Many people believe a man is never complete until he finds a wife, the supposed missing rib and just as there is the right missing rib, there is also a fake or wrong "missing rib". If you are unfortunate to find the fake "missing rib" you are doomed or finished not complete.
Being in a wrong relationship is not just stressful, it makes your heart tired and your soul worn out. No matter how much effort you put in or how good you try to be, it still seems whatever you give is not enough to keep the relationship. You get hurt, you worry and are sad. Such relationships leave your mind with questions such as
"why is relationship so difficult or complicated, why can't I just be happy in relationship".
Happiness in relationship is not too much to ask, loving without worry is not expensive. In fact, everyone deserves to be happy and have peace of mind. This is not something impossible, but that is not possible when you settle down with the wrong person.
Relationship is not complicated, it is so simple and if you choose to be in one, all you need is to be honest and loyal. You suffer when you settle with someone who is not honest or loyal.
Be with someone who is the same privately, publically and personally. Don't be with someone who is comfortable holding you in private but ashamed of holding you in public. Don't just believe people who only say they love you, believe it when they show that they love you.
Don't let him show you to his family whilst he has other women in his life he doesn't want to let go. Don't let her introduce you to her pastor when she has Exes she can't live a day without talking to.
Don't go looking for a perfect relationship, look for a loyal one a person who will stay with you until the end of your journey in life someone who will stand together with you in difficult times. Be with someone who wants to see you happy even if they are not part of your happiness.
Someone who won't betray your friendship for anything, someone who is afraid of losing you. Be with someone who protects you. Someone who does the little gestures that show you are important and are happy having you in their life. Gestures like "I miss you" text messages in the middle of the day, in your busy schedules, Being the first person they want to talk to when something exciting happens during the day the random call just to hear your voice.
Don't be with someone who lies to you, for you are not a kid. Nobody needs to tell you lies to keep smiles on your face. Be with someone who speaks the truth.
Be with someone who will fight for you if the one you are dating is the opposite of the one I have spoken of in this message, then maybe it's time to call it quits. Don't waste your life with time wasters, for time is one of the most expensive commodities in life. It is more costly than money. You can always regain lost money but not lost time. **Courageous**
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