Babe-Fishing/Dating » HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Wed, 11 Jun, 2014 - 04:19:53:pm GMT

http://pics.blameitonthevoices.com/102009/small_husband%20still%20faithful.jpg" />A lot of marriages ended because partners fail to know and understand some basic rules how to keep the relationship strong and happy. Husbands who cheat on their wives do so for some reasons but this can be avoided. The following are some rules to keep your husband happy and remain faithful to you all throughout your marriage life:

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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Thu, 06 Nov, 2014 - 06:53:37:am GMT

I agree with all your points but have you forgotten that we are human being is not possible to satisfy human needs . For a man or woman to be faithful all takes the grace of the creator.
**kenny g**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Funmo(m) .:. Thu, 19 Mar, 2015 - 04:36:00:pm GMT

HOW TO MAKE A NIGERIAN MAN FAITHFUL

Making the typical Nigerian man faithful in marriage is easy, provided you can endeavour to learn the ropes. Nigerian men grew up under cultural influences and training and this affect their general outlook and how they view marriage. The reason why most men end up cheating is because there is something lacking at home that they get elsewhere, and they will pay any price to get it.

To get your Nigerian man faithful, here are things you must do to utmost perfection.

COOK WELL

You must know how to cook his favorite dishes and delicacies well. Either they be local or foreign. And you must be able to do it yourself. Like they say, the best way to a Nigerian man's heart is through his tummy. We don't play with food o o.

"BEDMATHEMATICS"

Most women will complain that their man goes out for sex with young girls. The reason is because these young girls got skills they have positions and commands that turn your man to a baby in bed. You must be dynamic in bed. Don't just lie on your back like a cold fish, it is not fun. Trust me. If you can "up" your game in bed to an A grade, your man will look forward to bed time.

STAY BEAUTIFUL PLEASE

Most married women are fond of dressing and looking below par in terms of beauty when indoors. Wrong. You must even dress to kill right in the bedroom. Look sexy and attractive, at all time. You must know what is envogue in the fashion world and follow suit.

BE RESPECTFUL

Men love their women respectful. Make sure you over-respect him if possible it is not slavery, it's being marriage-smart. You must know what respect means by the way.

ROMANCE

Be romantic. Buy gifts. Call him sweet names not the honey, sweetheart and daddy junior tags, get creative.


Apply all these and watch your husband turn faithful.

**THE BEST IN WHAT I DO**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Flat(m) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 07:02:58:am GMT

Sincerely speaking, no matter how beautiful you have structured the house of a monkey by putting all things that makes life so good and enjoyable, it will still go back to the bush. This is because of the fact that it enjoy climbing the tree. Want this illustrate is that to matter how best you think you can satisfy a man, if he doesn't think about satisfaction himself, then all your effort will be a waste. This means that, we all change if and only if we conceived it first and thereby taking a step to work towards it. It's essential that you know this.
Now back to the issue, I believe the little scenario above would make it clear to you that you can't make your husband faithful to you by considering your own power and strength all alone. There s need for you to understand that he doesn't see anything wrong in is act of unfaithfulness just because he sees it as a very good way of life. Looking at been faithful from this perspective, it will be termed to mean engaging in sexual relations only with one's spouse or long-term sexual partner. It also means being loyal and full of trust on that relationship. So, if a man is not faithful to that relationship, and if thoroughly checked yourself that you are not the cause of is unfaithfulness, then you need to walk up to God because is unfaithfulness might cost you for life if care is not taken.
It is unusual for a man to act in the opposite manner without a reason, the reason could be as a result of him finding out something about you in which you didn't tell him about and sometimes it might be a battle from the pit of hell. Therefore the best way to make your man faithful to you s for you to remain faithful in all possible aspects and pray it to God because that is where the end o everything lies.


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Mima(f) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 07:20:57:am GMT

Infidelity is a huge concern in relationships.

Whether you've been cheated on before or just generally want to know how to stop your boyfriend or husband from cheating on you in the future, it's important to first understand why men cheat on women they love.

That's right. Most men don't cheat because they're not in love with their wife or girlfriend anymore. Rather, otherwise happily married men say they cheat because they want more variety in their lives or they feel something is missing in an area they believe the woman in their life simply can't fill.

Some men complain of being bored. Or they say want to feel adored by their partners. Ot they want to assert their freedom. Or they're tired of feeling like a disappointment.

