Babe-Fishing/Dating » Love and Lust by: Lanrhey(m) .:. Tue, 05 Apr, 2016 - 03:49:32:am GMT

What is the difference between love and lust?Is there a thin line between love and lust. Love can be define as a deep affection for something or someone while Lust can be define as having a strong sexual feeling for someone. Lust is focusing on someone's look or body while Love is spending quality time together other than sex.Lust is being interested in having sex and no conversation while in Love,you get lost in conversation and forget about the hour passing.Lust is being lovers and not friends while Love is being friends and making each other happy.Love is passionate and deep feeling that only few people share while Lust is feeling that almost everyone share.Both can hurt one's feeling and at the same time bring joy,one is real and the other is false.Are you in love or lust?
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   Re: Love and Lust by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Wed, 20 Mar, 2019 - 02:30:21:am GMT

There's definitely a great difference between love and lust, love is a commitment to stick to one partner and build your dreams, visions, goals and career together, love is sacrifice, putting the need of your partner before yours, love is an act of kindness, love is also giving without an ulterior motive, but when we talk about lust, lust is being selfish, lust is also fulfilling the wants of the body not taking into account the emotions and feelings of another, maybe someone you might be hurting in the process, lust is self centered and selfish, in lust there might be giving but that giving comes with an ulterior motive, often times we hear people say comments like this, nothing goes for nothing right there is a statement of lust, so young ones aspiring to enter a relationship need to be careful as not to make the wrong decision!!!
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   Re: Love and Lust by: Piwizo(m) .:. Thu, 28 Mar, 2019 - 07:06:37:am GMT

There is indeed a difference between love and lost, but many at times we mistake one for the other, that is one of the problems we face in our society today as regards relationship, and often times you will hear people in a relationship say, they are no longer interested, and they don't feel what they felt at the inception of the relationship.


Love is not a feeling, love empowers you to be committed to your partner and stick with him or her till the end, meaning that love is in for bettering one another, its not selfish and doesn't ficus on self alone, but focus on us, how can we improve the relationship, thinks more of the goals of the relationship and sees beyond the present, in the sense that you always look into the future, love is a builder. Its about a journey not a destination, and if you love genuinely, you will always want to love, because love has become your nature and your identity.

Lust is the exact opposite of love, its selfish and focus on temporary things that one can gain, for example, a guy will always run after every girl on skirt, when he sees them, he is always in the mood, meaning that lust doesn't have self control, you are moved by your selfish and lustful desires, second thing to note is that in lust the focus is in the now, a person who is lusting after a girl, only thinks of what he can get from the girls not what he can give.

So in lust there is no thought about the future, its just a destination a man or a woman wants to get to and you will often hear ladies say, i just want to have sex with him, no strings attached, that if a guy catch feelings or emotions for them then it is to his own detriment, so we need to be wise and understand the difference.

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   Re: Love and Lust by: Willidgr8t(m) .:. Sun, 14 Apr, 2019 - 06:35:59:am GMT

Love and Lust cannot and will never be used interchangeably.. By way of definition Love is a genuine, unconditional and strong affection one has for Something or someone. It is that inner feelings that's not birthed on mere physical appearance. While on the other hand, Lust is a strong feeling of sexual desire towards somebody it is birthed on mere physical appearance.Suffice it to say that Lust is short -lived, it is ephemeral and obviously doesn't stand the test of time where as Love is long lasting.. It stands the test of time any day any time no matter the circumstances surrounding it at that point in time. Coming from the Biblical perspective the Bible unequivocally stated that love is the greatest thing among all the commandments. So my dear,Love and Lust are two parrallel lines that can NEVER meet.
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   Re: Love and Lust by: Flochords(f) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 12:53:14:am GMT

