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Romance » If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Sat, 05 Dec, 2020 - 07:26:25:pm GMT
Love is a mutual feeling that exists between a male and a female. It is a connection that makes them long to be with one another always and sometimes leads to marriage. Truth be told, love has no price but the girls of this age has put a price tag on love, making one wonder if love truly exists. It seems as if, the girls of this age are in love with one's wealth rather than their partner. You hear girls saying that they cannot marry a poor man and as a result, they treat men that are still hustling with great disdain and abuse them at will. The irony of this situation is that, these girls are broke ass ladies, who are always in need of urgent #2000 from malefolks. Their stupid ideology makes them to fall in the hands of ritualists and psychopaths that subject them to emotional and physical abuse. Guess what, these girls cannot afford to leave such abusive relationships because they have nothing to offer. They have no skill, no job, no money but always wants to keep up with the jones at all costs. In a bid to do this, the lose their self respect and womanhood. Boys use them at will and share them with their friends all in the name of fun. After many of them would have been rejected and age not on their side, they will then be on the look out for God fearing men that will take up their baggages.

It is said that some men support these new sets of ladies with such a useless ideology. You hear them making statements and slangs like "no romance without finance", "It is a crime for poor men to have an erection", "if you no get money, hide your face", "Rich men are talking and a poor man is saying that he has an idea.. o wrong now" the list is endless. It is a shame that these set of men are allowing their manhood think for them instead of their brains. We are in the era of information and we must get quality information and education to live right. Just as we all talk about gender equality, all men should stand up and make equal demand with our ladies.

It is funny to see a lady whose parents are wretched abuse a man with great prospect and demand that he must have a house and a car before he can date him. If it was that easy to have a house and a car, why is her parents poor? Dear men, you will not enjoy your love life, if you date a poor and wretched girl. You can never know if she truly loves you or your money. She will always remain a liability to you and you will not be able to rise above your vision. She is a vision killer, because you will keep on sharing your scarece resources to sponsor your dream and hers. But when you get married to a lady that is independent, working and owns her own apartment or a car, then you have a lady with a vision that can contribute to expanding your dream. This is one of the reasons that makes the rich richer, because they ensure that they marry from their circle.

So Dear men, Run Away from poor girls that see you as a poverty eradication scheme and get married to a Lady that when the both of you combine your resources together, you can dare to have a bigger dream....


**Creativity lies in the imagination of man**

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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Davzee(m) .:. Sun, 06 Dec, 2020 - 12:54:48:am GMT

This is the same thing am was telling my friends yesterday, girls are always like they don't wanna date broke men or boys. I told them even me I don't wanna date a broke girl and this time i'm not just talking about money am talking about broke spirit also. 


So ladies reading this we men won't like to date a broke lady so you better hustle ooh. Lol 

Thank you.

**No doubt**


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Flat(m) .:. Wed, 09 Dec, 2020 - 07:19:37:pm GMT

Hmmm! This is really funny, ‘if she does not have an apartment or a car, don’t date her'. Are we going to say this is the criteria for dating now. Of a truth, I clearly understand your point of view, am also aware of the rate at which ladies of this time have turn themselves to withdrawal slip but I don’t think that will be the solution. You see, it is not all this ladies that are involved in all this things we are saying and so if we then make it a criteria that guys should only date a lady with all you listed, it then means the ladies coming from the middle or low background will not get married. It is important that we understand that the fact that a lady as a car or an apartment does not mean she would make a good wife, does not mean she will have a good character, does not mean she will be responsible, does not mean she will be loving and lovable, does not mean she is the best, the only benefit that is attached to it is only the aspect of financial independence which is the aspect most guys run for. Am not saying those that are independent does not make a good wife but am saying that those that are dependent also make a good wife.
You see, rather than the association of guys doing that, I will advice we request for purpose before accepting any billing. What I mean is that, if my lady should ask me for any money, I think I have the right to ask for what she want to use it for and eventually monitor it if she eventually use it for that stated purpose. And we can both reason it out if what she want to use the money for really worth it. 
So, let’s date whoever we love, don’t be scared of billing but let’s be wise with the acceptance of bills.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Krainaix(m) .:. Mon, 14 Dec, 2020 - 04:05:59:pm GMT