They may want a partner who places them at the center of their life, and they no longer feel like a top priority in yours.

Sometimes men cheat because you are speaking different love languages. And some men say they're unfaithful because they're driven by a biological directive to procreate with as many women as possible in order to ensure the survival of the species.

Whatever the reason, men, like women, have an innate need to feel respected and appreciated by their partners.

. Be open to experimentation.

It can be easy to get comfortable, and fear of the unknown may stop you from being open to different sexual experiences. Let your boyfriend or husband know that you're willing and eager to try new things with you.

I'm not saying you should engage in any kind of sexual activity you find repulsive, but open your mind to the idea of being playful and experiencing new things with the man you love.

Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships, we attempt to control the other person so they'll do what works best for us.

This means engaging in destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding in order to control.


. Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him.

Sometimes when women get the guy and get married, they begin to get a false sense of security. Remember, being in a relationship with soneome is voluntary. A person can leave at any time.

With the divorce rate in this country, we need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply to acquire one.


Encourage him to take time for himself.

Some men cheat because they begin to feel hemmed-in by the relationship. Engaging in an affair can provide them the sense of freedom they lose in a relationship.

Allow your man time for himself without you. Don't try to monopolize all your guy's time. Be open to time apart for him to spend with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so he does not feel he has no freedom.

Be aware of your emotions.

Whether or not we are aware of it, women are masters at using their emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. We communicate anger, rage, sadness, and disappointment that is received by our partners.


Make Him Feel Like a Priority
As mentioned earlier, men like to be the center of their partner's world, which cannot always be true since women also have a life of their own.

As a wife, you need to understand that there is a difference between making him a priority and making him feel like he is a priority.

Take a little time out for your husband, plan cute date nights at home, cook him a meal, help him realize he is important and that you still love him.

Men tend to love women who give them importance and make them feel special. We understand it can be difficult to take time out of your busy schedule, especially when you have kids.

In fact, a lot of women can end up neglecting their husbands once they have kids. Do not make this mistake and divide your time equally so that your partner does not feel neglected.

Don't Demand Fidelity - Lead By Example
Do not get us wrong. We are not asking you to accept infidelity but we're asking you to stop forcing him to be loyal to you and the best way to do so is to be loyal to him.

You might have heard the infamous phrase, "actions speak louder than words', so tell him how loyal you are with your actions. If you are faithful, your partner will be faithful as well.

Studies have proven that asking for fidelity almost always prove to be counterproductive.

If you find your husband looking at another lady, try to divert his attention to yourself seamlessly. Don't do it in a way that is obvious. Put your hand behind your husband's back, caress him and tell him how handsome he looks.

**Just me**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Flochords(f) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 01:01:49:am GMT

This is really funny because I don't think there is practically nothing a woman can do to make her husband faithful because faithfulness should be a willful behaviour of a man/woman of integrity. No woman can make her husband faithful except the man is a God fearing man and a man of integrity that has decided to be faithful to his wife.
There was a movie I watched and a lady made a statement that " There is nothing you can do to keep a man, the only man that you can keep is a man that wants to be kept" so when we are talking about a man begin faithful, we are talking about a man of integrity, a man that knows the value of his woman and respects her fully. You don't have to tell your man to treat you well, he will surely know how he ought to if he truly loves you and value you. Don't force a man to be faithful to you, if he loves and value you like i said earlier, he is going to very faithful to you and he is going to be happy doing that and it will not be forceful.

**christ's own**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 07:50:26:am GMT

Your husband is not a dog that you will tame to make him faithful. He is a free man with a free will to do whatever he pleases or believes in. why waste your time on such things like this. Did you marry him to tame him or to love him unconditionally.

You're looking for ways to tame him, but have you search yourself properly to see what you're doing wrong. are you perfect. ARe you sure you're not the one that has a problem. Nigerian ladies must wake up from their slumber and stop seeing men like dogs that they acn tame or bend to do their will, it is very selfish of any one to do such.

They always cry foul that aman is not allowing them to live their life but they are the ones going about making life difficult for these men. All these books written by people with failed marriages and poor understanding about marriage will not help you. work on yourself and be a good and respectful wife and your husband will cherish you.

