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» LOVE MATTER by: Charity(f) .:. Wed, 06 Feb, 2019 - 01:27:36:pm GMT
The relationships I've been into made me to know that men ain't wat they claim they are. My first relationship was heaven on Earth,I got everything I asked for and even d ones I never asked for. I was showered with so much love that I tot this will be my first and only bustop, until he disappeared into thin air without any trace after four years of dating. I was devastated, downcasted and felt my whole world has crumbled. Thank God I was able to bounce back stronger,I came across another guy who was funfilled and loveable until he revealed his true color. He became very jealous and a woman beater I had to leave d relationship. I made up my mind not to go into any relationship until I'm ready for marriage but guys won't allow me rest and I'm scared they are all same. I don't want to make d wrong choice in marriage...
Someone please help


**God is good**

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Re: LOVE MATTER by: Donchex(m) .:. Thu, 07 Feb, 2019 - 12:42:39:pm GMT

Hmmm.....sorry to hear...... Life is full of ups and downs. Everything you are experiencing is making you feel o be a strong and better woman. Moreover there's no perfect relationship or perfect man. But to be sincere you shouldn't dwell in the past cause everything happen for a reason. So you shouldn't think that all men are the same cause in every bad things, there's always an atom of good no matter the percentage. All I want you to know is that you should give up but continue striving cause in every dark tunnel, there's light. You should alway believe in yourself with positivity no matter what not only in your relationship but on all aspect of life. You know what there's a guy out there waiting for you. Just have faith
**chex**


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: Oma_maron(f) .:. Sun, 17 Feb, 2019 - 01:55:06:am GMT

My dear you donít have to quit just because you met few people who arenít serious with you, if youíre afraid of meeting the wrong people, you might never meet the right ones, and quitting now till when youíre ready for marriage doesnít work for me, it sounds right but it isnít right, relationship needs time,commitment and needs bonding, all this donít happen in sudden flight, itís a gradual process as we cannot know all about someone in just a few days or few weeks, so for you not to make the same mistake again you have to be more open and give people more trial by that I donít mean you should agree to any proposals but donít be too rigid because your previous relationship didnít work, be flexible and youíll find the right guy
**Graced **


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: Youngbeauty(m) .:. Fri, 05 Jul, 2019 - 11:53:48:am GMT

Hmm the truth is never give up in any relationship,if you meet with the wrong person at first don't think  all are same have it in mind that a time will come you be the happiest in your relationship


in a relationship don't be the one that feel like dying for him,make sure he loves you as much as you love him,give in your heart but don't give in your all

i have a friend she can love for Africa,and also get hurt for Africa
when it comes to heartbreak she can't take it,you can love your partner but don't let him feel like  his everything,because when some guys know that you love them and can't do without them,you become their playing toll,hearts are not met to play with,is made to love and care for,handle it with care

in everyone's  heart  they all need love,everyone deserve to be love and be loved,if you feel you are not OK in your relationship maybe his eating Egusi outside,
then you apply some technical stuff,
like making him jealous make him fight for you because you deserve it

you deserve love and it your right to be loved
every heart needs it

no matter how hurt love can be,it still longs for love

**Obedience is better than sacrifice**


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: DeborahClassics(m) .:. Sun, 21 Jun, 2020 - 12:37:09:am GMT

I strongly believe in a saying "God first", and it has never failed me. Relationships tend to have ups and downs but if you put God first, committing your relationship into God's hand, allowing him make those decisions for you, my dear you won't have a problem.


Our problem is we believe on our own understanding, relationship manuals and advice from other people to run our relationships and we have forgotten that the reason for going into a relationship is because of love, why then can't we go to God, who is Love himself to teach us and help us to walk in him. Let God take charge and your relationship would be an outstanding one. 

"Putting God first yields a wonderous result"

*Hardwork*

**Hardwork**


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: Bookie(f) .:. Tue, 30 Jun, 2020 - 11:36:49:pm GMT

That is life. We pass through somethings atimes so that we will be able to appreciate the real thing thing when it comes our way.
Just don't conclude that all guys are the same, they are not. Some are actually different.when you are lucky to find such ,they will treat well that you will forget the past.
Be open minded and am sure in due time ,the right person that will treat you right will locate you.

**Perfect**


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: Flat(m) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 08:11:48:am GMT

Sometimes in life we are the author of what happens to us and this is as a result of will not been careful enough to not know what we want for ourselves. Why buy a land when you know you are not ready to build on it. The issue of marriage is a part that one should be calm and clear about. Like I do say to my female folks, if at the age of 20years, no guy had ever made any actions to you, just quickly go to church and ask your pastor to do deliverance for you. So, the fact that guys are coming after does not mean you should dance to their tune. Be sure you are ready for it.
My dear sister, I understand your feelings, I know how your emotions are running through, the bitter experience you had is costing you to loose focus to identify the right person. But to be sincere with ourselves, the past relationships you had was ordered by who, was is not because guys were coming after you, or because you thought it is necessary at that time. Note that whatever God is not involved might be so difficult to have a good end. Therefore, before going further into any other relationship make sure you have prayed to your father to make the right person come your way, let God be the one to lead the relationship, with this you will have a good and expected end.
More so, you will do your life a lot of havoc if you do not let go off your past and allowing it to rule and judge you. Rather than you thinking and pondering over spilt milk, while not continue to empower yourself with wisdom, knowledge, understanding, building yourself up with godly virtues and see what the end will look like. Move beyond your past sister and grow a relationship with your creator.


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: PrinceBenjamin(m) .:. Mon, 12 Sep, 2022 - 11:49:22:am GMT

🙏🙏CharityThe relationships I've been into made me to know that men ain't wat they claim they are. My first relationship was heaven on Earth,I got everything I asked for and even d ones I never asked for. I was showered with so much love that I tot this will be my first and only bustop, until he disappeared into thin air without any trace after four years of dating. I was devastated, downcasted and felt my whole world has crumbled. Thank God I was able to bounce back stronger,I came across another guy who was funfilled and loveable until he revealed his true color. He became very jealous and a woman beater I had to leave d relationship. I made up my mind not to go into any relationship until I'm ready for marriage but guys won't allow me rest and I'm scared they are all same. I don't want to make d wrong choice in marriage...

Someone please help
💋😭
**@Basketball**


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Re: LOVE MATTER by: PrinceBenjamin(m) .:. Mon, 12 Sep, 2022 - 11:56:50:am GMT

Don't let you Dark side shout, the greatness of a man is seen by what makes him angry. Control your emotions! Don't let them control you. This is one of my favourite quotes.🙏
**@Basketball**


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