LOVE AND LUST.
This is a very interesting topic. Love and Lust are not the same thing, they always seem to look alike in such a way that people don't even get to know if they are in love or if they are in lust. There is a thin line between love and lust and that is why people don't know their difference. Firstly, I will start by saying that "God is love" and "Lust is of the world." I will make my points clear now.
Firstly, Lust is being moved by things mundane towards someone, having interest in that person based on things you are seeing physically and when those things are no longer there, you don't seem to have interest in that person again because your attraction towards that person was based on a particular reason. Lust always depend on feelings/emotions alone of which LOVE IS NOT FEELINGS, love is far more greater than just emotions. Lust is mainly temporal but LOVE IS ETERNAL. Lust deals with physical pleasures alone, but LOVE IS CONCERNED ABOUT EVERY ASPECTS OF SOMEONE'S LIFE BOTH PHYSICALLY, SPIRITUALLY,EMOTIONALLY, ACADEMICALLY,ETC. Lust is of the world while LOVE IS OF GOD. Lust sees sex outside marriage as a proof of love but LOVE SEES SEX OUTSIDE AS AN HARM AND IS READY TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE. Lust is selfish while LOVE IS SELFLESS. Lust is impatient but LOVE IS PATIENT, IT SUFFERS LONG. Lust cannot bear all things, BUT LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS.
Love is really deep and no man can indeed love outside God who is love himself. If a man claims have LOVE, that means he is saying HE HAS GOD, because without the GOD factor in our lives, we cannot love effectively and it would be so difficult for us to show love to people, but with God involved, we can love effectively. Let me now describe what love is:
God sis love: No man can love effectively outside God himself as I clearly stated.
Love is choice: When you say you love someone what you are automatically saying is that "I CHOOSE YOU AMONG EVERY OTHER PERSON", meaning come what may, I have chosen you and it is you I want and it is you I choose, even though you are beautiful or not, rich or not, in good health or not, I have just chosen you above other people. If you are able to take this decision over a person, then you love the person indeed.
Love is understanding the value of a person in your life: Love is understanding the value of a person in your life in the sense that you acknowledge the impact the person is making in your life, you know the value of the roles the person is playing in your life and you do not take it for granted and you can't also deny the fact that if the person leaves your life today, you will feel it and would be affected by it, this is not a weakness but an acknowledgement of value which is LOVE.
Love is Honor: Love is then honoring that person after you have acknowledged the value of the person in your life, then you also reciprocate through respecting, honoring the person which is also a way of appreciating the person's effort and that fuels the desire of the person to do more for you.
Love is sacrificial: love involves paying sacrifices, selflessness, and you just keep looking for the good of your partner mainly. Love involves commitment, which comes with the sacrifice of your time, money, yourself, etc. Love still have a lot of deep things in it but just to mention a few.


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   Re: Love and Lust by: Flat(m) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 12:51:34:pm GMT

Love and Lust
How do you differentiate love from lust, on what basis do term if someone is in love or in lust. What are the things you would see and then say this love or this is lust. Can you say you are in love when rightly you are in lust. What then can we say is love, what then can we say is lust.
Without mincing words and phrasing a lot of grammars together, God is love. Oh! It sounds somehow, but the truth is you can only perfectly express love if and only if you know God. A man that is yet to know God true Jesus Christ can not say he wants to express love. A question that what of unbelievers that are living together peacefully and they love each other might be ringing bell in your mind now. But the truth is what kind of love do you express, do you love because the person loves you, do you love because the person gives you something in return, do you love because the person is your friend. All this reason are mostly why we love, but have you asked yourself about what we happen when you extend love to them and then they extend hatred back to you, will you still continue to love? I tell you, if you do not love God then you will stop loving them. It is only the love of God that can make you love the person that hates you. And the only way to express God's love is through Jesus Christ. There are different types of love, such as agape love, Philadelphia love, romantic love, etc., but believe me, if you do not have the agape love (God's kind of love), you will fail in other types of love. So, your sustainability in any form of love depends on how deep you have gone in the God's kind of love.
Devil is Lust. If your reason for love is conditional then it is lust. Hmmm! You are giving thought that won't you check if beauty or handsomeness exist. Of course, something will attract you to that person, but what should be your attractions should not be classified under the categories of lust of the eye, lust of the flesh. Look at it carefully, and ask yourself, infact take a drawing board with a pencil and draw that person in it. Then begin to erase this part that attracted you, be erasing them in your mind or assumed they are deformed, then begin to see and attached different questions of what if this person is in this position, will I still love, we I still love this person no matter the situation and only death can do us part. You see, if you have problem with all this question, then know it is lust.
In conclusion, ensure you are guided and move closer to God, seek Godly counsel and read Godly books, it aids your wisdom capacity to differentiate between love and Lust when you fall in such situations.


