Babe-Fishing/Dating » GO FOR A BORN AGAIN CHILD OF GOD by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Sun, 05 May, 2019 - 02:38:12:pm GMT
I hate to break this to you but, It is not in your power to keep a man from desiring other women besides you, do not be led to say
-As long as I am good to him, he will stay with me.
-As long as I cook his meals and serve him like a king he will be faithful to me.
-As long as the love making is great he won't lust after other women.
I wish I could say this was true, but Im sorry it isnt, doesn't happen this way.
No matter how great a spouse you are, no matter how strongly connected to God you are as his wife, his desires will not be to you alone if he does not carry the nature of Christ. There is no good you can do to help such a man, for by the nature of Adam has no man won against his flesh.
So do yourself a favour my dear, set your eyes on a man who is soaked in the nature of Christ, one who is born into a new refreshing grace, one who recognizes his position as a priest of Heaven. One who respects and honours God too much to cheat on his woman. One who knows that its not even about you, one who will not flee from temptations because of his love for you alone, but his uncompromising love for God.
With such a man you won't need to do anything extraordinary to keep him from cheating, the fear of God will humble him for you, and the graceful nature of Christ will rule over him.
I say this because it is true to keep your man from cheating, he has to be under an authority higher than you, you he can overlook, you he can compromise on, you he can lie to, you he can make up excuses for, you he can control. But when a man recognises that he reports to the Holy Spirit, a superior authority higher than him, the fear of God will naturally amplify his respect and commitment to you.
Re: GO FOR A BORN AGAIN CHILD OF GOD by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 21 May, 2019 - 07:22:48:am GMT
This is true...
But though it's hard to get someone of such. Cause in this world, there are lots of pretenders. People who pretends a lot.
They don't have the fear of God but they seems they do.
They act like they really do. Yet they don't.
I know of someone. That each time we chat, from the chat it's will seems the person has the fees of God. But the time I might him, was when I realized that there was no fees of God in him. He was just a pretender
Now, there are lots of people like that too. Until you've got to know there privacy and all that, you can't tell there real self.
But it's at times very easy to know a person who had the fear of God....
*they don't lie
*They pray not for you to know they can pray but because they felt it is needed.
And I will advice this, if you don't have the fees of God, don't look for someone with the fear of God. Cause you will only pull that person down with your bad ways of living.
Bad companies corrupt good manners.
It's the truth.