Religion » Have confidence in yourself by: Jt-unique(f) .:. Wed, 12 Dec, 2018 - 07:55:24:am GMT

Each of us has an internal dialogue, an inner conversation going on with ourselves through out the day . In fact, we talk more to ourselves than we do to anybody else. The question is, what are you saying to yourself? What do you meditate on? Positive thoughts? Empowering thoughts? Defeated thoughts?, telling yourself things like '' I am unattractive. I'm not talented. I have made many mistakes. I'm sure God is displeased with me''. That kind of negative self talk keeps millions of people from rising.

We usually talk to ourselves subconsciously, without even thinking about it. But in the back of your mind, you have these reoccurring thoughts. And for most people those thoughts are negative. They see somebody that is successful, somebody that's achieving, and that inner voice tells them, ''that will never happen for me. I am not smart enough ''
We have to reprogram our minds. Please don't lay in bed every morning thinking something is wrong with you. It doesn't matter how many times you've tried and failed. You have to shake of those negative messages and experiences, and put on a new recording. Remind yourself often : '' I am a child of God. I have a bright future. God is pleased with me. I will fulfill my destiny ''
If you talk to yourself in the right way, you'll not only enjoy life more, but you will rise higher to a new level of confidence, a level of boldness.
God bless you today as you cultivate the habit of having confidence in yourself.

**Happiness is free. **

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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Frednora(f) .:. Wed, 12 Dec, 2018 - 11:49:53:am GMT

Awww, this one got me. I have always had issues with myself Confidence. Thanks

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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Wed, 12 Dec, 2018 - 11:57:36:am GMT

"David encouraged himself in the Lord" self confidence, self belief, self motivation, and the rest makes one pass through the deepest storm and come out strong because he doesnt depend on external help but in Himself through the Power installed within by God. God is not going to do a new thing, because " According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness". so believe in yourself.

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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Jt-unique(f) .:. Wed, 12 Dec, 2018 - 12:22:17:pm GMT

@Frednora: Ur welcome dear.

As children of God, we are the light and the Salt of the earth. So, we are meant to rule in every sphere of our life. In our academics, careers, business etc. As Christians we should be bold as Lion.

**Happiness is free. **

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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Tue, 11 Jun, 2019 - 09:14:21:am GMT

Well, it isn't bad when you say the truth about yourself. You realise yourself.

You know the truth that you have gone astray or failed in your business.

Is not bad when you say the truth to yourself that, "I have disobeyed the Lord, I have gone out of the way of the Lord, I have failed in my business... E.t.c.

David cried unto the Lord saying, oh God have mercy on me and forsake me not.

He cried because he realizes his mistakes.

It isn't bad when you realize your mistake.

What makes it bad is when you don't cry formerly and change.

You have to cry unto God, tell him, I have done this, I have done that, I have turned from thy ways, I have allowed the devil to come into my life, I have done this, I have done that.

But please have mercy on me.

The Bible says, lean not on your own understanding.

Call upon me and I will answer thee and shew thee great and mighty works which knoweth not of.


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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Velisa(f) .:. Wed, 12 Jun, 2019 - 04:30:53:pm GMT

You are right. Many of us belittle our selves.

We don't want to believe, we have the power. We don't want to believe we have the ability to do more than that person has done.

I told someone... "Not that you don't know yourself, you do. You are just afraid to tell this is yourself as you are amazed about yourself which makes it not to realize to you that, that is your real self. You don't just know how to tell your wonderful self. Cause you are still wondering if this is your real self."

This is what happens to most of us... We know ourself but we belittle ourselves so, we can't just accept our real self. We try to live in the image of another world which is not our own.

We let go of who we are, our ability and go for another world entire because of our ignorance.

You shouldn't. You have to believe in yourself, if you don't. Who will?

You have to know that you are having the same head others are having. You are capable. You are strong enough. YOU are worth more than you think. Stop looking down on yourself.


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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Fri, 14 Jun, 2019 - 08:21:14:am GMT

It marvels me when people don't understand how powerful they really are. Anyway we are not just power, God programmed us that way. This is the most profound truth I have come to realise in my adulthood. I don't know where people are borrowing the defeating mindset from.

People must learn to discover the truth themselves, they must learn to dig deep in search for some working principles on how things really work. For example through prayer, we connect to our supreme being, and if you want positive result in finances prayer is not enough, you must learn to work and have a business.

We are way too powerful than we think. You already have answers to any questions you may have? This is not one of those motivational mantras. For another instance, do you know the world was made through the word of mouth. The same God made us in his own image. We can create our own world with the word of mouth.

Yes you're that powerful. The question is how do you harness this power? Trust God and believe you already have such power. You have the capacity to learn whatever it is you may not know how to do.

Go learn that skill. Go learn get that degree. Focus on those little wins that boost your intelligence and confidence and things will start working for you the right way. Yes it's that simple.

**Obinna Oguji**

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Re: Have confidence in yourself by: Presho23(m) .:. Fri, 14 Jun, 2019 - 01:17:15:pm GMT

When i talk of self confidence, i mean What you've never done before you self confidence gives you the ability to create or invent them just so as to spice up your relationship with people, your business relationships, your personal relationship and make them still up-to-date. Television used to be black and white but then came colored television, why? because the inventors had self confidence and belief in bringing something new that people will desire.

Life is all about new ideas People's mind are being revolved around transition. Transition from analogue to digital.Look at the typewriter, later came the keyboard. Look at the computers, later came the laptops. People used to find it difficult traveling from one country to the other, there came the invention of aeroplanes, cars, ships etc. All those inventors sat and thought of how to solve the problems, the challenges people were facing.

They thought of what to do to make life more easier than before. As a man in a relationship or marriage, you have to once in a while seat and microscope how your relationship is. If it is growing, stagnated, or going backward, or if it is dying. Think of what you can do to spice it up to make it work out easily. That's when invention comes into play and you need to have a bold attitude

Don't still feel relaxed of how your relationship or marriage is going.Relationship is a different ball game from marriage.

Boyfriend and girlfriend is a very different ball game from relationship. Its called transition. Moving from boyfriend plays to relationship, then marriage. You need to always think of new things to do to keep your relationship active.

Your relationship might be experiencing some difficult times but you don't need to shy away from responsibilities, what makes you a man is to be able to trust in your ability to make the right decisions when it looks like things are tough, to be able to weather the storm and make the tough call on issues and matter arising in any facet of life, this is where your self confidence come into play. Don't be afraid of making mistakes, because if you don't make mistakes you wont become perfect in making the right decisions.

Just as the example i sited about those who made color television and improve with technology to serve the society better and give them better worth for their money, the first time they might have tried to make the color television might not have been successful but they try again and again till they became successful that's is self confidence

**Great works are the product of deep thoughts **

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