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   Re: Love and Lust by: Phaithh(f) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 02:06:10:pm GMT

LOVE is generally used interchangeably for LUST. Which is so wrong. No way can love have the same meaning as lust.

Love deals with the heart while lust is of the appearance or wealth.

Most relationship is based on lust and not on love.

* Money
* Fine shape
* Fine face
* Six packs
* Pointed nose
* Dimples
* Full lips and so on.
Any relationship that is founded on these things list above is LUST.

When the reason a girl is attached to you is because of your money. It is lust.

The reason why Shola is being interested in Abigail is because of her hourglass figure. This is lust.

If all the guy keep saying is "I love because you are a good kisser", my sister run for your life!

(1) Love doesn't work with a reason.

I've seen a sister that said "I just like that brother, I don't know why? He's not even good-looking, see his teeth"

That is love. Without any reason! You just love straight from your heart.

(2) Love accepts everything. Love accepts you just the way you are. Your look is not a barrier to love. Love accepts everybody fat, thin, big stomach, black, white.
So because you are dark skinned, you believe you won't find love, and you bleached your skin. This is so wrong. Anyone who doesn't accept you the way you are, doesn't love you. You as a lady, the guy keeps telling to go for breast-enlargement, that he doesn't like your small breasts. Then know this guy doesn't love you at all. She told you to bleach your skin, that you are too dark, she does not love you.

(3) Love is not selective. It gladly takes whatever it see. It doesn't say "I want this in a woman" and "I want that in a man".

(4) Love is not self-seeking and it gives liberally. If the guy does not put you first. Then it isn't love. She just takes from you all the time and she doesn't give you too, It's not love. If he finds it hard to give you anything, It's not love.

(5) Love doesn't keep secrets. If she hides everything from you all the time. Know that she doesn't love you.

(6) Loves accepts you and everything about you. He should be willing to accept your friends and family. If he doesn't, no love.

(7) Love is not sex. There is this common saying "if you love me, then prove it to me by having sex with me". If you think the proof of love is sex, then you are wrong! Sex is for the married ones. If you are not married and your lover is pressurizing you to engage in sex. Then he or she does not love you. Love can never be identified by a physical thing. If he loves you, he must be willing to wait till when you both get married.

And lastly,
(7) Love is GOD. GOD is love. Any guy that claims he loves you and doesn't know GOD is lying. Anyone that doesn't believe in GOD cannot love (1 John 4:8)

Dear brothers and sisters, I present to you Love and Lust. Choose wisely, but I'll advice you to choose LOVE.

