» LETTING THE FORMAL THINGS GO by: Slaymama(m) .:. Mon, 10 Dec, 2018 - 01:44:48:pm GMT

Life isn't about looking back to the former things, (not holding on the past)...it's about letting go and moving on with life... With so doing the past won't affect your tomorrow. Because if you keep looking onto the past, it will end up hurting you and you might also be hurting people around you.. ***Every wrong can be made""Right'"" when it's been realised .... #***Don't let the bad times of yesterday affect your good days ahead.


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Re: LETTING THE FORMAL THINGS GO by: Mizhbell(f) .:. Tue, 18 Dec, 2018 - 05:00:01:pm GMT

One thing that connects us as human beings is our ability to feel pain. Whether that pain is physical or emotional, we all have experiences of being hurt. What separates us though, is how we deal with that pain. FIVE STEPS TO LET GO OF THE PAST 1...RECOGNIZE THAT IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON_ The hardest part of letting go of the past is trying to make decisions to move on. Yes, it's pretty hard to make new choices that can overcome our misdeeds in life but you should always remember that you have a future to share. You've already paid for the past and if that's not working out for you, you need to recognize that it's time to move on. 2. MAKE A LIST OF THINGS YOU CAN RE-DO_Life does not give you a second chance all the time. But, what you can do is make a list of things that you would have done differently if you could go back in time and do it again. Making such list will help you to learn from your mistakes while also giving ideas on what things should have been done right. You also develop a skill to plan things and this will surely help you shape your future goals in life. 3.LIVE IN THE PRESENT_ If you don't enjoy the life that you are living, you future is certainly going to be dark. You should have no regrets that eat up your thinking and you need to live in present. What's done is done and there's no going back. Go on a hike with your friends or dance, sing and do what ever you love to do. It's make you lively and energize you to focus on things that you need to accomplishe right now. 4. DON'T FORGET YOUR MIRALS AND VALUES_ If you're to perform better in life, you need to stick to your morals and values. There's no denying that the bad events in life develop a feeling of change in us and changes are not good every time. Stick to your beliefs and morals to develop a self-esteem and pride. This plays a huge role in order to develop a positive attitude towards your life. 5. FORGIVE_ Mistakes happen but holding back and remembering the same thing again and again will do nothing good to anyone. If you've made mistakes, apologize, console and forgive yourself. If it's your close ones who've hurt you in the past and you just can't let go of it, acknowledge the fact that they are the one's you trusted back. You need to learn to forgive and move on to find happiness.

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Re: LETTING THE FORMAL THINGS GO by: Babysugar(f) .:. Thu, 27 Dec, 2018 - 12:44:25:pm GMT

@mizhbell: Forgiveness is so true about letting go of the past, in the sense that, if one can't learn to forgive he/ herself, it will be also hard to forgive others who offends us. Forgiveness is one thing i know which waives away negativity in one's mind and it makes someone to find happiness. And it's just like an act of uplifting an heavy weight from someone's body to feel that free happiness which everyone deserves to have, because happiness is free.

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Re: LETTING THE FORMAL THINGS GO by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 27 Dec, 2018 - 07:56:00:pm GMT

If we are to talk of this letting go of formal things, that is the past. How to be able to let go will determine what has made the past a let go one. Someone who lost his so much love partner and always hold on to his/her memory will have a way of counselling that can wipe away those memory. Some of those people who lost their partners to death are usually affected with the memory of the lost one. Some go insane. Cause I have witness a situation whereby a lady lost her husband to be on their wedding day. And from that moment. She went insane. And couldn't overcome it till she died in that condition. The incident made a way to far in her that she couldn't overcome it. Now for such person to overcome such past or let go of such past. It will be difficult. Very difficult. But now I want us to contribute in how such a person can overcome that past.

And secondly ,a lady who was sexually abuse. Raped precisely. And was pregnant as a result of the rape. Not knowing the person who has raped her but carrying the unborn child of that person. Please, how can such a person overcome such past? While she stills carries the unborn child. She was still a secondary school student. Now she couldn't continue her education. She is now being faced with mocking from peer group, classmate, neighbors e.t.c. how do you advice such person to let go of her past.

Please contribute in that.

**Gooddypye **

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Re: LETTING THE FORMAL THINGS GO by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Sun, 17 Feb, 2019 - 12:56:16:am GMT

Life is a teacher, the more we live the more we learn, we shouldn't be always hard on ourselves, we have to be aware of the fact that people will hurt us, they will hurt us a lot, and some might do us wrong willfully, don't hold onto them, let it go, if you don't let those things go, it becomes a grudge and a pain in your heart, you tend to hurt yourself more, life is like an athlete who is running a race, he has both those who cheer him and those who criticize him, if he focus on those who criticize him, he definitely won't win the race, and also if he focuses on those who cheers him, he won't win the race, your focus should be at the prize, if you're bitter with yourself, life won't get better, always forgive, don't wait for people to come and ask for your forgiveness before you forgive them, they might never come, free up your mind and live your life to the fullest.
**Graced **

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Re: LETTING THE FORMAL THINGS GO by: Youngbeauty(f) .:. Mon, 01 Jul, 2019 - 07:34:43:am GMT

In life one need to let go of his/her formal and past life in other to move on,holding on to your past is like adding pains to a broken heart

letting go of your past is the way of moving on in life
no matter how bad it was in the past for you,you can never remain in the past,and in other to do yourself good you have to move on and let your past live behind you so it won't be a problem to your future and present life

never let your bad days surface in your presents because you can never move on with your past add to your current life

**Obedience is better than sacrifice**

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