You find out that that time is when you begin to enjoy your marriage the most not nursing regrets. Praise the Lord. I trust God to help each one to deal with those things that are limitations and distractions in the marriages. In Jesus' name. Praise the Lord. Sometimes through pride, a woman will feel well, am I not the one bringing food? I'll bring food. I'll do this. I'll nurse the children, pay the school fees, pay house rent. Everything is about me. Who told you?

Who gave you the power who gave you the energy? Who gave you the life to do that work? If you marry that man, you choose to marry him. You saw how he was he was not jobless when you married? Or maybe he was jobless? But you married him like that why are you complaining?
I advise young ladies do not to marry out of desperation. Don't marry a man you know is marrying you not for you but for yours. Don't marry him. Don't try it. Because you will slay for him and he will dump you one day. But if you know that this man genuinely loves you, and maybe along the line he lost his job. What right have you to throw words at him? That he's not bringing money? Why not encouraging? Why not nature him? Why not let him know that there is still life there still hope and give him the confidence to go out there and get another job. If they sacked him from work and his wife sacked in from house?
Where do you want him to go? Praise the Lord. That is foolish pride. I know a woman who kept saying everything about him is me. The clothes he wears is from me. Even the child he has his me. Everything about the children is just me. Me, Me, who are you? Who are you? my friend. If God didn't make you, you are nothing. And one day, your husband will bounce back. He'll be a better person. As long as you don't drive him into criminality, for him to end up in jail.
If you love him and support him, and help him to be that man, when he rises up in his time, he will never forget you. Praise the Lord. Another problem with submission and authority is:
LAZINESS:
A woman who is lazy will cover up her laziness with rebellion. You didn't give me enough? You
are not there for me. I am this. I'm always tired. See how I'm sick. Yoruba people says olodarun laziness turns to sickness”

Praise the Lord.
Why not be a capable woman? Why not be a strong man? Why don't go out there
and get something's done of God? Why not ensure that your children are well taken care of rising up early to take care of them, nurture them to take them to school on time.
Pick them up, give them good food. Take good care of yourself. Take good care of your spouse. Do your work well at work. So that when you come back, you're tired. Of course. Find something to eat. bless each other and go to bed. The Bible says the sleep of a laboring man is sweet.
But when you are lazy, you don't bring anything home. You can not love your wife empty-handed. My brother, you cannot love your wife empty-handed. That you don't have a job today doesn't mean you will not have tomorrow. But if you are comfortable eating food morning, afternoon, and night from your wife and you are not making efforts to get anything done, You are a lazy man.
And you are worse than an infidel Because you're not making ends to meet. You're making her labour and age early, you are not loving her.
That's not loving. That's not good leadership, you are not leading well, you are not showing the right to be submitted to you are not showing authority? Praise the Lord. You must go out there and labour get something at least do not say because you are a pastor and yo say there is not a job, come on, what are What are you doing in the house? If you're a pastor and you are not working anywhere, go to the office, go to the church place be there council somebody read something or write something. Prepare yourself read, study, pray, don't stay at home sleeping and waking up chewing chew stick at 10 am
No, you don't do that. That is laziness.
. You then do not come and back and begin to claim rights with the word of God submit to me, which chewing stick in your mouth and your wife has gone out to sell our combat and you're telling her you to need to have her body. Come on, What are you saying
Do what you have to do as a man
laziness, casteth into a deep sleep into slumber a little sleep a little slumber a little folding of the arms to sleep he says so shall your poverty come upon you like an armed man. Hallelujah. laziness is counterproductive for a happy home.

I trust the Lord that He has spoken to you. He has caused
you to hear his voice. And I believe that by His grace, you will make a joyful home.
Your marriage will stand and your family will be raised godly. Even your name will be noticed abroad as your children rise up to call you blessed by their achievements by their awards, calling you blessed so shall it be for you in Jesus name. Do your part now. So your signal of being patient has been understanding with one another. Because there are people coming, children who are coming and growing, who are stakeholders in whatever you choose to do as a leader, as a head, whatever you do, will affect generations. Your decisions, your choices today don't end with you. They affect people who are coming after no matter where you are leading your leadership style, your strategies, your readiness to make sacrifices, your selflessness will not end with you. It will be copied by other people. As Paul said, he said I magnify my office. He says so that whatever I do, you can emulate
and do the same. That's a leader. Whatever you are doing, you're not doing it just to make a name. You are doing it also to leave a legacy for people who are coming behind you. Somebody can read your biography and say this is what this person did. This is what we can learn from his life or from her life.
Praise the Lord. the mother of the Wesley boys. That woman, Susanna Wesley, that woman was a sacrificial woman. She had a husband, who was labouring who sometimes forgets the family, she had so many children, and God gave her strength. She raised them, two of them were world-renowned revivalists, hallelujah.
Make your own sacrifice now that you can
true submission, true authority, the godly, and I
believe someday men everywhere your children everywhere, besides your biological ones will rise up and call you blessed that's my prayer for you.
And I believe it shall come to pass in Jesus' name.

I want to add this time to just ask the Lord into your life. Let him come in. Let him give you his peace. He said my peace I give to you, not as the world gives, give I thee. He gives you his peace. He doesn't take it back. It gives it to you in the midst of turmoil you are at peace. He is the Prince of Peace. You can ask him into your life at this point. And he will come in and be Lord over your life.
If you're interested in doing that, please follow me in this simple prayer.
Say to God Heavenly Father,
I come to you having heard your word
and ask God to have mercy.
You forgive me,
Jesus, come into my life.
Come and bring your peace into my heart. In the name of Jesus,
from now I will live for you. I will be yours. True and true. never the same again.
Thank you for saving me. Never will I follow the devil.
Satan. You are no longer Lord. You are no longer master over my life.
Jesus is Lord over my life from today. Thank you, father. In Jesus' name.
Amen.
Praise the Lord. I congratulate you, my dear friend. I did this several years ago over three decades ago. And I know what it means.
It means a lot, almost four decades almost 40 years ago, I gave my life to Christ. No dull moment. I do not have any regrets. Because he has guided my life to this point. It could have been worse. It could have been bad for me. But Jesus made my life good. He added quality to my life. The same can happen you just follow Him. It's never too late. As long as you have started now. You still have a long walk with Him and at the end, you will make heaven in Jesus' name. Peace to your home. Peace to your body. Soundness to your mind. Soundness to your children.
In the name of Jesus.

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