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Fashion » FASHION OR MADNESS by: Paradigm(m) .:. Mon, 25 Aug, 2014 - 09:08:19:am GMT
Indecent dressing has become a vogue in our society today. How could one explain a situation where a guy will draw his trousers down so that others will be seeing his pants. Or a situation where a lady will put on tight mini skirt and will be adjusting it several times by pulling it while walking on the road, or a revealing dress. Why put yourself in bondage, when they sit, they won't be comfortable. If you don't want people to see your nakedness why are you then putting on revealing dress?
It is indeed an eye sore, when you see what some put on. Some ladies are so guilty of this that even ladies like them detest such dressing almost walking naked. Probably they have ulterior motive.

Our bodies is the temple of God, learn to respect yourself.
Is that fashion or madness?

THE WAY YOU ARE DRESSED, IS THE WAY YOU WILL BE ADDRESSED!



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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Peperempe(m) .:. Mon, 25 Aug, 2014 - 09:33:15:pm GMT

This guy! You have not yet seen anything you are complaining, what would you do when you see something, i mean, real crazy stuff like what do happen in American ghettos?
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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Mon, 27 Oct, 2014 - 11:15:05:am GMT

that for sure ,if you dress well people will address you well. let call a spade a spade what ladies of now adays are putting is so bad and of guys ,guys dressing like a prisonal  should be taken to Yaba left in Nigeria . 



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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Kissy(f) .:. Mon, 27 Oct, 2014 - 11:20:29:am GMT


Quote from kenny11973: that for sure ,if you dress well people will address you well. let call a spade a spade what ladies of now adays are putting is so bad and of guys ,guys dressing like a prisonal  should be taken to Yaba left in Nigeria .
What do you me"guys dressing like prisoer a prisoner"?
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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Sat, 01 Nov, 2014 - 01:29:11:pm GMT


Quote from Kissy:
Quote from kenny11973: that for sure ,if you dress well people will address you well. let call a spade a spade what ladies of now adays are putting is so bad and of guys ,guys dressing like a prisonal  should be taken to Yaba left in Nigeria .
What do you me"guys dressing like prisoer a prisoner"?
**Seeing is believing to those who do not have faith**
   You know quite well that was a mistake which can happen to anybody and don't tell me that you don't know that sagging was originated from prisoners.
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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Kissy(f) .:. Sun, 02 Nov, 2014 - 04:15:40:am GMT

I understand that it was a typing error and I corrected that in my response.

But I was just asking what you meant when you say "guys" dressing like prisoners", I mean, how do you mean? I am asking because, I can't remember when I saw any guy dressed like a prisoner nor do I think that prisoners have same uniform every where. You know what I mean?

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Funmo(m) .:. Mon, 02 Feb, 2015 - 04:57:57:pm GMT

FASHION IS MADNESS 

Trends are made and meant to be followed, but first off, they are meant to be set. Fashion trends start off as results of a dressing experiment by a popular person or a group of famous people, most times unintentionally. The way with which fashion trends spread is contagious, and fashion designers, stylists and experts are always on their toes trying to move with the flow. For one minute, a style and particular design or outlook is reigning, the next minute it is no longer en Vogue. In this century, as far as fashion goes, anything goes. Only self-esteem, peer pressure and culture sway determine what side of the trend you are on - the trend setters or the trend followers.

Madness is a deviation from a sane norm psychologically, and so is fashion, only that its is outwardly. Because fashion is most times a change in how some style used to be rocked. It could be hairstyles, clothing, colour combination etc. That's why a trend could look weird when it's new, but look so normal after a while. That is how madness is too ; it looks awkward at first, then it becomes no issue. No offence to fashion freaks.

Youths are known to be restless, they bring the same frequency of restlessness into the fashion scene. Eclectic and eccentric. The fashion industry is the in-thing now. Modelling is now a lucrative career. Males and female models are turning  celebrities and fashion is becoming an heavy statement, regardless of how insane or awkward it turns out to look. Nude and half-nude models rock the pages of magazines, and they are all over the billboards, advertising their bodies, or goods and services if you say so. In this generation, if it doesn't raise eye brows, it is not fashion.

STAY MAD!!!