**GOD'S baby**


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   Re: Love and Lust by: Abosedegrace(f) .:. Mon, 29 Jun, 2020 - 08:58:36:pm GMT

Love and Lust.
These two words doesn't have the same meaning,but a lot of young people even some so called adults can't differentiate whether what they are feeling for the opposite sex is LOVE or just Mere LUST. And that is why some people get stucked or feel so messed up after getting into a relationship that was birthed by lust.
Love never fails...love is without discrimination. It covers all. It accepts flaws. It is without measure.
Lust: why we have a high number of rape cases today,lust can be compared to hunger or cravings,that when it doesn't get what it want,it become so desperate and can go to any length just to get it and after getting it the thing become so worthless to the individual and it can even turn to hatred. A typical example is the story of Amnon and his half sister Tamar. Amnon couldn't even wear a happy countenance, worry was written all over his face,that his Friend could even notice it. And then He told his friend he is in love with his sister (haha,what kind of love is that really? Your Father's daughter) it didn't end there o, but to cut the long story short, he had his way with the young lady, and after having his way what next (so sad) he sent the girl out and the Bible made us to know that Amnon Hated the young Lady.
Love is Divine,it is patient, it does not covet what belongs to others.
Fine! It is normal to admire someone but when the admiration begin to produce some kind of evil or immoral thoughts in your heart,then check! You are not falling in love,you are actually lusting after the person.
When you could ever imagine is the picture of the person on your bed! Check! It is lust.
Why do you think some people cheat or probably Abused their partners, they just get tired of that particular person,that sometimes they don't even want to see this their so called partner. And they are like seems the love is fading away? Fading away you say? Love doesn't fade. It doesn't discriminate.
Love suffereth long.

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   Re: Love and Lust by: Abosedegrace(f) .:. Mon, 29 Jun, 2020 - 08:58:38:pm GMT

Love and Lust.
These two words doesn't have the same meaning,but a lot of young people even some so called adults can't differentiate whether what they are feeling for the opposite sex is LOVE or just Mere LUST. And that is why some people get stucked or feel so messed up after getting into a relationship that was birthed by lust.
Love never fails...love is without discrimination. It covers all. It accepts flaws. It is without measure.
Lust: why we have a high number of rape cases today,lust can be compared to hunger or cravings,that when it doesn't get what it want,it become so desperate and can go to any length just to get it and after getting it the thing become so worthless to the individual and it can even turn to hatred. A typical example is the story of Amnon and his half sister Tamar. Amnon couldn't even wear a happy countenance, worry was written all over his face,that his Friend could even notice it. And then He told his friend he is in love with his sister (haha,what kind of love is that really? Your Father's daughter) it didn't end there o, but to cut the long story short, he had his way with the young lady, and after having his way what next (so sad) he sent the girl out and the Bible made us to know that Amnon Hated the young Lady.
Love is Divine,it is patient, it does not covet what belongs to others.
Fine! It is normal to admire someone but when the admiration begin to produce some kind of evil or immoral thoughts in your heart,then check! You are not falling in love,you are actually lusting after the person.
When you could ever imagine is the picture of the person on your bed! Check! It is lust.
Why do you think some people cheat or probably Abused their partners, they just get tired of that particular person,that sometimes they don't even want to see this their so called partner. And they are like seems the love is fading away? Fading away you say? Love doesn't fade. It doesn't discriminate.
Love suffereth long.

**Redeemed to reign**


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   Re: Love and Lust by: TYMartins(f) .:. Tue, 30 Jun, 2020 - 10:10:16:pm GMT

