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Family/Parenting » How to be a good partner by: Franky222(m) .:. Thu, 22 Sep, 2022 - 06:58:40:pm GMT
1. Schedule time to connect every day
Connection is crucial to every relationship but so often it can fall to the wayside. Make it a point to try to check in, show affection, and express love every day. Yes, even if you're both extremely busy. This can be as simple as a quality hug each morning before you go off into your individual days,” says Zoe Kors, an in-house sex and intimacy coach with the app Coral. Look each other in the eye, express one thing you are grateful for or appreciate about each other. And then hug for three slow breaths.”

2. Let your spouse feel your presence
Being available might be one of the more difficult things to do with the demands from work, home obligations, personal needs and responsibilities,” says Dr. Tasha Holland-Kornegay, a licensed mental health clinician, author, and motivational speaker. However, making your spouse feel that you are present in the moment will help taking away a lot of irritation, miscommunication, and other tiring aspects that your spouse experienced.” A good start? When your partner is talking about something personal, give them your full attention. Put your phone (or tablet or laptop) down. Make eye contact. Nod. Affirm. Reciprocate. Be there fully. Sometimes,” per Dr. Holland-Kornegay, looking at your partner with loving eyes and a smile on the lips can be enough.”


3. Focus on your hellos and goodbyes
Ask yourself: Do I breeze in and out, or do I take a moment to kiss them and tell them that I love them? When I'm coming home — or when my work from home day finishes — do I take a few minutes to ask them about their day and really listen? Think about this and make shifts where necessary. After all, small course corrections can lead to meaningful changes. We can take our partners for granted,” says Nick Bognar, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. But these little connections can make a world of difference”

4. Validate more often
We all want validation from the people we love — that is, someone who says, I hear you and I understand. Acknowledge and accept your partner's feelings, beliefs, and thoughts,” says Marisa T Cohen, PhD, a relationship scientist and coach. Even if you don't see eye-t👎eye it is important that you have open and honest conversations with your partner and allow him/her/them to open up and share.”


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Re: How to be a good partner by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Tue, 11 Oct, 2022 - 10:25:15:am GMT

The relationship is a desire of everyone even though many of us deny that we don't want to love simply because of the past. Your past is your past! Never allow your past to determine your future relationship. Make sure you've healed up before finding a life partner.

The moment you are healed and you've found a good partner all you need is to be a good partner too. There are numerous ways of becoming a good partner but this can only be done when you are intentional about your growth. As an individual you need to develop yourself personally; morally, academically, and spiritually.

Another way you can be a good partner is to do away with any attitudes that won't make your relationship progress. The attitude of "that's the way I am" is not healthy; if there are some things you need to work on, kindly work on them. Don't use the I don't care attitude to spoil your relationship. Love is sweet when both parties understand each other!

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