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Divinkeme1(m) .:. Wed, 06 Mar, 2019 - 02:42:28:pm GMT

The rate and manner at which people are dressing now a days are surprising and amazing because we don't really know what is turning out from the lives of our youths. Not them alone but some elderly men who have divided to follow trend. The basic reason for dressing is to cover your nakedness and look good. But some have decided to use it as a medium to seduce innocent men and woman on the street to stumble into sin. That is not right because everyone deserves to be looking good and lovely. Respect the reason for dressing and obey it to the last latter rather than trying to do the wrong thing at every given point in time. Let's all dress moderately and appear great because you will be addressed the way you are dressed at all time.
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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Oma_maron(f) .:. Thu, 07 Mar, 2019 - 02:54:25:pm GMT

I have always believed in a code and a principle as regards dressing, and that code is never criticize someone for what he or she chooses to put on, as long as they are not forced to do it, never criticize them, even though they feel uncomfortable, it’s them who feel so not you, so don’t criticize them, you might be amazed to find out that most of them that’s their lifestyle, they enjoy what they are doing and even want people to talk about them, you are just playing their game as they want it, so get occupied with better things, what you should do as a parent or elder one to your siblings and cousins or niece is to make sure they have the right values and mentality when it comes to dressing, dressing moderate is the code, you might not be able to convince those who aren’t your family but those who are your family are better to advice, so don’t criticize anybody, if they are comfortable with it, it’s their life and one thing my parents have always thought me is never encroach in other people business, it will save you a lot of stress and avoid unnecessary insults. A word is enough for the wise.
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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Youngbeauty(m) .:. Wed, 26 Jun, 2019 - 05:12:36:pm GMT

Guys and ladies of nowadays,dress in different way

When they say fashion they don't mean putting on something that makes you look like someone that has gone loko,dress the way you want people to address you

some  people are decent, but dress in a way that will make them look none decent maybe when their friends are that crazy type they do same just to belong and fit in,some ladies you see them putting on makeup and what you see nest is masquerade,so please let stop abusing things like fashion and makeup 

Fashion is very good for use because when we dress we look beautiful and unique,we look out standing
when you now dress stupidly tell me is that still fashion, so please we should learn to dress well and stop abusing and humiliating fashion

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Youngbeauty(m) .:. Wed, 26 Jun, 2019 - 05:12:50:pm GMT

Guys and ladies of nowadays,dress in different way

When they say fashion they don't mean putting on something that makes you look like someone that has gone loko,dress the way you want people to address you

some  people are decent, but dress in a way that will make them look none decent maybe when their friends are that crazy type they do same just to belong and fit in,some ladies you see them putting on makeup and what you see nest is masquerade,so please let stop abusing things like fashion and makeup 

Fashion is very good for use because when we dress we look beautiful and unique,we look out standing
when you now dress stupidly tell me is that still fashion, so please we should learn to dress well and stop abusing and humiliating fashion

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 09 Jun, 2020 - 11:48:15:am GMT

Sometimes I wonder people who dresses indecently are actually human like me. Sincerely, why would someone want to dress indecently. Putting on clothes that reveals the sensitive parts of the body. 


The most annoying one is when I see married women putting on shorts revealing their thighs. That's extremely bad, even if young and unmarried people are wearing such, most the married women do so? Who are they wearing it for? 

Nowadays, when you go to the market to buy clothes, you'll hardly find a cloth that covers your kneel and shoulders. Why? Stupidity and silliness has taken over the world. Why would a lady dress, exposing her breast and her calls herself a believer. 

Your dressing speaks a lot about you, that's why it's said that the way you dress is the way you'll be address. Let's stop this bad attitude. 

Worst thing is, most of the ladies who dress indecently were taught by their parent. At very little age, he mother already starts wearing her shorts and mini skirts, what do you think will happen when she grows up?

Parents should also be careful of whAt they wear on their children. They should dress dressing the children wrongly. 

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Blackie(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jun, 2020 - 04:40:54:pm GMT

 I believe that alot of Nigerian youth are misunderstanding the concept of Fashion. It's true "the way you dress is the way you will be addressed ". Fashion is beautiful but it becomes madness when it's degraded

 You see a guy wearing torn jeans, pulling it down to his waist line all in the name if fashion
    It's all called Ripped jeans for a reason not torn jeans. I'm not saying one shouldn't wear it, I'm just saying there's a limit to how you wear it. Americans wear but in a fashionavle way that when you see it, you forget about the ripped part.
          As for girls, it's really funny.  Fashion is not you exposing your body. You can be fashionable with a decent dressing "Halima" check her out on Instagram, she's an inspiration.  I love her fashion sense. She doesn't expose herself yet she's impeccable when it comes to fashion
 Dread fashionably not in a mad way.

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Davzee(m) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 08:22:36:am GMT


@kenny11973: you right. Crazy jeans. I hate that Jean, people who wears it looks like a mad person. Some still sags on top of the crazy jeans. What is the difference between a mad person and those who wears crazy jeans.


If you are the fashion type, you love fashion please and please copy the right fashion. because the way u dress is the way you will be address.

Am a huge fan of fashion. But you can't see me on crazy jeans or you see me sag. Some people who sags don't even know where sagging came out from because if they know, they won't be doing it. Me personally I go against it. Please dress nice, Dress appropriate. 
Thank you

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Mima(f) .:. Fri, 03 Jul, 2020 - 09:07:54:am GMT

It's so worrisome and pitiful to see how some girls dress in the name of fashion, it's madness! Social obligations are not prerequisites for feeling great about your appearance. You can dress up simply because looking good makes you happy. But more often than not, the situations where we put a lot of care into our outfits are big events with explicit dress codes. The best-case scenario is that we’re dressing for both reasons: because it boosts our self-esteem and because we want to look situationally appropriate.

