Love is a crazy feeling that make sane men go mad. Yes ... you heard me right .. mad.. but I mean, civil madness. Until we can accept this fact and prepare our minds towards it by expecting less from our partners, then heartbreak and incessant emotional crisis will be our companion.
Truth is that man and women are created and wired differently. For instance, what a man truly desire is respect and so men interpret respect as love. You want a man to love you, do anything for him with respect and you will win his heart. Cook for him and serve him on bended kneels and you will bring out the baby in him. Even if you insult him respectfully, he would laugh it out and just ignore the insult. In fact, a man only decides to leave his home or divorce his wife when he feels he has lost his respect at home.
If only women can understand this, they will know how to handle their home and protect their marriage. This is the main reason while the marriages of our parents worked. It was simply because the traditional society encouraged women to respect their husbands.
Today, what we tagged as modernization and feminism has corrupted many women in our society. They talk to their husbands with so much insult and violent words that they use to bruise their ego. They make their husbands feel less than a man. They are in strong competition with the man over the leadership of the home and undermine his authority. This is the main reason for the rapid increase of divorce in our society.
I must also state that men should learn to love their wives and care for them. Women are emotional beings. Just do something for them in a romantic way and they will be head over heels for you. Send them gifts in a special way, send them early morning messages to let them know that you're thinking about them, appreciate their looks and food and talk to them with respect 🙌 😊.
Men of this age have a lot to do because the many women out there have a wrong mentality about marriage. So, if you must make your relationship work and keep the love burning, both partners must learn to work together appreciate and respect one another and correct themselves with love and respect.
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**Creativity lies in the imagination of man**
Keeping the love burning in a relationship is easier easier said than done.
It takes the commitment from both lovers to make the relationship strong. If one of the spouse is committed to the relationship and the other is less commited in a relationship, it poses a lot of problems to the relationship which might affect the relationship on the long run.
One of the key factors to keep a relationship burning is communication.
A relationship with out communication can never last for too long.
Keeping the love burning! This is one of the most important thing to do because it is not just a day relationship, neither is it a week relationship nor a month relationship but years that only God can determine the end.
Just like you have said, their are different ways and patterns in which love can be kept burning, but this issue if respect is what I don’t truly understand. Over the time, with my little stay and viewing experience on relationship, have come to realize that what we actually define as respect in relationship is not what respect means. Just like the instance you gave about the issue of the wife giving food to the husband on bended kneels, does it means that those that does not kneel do not have respect. You see, I want us to accept the fact that kneeling can be a sign of respect back in the days but currently it is not. What is the excess of the kneeling when within yourself you know the kneeling is just a camouflage. Personally to me, I do not see kneeling down as a sign of respect but rather I see support, encouragement, endurance, perseverance as respect. Not allowing others to talk heel of your husband, fighting for what you think it’s right. So, for us to actually keep the love burning we need to understand what we are into.
To the ladies, am not saying you shouldn’t kneel down o, you can if you like but ensure you are not doing it just because you are being forced to but ensure you are doing it from the whole of your heart. A better way to respect your husband is to ensure that you limit what you say about him to your friends, even to your family. I can categorically tell you that that is a better sign of respect.
Therefore, keep the love burning with the concept that seems good to you.