Babe-Fishing/Dating » Ladies,date outside same group of guys by: Lanrhey(m) .:. Mon, 11 Apr, 2016 - 04:27:55:am GMT

Based on Direct & Indirect Observation I've gathered that some ladies date the same group of guys, guys in the same social circle or clique. The irony is that these ladies who date guys in the same clique always expect a different result In terms of Relationship Progress, Engagement or Mutual Respect from guys in the clique or their peers but most times it doesn't happen. In Psychology, there's a Sampling Technique known as "Randomisation" which is assinging Participants to a group by allowing them all have equal chances of being choosen so as to achieve standardized result or standard opportunities. This being said, Ladies if you want to an equal and justifiable opportunity for meeting a guy, Don't date or mingle with guys in the same circle over a long period of time because 1ΓΆΖ'Β£ You won't have that "Wow", "Damn", "OMG who's she effect" because they already know a lot about you 2ΓΆΖ'Β£ They may start looking at you like one of the guys and friendzone you automatically 3ΓΆΖ'Β£ Guys gossip more than ladies and you'd be surprised what the guys in the circle may have shared about you, they may know every dimple and scar on your body 4ΓΆΖ'Β£ You may end up being a conquest. A guy may be like since Akin, Emeka and Tunde have had her I must have her too. 5ΓΆΖ'Β£ Guys like to show off their Girlfriend to friends so who will they show you off to if you've dated 3 of their friends 6ΓΆΖ'Β£ Some guys will basically think they know your life history and will be blocking potentials from coming your way by spreading your gist. There are so many guys in different parts of the country with various backgrounds who are equally successful, handsome, God fearing and are willing to settle down so don't limit yourself to a group or segment of guys because by doing this you're limiting your chances or opportunity to meet someone who won't judge you for what his friends said about you but give you a clean slate and allow you prove yourself to him without any 3rd party opinions or extraneous variables.
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   Re: Ladies,date outside same group of guys by: Velisa(f) .:. Fri, 05 Apr, 2019 - 06:35:04:am GMT

This is so common among some ladies. I still don't know why they are so comfortable dating the same group of men. Even in the same church. If you have date someone in that church and everyone knows when you are dating. It will be better you go out of the church to date.


I don't just feel it's cool to date in that church again. There used to be some group of guys maybe made together by their environment or organization or place of worship. If you as a lady has being into relationship with one of them, and you broke up. Find your way out from that group.

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   Re: Ladies,date outside same group of guys by: Victoria(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 05:56:38:pm GMT

Ladies, date outside the same group of guys. I saw a similar article to this a few days ago. The topic of the article was "Can you date your ex's friend?" I can't do that. Can you imagine if you belonged to a group of friends and you were all girls and then you started dating this really dope guy. Things ended up not working out and you guys had to break up. A few months later, he dated someone else in the group. It was a bit weird seeing him again when you guys would have group gatherings but because you didn't want to seem bitter and angry, you keep quiet and act like nothing is wrong. Then a few months later again. They break up and the guy dates another friend in the group. This is the third person he's dating in the group, isn't it?
Before you know it, you guys are already exchanging knowledge and tips about the guy. All of you will be trying to one up each other, claiming to have been the one to give him the best experience so far and making the new girlfriend jealous and angry. You and the other ex in the group begin to talk behind the new couple's back and how the guy isn't good enough in bed or how he is a bad kisser even if he isn't and then you end up giving everyone a wrong impression about the guy.
That is exactly how it is when you date guys in the same friend group. You become like the common characteristics that they share. The fact that some of them have dated you. Eventually they compare notes on how you were with each of them and you know how much boys like to talk.
No matter what you do, avoid dating friends. It would only end up tarnishing your image with them and everyone else that you know in common.

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   Re: Ladies,date outside same group of guys by: Nagiano(m) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 07:07:56:pm GMT

Ladies dating same group of guys.


It happens and why these ladies do it, is known to them. But some are unaware of the guys clique of friends. And this happens when they hardly spend time with each other, especially to talk about people that are close to them.

I know of a lady that broke up with her boyfriend. And when I asked her why, she said that for over three years she has been dating the guy that his phone has never rang for ones in her presence. Even when they're spend the whole day together. At least she was observant enough to notice that.

Some ladies get carried away and don't even know the guys friends. And such girls do fall victim to cases like this topic.

While in other cases, they are fully aware of the guys friends but yet they still go ahead to pass themselves round. It's only them that know what they are looking for.

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