Girls i would say are part of the problems we male ate facing because they're girls that even if you admire you can't try your luck ,cuz instead of them giving no for an answers they wash (disgrace) you and that's bad but you know the funny thing that gets me angry is that,a guy they ditched when he gets his hand on some change they start messing up themselves.
**Krainaix**


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 13 Sep, 2021 - 09:20:25:am GMT

If you are poor then you are useless , even if you don't have money to get married is a problem no one wont to marry liability everyone knows.
It is good to be rich at early age it is the best ever in life but sometimes money is not all but happiness and joy that someone derive from taking an action.

Being rich for ladies is good also a lady who work hard will get rich and good if you are a lady and you are rich you should submit to your husband don't say because of the money you have you won't submit to him .

If the two of you join hands together things will be fine and you will progress to be great as one family.


**Olatoke **


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 13 Sep, 2021 - 09:20:29:am GMT

If you are poor then you are useless , even if you don't have money to get married is a problem no one wont to marry liability everyone knows.
It is good to be rich at early age it is the best ever in life but sometimes money is not all but happiness and joy that someone derive from taking an action.

Being rich for ladies is good also a lady who work hard will get rich and good if you are a lady and you are rich you should submit to your husband don't say because of the money you have you won't submit to him .

If the two of you join hands together things will be fine and you will progress to be great as one family.


**Olatoke **


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Thu, 23 Sep, 2021 - 09:43:34:pm GMT

The fact that a lady doesn't have a good job a car and an apartment is not enough reason not to be with her.

There are other things you should look out for in a woman rather than material things.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Lilcent(m) .:. Sat, 25 Sep, 2021 - 10:17:01:pm GMT

Do not measure the standard of a woman by her financial status. If not you might make the mistake of meeting the right one for you.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Nagiano(m) .:. Sun, 26 Sep, 2021 - 10:20:46:pm GMT

What an inspiring quote this is thank you very much for the write up.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Fashnet(m) .:. Sun, 03 Oct, 2021 - 12:38:46:pm GMT

@Davzee: yeah I think this is the way it should be what is good for the gander is also good for the goose, why should ladies be feeling like it's only the men that should always bring money to the table while they take the money and spend it lavishly.
As if they do not have the part to play in adding money to the success of the relationship, if this can be tackled and corrected appropriately and make it known to females that are into all these type of believe in relationship then they will know that the female also need to put into the relationship.
why should men suffer and suffer all alone while the ladies believe they can just come and take away.
The same opportunity that men have is the same opportunity that female have to be successful, when we talk about success.
I think part of the problem is that most female believe that all they bring into relationship is sex once they put their body down and the man enjoys it and that's all they have nothing else to add into relationship but request for money and material things from the men but if a man can struggle to be successful why not the female also.
So they should know this and get it down there, if females are saying they do not want a broke guy relationship or married broke guy then the same thing should apply to the female or so the guys should not marry or date a broke ass female who has nothing to hide relationship than just sex then when the man is in trouble or cannot meet up financially they cannot support rather they go look for another means of money somewhere else.
This must be corrected so this is my humble submission on this topic thank you.
**Help the needy and love everyone**


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Osaroju(m) .:. Sat, 09 Oct, 2021 - 10:00:22:am GMT

Indeed the title is both striking and hilarious, but on the other hand, it brings to mind the fact that there's some sense and truth in it.

We are all equal and can achieve whatever it is that we set out to do. Both male and female alike.

It's just sad to know that the mentality of some set of people are different towards the others.

Every one in a relationship is a contributor and should bring something reasonable to the table, not depending solely on the other.

So all my brothers and sisters our there, get to work and be the best you are....

With love!!










**Don't be a good student and a bad teacher.**


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Damilola(f) .:. Sun, 10 Oct, 2021 - 06:17:19:pm GMT

Well, I will not say that you are wrong or right because, so many bad oranges have stained the good ones.