LOVE AND LUST
Love, a beautiful feeling that comes into a person's heart and changes the whole atmosphere. You can't just stop thinking about how it makes you feel. So elated, so peaceful, so beautiful.
Love is a word that is most used of all the emotions that exist: I love you, I love heels, I love hoodies, I love jumps, I love that China ware I saw the other day. I love this, I love that. However, if we are to define love, what would it be? A feeling, a personality, an emotion, what exactly?
Love as described by the world at large is a strong emotion or deep affection for a thing or a person. When you see that thing you love, your heart dances, when you see that someone you love, you just can't help but give a heart-warming smile.
Love, the emotion that leaves you vulnerable but at the same time whole. Love, the emotion that makes you go an extra mile. Love, that emotion that makes you feel nothing is a big deal so long it's for the one you love. Love, that tingly feeling that makes you sacrifice without logic. Love, the feeling that can silence logic. Everything you do in love or with love is never wrong. Everything seems right when love is the driving force. What a force to reckon with.
As much as the highs of love consumes one, Love should be seen as a personality, not a cloth you wear today and dispose tomorrow or a trend today and it fades tomorrow. It is a choice you have make everyday. You don't feel like it but you choose to. You have to be intentional about love.
God is love. He perfectly lives out love and describes it wonderfully in 1 Corinthians 13
"Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love will last forever!"
Lust, on the other hand, is the complete opposite of Love. Lust is simply an imaginary feeling of love that is based on attraction. Lust finds expression through obsession. You want it but you don't have it, so you decide to obsess over it. Seeing you can't get it, you do whatever it takes, good or bad, to get it. After you have gotten that, it becomes useless. Lust is fleeting, it doesn't last long. A story in the Bible that best describes Lust is the book of 2 Samuel chapter 13.
Lusting over a thing or someone would really not create the feeling of love. Rather, it births feelings like envy, jealousy, anger. Of what use is that feeling if it is poisonous. Lust can leave you bitter if you don't stop it entirely. It is like a raging fire, if not quenched, it can consume you.
Never base any relationship on Lust. Truth be told, it won't last. There's nothing like let's see how it goes, it's really not worth your time and effort. Lust looks for what it wants, gets it and leaves. No commitment, no assurance, nothing. Lust is self serving. It's all about me, myself and I, nothing else matters, nobody else matters. It's a selfish emotion that can consume the entirety of a person. Beware of anything that would awaken lust in you.
Love conquers all, even lust! It prevails every time. So choose love over and over again.


**With God nothing is impossible**


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   Re: Love and Lust by: Flat(m) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 10:53:55:pm GMT

Lust versus love.

Lust is an exceptional sexual fascination in someone else. At its best, desire can be the paste that attracts us to an accomplice and takes into consideration profound physical association. Even under the least favorable conditions, desire is powered by glorification and projection of what we need to see as opposed to the truth of the individual and circumstance. Moreover, it is a wild and hazardous confusion that progressing desire is the desire for a drawn out relationship. Love is more unpredictable. One of the most well known subjects in writing and expressions of the human experience, love in the entirety of its enjoyments and sufferings has frequently seemed a puzzle, characterized in a vast number of ways all through mankind's history. From a connection point of view, love is an essential human need that keeps us clung to the individuals who matter most. A protected, adoring connection with a sentimental accomplice includes a profound fondness, trust, and acknowledgment of an individual, defects what not.

Instructions to tell if it's love or lust.

While there are no principles with regards to cherish, here are some useful differentiations to consider in the event that you are stressed that the relationship is essentially founded on desire and not supportable for a drawn out relationship:

1. For what reason would you say you are keen on the relationship?

Lust alone is intrigue just in the accomplice explicitly. Love is enthusiasm for becoming acquainted with the individual after some time.

2. Is it accurate to say that you are available to the difficult work?

Lust endeavors to keep the relationship on a perfect level. Love grows to having troublesome discussions and investigating excruciating feelings.

3. What is your opinion about the individual's blemishes?

Lust loses intrigue when you find an individual's blemishes. Love acknowledges an individual's sure and negative characteristics.

4. Improves after some time?

Lust is about quick delight. Love creates trust and responsibility over an extensive stretch of time.

5. Where is the rush coming from?

Lust appreciates the dream and energy of the communication. Love feels dangerous and helpless in light of the fact that it includes opening yourself up and leaving yourself alone known.

6. How secure do you feel in the relationship?

Lust can be incautious, obsessional, and urgent. Love will in general be consistent and secure.

7. Do you feel "fixated"?

Lust is a high that can feel like a dependence and devour all your psychological space. Love holds an increasingly adjusted viewpoint and considers the capacity to keep up a healthy lifestyle.

8. Is there life span?

Lust scatters after some time. Love continues.

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