Literature/Writing » Don't be rude to people by: Kememopigha(f) .:. Sat, 08 Dec, 2018 - 08:18:57:am GMT
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Gooddypye(m) .:. Sat, 02 Mar, 2019 - 08:20:39:am GMT
Firstly, I don't blame the man with file so much to have shouted on the other man. He was holding things special to him but where I want to first be against is, documents are usually kept in a file bag or file envelope. That the document can't easily be tampered with. So, I see no reason why he should have being so harsh like that. That is the reason I blamed him a bit to have being rude.
**Fearless**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sat, 02 Mar, 2019 - 01:35:06:pm GMT
What I learnt from this piece is that we should mind our we respond when we face challenges, don’t allow anger take the better part of you, always have control over your emotions, you don’t know what it might save you or who you might be relating with, a little act of kindness in the midst of serious problems or a tensed atmosphere might just be what gives you the opportunity you have been waiting for in a lifetime, never speak to people anyhow, speak in love, there’s a better way to communicate if something or someone tampered with your emotions and you are angry or upset don’t allow your reactions change peoples perspectives of you, be smart and act better and wiser then everything will be fine, in all your dealings please never be rude, it might cost you something that’s very important to you!!!
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Princess(f) .:. Tue, 16 Jun, 2020 - 10:24:18:am GMT
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Blackie(f) .:. Mon, 29 Jun, 2020 - 09:13:00:pm GMT
@Gooddypye: we all have our own frustrations and battles, but no matter we shouldn't vent our frustrations on people, we are hurting the other persons feeling. It happened to me one day, I was really angry and frustrated because of college works, I had missed some lectures because I was ill at that time so i was trying to catch up, at that moment my sister walked in and started disturbing me because of some movie, at first I ignored her but her endless chatter really got to me and I screamed at her and said all sorts of stuff I didn't mean. She felt bad but she covered with a smile and walked out, I felt extremely bad. I knew she was just trying to lighten the mood but I was rude to her. I felt so bad that I couldn't even concentrate on what I was reading anymore ,I had to go apologize. Same with humans in general, we shouldn't just talk anyhow to people because of their looks remember "Don't judge a book by its cover". We don't know who is who. The person you talk rudely to might be your helper. If you feel you've said what you shouldnt say to someone then apologize, don't let your ego swallow you. Saying sorry who cost you your life but rather, it makes you a better person.
**--realitycheck**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Glamour(f) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 09:52:44:pm GMT
Don't be rude to people, you don't know who is who. You don't know who your future helper is, you don't know where you would find yourself one day. Being rude is a very ugly trait, if you not careful, it can put you in grace danger.
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Davzee(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 10:22:56:pm GMT
Don't be rude to people you don't know who is who. The person you are rude to now, might be your boss tomorrow. Rude people are bad people, people who are rude don't have respect.
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Olatoke(m) .:. Mon, 13 Jul, 2020 - 10:24:00:pm GMT
Don't be rude to people..
**Olatoke **
Re: Don't be rude to people by: David(m) .:. Wed, 15 Jul, 2020 - 04:00:49:pm GMT
It teaches a lot, the way some people behave in the public transport is really surprising, the bundle all their problems in life on an innocent person who might also be going through something and probably lost in thought mistakenly step on them,
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Mima(f) .:. Wed, 15 Jul, 2020 - 06:14:07:pm GMT
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Mima(f) .:. Wed, 15 Jul, 2020 - 06:15:01:pm GMT
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Olatoke(m) .:. Wed, 15 Jul, 2020 - 08:38:17:pm GMT
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Toxyron(f) .:. Thu, 16 Jul, 2020 - 08:14:55:am GMT
Don't be rude to people we do not know where we might find each other in the future. I know we all get tired, frustrated but we shouldn't vent it out on people no matter. Apart from this some people are just naturally rude, they are rude to their parents, their friends and anybody that comes their way. This set of people look down on people, they feel that they are much better than others.
**Revolution**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Flochords(f) .:. Thu, 16 Jul, 2020 - 08:08:24:pm GMT
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: AdaJesus(f) .:. Wed, 25 Nov, 2020 - 01:56:42:pm GMT
This reminds me of a particular incident that occured in my school when I was in 200level.
**AdaJesus**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Francis(m) .:. Wed, 25 Nov, 2020 - 04:08:34:pm GMT
**Francis**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Chiboy(m) .:. Wed, 25 Nov, 2020 - 04:26:11:pm GMT
I will say the man was not wrong in away but the manner in which he spoke to the man was wrong
**Chiboy**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Wonders(f) .:. Tue, 26 Jan, 2021 - 01:27:47:am GMT
I also watched a Nigeria movie of a guy who just came back from the UK to take over his father's business as the man is now an old man.
**Wonders**
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Sat, 13 Feb, 2021 - 07:31:04:pm GMT
**Always put God first **
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Abosedegrace(f) .:. Sun, 07 Mar, 2021 - 06:45:25:pm GMT
I also watched a short video in which this young couples were busy taking pictures in front of a very lovely sport car, then another lady was spotted coming out from the mall in that place where the sport call was parked, as she came out she saw the couples having such a good time in front of the car, she smiled so sincerely that she decided not to interrupt them until they are done so she decided to sit her butt on top of a bike parked beside her. As she sat down on the bike the husband rushed over and chased her out of the bike like she's a mad woman who isn't fit to be living among people. She was shocked so she went back inside the mall to get a bottle of water. She got the water came to her sport car and pour the cold bottle water on both of them. It was then they both realised what they had done and that she is the owner of the car. They tried to apologize but she had zoomed off.
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Re: Don't be rude to people by: Joyodishika247(f) .:. Sun, 28 Mar, 2021 - 08:37:43:pm GMT
@Gooddypye:
Rudeness is lacking refinement or grace, lacking good manners. Rudeness is not a character that you should not have or practice. It is not good it makes you look untrained. When you are rude people wouldn't want to associate with you or help you even when you are in trouble .
**Victory **
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Joyodishika247(f) .:. Sun, 28 Mar, 2021 - 08:42:18:pm GMT
When you are rude you loose a lot in life sometimes you might be rude and not know it, in that case. People will tell you that you are rude, so when you hear such complain form multiple people try to change or adjust your character to be polite it will be hard be try to change seek for a change, cause if you don't you will loose a lot in life.
**Victory **
Re: Don't be rude to people by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Tue, 10 May, 2022 - 12:17:34:pm GMT
Well-written article! Just like what you said, the world is a small place where you don’t know who is who. We meet different people in different places and we don’t know who they are or where they come from. That’s why as a human you need to respect everyone that comes your way.
Personal development is very essential in every individual life because when an individual refuses to do away with some character, it grows worse. There are so many ways to do away with any trait of rudeness.
1.Respect; To respect people is to value and not belittle them. Wherever you find yourself, don’t just behave anyhow to people you meet instead you need to be composed and show respect to every individual.
2. Always talk politely; every word you say counts and also influences the person receiving it. Always watch your words and know how to control your words so that you won’t sound rude.
3. Learn to say NO; whenever you sound rude or someone calls your attention to what you’ve done wrong, say No. Saying No will save you from a lot of problems.
**Always put God first **