Romance » How do you handle misunderstanding in mariage. by: Queen(f) .:. Mon, 07 Nov, 2022 - 11:04:30:pm GMT
Understanding is the true meaning of a thing or person. in this context, it is to miss the meaning of what your spouse did said or signified.
meaning is the idea that a person wants or intended to express by using words, signs, etc .
So meaning is an intention basically and not necessarily what was said. meaning is the big picture behind the statement or action.
In the book of Esther 3:7-8, here the king was being brain washed by Hanan and every body including the wife of the king was prevented from seeing the king. It is possible for Esther to react angrily for being among those restricted from seeing the king, but she understood that it was not about her, but the kingdom. that gave her the ability to still have a good sense of reasoning.
Too much anger can take over your sense of reasoning, and you will most time miss what is important and Pursue what is not important.
understanding gave Esther a good platform to save her people. always remember that it is not always about you. be wise by trying to get the real reason behind every action. do not allow people's actions to define you. it does not matter what they think, it's your opinion that matter and God's. Shalom.
**It is well**
Re: How do you handle misunderstanding in mariage. by: Olatoke(m) .:. Sun, 13 Nov, 2022 - 11:14:55:am GMT
Misunderstanding is normal in every marriage there is no how you are perfect you will still experience misunderstanding even if you are Mr perfect or you are Mrs prefect misunderstanding will still occur between husband and wife accepted.
Now when it happen what should you do as a couple , tolerance one should come down for the other or else things will be distroy but am going to focus on the husband, husbands when you and your wife has a misunderstanding you are the head of the house settled it amicable between you and your wife.
Wife also should forgive and forget all things that happen live happily enjoy your life in peace say sorry when it meant to be.
The moment you invite third party in your house you have open yourself to the world so don't let any body intervain in your martial aspect.
Re: How do you handle misunderstanding in mariage. by: SamuelKingsley93(m) .:. Mon, 14 Nov, 2022 - 08:20:12:pm GMT
Misunderstanding especially in marriage is as common as eating beans. Even in everyday life, misunderstanding is common talkless of two different join together till death do them apart. In the course of the journey, misunderstanding is necessary for understanding. Misunderstanding helps you to know about the person and the way they relate.
In the course of trying to handle misunderstanding, it is best for you the partner to do it alone without a third party involving in it unless it is very crucial and it must be from a person who is trustworthy not just any one.
Re: How do you handle misunderstanding in mariage. by: Damilola(f) .:. Thu, 17 Nov, 2022 - 04:53:50:pm GMT
Understanding matters in marriage.
As a wife, if your husband gets angry, all you need to do is to calm down and listen to his points not his voice. When you listen to his points, you will understand why he is angry, not shouting back at him. The same goes to men.
When you too both get angry, who will calm who?🤷. The reason why we also get angry when we are not cool with our spouse scolding is because we get our pride too, so we don't want to be look down upon, which is not suppose to be so.
No one get angry for no reason, something brings about change. Just understand your spouse. If you couldn't get the reason for the change of behavior, or the reason is meaningless, you just need to pray. Always calm down and observe the situation before reacting.
If ester did not calm down, she won't be where she was .
My God help us all.