GMT
Parenting is not a day's job. It takes a lot to be a successful parent you know. Being able to understand your children with their uniqueness is quite a lot. That's why I don't want to become a parent to more than 2 or 3 children, if God wills. I want to be able to give proper accountability of how I raised them.
**-The beloved of God**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Abbey(m) .:. Tue, 22 Sep, 2020 - 04:49:27:pm GMT
**Abbey **
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Abbey(m) .:. Sat, 03 Oct, 2020 - 01:14:08:pm GMT
If you don't plan for your parenting you and your children will encounter some difficulty anyways it is advisable to have a good plan ahead of your parenting life this matter goes to the husband and wife. Firstly both the husband and wife have to sit and discuss on how many children are they willing to bear note people usually say it's God that gives children but it was been done by you, so that is why it is advisable to go for family planning.
**Abbey **
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Mon, 19 Oct, 2020 - 09:10:56:am GMT
Parenting is not so easy it calls for a lot of work and actions. Parenting should be done by a plan because what you don't plan for can easily fail. And the planning starts the day you say Yes I Do to the person. I mean the day he proposed to you and you accepted the proposal.
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Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Flochords(f) .:. Mon, 19 Oct, 2020 - 02:42:25:pm GMT
Since children differs, parenting styles should differ too from one child to the other. Just like we have different temperaments, so different children will also have different temperaments and should be parented differently in order for us to have a successful parenting excersise on the children. The way a calm child will behave is different from how a non-calm child will behave, and that is where understanding will come in, understanding each child and dealing with them according to knowledge and then yöu will be able to flow with them according to their type of person and not comparing them with one another because you know they are different from the very beginning and they tend to be happy towards one another despite their individual differences.
**christ's own**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Flat(m) .:. Fri, 30 Oct, 2020 - 01:26:57:pm GMT
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Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Wed, 30 Mar, 2022 - 09:40:08:pm GMT
Life is all about planning and a life without a plan, is a life that can crumble anytime. As humans, everything in our life needs a well-articulated plan to run with.
Every step in our life has been guided by plans. We are where we are today as a result of the plans we made some years back. Planning doesn't require much effort, all it requires is understanding.
Dating, courting, and marriage will only work well if there's a proper plan ahead. Parenting is not a day job - parenting is an act that needs proper planning which entails a full understanding of what it means to be a parent.
Children are the heritage of God but they will only remain so when will train them in the ways of the Lord. Many parents have failed today because they lack what it takes to be a parent - wisdom, knowledge, and understanding are the things required for parenting.
Parenting plans are what should have been done before marriage - that makes you know what you are getting into. Don't be deceived, what you don't plan for will cause some problems you are not ready for. To avoid such problems all you need to do is to have plans and work towards them so as to achieve a goal.
**Always put God first **
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Olatoke(m) .:. Tue, 07 Jun, 2022 - 06:15:59:am GMT
That via in the olden days when couple usually have many children these days if you try such and you don't have money you will blam yourself , parenting must go along with plan you plan your self how many children should I give birth to if you notice that your capacity is only two please just give birth to that two and stop .
As things is going don't give birth to children whom you will not be able to Cather for at the end don't do more than your level and every one has his or her own level .
Give birth to children you you can take good care of , who you can control with the little you have .
This should be husband and wife plans because both of you have to decide on what to do may god help us .
**Olatoke **
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Wonders(f) .:. Wed, 08 Jun, 2022 - 06:16:25:pm GMT
I will like to point out something as regards this topic but it a little bit out the the content of the topic.
Another plan potential parent needs to make before proceeding to getting pregnant is Finances! Last week I was chatting with someone and he asked if I will give birth for him of which I reply that it depends on his finances.
My friend went ahead to say that no doubt ladies are always after money, but guys am I wrong to have said that?
I gave him an example of a child who fetches water everyday while his neighbor who's his age chill at home every day because they have borne hole and running water in the house, I asked which is better.
This guy said fetching water isn't suffering and that being poor is mindset and money isn't so important, can you imagine?
Guys, judge this, even as old as we are, which one are we going to prefer? Having to go through the stress of fetching water everyday or having running in the house and which will you prefer for your child?
**Wonders**
Re: Parenting should be done by a plan by: Obajichi(f) .:. Sun, 28 Aug, 2022 - 07:03:59:pm GMT
I consider it a sin to give birth to children you cannot cater for.
Finance is a major part of parenting.
My children should live a far better and more glorious life than I did.
Upbringing is another plan: I must be prepared to train my children well, so I don't waste my time acquiring all the wealth and material possessions for them . I must be a positive role model for my children since me and my husband will be their first teachers.
Balanced Spiritual Life; I know the spiritual values my mum inculcated into me. How these values are still helping me today.
I want to pass down even more of such for my children.
Having a family is good but it is more beautiful when it's planned.
God does not like it when we don't have our plans even if we believe His are the best.
**I love being me.**