Why do girls dress so provocatively one minute, then complain that guys are superficial the next?”
This is a difficult question with many sides to it. One part of the answer is that some girls feel confident if they receive attention for the way they dress. It’s nice to be noticed. Often girls even dress to impress other girls, maybe even more than guys. But for many girls it’s even more important to fit in. Many young women feel it is social suicide to try to stick out in the crowd or wear something no one else is wearing. So if all the girls are dressing in short skirts and low-cut shirts, they better do it as well, they think. Sometimes the styles may be more provocative than a girl feels comfortable wearing, but due to peer pressure, she will wear it anyway.
Still, knowing what is appropriate can be a head-scratcher. The dress code might be implied, and even when it’s made explicit, the jargon can be difficult to decode. Which is why we spelled it out for you here. 
Why Do Women Wear Revealing or Sexy Clothes?
by Dawson McAllister

is-it-bad-for-girls-t👎dress-provacitively
Answers to Tough Questions
I want to answer a couple questions I’ve been asked recently about why girls sometimes dress provocatively and also about how guys sometimes brag about the girls they are with.  Both touchy subjects, but I hope that in the process of honestly answering these questions we will all learn what it means to relate to each other in a healthy way. I hope my answers will help give you more self-love and confidence.

So here was the first question from Michael:

“Why do girls dress so provocatively one minute, then complain that guys are superficial the next?”
This is a difficult question with many sides to it. One part of the answer is that some girls feel confident if they receive attention for the way they dress. It’s nice to be noticed. Often girls even dress to impress other girls, maybe even more than guys. But for many girls it’s even more important to fit in. Many young women feel it is social suicide to try to stick out in the crowd or wear something no one else is wearing. So if all the girls are dressing in short skirts and low-cut shirts, they better do it as well, they think. Sometimes the styles may be more provocative than a girl feels comfortable wearing, but due to peer pressure, she will wear it anyway.

Why do girls sometimes dress provocatively and why do guys brag about the girls they're with? 

Some girls might not even realize that how they are dressing can affect guys.  Don’t get me wrong, some girls know exactly what they are doing, but some are just wearing what they think looks good. Since guys are sexually driven by what they see, it becomes easy for them to objectify women based on how they are dressed, but that doesn’t make it right.

What message are you sending?
So please know ladies that what you wear often sends a message…whether you intend it to or not.  If you are flaunting your body, guys will be tempted to come after your body. However, if you advertise who you are on the inside, with such traits as kindness, gentleness, sensitivity, great personality, etc., they will be drawn to you for that.

Guys, it is important to realize most women want to be loved and respected for who they are on the inside. It’s just the lies of the culture regarding how best to attract men confuses things. As a guy, when you compliment a girl you have an opportunity to tell her she’s beautiful, without expectations on what her response should be. Women often want to be thought of as beautiful, but they don’t want to be disrespected. That’s a fine line, but I believe it’s possible for mature guys to walk that line.

How to Show Respect to a Girl


The next question is also complicated and it is from Tiana:

Why do guys feel the need to brag about the girl they are with, and their sexual relationship with her? 
Unfortunately, some guys do like to talk to other guys about their sexual conquests. I think this often comes out of a deep insecurity and a desire to impress other guys. It’s a competition thing. If one guy has more success with women than others, his ranking in the group goes higher. That is why there is not only bragging, but exaggerating, and even downright lies about their experiences with women. When this happens it shows a guy’s immaturity and lack of respect for the opposite sex. These particular guys are working hard to develop a reputation as a macho guy. Watch out for these guys because they are more concerned about themselves than the girl they are with. Don’t lose heart, there are good guys out there who don’t behave in this way.
  
This kind of bragging is certainly not done to impress other women, as women are usually completely turned off by the idea of a guy talking about what he did with other women. Women respect a man more who can keep silent about what happens in private. Real manliness is when a guy fights to protect a women’s reputation and feelings. Little boys like to exaggerate. Real men who are confident and secure don’t have to brag to feel good about themselves.


You know how sometimes you just know things, but don’t realize that you do until someone mentions it out loud. That’s just the case with fashion too, and that’s why we always need tips from experts, fashionistas, and designers to validate what we know. But, often while reading about stuff, we realize how we miss tiny details and how other people have a different perspective to offer! Like they say, the devil is in the details. If you were wishing that it’d be nice to have a list that states it all out for you, we’ve got you covered. So, today, let’s take a look at 50 Fashion Tips that will come in handy for every girl – whether you are a college chica or a lady boss. Ready? Let’s do this.

