Family/Parenting » From A Confused Sister by: Peperempe(m) .:. Sun, 10 Aug, 2014 - 02:59:28:pm GMT

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Some two months ago I found out that my sister and I don't share the same father. My mom left her phone unlocked and I read her messages turns out my sisters dad is the guy my mom is dating now. Nobody knows I know this secret I'm so mad at my mom and my sister for not telling me knowing they both know. I'm seriously gonna get an ulcer thinking about it but what I don't understand is why my sister treats me like I'm the half sister she's so mean to me and nice to my brothers I don't understand why. I tell her I love she says I don't like you she have never once hugged me or said she loved me and I'm 21. Idk how to feel at all. Should I tell them I know or keep it a secret idk what to do its driving me insane. And it's not like she's jealous she didn't get my dad he was a horrible father bailed when I turned 8. What would you do? How would you feel?

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Re: From A Confused Sister by: Bebeyequeen(f) .:. Sun, 10 Aug, 2014 - 03:01:01:pm GMT

Do what Zoey said but also confront your sister on her acts and if she continues to do it just leave her alone she sucks then. but yeah tell them you know.

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Re: From A Confused Sister by: Diane(f) .:. Sun, 10 Aug, 2014 - 03:02:03:pm GMT

I think you should tell your mom what you read (apologize for snooping too) and ask her what it all means. Tell her you'd appreciate some honesty and then be open to her response. Good luck

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Re: From A Confused Sister by: Piwizo(m) .:. Fri, 08 Feb, 2019 - 03:32:06:am GMT

You don't need to worry yourself over this, if she doesn't like you after all your efforts to express and show love to her then just move on with your life she's just one person in a world of over 7 billion people so you see that her opinions doesn't really matter, and one thing I want to correct you about is the way you went through your mum phone, even though you used this means to find something important it's wrong, don't ever go through your mum phone without her consent or without her permission, even though she might not be the greatest of moms but trust me she's still your mum and deserve a little bit of respect other than that you're a young girl who needs to enjoy your life because there are many people out there who would want to be a sister to you, give them the opportunity and enjoy your life cause before you know it you might just miss the moment!!!

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Re: From A Confused Sister by: Velisa(f) .:. Mon, 11 Mar, 2019 - 08:45:42:pm GMT

Why putting yourself in thinking? If she does not like you, then let it be. Move on. That shouldn't stop you from liking her. I had an elder sister like that too, her father is not my father. She does not like me. And she proves it so well. And I never gave a damn but moved on. Must we really like each other. I love you but she doesn't. So, I give no headaches to myself. And you don't need to tell anyone what you know. Just live like you know nothing and stop troubling yourself over your sister. If she doesn't love you, live, work, school and make money. When you become better than her, she will like you. Money means everything. Money brings respect. If anyone is against this. But is the truth. When you work and earn your money. She will love you by force.

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Re: From A Confused Sister by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Fri, 15 Mar, 2019 - 05:45:29:pm GMT

One thing about a family that will always succeed in all their deals is a family where there's love, openness and freedom, meaning that there's no secret between you guys because you guys are family. Family is not limited to blood but it's actually taking care for one another, looking out for the good and benefits of each other, having this bond and an effective relationship where you can share your mind and views, if you meet someone like that, then that person is your family. So what you need to do now, having found out that your sisters and mom hid a secret from you like this, what you need to do is call your mom and tell her that mom I know the secret you have been keeping from me, then you call a meeting with your other sister and your mom and you discuss about it then think of how you guys can live as one big family without envy from any member of the family, be it your sister or whosoever, finally you have to apologize to your mum for going pass your boundary by reading her messages, then everything will be fine!!!
**Graced **

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