**Creativity lies in the imagination of man**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 08:13:46:am GMT

Sincerely, a man that will cheat on his wife, will do even if the woman is the most beautiful woman in this world, even if the woman is the most holy, simple, gentle, caring and loving woman in this world, the man will still cheat.


Men who dont cheat, dont do it because they know it adds nothing to their life, they know it will only affect their destiny and glory.

When you have sex with another woman you are not married to, there's a demonic spirit attached to that sex that will keep pushing you daily to continue. That's why most people who cheats finds it difficult to stop. They've been possessed by a spirit, it will take another spirit to destroy a spirit, and that's The Spirit of God.

I really wish all men knows the reward of cheating, it's as terrible as you can never know.

I see no reason a man should cheat, no matter what the wife did. A man with the fear of God is not supposed to do such. So, if you see a man cheats, what he needs is not the wife doing all this you said, but God. He needs God to change his life and see the woman as wife and only one for him.

**Determined**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Blackie(f) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 09:09:17:am GMT


@funmo: you're totally correct.

Men are not that difficult to please, you just need to know the right tactics to keep your man. Learn to cook his favorite dishes, make him what he likes, food is the way to man's heart. Don't complain when he's busy playing games, you can also play with him seeing as guys like PES alot, challenge him, it makes it fun. Also in the inner room, spice up things, you can take part in role playing. Make it so hot, that way he won't be fazed by others instead he'll be looking forward to every night with you. Dress beautifully, refrain from tying wrapper all the time, wear shorts, crop good or you can even get a beautiful lingerie. Send him beautiful romantic texts.

**--realitycheck**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Bookie(f) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 11:50:18:am GMT

Honestly I don't believe there is a way for any woman to make a man stay faithful. If possible let woman be the most beautiful person earth, have the best character, knows how to take care of her herself, and have a doctorate degree in BEDMANTICS, if a man wants to cheat, he will still cheat.

The reason is that I have seen wives who to best of my knowledge have all these qualities and their husbands are unfaithful to them. The only way a man can stay faithful to his partner is by having the fear of God, and knowing that whatever he does to his own body , he will be held accountable for it and not the wife.

**Perfect**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Victoria(f) .:. Tue, 28 Jul, 2020 - 07:28:21:pm GMT

How to make your husband faithful. Is there a particular way to make a man faithful? If there is, I'd also really love to know. Recently, I've been hearing that it's basically impossible for men to be faithful and I have also indeed heard many crazy hypothesis that they feel is enough proof to that statement. I obviously do not agree with their weird and baseless statements but I'll gladly give the reason the gave as to why they made such statements. They say that right from the beginning of time, man has been programmed to be a polygamous creature. They say most of our fathers of old were polygamous stating names like Abraham, Jacob etc. I guess they didn't read the Bible enough to discover the reasons why these men had to pick up other women as wives. Abraham was driven by Sarah so as to get a child while Jacob was basically tricked. So to the men out there, what's your excuse?
Another reason they give is that according to the human anatomy, men were created to be polyamorous beings given that their private part sticks out. Am I the only one who is yet to make out the sense in this particular statement? Like I really don't know what to make of it. It makes absolutely no sense and the fact that some people subscribe to this idea is mentally disturbing. It should even top the list of things that don't make sense at all.
I believe it's impossible to make your husband faithful except by prayer considering the fact that prayer is capable of solving all problems. But aside from that, there's nothing you can do as a woman that will make a man stop cheating.
You can do your best by loving him, by remaining submissive to him, by remaining faithful and also by being a voice of reasoning and his conscience but to say you want to make him stop cheating, you don't have the power to do that.
It's not something you can force him not to do. Cheating is a choice he made so for him to be faithful to you again he needs to make that choice to come back. Prayer is the best option for real.

**Live, love and heal...**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Glamour(f) .:. Wed, 29 Jul, 2020 - 12:22:27:am GMT

Lol, a man that wants to be unfaithful would still be after doing all this. If you like go to heaven, branch hell too, my dear he would still fuck up if he wants too. Best advice I feel I can be is be yourself, try your best also and leave the rest to God and the husband.


Some women have done the one of tieing their husbands down spiritually, in any kind of religion you can think of. if you pray to God about it, the possibility of God arresting your husband is high.

But of all, I feel marry your divine partner, that will save you the stress of cooking up ways to make your husband faithful. It will really save you the stress of going up and down looking for ways to make your husband faithful if you marry according to God's will.