1. For Beginners, Know Your Body Type
Knowing your body type is the basic thing to know about yourself. Everything works around this, so this is  one of the biggest fashion tips or advise that anyone can give you.

2. Wear The right bra
Wearing the right intimates is essential for both health and fashion. You need to know your size and when to wear what; basically, you need to know it all.

3. Invest In Good Lingerie
  Sometimes it is nice to indulge and treat yourself to good lingerie.



You know how sometimes you just know things, but don’t realize that you do until someone mentions it out loud. That’s just the case with fashion too, and that’s why we always need tips from experts, fashionistas, and designers to validate what we know. But, often while reading about stuff, we realize how we miss tiny details and how other people have a different perspective to offer! Like they say, the devil is in the details. If you were wishing that it’d be nice to have a list that states it all out for you, we’ve got you covered. So, today, let’s take a look at 50 Fashion Tips that will come in handy for every girl – whether you are a college chica or a lady boss. Ready? Let’s do this.

1. For Beginners, Know Your Body Type

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Knowing your body type is the basic thing to know about yourself. Everything works around this, so this is  one of the biggest fashion tips or advise that anyone can give you.

2. Wear The Right Bra

Fashion Tips - Wear The Right Bra 

Wearing the right intimates is essential for both health and fashion. You need to know your size and when to wear what; basically, you need to know it all.

3. Invest In Good Lingerie
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Sometimes it is nice to indulge and treat yourself to good lingerie.




4. Own Classics – Trench, Leather, Denim Jackets
Fashion Tips - Own Classics – Trench, Leather, Denim Jackets Sa

Classics like these are timeless, and every girl needs them in her closet. They come in handy all through the year in one way or another.

5. There’s Nothing Red Pumps Cannot Solve
Pumps are great, but red pumps are legendary. The high it gives to strut around in these confidently is of a different level. Every girl needs to experience this.

6. Scarves – Come A Long Way In All Seasons
Woolen, silk, satin, linen, blanket, etc. – you need it all. Some work wonders in winters, while some are for summer and the others are perfect for fall fashion.

7. Denim – Find Your Fit And Save It For Life
High-rise, low-rise, boot cut, boyfriend, baggy, etc. Knowing what suits your body type and size is life-saving. These are everyday essentials, and you can’t go wrong with them.This kind of bragging is certainly not done to impress other women, as women are usually completely turned off by the idea of a guy talking about what he did with other women. Women respect a man more who can keep silent about what happens in private. Real manliness is when a guy fights to protect a women’s reputation and feelings. Little boys like to exaggerate. Real men who are confident and secure don’t have to brag to feel good about themselves.


8. Understand The Color Wheel
It might seem a little unnecessary, but you will be more than glad you looked this up because it’s a game changer and gives you a new perspective when matching up colors. Remember, there cannot be more than three colors in your outfit at one time.

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Bolexy46(m) .:. Wed, 05 Aug, 2020 - 12:53:39:am GMT

What most people put on today as clothes are amazing. What we have today is not only a display of insanity but acting the script written by agents of the devil. What is the purpose of putting on clothes? We are so grateful to God for the inspiration of the Holy Spirit on men, to write the Bible. The Holy Spirit carefully addresses all issues of life with practically no exemption. After the fall of man in the Garden of Eden (Gen 3), the glory of God which surrounded him departed from him because God cannot stand sin. Shame and reproach came upon man and his nakedness was exposed. However, God in his infinite mercy provided a clothing of animal skin to cover the nakedness of Adam and his lovely wife, Eve (Gen 3). We can see from God’s word that the main purpose of putting on clothes is to cover nakedness. It is important at this point to note that God is a God of variety (James 1:2, Psalm 8:28) we can see that in the flowers, trees, animals and even in humans. If we look at the flowers carefully and see the beautiful clothes and designs on them, we will appreciate the fashionable mind of God. But we must draw a line between fashion, nakedness and pure insanity.

These agents of the devil have programmed the minds of people with clothes designed from the water with sole purpose of exposing the nakedness of woman. The devil has succeeded in capturing the mind of the designers with most of them being either gays or lesbians and has used them to carry out his mission.


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Abbey(m) .:. Wed, 05 Aug, 2020 - 08:30:41:pm GMT


Youth of nowadays dress up  any how  they see, I wonder why  majority of youth  dress but they  tagged it with the word  called civilization, some boy put on ear ring  and called it fashion , some boys  fix finger nails  and legs. 
There is  even  a  dress called  crazy, we have  crazy  Jean trouser, we have  crazy  top, we have crazy  skirt. If you put on all these  crazy stuff  does that mean fashion  it is crazy not fashion . 
Some  girls  will wear a  top which  will open up  there best outside, some girls  will put on a gown and all the  private  part of their  bodies shows out and yet they call it  fashion, all these dress are crazy  because a rational  Human being supposed to dress up nice and  decent. 