Firstly, I will like to talk on the issue of ladies giving out their bodies to men all because of money. The mentality of the ladies nowadays is that, they cannot survive without the men. They are so dependent that to work with their hand has become a problem. They now follow the saying that says "Use what you have to get what you want". Imagine!!.. who say that the women cannot be the bread winner of the house..or those great women has two heads?. The truth is that, they don't want to work again..I don't really blame the men that use them. Now they have modernize their rubbish to hookup. Ladies, stop messing up yourself, work and earn your money, that way men will respect you.

Secondly, the issue of parents not allowing their daughters to marry a poor man. Well, I won't blame them too much because no parent would want their children to suffer again. But if the man is hardworking and has plans for future, they can definitely marry each other and plan for the future together. On the other hand, parents should not marry off their daughters for money!!.

Finally, I totally oppose the last statement that men should marry a rich lady. Of course, you can have the luck of a rich lady but has no future..It is better to marry a lady that has future than to marry a lady for only today. Even such lady may not be submissive to her husband. Am not saying the men should marry a liability, but marry a lady with vision..of course, she must have a job in her hand, although she might not yet build a house or buy a car., But if become one, you will do exploit.
Therefore, I think I have done justice to both parties.



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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Damilola(f) .:. Sun, 10 Oct, 2021 - 07:34:00:pm GMT

Well, I will not say that you are wrong or right because, so many bad oranges have stained the good ones.

Firstly, I will like to talk on the issue of ladies giving out their bodies to men all because of money. The mentality of the ladies nowadays is that, they cannot survive without the men. They are so dependent that to work with their hand has become a problem. They now follow the saying that says "Use what you have to get what you want". Imagine!!.. who say that the women cannot be the bread winner of the house..or those great women has two heads?. The truth is that, they don't want to work again..I don't really blame the men that use them. Now they have modernize their rubbish to hookup. Ladies, stop messing up yourself, work and earn your money, that way men will respect you.

Secondly, the issue of parents not allowing their daughters to marry a poor man. Well, I won't blame them too much because no parent would want their children to suffer again. But if the man is hardworking and has plans for future, they can definitely marry each other and plan for the future together. On the other hand, parents should not marry off their daughters for money!!.

Finally, I totally oppose the last statement that men should marry a rich lady. Of course, you can have the luck of a rich lady but has no future..It is better to marry a lady that has future than to marry a lady for only today. Even such lady may not be submissive to her husband. Am not saying the men should marry a liability, but marry a lady with vision..of course, she must have a job in her hand, although she might not yet build a house or buy a car., But if become one, you will do exploit.
Therefore, I think I have done justice to both parties.



**Damilola**


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Tue, 19 Oct, 2021 - 08:31:42:am GMT

@Damilola: I kindof agree with what you just said.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Tue, 19 Oct, 2021 - 08:33:17:am GMT

@Osaroj😍 You're right about that. Every one should be a contributor in the relationship.
It shouldn't be one sided.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Taofeek(m) .:. Mon, 08 Nov, 2021 - 01:12:42:pm GMT

Well I don't agree with that ideology of a woman must be ok before I can settle down with her.
Once she can take care of my home and give me peace of mind, I'm ok with her.


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Iyanu(f) .:. Thu, 18 Nov, 2021 - 12:40:16:am GMT

Life doesn't goes straight forward some time , having a house, a care is just a matter of time , with your hard work and prayers you will achieve them very easily.
Some girls look after a man pocket in a relationship weras is not supposed to be so.
Dont say you can not date a man who did not have a car a house God can bless him tomorrow and he will have as many as possible.
Although every body won't to live good and fine but your own sucess may be this year while mine will be next year so dont loos hope and future.
Girls be wise .
**Oladipupo **


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Re: If She Does Not Have a Job, an Apartment or a Car, Don't Date Her by: Lilcent(m) .:. Tue, 30 Nov, 2021 - 04:26:01:am GMT

If those are the requirements expected of a woman before we date them, then I don't think we might be getting married any time soon.

Neither will there be any form of engagements at all.


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