And if you are already in the marriage, and you are looking for ways to make your husband faithful, try your possible best to be a good wife, and leave the rest for God to take control.

**God's favorite**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Micheal(m) .:. Wed, 29 Jul, 2020 - 09:52:24:pm GMT

nice write ups....but with all these you wrote doesn't stop a man from going extra miles expect isn't men those who is more honest than you are they still face the same issues or bigger ones
**codeof conduct**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Phaithh(f) .:. Sat, 01 Aug, 2020 - 05:23:44:pm GMT

How To Make Your Husband Faithful

It's needs both spiritual and physical efforts. You cannot rely solely on the physical or the spiritual alone. Let me explain:
If you are a good wife. You are good in the bedroom ministry. You cook him dishes at appropriate times. You do his laundry. You spend time with him for gist and playing games. You take good care of his children too. You call him every minute just to hear his voice any time he isn't with you. You sacrifice your time and money just to please him and make him happy. You do all these without praying - it's a wasting of time, he will still cheat.
OR
You are too busy with work and church activities. You fast and pray all the time, you even go to the mountains to pray to GOD so he won't cheat. You depend only on your prayers without doing all other "doables" as a wife. You don't give him his required time. You are not always at home. He will definitely cheat.

It's good for balancing. Play your wifely role in the house as you ought to do and pray to GOD to keep him from temptations - at his workplace or any other place.

**Jesus junkie**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Micheal(m) .:. Fri, 07 Aug, 2020 - 06:00:20:pm GMT

well well all this you have just stated here all this doesn't make you satisfy your man,especially husbands there is this adage of yoruba that says "there is no how you are wise even when you are wiser than a tortoise you can never satisfy human" we men of nowadays we complain a lot, out of 100%of mens out there only few will be contended with all this you states here but the rest are cheater, also I don't blame most of them cause ladies and women's of nowadays the way they dress to can make someone who has made up his mind not to do flirt around will make him change his mind.....most men's problem is that they don't know how to appreciate their wives ....it takes the Grace of God to to be one
**codeof conduct**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Loyhaltee(m) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 05:51:13:am GMT

1. Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that.
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.
3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his
sober moment with apology and explain why you behave
that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say " I am sorry dear". Whenever u offend
him, insist on his forgiveness and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him before his friends n siblings.
7. Honour his mother.
8. Insist that he buys gift to his parents and so be sure that
he will do same for your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he
has no enough money at hand
10. Do not allow maid to serve him food when you are at
home, because you may lose him to them.
11. Give him warm reception with an embrace when he
returns, collect his luggage and help UnCloth him.
12. Smile when u looks at him and give him occasional
perks when u are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch or purse.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love
you
18. If he is a public figure or politician, gently wake him at
the early hours of the morning and romance him to the
point of demand.
He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life. Implement this
law that every morning your family will wake up n pray.
It brings unit. Value your husband because you may not
have the second chance to love him. Pray to God to protect
him.
If u practice all these, your husband will be afraid to cheat
on you, even if he does his mind will not be at rest.
If your husband is already cheating on u, begin to practice
these and u will win him back.
Do support it with prayers because nothing is impossible 4
God.
I wish you a happy home and lovable husband.
**I am LoyhaL!**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: MissDairo(f) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 08:46:29:am GMT

To make marriage work it is not a he job of one gender alone.

A man who wants to cheat will still cheat regardless of the effort a woman puts into the relationship.
Nothing justifies cheating.
No one is the reason you cheated. If you're tired of a relationship, it's better you divorce rather than engage in extra marital affairs.

The above points you listed are what marriage should entail but it doesn't guarantee a faithful husband.

To make marriage work it is the sole responsibility of both the husband and the wife.
The husband has the duties he is to perform in the marriage and the wife also has her own duties.
A successful marriage is the joint effort of the couple.

If you realise your marriage isn't working and you feel having an affair will solve things then better separate from your partner than try to justify cheating.

Understanding is something that is needed in every relationship.
Sit down and talk things out with your partner.
If there's something you don't like about the other person, let them and together try to work things out.
Seek the advice of elders or a marriage counselor if you feel things aren't going well.
Knee down in prayers.
Cheating isn't the way out.
It has never been.