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Sharpminds(m) .:. Wed, 12 Aug, 2020 - 05:14:23:pm GMT


@abbey:Why do girls dress so provocatively one minute, then complain that guys are superficial the next?"

This is a difficult question with many sides to it. One part of the answer is that some girls feel confident if they receive attention for the way they dress. It's nice to be noticed. Often girls even dress to impress other girls, maybe even more than guys. But for many girls it's even more important to fit in. Many young women feel it is social suicide to try to stick out in the crowd or wear something no one else is wearing. So if all the girls are dressing in short skirts and low-cut shirts, they better do it as well, they think. Sometimes the styles may be more provocative than a girl feels comfortable wearing, but due to peer pressure, she will wear it anyway.
Still, knowing what is appropriate can be a head-scratcher. The dress code might be implied, and even when it's made explicit, the jargon can be difficult to decode. Which is why we spelled it out for you here.
Why Do Women Wear Revealing or Sexy Clothes?
by Dawson McAllister

is-it-bad-for-girls-t👎dress-provacitively
Answers to Tough Questions
I want to answer a couple questions I've been asked recently about why girls sometimes dress provocatively and also about how guys sometimes brag about the girls they are with. Both touchy subjects, but I hope that in the process of honestly answering these questions we will all learn what it means to relate to each other in a healthy way. I hope my answers will help give you more self-love and confidence.

So here was the first question from Michael:

"Why do girls dress so provocatively one minute, then complain that guys are superficial the next?"
This is a difficult question with many sides to it. One part of the answer is that some girls feel confident if they receive attention for the way they dress. It's nice to be noticed. Often girls even dress to impress other girls, maybe even more than guys. But for many girls it's even more important to fit in. Many young women feel it is social suicide to try to stick out in the crowd or wear something no one else is wearing. So if all the girls are dressing in short skirts and low-cut shirts, they better do it as well, they think. Sometimes the styles may be more provocative than a girl feels comfortable wearing, but due to peer pressure, she will wear it anyway.

Why do girls sometimes dress provocatively and why do guys brag about the girls they're with?

Some girls might not even realize that how they are dressing can affect guys. Don't get me wrong, some girls know exactly what they are doing, but some are just wearing what they think looks good. Since guys are sexually driven by what they see, it becomes easy for them to objectify women based on how they are dressed, but that doesn't make it right.

What message are you sending?
So please know ladies that what you wear often sends a message and whether you intend it to or not. If you are flaunting your body, guys will be tempted to come after your body. However, if you advertise who you are on the inside, with such traits as kindness, gentleness, sensitivity, great personality, etc., they will be drawn to you for that.

Guys, it is important to realize most women want to be loved and respected for who they are on the inside. It's just the lies of the culture regarding how best to attract men confuses things. As a guy, when you compliment a girl you have an opportunity to tell her she's beautiful, without expectations on what her response should be. Women often want to be thought of as beautiful, but they don't want to be disrespected. That's a fine line, but I believe it's possible for mature guys to walk that line.

How to Show Respect to a Girl


The next question is also complicated and it is from Tiana:

Why do guys feel the need to brag about the girl they are with, and their sexual relationship with her?
Unfortunately, some guys do like to talk to other guys about their sexual conquests. I think this often comes out of a deep insecurity and a desire to impress other guys. It's a competition thing. If one guy has more success with women than others, his ranking in the group goes higher. That is why there is not only bragging, but exaggerating, and even downright lies about their experiences with women. When this happens it shows a guy's immaturity and lack of respect for the opposite sex. These particular guys are working hard to develop a reputation as a macho guy. Watch out for these guys because they are more concerned about themselves than the girl they are with. Don't lose heart, there are good guys out there who don't behave in this way.
This kind of bragging is certainly not done to impress other women, as women are usually completely turned off by the idea of a guy talking about what he did with other women. Women respect a man more who can keep silent about what happens in private. Real manliness is when a guy fights to protect a women's reputation and feelings. Little boys like to exaggerate. Real men who are confident and secure don't have to brag to feel good about themselves.


You know how sometimes you just know things, but don't realize that you do until someone mentions it out loud. That's just the case with fashion too, and that's why we always need tips from experts, fashionistas, and designers to validate what we know. But, often while reading about stuff, we realize how we miss tiny details and how other people have a different perspective to offer! Like they say, the devil is in the details. If you were wishing that it'd be nice to have a list that states it all out for you, we've got you covered. So, today, let's take a look at 50 Fashion Tips that will come in handy for every girl - whether you are a college chica or a lady boss. Ready? Let's do this.

1. For Beginners, Know Your Body Type
Knowing your body type is the basic thing to know about yourself. Everything works around this, so this is one of the biggest fashion tips or advise that anyone can give you.

2. Wear The right bra
Wearing the right intimates is essential for both health and fashion. You need to know your size and when to wear what basically, you need to know it all.

