Lending » In a deep mess. by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Mon, 10 Nov, 2014 - 02:58:05:am GMT
It was some in Feb these year, my parent kept some money with which I save in the bank. Anytime I needed money I will withdraw out of the money and return it back. As time goes on, a friend of my have issues with bank he took a loan from and my friend walk to me and if I can him a favor by borrowing him out of the money. The question I ask him is how will you pay the mony back,he told me he's doing contribution that involves 10people and is turn is to take money at the 7th month which is the following week. I agree to give him, but story changed when the time for the collection,the people involved are not ready to pay the money that month and was postpone to the 8th which I still chill for. well, the 8th month is around the money given to my friend was half which he did not given me because is not complete that I should which I agreed. Now the funny thing is that my parent are asking for the money if is still with me. What do I do,my friend is not ready to pay the money because he do not have any penny with him likewise me . Please advice me on what to tell my parent
Re: In a deep mess. by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Sat, 06 Jul, 2019 - 03:42:46:pm GMT
You learnt your lessons already. I think what you will do is continue to talk to your friend concerning the money. Be sincere with your mum about the whereabouts of the money. She deserves to know.
Re: In a deep mess. by: Oluwaseyeini93(f) .:. Fri, 11 Sep, 2020 - 10:07:02:am GMT
Tell them the truth, nothing but the whole truth with all sincerity and apologies.
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Re: In a deep mess. by: Holashayo(f) .:. Fri, 11 Sep, 2020 - 01:49:23:pm GMT
Re: In a deep mess. by: Kennybabz(m) .:. Mon, 21 Sep, 2020 - 06:56:50:am GMT
This is the reason I hate lending people money because to return the money back will surely be a problem. I will rather introduce them to borrowing app where they can borrow and pay back later because of all thesd stories.
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Re: In a deep mess. by: Abiodun(m) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 11:24:40:am GMT
in a deep mess. if it's something is deep. it extends a long way down from the ground or from the top surface of something. A deep container. such as a cupboard. extends or measure a long distance from front to back. you use deep to talk or ask about how much something measure from the surface to the bottom. or from front to back. deep in an area means a long way inside it. if you say that thing or people are two. three or fourdeep. you mean that they are two three or four rows or layers of them there. you use deep to emphasise the seriousness. strength. important. or degree of something. if you experience or feel something deep inside you or deep down. you feel it every strongly even though you do not necessarily show it. if you are in a deep sleep. you are sleeping peacefully and it is difficult to wake you.
Re: In a deep mess. by: Abbie@21(f) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 01:03:36:pm GMT
From what you've just said and done, it shows you are a very kind hearted person, but that doesn't mean you should just stay cool and quiet, your friend might have seen that quality in you and taken advantage of that, he may have the money or he may not, your friend came to meet you because he trusted you or he just wants to take advantage of you, see how he acts be wise, maybe you should still give him some time and since the money is your parent's they may go mad at what you have just done , but my dear there shouldn't be any cause for alarm.
Re: In a deep mess. by: Chamak(f) .:. Sat, 21 Nov, 2020 - 08:00:32:pm GMT
This is no new scenario so I don't see the reason for the panic. Though your parents will be really mad at you because you were given a clear cut instruction on what the money is meant for and you went and do your own. You should have calculated the risk involved before allowing sympathy to put you in the mess that you're in now.
Re: In a deep mess. by: Flat(m) .:. Mon, 23 Nov, 2020 - 04:28:57:pm GMT
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Re: In a deep mess. by: Chiboy(m) .:. Mon, 23 Nov, 2020 - 05:32:00:pm GMT
You have done well, is not everyone that have the good heart to help a friend, the reason for friendship is to be there when things are rough.