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Family/Parenting » LETTER FROM A MOTHER TO DAUGHTER by: Souleyman91(m) .:. Tue, 24 Feb, 2015 - 09:24:28:am GMT
LETTER FR0M A M0THER TO DAUGHTER Daughter… 1. Never depend on your boyfriend like he is your father, show him that before he met you, you are comfortable and without him you can still be comfortable. 2. Do not detest a man because he is not rich. Rather remember that, he who is rich today, he may not be rich tomorrow and he who is poor may not be poor forever, Richness is like a table fan, it rotates. 3. Never you say real men doesn't come to you when all about you is fake, dress code, lifestyle, your name, background etc. 4. Don't say men are just after your body when you show off all your body parts. The way you dress is the way people address you. 5. Do not say you have dated him for years yet he doesn't want to move the relationship to the next level, my sister every relationship must not end in marriage. 6. Do not say all men are the same due to a heartbreak, remember even the bible said: as our facial aspect differs same goes to our characters and lifestyles. 7. Do not hate relationship because of past experience, rather know that every relationship is a lesson and I tell you, never you close your eyes because of the bad things you have seen because you will never know when the good one passes by if your eyes are close, don't give up on love. 8. Do not be in a hurry to marry because as God knows your birthday same goes to your death day, he knows all our profile because we are only like pencils in the hand of the creator, when your time comes it will happen just like death. 9. You say guys are not serious with you, when the background of your pictures are always in a hotel room, Joints and inside different cars when you're not a mechanic, on Facebook you have more than 4353 friends, you are on bbm with over 1000 bbm contacts, you're on 2go with more than 2000friends not to talk of Badoo. Whatsapp, Eskimi, and many more. Which means you are emotionally confused. 10. Always know that things happen the way God wants it.
**sule**

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Re: LETTER FROM A MOTHER TO DAUGHTER by: Funmo(m) .:. Wed, 04 Mar, 2015 - 10:50:31:pm GMT

LETTER TO MY FUTURE FIRST DAUGHTER

Hello love, I am sure you are doing good beautiful. I haven't decided a name for you yet, as it doesn't even look like I've met your mum. Even if we have met, we are probably not in an official relationship at the moment. So, how many years has it been from 2015? Twenty or thereabout? I just felt it pertinent to pen this down. Of course how I see things now should be different, most probably an upgrade from how I used to when I wrote this, but it is most likely to be based on the same foundation that I express this note on. I am sure you are curious how a 20-years younger dad thinks. Well, you are welcome.

You should almost be through with secondary school by now, and am sure the love feelings already got you. It is normal, welcome to planet love. You probably have had few boys come to you to tell you how they love you and all that. Hmmm, boys! boys! boys! As they were in the beginning, they are now, and forever shall be deceitful, sweetmouthed and full of lies, now and forever more (no amen). I understand your hormones will want to make you feel a little illogical, too emotional, and almost-gullible, but if you follow what dad says, you will never get heartbroken. Okay, maybe you will, brace yourself, everybody gets heartbroken, but let these provide a cushioning effect. Never conclude I am archaic, or no longer trendy as long as these things go, trust me baby, I'm rather just ahead of time - I have always been.  And I want you to be a model for your younger sisters and other teenage beauties.

Just one advice love, DON'T FALL IN LOVE. For falling is an accident, one that comes with bruises and injuries. Rather, LEARN WHAT TRUE LOVE  REALLY IS. Although it could be almost-hypocritical of me to say you should be facing your studies and not thinking about relationships and those stuffs for now, but that completely makes me old school. Or doesn't it? Love is a beautiful thing, one that gets more clearer to you as you grow, provided you never let anything cloud your thoughts. I am not gonna bore you with a long letter, I love you and I want all the best for you. Follow your heart, but do that right after you have guarded it and learnt the rudiments of taking the right decisions. 

Loves from big-headed dad.

**THE BEST IN WHAT I DO**


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Re: LETTER FROM A MOTHER TO DAUGHTER by: Rachael(f) .:. Fri, 13 Jan, 2023 - 02:01:28:pm GMT

Our mother's advice is one of the priceless pieces of advice we should never take for granted because it is given out of the experience of life. I know some of us do claim we have an experience that can guide us through life but I can boldly say that we all need motherly advice to guide us.

Each of us needs a close friend and our mother could be the first close friend before looking out for other friends. I know some people are not close with their mummy and that's due to many reasons best known to them either way no matter how your mum is there is still something she could offer you.

We all should leave this idea of our mothers are old school so they can't give modern advice; don't forget that at the level you are now they've been there before so there's no new thing.

**Life is good**


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Re: LETTER FROM A MOTHER TO DAUGHTER by: Obajichi(f) .:. Mon, 16 Jan, 2023 - 09:43:37:am GMT

This is quite emotional but true.

It goes beyond putting it down in writing. All that has been written must be practically instilled into a daughter.

A mother who has seen it all, knows what's best for her daughter and any girl child.

Females who do not have living or responsible mothers should try to learn from older and responsible women around them.
**I love being me.**


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