**MissDairo**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: MissDairo(f) .:. Sat, 08 Aug, 2020 - 08:50:04:am GMT

To make marriage work it is not a he job of one gender alone.

A man who wants to cheat will still cheat regardless of the effort a woman puts into the relationship.
Nothing justifies cheating.
No one is the reason you cheated. If you're tired of a relationship, it's better you divorce rather than engage in extra marital affairs.

The above points you listed are what marriage should entail but it doesn't guarantee a faithful husband.

To make marriage work it is the sole responsibility of both the husband and the wife.
The husband has the duties he is to perform in the marriage and the wife also has her own duties.
A successful marriage is the joint effort of the couple.

If you realise your marriage isn't working and you feel having an affair will solve things then better separate from your partner than try to justify cheating.

Understanding is something that is needed in every relationship.
Sit down and talk things out with your partner.
If there's something you don't like about the other person, let them and together try to work things out.
Seek the advice of elders or a marriage counselor if you feel things aren't going well.
Knee down in prayers.
Cheating isn't the way out.
It has never been.

**MissDairo**


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   Re: HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND FAITHFUL by: Majorboy(m) .:. Wed, 12 Aug, 2020 - 10:31:10:pm GMT

It is hard to figure out how many men are really loyal to their women in their marriages, but there is no doubt that a huge number of married men have ever thought about cheating on their wives. In general, men are more likely to cheat than women. Men are more inclined to stray when they don't feel fulfilled in their relationships.

As a wife who cherishes your marriage, you must wonder what you can do to better meet your husband's needs. The following are ways to make your husband faithful


(1) Make your husband a priority:

Take time to let your husband realize how special and important he is to you. Understandably, after you got married, your life gets super busy kids, jobs, school, and all sorts of commitments get in the way from time to time. Probably you have missed a lot of opportunities to stay together with him or over time, you may have taken for granted that anyway, he will always be there for you. For example, you feel no need to continue sending the loving and caring information to him regularly. However, if you always treat you that way, he can easily feel ignored

No matter how busy you are, your husband still expects to see you can do something for him even though those things seem small for example, he will appreciate the sweet text you sent to him during your work hours if he is seeing you pick up his favorite snack when you come back home, it is very possible that his heart will swim with joy at the moment.

You may have ever dreamed of doing great events to prove that you put him first, just like a movie plot that moves audiences to tears but unfortunately, your real life is mundane, and usually what you can do is to focus on how to express your love feelings to him in day-to-day life. Don't simply think that persisting in doing these small acts of kindness just makes him feel happy or cared temporarily little by little, he will come to realize that he is a priority for you.

(2) Have a fulfilling sex life:

An exciting way to keep your husband loyal is to have a fulfilling sex life. It does not mean that you have to have more sex with him, and it just wants you to create more actual intimacy, trust, and pleasure with him during sex. No doubt, sexual dissatisfaction is known as a common contributor towards marital infidelity however, a lot of married couples, especially those couples in a sexless marriage, do not pay sufficient to this threatening problem.

Sex is not just sex. To improve his sexual satisfaction, you should learn to motivate him to have sex with you because of the reason - you are irresistible to him. To have a fulfilling sex life, you might try to gain more control of your sex life, but that does not mean you have to be always aggressive during sex. Furthermore, numerous men who cheated confessed that the sex with their mistresses was "different" - their mistresses are willing to offer more amazing sexual options that their wives would not like to do. So, whether you like it or not, probably improving your sex tricks and techniques is also an important aspect when it comes to how to please your man sexually.

(3) Appreciate him:

In any marital relationship where women expect their men to remain loyal to them, they must be aware of one thing - their men need to receive admiration and respect constantly to thrive in their marriages.

Try to put yourself in his shoes: do you feel nice and warm when you hear the words "thank you" that your spouse blurts out? Do you feel good about yourself when you are hearing a specific thing about you that your spouse admires? Maybe you have not realized the strong sense of well-being that he can achieve from your admiration and appreciation. Obviously, by appreciating him what he did for you, you communicate your gratitude, love, and respect to him.

Remember, your husband deeply wants to achieve a feeling that he could "win" your heart at home when he feels that you are appreciating or admiring him, he feels motivated to contribute more to the relationship as well as the family.