3. Invest In Good Lingerie
Sometimes it is nice to indulge and treat yourself to good lingerie.



You know how sometimes you just know things, but don't realize that you do until someone mentions it out loud. That's just the case with fashion too, and that's why we always need tips from experts, fashionistas, and designers to validate what we know. But, often while reading about stuff, we realize how we miss tiny details and how other people have a different perspective to offer! Like they say, the devil is in the details. If you were wishing that it'd be nice to have a list that states it all out for you, we've got you covered. So, today, let's take a look at 50 Fashion Tips that will come in handy for every girl - whether you are a college chica or a lady boss. Ready? Let's do this.

1. For Beginners, Know Your Body Type

Fashion Tips - For Beginners, Know Your Body Type Save
Shutterstock

Knowing your body type is the basic thing to know about yourself. Everything works around this, so this is one of the biggest fashion tips or advise that anyone can give you.

2. Wear The Right Bra

Fashion Tips - Wear The Right Bra

Wearing the right intimates is essential for both health and fashion. You need to know your size and when to wear what basically, you need to know it all.

3. Invest In Good Lingerie
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Sometimes it is nice to indulge and treat yourself to good lingerie.




4. Own Classics - Trench, Leather, Denim Jackets
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Classics like these are timeless, and every girl needs them in her closet. They come in handy all through the year in one way or another.

5. There's Nothing Red Pumps Cannot Solve
Pumps are great, but red pumps are legendary. The high it gives to strut around in these confidently is of a different level. Every girl needs to experience this.

6. Scarves - Come A Long Way In All Seasons
Woolen, silk, satin, linen, blanket, etc. - you need it all. Some work wonders in winters, while some are for summer and the others are perfect for fall fashion.

7. Denim - Find Your Fit And Save It For Life
High-rise, low-rise, boot cut, boyfriend, baggy, etc. Knowing what suits your body type and size is life-saving. These are everyday essentials, and you can't go wrong with them.This kind of bragging is certainly not done to impress other women, as women are usually completely turned off by the idea of a guy talking about what he did with other women. Women respect a man more who can keep silent about what happens in private. Real manliness is when a guy fights to protect a women's reputation and feelings. Little boys like to exaggerate. Real men who are confident and secure don't have to brag to feel good about themselves.

**Whatever is impossible with God has not been created**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Sardyne(f) .:. Sat, 29 Aug, 2020 - 01:20:00:pm GMT

Funnily enough, some of these boys that drag their trousers down to show their pants don't even wear clean underwears. So please what are they trying to show off? 


But oi a more serious note, I feel people should be reorientated on why clothes are used. It's for cover not anything else. You can design your clothes to look more beautiful and all, no big deal, but the essence for it should not be taken away. When you wear a short skirt that can barely cover your thighs and you are adjusting in the way or in a cab, what were you thinking? Some people sef do not even adjust. They have so gotten used to wearing revealing clothes that they don't care again if any part of their bodies is exposed. I think it's high time we redefine what dressing should be to us. What are we teaching the younger generation coming after us? Which legacy are we leaving behind? It's sad that the world is redefining so many things in the bad way for us, but it's a personal choice. What you become is still a function of what you approve within yourself.

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: MichealThankGod(m) .:. Sat, 29 Aug, 2020 - 05:26:17:pm GMT

Indecent dressing, as been talked of, many times, I mean countless time, on beneyoyo here, even parents have talked about it, many time's to  there children.

But many of them have kept quiet, because all they got back is an insult, instead of an appreciation.

Even many ladies and guys, out there have stop greeting, many of our parents and elderly ones, all because, they talk to them about the kind of dresses they put on.

Even many parents and elderly ones out there have now been an enemy to the young ladies out there, all because they are trying to protect them, from there own future.

Am ever in support and I will not and will never encourage raping, but this cases keep on increasing on a daily basses, could it be the indiscipline in dressing that course this?

I have know ideal, or how it entice, a guy or trying to impress or prove to someone, that you too you are off age, and old enough to do what you feel like doing.

I just pray we you are ready to face the consequence.

All I can say about this is, putting on dress, that is half covered and will make you look naked out there just put a stop to it.

Stop putting your precious life in danger, your precious future is at stake here, in other to avoid story that touches the heart.

Thank you.

**Ogun state**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Princessprecious(m) .:. Sat, 29 Aug, 2020 - 08:26:39:pm GMT

This is majorly for we youths and especially christians...... They way you dress is the way you will be addressed....... Not only on clothes alone, but also the way you barb your hair or better put, your hairstyles  Also is PART of your outlook..... Whats the essence of we ladies wearing an off shoulder clothes bringing out all our shoulder and exposing us all around?... Or should we talk about guys that goes to market and uses their money to buy a torn dress for that matter..... The funniest thing is that, thosd torn dress are more expensive than the good one...... Where are we heading to? All in the name of FASHION..... HMMM... FASHION OR MADNESS?.... 

