Romance » Making Your Relationship Work. 5 by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Thu, 23 Oct, 2014 - 12:52:01:pm GMT

Fed up with arguing

Although arguing can be beneficial to the foundations of a relationship, no one particularly enjoys it. And if there were a secret to prevent arguing then we would all like to know it. Sadly, there is no such thing, but the information below can help you somewhat to prevent those conflicts:

  • Why are you arguing? - Are you taking your anger out on your partner because of a bad day at work? Has someone ruffled your feathers? Are you suffering from an ailment?
  • Why is your partner arguing? - Has your partner had a bad day at work? Are they hormonal at the moment? Is there possibly an underlying issue affecting their mood?
  • Underlying issue - Are you hiding something from your partner, such as an infidelity, and being overly cautious because of this? Is there a prior argument still affecting you? Or has someone told you something you didn't previously know about your partner?

**kenny g**

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Re: Making Your Relationship Work. 5 by: Fellybabe(f) .:. Fri, 21 Jun, 2019 - 09:27:47:am GMT

Most times, arguing tends to come up when we are hiding some things from our partners or don't understand our partner.

Understanding is very important in any relationship, either friendship or family or love... You need to understand one another.

The greatest killer of relationship is misunderstanding and lack of trust.

You argue with your partner just because you don't believe why your partner is saying and you don't even trust your partner and at times, you find it hard to understand them so, you yell liken dog without understanding what they were trying to say.

It take so calm person to understand his or her partner. The reason why you can't understand when arguing is because you are angry or never wants to listen.
It's very bad.

Argument can be overcome in relationship when you understand your partner points of view.

**God's light**

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Re: Making Your Relationship Work. 5 by: Velisa(f) .:. Sat, 22 Jun, 2019 - 09:04:15:am GMT

One of the cause of your argument with your partner is you.

Do you know why I said you?...
Is because, you refused to be silent. You refused to let your partner do all the talking till he or she is tired before saying a more convenient word, like 'Am sorry'

Most times, you can avoid those argument. You don't need to nag when your partner too is nagging. Just keep silence, let him or her finish.

Then when they talk and talk and talk without getting reply, they will keep shut and you will have the space to talk. Firstly, you have to take the blame upon yourself no matter what have caused the quarrel.

You go to your partner, tell him or her that you are sincerely sorry, just before he or she talks further, hold on to him or her and give a deep kiss, make it emotional that they won't be able to resist you.

After a while, you can relent and say you are sorry once again. If they were the one wrong, you will hear them say they are sorry too.

This ends the part of argument.

Most time you can conquer argument if you can decide to take the blame upon yourself.


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Re: Making Your Relationship Work. 5 by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Mon, 24 Jun, 2019 - 08:41:34:pm GMT

Some times, arguments are unavoidable in relationships or marriage. The more you try, the more you get involve.

Have you ever noticed when you try to stop doing something, that is the very moment you see your self doing that thing most.

Argument is one of the device if the devil. What God wants for a man and his wife is happiness and peace not argument.

The devil puts argument in between couples just to destroy their plans, or when he sees that the couples are going to have a wonderful life, they are going to be great and be glorious in the future, so, the devil puts in argument. They keeps fighting night and day.

At times, they begin to wonder why they are always fighting and they seem not to understand why they keep quarrelling.

Some will end up saying, maybe it's not the will of God for then to be together. If it's a relationship, they will separate.

They don't know that the devil knows what the future holds for then that's why he looks foe every means to scatter them.

God is a good God, nothing bad ever comes from him. God will never put quarrelling among you just because he didn't want you to be together. Nope, God does not support anything bad.

If you had prayed to him, you would have heard him tell you if your present partner Is the right person or not


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Re: Making Your Relationship Work. 5 by: Confidant(f) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:58:07:pm GMT

Many reach out, eager to begin working on their marriages instantly but sometimes, the first step to fixing your marriage is fixing yourself.

Many have been emotionally battered and crushed to a point of near zero confidence and self belief. They have lost themselves, their identities, their dreams and much more.

You see it all confusion, fear, hurt, desire, hunger, sadness....all from one person, all linked to what they have been conditioned, manipulated and sometimes forced to see marriage as.

Marriage is a partnership but you need yourself first.

Getting yourself back is the first step. You matter!

An oppressed spouse is a ticking time bomb that will eventually explode or implode.

A sad, oppressed and lost you, is something that should not happen, especially not because of marriage, especially not because of a spouse.

Find yourself again, even if you need help doing so. There is no shame in that, everyone needs help sometime.


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