(4) Respect yourself:

Understandably, a man who has no respect for his woman may cheat on her eventually. And to make your man respect you, you have to respect yourself first. Many times, probably you are too focused on your spouse that you neglect yourself. If you think that you have to pay close attention to your husband all the time for reassuring yourself, sooner or later, you will burn yourself out and exhaust all your passion in your marriage. Likewise, there is also no need for you to push yourself to do everything to please him.

Self-respect is surely one of the most attractive qualities that a woman should have so when it comes to how to make your husband loyal, don't neglect an important premise - be a woman with self-respect. Again you can't win loyalty from your husband without self-respect.

(5) Support him:

Even though your husband is the most independent and intelligent guy, he also expects to receive all aspects of support from his wife. Your support makes him feel understood and loved. In many cases when your husband actually needs support, he does not directly say to you "I need your support", but he will appreciate you when you proactively provide support to him.

So, if you notice that he decides to try something new, you may encourage him if he is hitting a rough patch in life or business, comfort him. Unlike women, men are less willing to open up to their spouses so don't expect that he will have a heartfelt conversation with you every time he is having a hard time when he is feeling down or lost but unwilling to speak, you do not have to ask him to speak to you unreservedly, just keep doing supportive things to make him feel that you just expect him to come back up as soon as possible.

(6) Respect him:

Numerous romantic comedies have repeatedly told you that the majority of men are naturally incompetent, self-centered horn dogs and that they can turn into drooling cavemen when seeing an even mildly attractive woman walking by him. But, don't take these views seriously because such views are just negative and one-sided, instead, you should fully respect your husband. You do not have to pay too much about how he gets along with all his cute friends and co-workers of the opposite sex. When your man feels like you are the supervisor who is watching his every move, not only he does feel that you doubt his loyalty, but he strongly senses that you are disrespectful to him (as we all know, everyone wants others to respect the privacy of the individual).

Your insecurity is a big boner shrinker for him, and unwarranted snooping, accusing, and lecturing are certain to get you nowhere. Even though you have a legitimate concern about his cheating, an honest and respectful conversation is still a good place to begin.

In the mind of a husband, respect is even more crucial than love in marriage. So, when you are confused about how to make your husband loyal, ask yourself whether you have made him feel highly respected in the marriage.

(7) Don't talk behind your husband's back:

Any marital relationship can become strained for a variety of reasons at some point, but it is often a huge mistake to air your dirty laundry (unless your husband is doing something dangerous, illegal, or abusive to you, in which case, you are advised to seek help from a third party).

When you feel that your marriage becomes a run-of-the-mill drama, ranting to your family and friends may also make things worse more often than not. Actually, almost all the men hate their women to talk about them behind their backs, especially if their women bring up the past things that both parties intensely argued for who was right and who was wrong and that both parties have agreed to let go of. Digging up the unpleasant past will only cause another rift in the relationship. As long as you are sure that you decide to let bygones be bygones and get well along with him, it is better to keep those unpleasant things to yourself.

(8) Develop empathy towards your husband:

Many of those men who betrayed their women complained that their women lack empathy towards them no matter what they did, and even that they still feel misunderstood or overlooked by their women when they were going through a rough time. Whereas with a mistress, they get a sense that their emotional experience can be better validated.

Empathy is an essential component of any healthy relationship. If you are more attuned to his feelings, he will have more willingness to engage in a free and candid exchange of views, comments, and opinion no matter how controversial an issue is in other words, deep empathy makes your husband less defensive and better able to keep calm during a conflict or argument.

(9) Don't be too controlling:

In a lot of women's married life, they often attempt to force their men to work under their specific directions and carry out their decisions without permitting their men to question their judgment. Ask yourself whether you have ever engaged in some destructive relationship patterns, such as blaming, complaining, nagging, threatening, rewarding/bribing and punishing. When you are trying to control your spouse, most likely you are acting out of a certain kind of fear, such as fear of the unknown, and fear of not achieving something you desire. Therefore, to a considerable extent, stopping your controlling behavior in marriage is stopping your fear from manipulating yourself.

The final word:

Men are wired very differently than women, so don't view what your husband wants in your marriage purely out of your own perspective. The more satisfied he feels in your relationship, the more loyal he will be to you. If you want to learn more about how to make your husband loyal, you might go on to watch the presentation below to seek further advice about how to win your husband's attention, love and total devotion for your married life:










**I'm. Just. Me**


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