This life is so simple I wonder why some people take so hard .
Marriage should be a journey of peace,love,affection.
Things can happen between the wife and husband I am a man and I know the trick of ladies if i notice something happen between me and my wife I will say sorry .
The word sorry is a word that brings things back to the normal position between couples.
Sorry my love is very simple
Sorry my dear is very simple.
I can says sorry I see nothing wrong with that.
Men should learn to be humble, even as they are the head of the house. Saying sorry isn't some thing that bring down your pride.
when we are wrong we should learn to tell the ladies sorry, cause there is no law that say that men can't be wrong. So we should Learn to say that we are sorry.
**Life is good**
We must learn to apologize to our wife when we have offended them, it won't take anything away from us.
It's just that many attimes our ego as men makes it very hard for us to apologize which is not right in any way.
There's nothing wrong in apologising to my woman when I've offended her.
It would only make the relationship strong...
Men think that because they are the head of the family they can do anyhow no if you did wrong to your wife it is better for you to apologize .
Say sorry to your woman , men cheat us too much women are the piller of the house therefore you should treat us right.
There is nothing bad in apologize to your woman it will keep your family in a good other and peace will regin in the family .
Sometimes men are to be blamed but they use to stand on i am the head of the house.
Life is not like that men change for better your wifw is like an egg it shouldn't fall down .
In Church service one evening, someone asked a very similar question...
This is a very vital topic that if a man doesn't understand or know of, it will continue bringing trouble and chaos to. Marriage.
Marriage is a wonderful experience and as they say, love is a beautiful thing. But people are not the same, the male and female gender all have their own percularities. What works for one may not work for the other and what goes for the one will certainly not go for the other.
Understanding this, both parties even must be ready at all times to make sacrifices and say sorry, especially the man, lol.... Yes.
So going back to the question, the reply that was given was that a man must be ready always to behave as a sheep, which has no say of its own to successfully live with his woman and have a fulfilling marriage.
This however would raise the issue of e woman taking advantage of the man's simplicity, but it would be bad for the woman then.
We'll this is just my own view.
**Don't be a good student and a bad teacher.**
As a man you must learn to manage your ego and understand that for peace to reign in your relationship you must learn to honour and respect your wife the same way she respects you.
Apologizing to your wife for your wrong doing should not be a big deal for you as a man.
Do not allow other people's personality define who you are.
The fact that your wife chooses to take advantage of your simplicity shouldn't stop you from changing your personality as a whole.
Do not treat people based on their actions but treat people based on how good you are....