Romance » Good idea or Bad idea by: Oma_maron(f) .:. Fri, 15 Mar, 2019 - 06:12:55:pm GMT

Can a guy and a girl be best friends without having sex? Is this really possible? Because I see many people keeping the opposite sex as best friends and am like could this people not be having sex because they are too close, another addition to the question to make it more interesting if you are married or in a relationship will you allow your partner to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

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Re: Good idea or Bad idea by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sun, 17 Mar, 2019 - 04:42:29:pm GMT

I don't think it's going to be a good idea having a close relationship with the opposite sex, because we know how it will end, there would be a day when you become lonely and emotions take the better part of you, and boom you will start making out with your friend.

It will affect your relationship and some people will start having second thoughts about their spouse or their relationships thinking that their friend would be a better option, that's why I always advice that, if you must have a friend, have a friend of the same sex to avoid comparison with your spouse.

That is because the moment you start giving your friend the attention you should accord your partner then your relationship is going to be affected!!! Always respect your partner and do what's right, because by right your partner should be your best friend not an outside who will break your relationship!!!

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Re: Good idea or Bad idea by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Tue, 19 Mar, 2019 - 03:28:11:pm GMT

@piwizo: I do not support your idea. There is absolutely nothing wrong in being best friend with the opposite sex. If you are going to talk of at times emotions fall to each others, the same thing can happen to being with same sex. I've seen ladies, best friends who are lesbians. Sleeping with each others and doing lesbianism act with each others, yet they are best of friends. There is nothing bad being best friend with an opposite sex. Nigerians just like stressing everything. I used to have a guy, he was my best friend, that everyone knows we are very close. If anyone offends him and pleaded him but didn't forgive, the person will come to me and plead on his/her behalf. I love the friendship between us. And he was even a family friend. We can sleep and wake up in the same bed. Eat together, share our feelings together, advice each others. He had his girlfriend and I had my own boyfriend .we advice each others on our relationship. So, there is absolutely nothing wrong. It's a good experience being with with sane sex with your lover. There are some good things you will hear from your best friend that will make you love your partner more.

It's just that bad companies corrupt good manner. It is only when you move with the bad ones that bad things happen. When you move with a god fearing one who understands everything about you. Things work out well for you both. It will be the best friendship experience ever.


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