      Just because we want guys to be crediting us that we have fashion sense..... Having fashion sense is not about you exposing your body, it about you being decent and also, able to dress well...... You will intentionally dress to impress a guy, to allow guys call you and ask you out while going on the street, but it soo funny that they will call you and you wouldnt still answer them......,............... Is that one called FASHION?... Nooo!... We need to be pure in everything, our body is the temple of God.... I dont think we know the meaning, asin! Thats where God leaves and dwells, so why wouldnt we keep it holy and clean?... Why wouldnt we respect The temple of God?........ I dont think we know that, our body is not for us, but it is for God.... So why would we just be doing God's house anyhow?.... Ohhh! Nooo!...... This isnt FASHION any longer......................... But can be termed MADNESS! And God wouldnt be happy seeing his children mad already......... I thought torn dress or clothes are for mad people? Why are we wearing it?  And we think we are normal? 
         Infact we should use our sense........ The name tagged in the torn dress is called CRAZY JEAN!....... So please why are we wearing a CRAZY dress?.... And we still call that one FASHION?..... Please lets think 

**Precious**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Abbey(m) .:. Sun, 30 Aug, 2020 - 09:36:52:am GMT


Fashion  or madness. 
Any way the issue  here is civilization, civilization has caused so many  things in the country, unlike  the olden days in which  both male and female  already  know  what  kind  of dressing  they are to put on. 
But today  civilization has turn everything into another  thing, a boy putting on hear ring some people will call it fashion  but it  is totally madness how  will a boy  put on hear ring which  belong  to women, some  boy will even  go to the  extent  of changing their  body stature to look exactly like  a female and people will think  is was fashion that  is not  fashion  but madness, just Imagine  a girl  wearing a  transparent cloth showing  all her private part of the body in to the public, some  girls dress half nacked dressing half nacked is madness, there is a particular  dress call (crazy)  these  crazy  gean can also  be call teared cloth in which  if someone  wear it on the  body  some part of the  body  will be showing out and I believe that all these  kinds  of madness  which  some believe  to be fashion are been  caused by  civilization. 
Some people dress exactly like a mad man, if you  won't  to dress  up  in a fashionable way there are  some  good  and feated cloth  to wear not transparent  dress  and  not crazy  gean. Don't  forget  that you will be addressed as you dress. 

**Abbey **


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Victoria(f) .:. Wed, 09 Sep, 2020 - 08:53:52:pm GMT

 A mini skirt? Trust me, that's the least we should be talking about right now. It's the year 2020 now and people are wearing far worse than that. A mini skirt can even be worn to church nowadays. You don't believe me. Trust me I didn't believe either till I saw it with my own two eyes. 

The good thing about this is that the way people dress here in Nigeria (the indecent dressing, I mean) is still far better than in the western world. No offence to anyone who is reading this and has affiliations to the western countries. I think this is because here in Africa, we usually are so judgemental and your business is everyone's business so when an adult sees you on the road wearing what he or she seems as indecent, they will definitely talk and try to embarrass you in the process of trying to make you see sense in what they're saying and we the youths and teenagers in a bid to avoid embarrassing situations like that try not to dress too indecently. We may to an extent dress in a manner that isn't exactly pleasing but not extreme.
Besides, nowadays here in Nigeria, schools have dress codes and by schools I'm talking about the universities. Some schools have become so strict with the way the students dress that it has become almost impossible for students to dress indecently. Note how I said almost because some students always find ways to flaunt the rules.

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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Mima(f) .:. Sat, 26 Sep, 2020 - 08:34:09:am GMT

We live in a present world where things are changing fast. Things have really changed. Indecent dressing has become the order of the day. As a girl, if you haven't gotten the latest shoe or latest product in town, your fellow friends (girls) will see you as an outcast.

Fashion according to the dictionary means how something is done or how it happens. I will simply put it as, fashion is change in trend. Fashion reach every areas of our lives down to how we eat.

Things have really changed and I am not surprised. Pride, lust caused it. Everybody want to be seen as the one trending. People show off, that is why some are influenced to join the crew thereby leading to new inventions causing more havoc.

Guys, tattoo is not fashion. It is madness. Imagine decorating your skin with scary images just in the name of fashion. Ah! Tattoo causes cancer.

Clothes originally meant to cover ones nakedness is now preferred and accepted as fashion to reveal parts of your body . Wearing of pads(artificial body pads) to shapen ones bum bum is a fashion now which has led youths to lose ones sense of decency.


We all know all these things are wrong. They cause harm to us. Health wise, emotionally, mentally and socially. Live a modest life. Do not follow the world's culture,still stand on your right convictions. 


That do not mean you should dress shabbily or unkempt. Dress  presentable. Don't expect to be addressed well in a job interview putting on armless or leggings. Dress well so you will be addressed well. 





