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Romance » How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Mon, 12 Jul, 2021 - 10:17:20:am GMT
Have you ever been in a relationship crisis where you don't know what your partner really desire?

Love is a crazy feeling that make sane men go mad. Yes ... you heard me right .. mad.. but I mean, civil madness. Until we can accept this fact and prepare our minds towards it by expecting less from our partners, then heartbreak and incessant emotional crisis will be our companion.

Truth is that man and women are created and wired differently. For instance, what a man truly desire is respect and so men interpret respect as love. You want a man to love you, do anything for him with respect and you will win his heart. Cook for him and serve him on bended kneels and you will bring out the baby in him. Even if you insult him respectfully, he would laugh it out and just ignore the insult. In fact, a man only decides to leave his home or divorce his wife when he feels he has lost his respect at home.

If only women can understand this, they will know how to handle their home and protect their marriage. This is the main reason while the marriages of our parents worked. It was simply because the traditional society encouraged women to respect their husbands.

Today, what we tagged as modernization and feminism has corrupted many women in our society. They talk to their husbands with so much insult and violent words that they use to bruise their ego. They make their husbands feel less than a man. They are in strong competition with the man over the leadership of the home and undermine his authority. This is the main reason for the rapid increase of divorce in our society.

I must also state that men should learn to love their wives and care for them. Women are emotional beings. Just do something for them in a romantic way and they will be head over heels for you. Send them gifts in a special way, send them early morning messages to let them know that you're thinking about them, appreciate their looks and food and talk to them with respect ๐Ÿ™Œ ๐Ÿ˜Š.

Men of this age have a lot to do because the many women out there have a wrong mentality about marriage. So, if you must make your relationship work and keep the love burning, both partners must learn to work together appreciate and respect one another and correct themselves with love and respect.

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Lilcent(m) .:. Wed, 14 Jul, 2021 - 03:05:43:pm GMT

Keeping the love burning in a relationship is easier easier said than done.
It takes the commitment from both lovers to make the relationship strong. If one of the spouse is committed to the relationship and the other is less commited in a relationship, it poses a lot of problems to the relationship which might affect the relationship on the long run.
One of the key factors to keep a relationship burning is communication.
A relationship with out communication can never last for too long.

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Flat(m) .:. Thu, 15 Jul, 2021 - 09:12:43:am GMT

Keeping the love burning! This is one of the most important thing to do because it is not just a day relationship, neither is it a week relationship nor a month relationship but years that only God can determine the end.
Just like you have said, their are different ways and patterns in which love can be kept burning, but this issue if respect is what I donโ€™t truly understand. Over the time, with my little stay and viewing experience on relationship, have come to realize that what we actually define as respect in relationship is not what respect means. Just like the instance you gave about the issue of the wife giving food to the husband on bended kneels, does it means that those that does not kneel do not have respect. You see, I want us to accept the fact that kneeling can be a sign of respect back in the days but currently it is not. What is the excess of the kneeling when within yourself you know the kneeling is just a camouflage. Personally to me, I do not see kneeling down as a sign of respect but rather I see support, encouragement, endurance, perseverance as respect. Not allowing others to talk heel of your husband, fighting for what you think itโ€™s right. So, for us to actually keep the love burning we need to understand what we are into.
To the ladies, am not saying you shouldnโ€™t kneel down o, you can if you like but ensure you are not doing it just because you are being forced to but ensure you are doing it from the whole of your heart. A better way to respect your husband is to ensure that you limit what you say about him to your friends, even to your family. I can categorically tell you that that is a better sign of respect.
Therefore, keep the love burning with the concept that seems good to you.


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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Abbey(m) .:. Sun, 22 Aug, 2021 - 08:55:05:am GMT

Most youth don't have enough understanding about love and relationship because they are not been thought .
If you ask about seventy percent of girls that why did you choose to date the guy you are dating what they will say is that the guy is rich .
If the guy is rich today did you know what will happen tomorrow, alright what will happen if the money later go away.

Are you engaged or not hold your partner thight there are ways to by which someone can keep love in relationship burning.
**Abbey **

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Abbey(m) .:. Sun, 22 Aug, 2021 - 09:00:23:am GMT

Such as.
A. Give a call to your spouse each day.maybe you are not always together you should at least hear his voice or her voice,love is more sweeter when you hear the voice of your spouse.
When you both communicate eachday it will be good and nice.

B.send love and nice text messages.send text messages to your girlfriend and if you are a girl you can send text messages to your boyfriend.
Sending text is very nice and in fact it is very important earlier in the morning and at night before she sleeps .
**Abbey **

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Damilola(f) .:. Sat, 23 Oct, 2021 - 03:34:13:pm GMT

Love is very powerful. If one expection in a relationship is not met, one will feel disappointed. The most painful thing in life is one sided love. When you love someone and the person is not reciprocating.
I have seen a guy who hold unto a lady despite her awful character. She will insult everyone around him and yet the guy will still beg her. They have dated for a long time and even planning for marriage. She is educated but arrogant and saucy. funnily and touchingly, She broke up with the guy just because she is not comfortable with his mother.

