Romance » HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Wed, 16 Apr, 2014 - 03:54:09:pm GMT
How to know the right man
As a woman, there are times it looks difficult to know the right man and you just feel like giving up on it. Here is a list of how to know the right man.
1 Create a list of qualities you want in a Dream Guy, and expect to get about half on any date you go on. For example, a list may say "He Must: 1) Work on or have a higher education, 2) Have a job, 3) Have a car, 4) Treat his family with respect, 5) Refrain from drug use." Choose traits and qualities that are important to you as this list will be a tool to better understand who you're dating.
2 After you create this list, open up the door! Tell any and every guy that is interested in you that you are willing to date them, friends, best friends, acquaintances even, but they must understand that they are not the only one you're dating. This means there should be no jealousy, and no one gets hurt in the process.
3 Schedule dates with each of the men, and keep a mental list of those qualities running in your head during the date. When you get home, check off the qualities you saw displayed, and write the gentleman's initials next to the mark so you know which one displayed that particular quality.
4 Continue dating and complete this process for however long you feel you need. Things may take a lot longer than you think, and the relationship may take turns you never saw coming. This step-by-step is just a spring board for you to get out and on the hunt. When you feel ready for a committed relationship, look over the list and see who has the most qualities you wanted.
5 When you find the two best men, think over what qualities you wanted that they might not have, and decide if you can handle the fact that they don't have those qualities. Can you handle the fact they don't have a car? Can you handle the annoying things he does during dinner, like talk with his mouth full, slurp when he drinks, or talk too much? If yes, then don't rule them out. Then think about how they make you feel when you're around them. If conversation and that "spark" aren't there then obviously it's not right for you. If they are, then perfect.
6 Search your heart, and make a choice, letting everyone else know that you are no longer in the market, at least not for a while. Explain to them that although you like them as a friend, and enjoyed the dates, you're just not interested in a relationship with them.
7 Schedule a final date with the number one guy, and discuss with him how you feel and what your intentions for the relationship in the future are, and ask him if this relationship is going to go further. Talk with him about where you want it to go, and where he sees it going, and if he truly is the one, then be willing to wait a reasonable amount of time.
NOTE: DON'T GO DEEP WITH ANY UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF THE ONE YOU WANT
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Velisa(f) .:. Mon, 24 Jun, 2019 - 06:38:45:am GMT
I used to say that when you get the right man or woman and you are not committed or faithful to the relationship, the relationship won't stand. You will still end up breaking up like he or she is not the right man or woman.
Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Gooddypye(m) .:. Tue, 25 Jun, 2019 - 07:28:04:am GMT
Well, it's a good idea. But to me it sounds funny cretins a list and listing your choices and all that. But though it's a good point.
Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Youngbeauty(m) .:. Sat, 29 Jun, 2019 - 03:46:21:pm GMT
**Obedience is better than sacrifice**
Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Flat(m) .:. Wed, 01 Jul, 2020 - 11:48:52:pm GMT
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Victoria(f) .:. Tue, 20 Oct, 2020 - 05:24:43:pm GMT
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 21 Oct, 2020 - 10:22:02:am GMT
This goes to the ladies knowing the right man is not what you can discover very easily, in this case ladies have to be careful before taking decision on who to be in relationship with, this day people get divorce for no reason or for less reason
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Holashayo(f) .:. Wed, 21 Oct, 2020 - 11:01:17:am GMT
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: AdaJesus(f) .:. Fri, 18 Dec, 2020 - 10:20:33:am GMT
@Youngbeauty:
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Chamak(f) .:. Fri, 18 Dec, 2020 - 12:23:34:pm GMT
Sometimes I see some topics and I'm amazed as to why it should come up in the first place because there is no formula out there or procedure that will make all men behave the same way so why come up with a list of attributes that you feel will work for you as the steps for every lady to know the right man to marry.
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Vickybrown(m) .:. Fri, 18 Dec, 2020 - 02:24:59:pm GMT
@Velisa: that's was so inspiring Velisa. You can be busy searching for the right man while u're not the right woman for him.
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Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 10 Aug, 2022 - 01:21:45:pm GMT
How to know the right man can be determine in the olden days but in these present generation of our own time my sister you can't actually said that this is the right man , I am a man and we man are very desperate in nature even some one who you think that is not the right man can actually be the right man .
It take only the grace of God to know that right man whom God has prepare for you not by your own personal thinking or believe.
Some ladies will even go to the extreme of saying I trust him in thses generation forget about trust even don't trust yourself also rather than putting your trust in another person .
At this junction seek for God attention in prayers and you will be lead to the right man.
Don't forget God first then others.
**Abbey **
Re: HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 10 Aug, 2022 - 01:29:01:pm GMT
Don't forget that pretenders are every where with their sugar mouth , young guys of today are full of lies some will even get married to a lady because of her money after getting all the money he will be no were to be found.
As a girl you can be in a relationship with many guys as possible but how do you figure out the right one will be the problem the heart of a man is full of evil so don't rely on anyone yet except if it ment to be .
Take your time nurse your ambition because getting married is to be happy and have fullness of joy .
Also applicable tk women we have good women and also the bad women so it all goes together .
**Abbey **