**Just me**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Holashayo(f) .:. Sat, 26 Sep, 2020 - 09:28:44:am GMT

Many will take it as a fashion but notwithstanding, it is obviously madness.
Some people dress in such a way that it will be hard to differentiate them from mad people. 
Dressing abnormally puts one into danger thereby you will be mistaken for a bad person when you are not.
I will say that those girls that are exposing their selves have a bad intention because if not they will not be forced to be rape by their attraction. This act needs to be couped.
Civilization have taken over this world, but 
a child who is well trained will always remember the son of whom he is.

**Damiswag**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Peekaboo(f) .:. Sat, 26 Sep, 2020 - 10:09:25:am GMT

Hmmmm the way you dress is the way you will be addressed
**Bubbles**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Peekaboo(f) .:. Sat, 26 Sep, 2020 - 10:09:25:am GMT

Hmmmm the way you dress is the way you will be addressed
**Bubbles**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Krainaix(m) .:. Thu, 12 Nov, 2020 - 10:20:27:am GMT


@kenny11973:fashion is wide but we taking it a little wild,i can say i want show my belt not for any any reason but because it shines....so fashion is crazy if it was never made people wouldn't wear the outfit.
**Krainaix**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Temmylade(f) .:. Thu, 12 Nov, 2020 - 07:28:55:pm GMT

Well, if I am asked I'll say half naked dress is small madness because I don't understand how you will go to the bathroom and you tie towel on your body just to cover your nakedness and only for you to come outside after you finish dressing with plain net and underwear in it. Isn't that madness??


      Think about you going on the road and you see a mad man..you tend to leave the way for the person because he is mad and even you yourself you are putting on ordinary shirt that passed your ass just a little bit if not for stupidity and the so called fashion ain't you mad???
 Ok tell me you'll say because you are in your right senses or what?.. the difference between you and the mad man Is just that you can think straight and the other one can't.

    Fine, people call it fashion but to me, it isn't because you putting on the cloth you ain't comfortable and convenient. You can't even walk anyhow because you'll be scared of what you are putting on. But the thing I noticed is that there isn't shame anymore, ladies ain't ashamed of themselves anymore ...there is nothing they can't wear and there is nothing causing it apart from lack of fear of God.

  According to the Bible it says our body is the temple of God. Is it the body you have exposed to the whole world that is the temple or what. Take it or leave it is your type of guy that will approach you, if they see that you are dressed like a prostitute all they will have in mind us just to sleep with you, not all of them but most of them. 

    I'm not saying we shouldn't dress but let's look at the kind of clothes we put on. Why should a descent lady put on a transparent cloth and just have tight and singlet underneath; why???  This does not apply to the youth alone there are some so called mother's out there that dress indecent than most youths all in the name of fashion. Just for people to say they are in Vogue...fine but to me it's pure trash. 

Most ladies dress like that because of the work they are into cos they know that if they ain't dressed that way they wouldn't see customers. 

See madness is madness..there is no other name for it apart from madness. To the guys..I just tend to laugh when I see some guys sagging, funny enough the boxers they are wearing underneath doesn't worth it. Most of them put on dirty and torn trousers yet they still sag, well,I see it as ignorance because most of them don't know that it's prisoners that does that and they even fail to know that the prisoners didn't do it purposely because when they collect their belts from them, they don't have any choice than their trousers to be falling down.

  But we see it as fashion and trendy styles.

**Temmy**


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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Abiodun(m) .:. Fri, 13 Nov, 2020 - 02:48:08:pm GMT

fashion or madness. this means the people because of the arrogance and pride of their women who gave themselves to all wantonness and dissolution. Extended neck which declared their pride. wanton eyes. as a sign that they were not chaste. which showed their wantonness. walking and mincing as they go. they delighted then in slippers that creaked or had little plates sewn on them which tinkled as they went. other types of sinful fashion attitudes include sagging of trousers and knickers by men and women. bleaching the skin. reshaping the tummy. face. the breast. changing the colour of the eye balls. eyelashes. changing. the colour of the hair and the head. traditional or modern tattoos. wearing clothes that can expose the body.
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Re: FASHION OR MADNESS by: Abiodun(m) .:. Fri, 13 Nov, 2020 - 02:48:45:pm GMT

fashion or madness. this means the people because of the arrogance and pride of their women who gave themselves to all wantonness and dissolution. Extended neck which declared their pride. wanton eyes. as a sign that they were not chaste. which showed their wantonness. walking and mincing as they go. they delighted then in slippers that creaked or had little plates sewn on them which tinkled as they went. other types of sinful fashion attitudes include sagging of trousers and knickers by men and women. bleaching the skin. reshaping the tummy. face. the breast. changing the colour of the eye balls. eyelashes. changing. the colour of the hair and the head. traditional or modern tattoos. wearing clothes that can expose the body.
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