Women nowadays, can never be satisfied.
It takes the grace of God for a relationship to end up in marriage.
Relationship is meant for you to know each other, study each other's character and temperament, build strong love, and plan the future together.
To keep love burning in a relationship, both parties have a lot of work to do. Both parties cannot be cold, that is why we need each other. Our understanding can never be the same, that is why we must be patient with each other.
Love is worth working for.

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 31 Jan, 2022 - 11:59:34:am GMT

Out of one hundred percentage of love today seventy percentage is fake and while the remaining Thirty percent is real now look at the difference.

You see I will first talk to the guys you clam to be in a relationship with a girl but you did not give are attention no that is unfair , since you already know that you don't have time for her why did you make love to her in the first place that is number one , give her enough attention call her three or two times in a day .

Give her sweet names such as my dear ,my love , sweetheart, all this will make your love for her to be burning .
Don't shout on her always give her time to reason with you in opinion and discussion .
**Olatoke **

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 31 Jan, 2022 - 12:06:27:pm GMT

Girls are so simple they have flexible mind you just let her be happy every moment of her days been with you in a relationship your love in her heart will continue to burn like anything , girls need proper communication and care.

Respect her personality what ever the case may be always appreciate her most especially among her friends let her know that she is different and beautiful .

Buy her something nice and unique in nature for example if her favourite colour is blue you go to o the super market and purchase a blue wears for her am sure she will appreciate it then your love will be burning in her mind always.
Mind you don't cheat if you won't to stay you stay if you are thinking otherwise then live.
**Olatoke **

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Vickybrown(m) .:. Sun, 13 Mar, 2022 - 08:37:16:am GMT

I think love, commitment, communication and perseverance are the keys to keeping a strong love relationship.....

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Vickybrown(m) .:. Sun, 13 Mar, 2022 - 08:38:57:am GMT

@Olatoke:. Well said bro...

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Wed, 16 Mar, 2022 - 11:54:28:am GMT

Relationship requires a lot of work on their own and only intentional people can keep the love in the relationship burning especially for those in a long-distance relationship. When we both met each other the butterflies were still flying inside us and we were always there to see each other but unfortunately, life demanded us to make some sacrifice that's essential for our growth and development.

The first 3 months of a relationship are always romantic and sweet but like I said it takes only intentional people to make the relationship work. To make relationships work, both parties need to see each other as best friends and both of them should be ready to open up to each other. Though many claim that their partner is their best friend but it's not reflected in their behaviors.

Both parties should tell each other how they feel, relate to each other without holding anything back - this helps the relationship a lot because both of you feel safe and secure.

Communication also keeps the relationship going and when I mention communication I mean quality communications. Quality communication is different from ordinary communication - most of us do ordinary communication with friends but as a lover, we're to talk and express our feelings the same way we are going to do assuming we are together. This will make the relationship sweeter even without seeing each other.

Lovers should also cultivate the habit of reminding each other of the word "LOVE". At times, we become so familiar with each other that we forget to say " I LOVE YOU TO OUR PARTNERS". This shouldn't be especially the guys should take note of this if they want their relationship love to keep burning - ladies love it when you remind them that you love them. The word sparks in our hearts and a lot of joy feels our hearts especially when we know that it's coming from genuine and sincere hearts.

I will love to say this over and over again "Love is sweet when both parties are intentional about their relationship".

**Always put God first **

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Re: How to Keep The Love in Relationship Burning by: Wonders(f) .:. Mon, 28 Mar, 2022 - 01:10:29:pm GMT

You are right but kneel down?? Expect I commit a very terrible crime ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
You're right that men want respect and ladies want love, infact it's just like the bible says "wives, submit to your husband, then husbands love your wives.

Aside from this, I will like to point out that not wanting the same thing out of life or having different perspective about core stuffs is a major reason some relationships don't work.

I've watch lots of romantic movies, and you find that most times the lady and man are different people entirely, therefore they can't be together. Each of them will have to go find someone that is just the same as they are, they will go find someone that wants the same thing they want out of life like they do.

So, to prevent unnecessary heartbrakes, I'd advice you go into a relationship with someone that is just like you. Yaaah, there will be differences between you two but let it not much differences and let the differences not be on some core aspects of life.

They say you attract who are, but I guess sometimes we want someone that isn't meant for us. And it's okay but if you want a serious relationship that will last long. We all need to go for someone that aligns with who are, where we are going and what we want!

This may be hard to come by but if you wait, you'd realize it's worth it!

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