Romance » Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Thu, 18 Apr, 2019 - 06:57:45:am GMT

If you know you are keeping a girl you know you won't marry, please free her and let her go, so she can locate me and those in need of a wife. Some men don't have conscience at all. How will you lie to a girl you love her, you want to marry her, when you really know you won't marry her? Its totally wrong! You are the reason some girls do tag men as 'wicked'.


The way females were created, they were created in such a way that they can fall for any sweet lies from fake guys. When you start giving a girl, false hope for tomorrow, when you truly know you don't love her, is that not wickedness? Every girl out there deserve the best, she deserve a good man, so stop tricking her into loving you, when you are just using her.

Women are our missing ribs, when you find yours, don't obstruct another from finding his.. Take care of the one you love, and leave the one you don't love for the man that truly loves her. There are lots of good guys out there, but because of you, that girl can't locate him, please leave her alone Don't keep a girl you know is not yours Stop this selfishness and wickedness

**Graced **


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Velisa(f) .:. Fri, 19 Apr, 2019 - 06:36:30:am GMT

At times such thing is caused by the lady. Imagine this I would say now...


I know of a lady who broke up with her fiance. The fiance was the one who actually ended the relationship. The reason was because she double dates. She was a player but she soo much love that particular guy. Even if she deceived the other guys, this main guy was her main boyfriend.

Her fiance found out her bad ways of living. Double dating was what he hates. He calls on her and warned her bro stop. But she continued. This makes the guy feels, she doesn't love him. Maybe she took him like one of those her boyfriend. And this guy has being seeking her hand in marriage but she will always say "I'm not ready."

So, the guy feel she is just a player. He cut her off and started dating another serious lady.
After some time, she went begging him. And due to the love this guy so much had for her. She told him planning. That even if they start dating, he won't leave his new girlfriend. She agreed to it. And it's like she being a side chick. And she is 27 years old already. Is there still any chances of the guy marrying her? No... She was even caught in the hotel with another person husband.

Now, this was caused by the lady. Some guys keeping lady whom they don't have interest to marry, is sometimes caused by the lady.

**Determined**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Piwizo(m) .:. Sat, 27 Apr, 2019 - 08:25:16:am GMT

I don't know why this is just so common. I wonder how those guys feel when they keep a lady they are not ready to marry. When you know you can't marry her, why are you still assuring her of love. Leave her and let her go for who will marry her. Don't be a wicked soul. And this is just so common among the guys. And this is same reason some ladies decides to deal with men through their possessed body.


I used to say......that if you don't love someone.... Don't make chat person fall in love with you. You might find it enjoying and normal when you break a girl's heart, but know that you have dig a hole in her. Heart break is very bad and can leads to downfall for the one who brought it. Do you think is normal, to just tell someone it's over? Remember every word has effect.

Find the right woman for you and work with her alone. Stop attaching yourself to others. Some kept on believing in you not knowing you are just using them. Repent from such way. One is not listed wealthy for the amount of girls he has or the number of sex he had a day. So, stop keeping ladies like you are loading a Trailer.

**positive**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Sat, 27 Apr, 2019 - 11:22:36:am GMT

Don't let your actions or lack of actions be the reason she is delayed and kept waiting on a commitment you know may not come. Don't be the reason she misses out on serious prospects. Worse, don't be the reason another brother gets treated rough because of your experience.

Don't be the reason she's twisted and confused on love, knowing that you cannot offer her commitment or worse, love.

Don't be the reason she risks another relationship which you know is better for her.
Her company may be good but please, if she truly means that much to you, let her go.

**Fearless**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Fellybabe(f) .:. Fri, 14 Jun, 2019 - 06:58:27:am GMT

Don't keep what is not yours and don't fight foe Hera is not yours.


I do ask myself at times..."why are men wicked?" Men are wicked. I mean extremely wicked. And extra wicked.
The reason I see men to be wicked are...

You know you don't love the girl. She appears beautiful and with good characters, you want to have her by all means. Not to marry her but to brag to your friends that you've caught that queen that refuses very other person. And right in her mind, she will think you are in a serious relationship with her. After having sex with her, you dumped her. That is wickedness. High rate of wickedness. It is not only when you have witch that you are wicked. Some characters you put on, it will be better to have had witch than to have such characters. The Bible says,"the wicked shall be cut off from this world and the transgressors shall be rooted out."

Another reason I considered men to be wicked is this...
They are married but they still go ahead deceiving innocent girls. Tying down their future. Some will even lie to the girl that they are not married. And the innocent girl will believe them. After marrying him, she will find out he's married.

Some men will leave their newly wedded wife to marry another woman. I know a woman very well... Her husband left her two months after their wedding to marrying another woman secretly. That day, he even lied to the woman that he was going for one board meeting so he needs to dress cooperate. The innocent woman was the one who helped him in wearing his suit and even his shoes... Only for he to hear later that your husband went to wed another woman. Wicked men... Very wicked men... Heartless men.. after that woman finished his money, he came back pleading his wife.



**God's light**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Confidant(f) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:46:16:pm GMT

Why lead a lady on if you know you don't intend to marry her?

Sex and money are the top reasons, followed by the need for a backup.

You are the side babe but you believe you are the main babe and you are looking as the main babe as the side babe.....clap for yourself.

Merely reading the above will confuse you if you don't read it carefully, let alone bringing it to life with human characters. It is easy to see how people can be confused.

You see, these things get listed but the real reason ladies get led on when marriage was never on the table is a reason that is offered by the ladies themselves.

There are two approaches, it's either you try to read the man or you protect yourself. Ladies seem to prefer the first one, reading the man then making a decision on it. But think about it, I am a guy looking to get in your panties, what are the chances that I am going to come at you as that? Most guys will not, it will start as a 'relationship' till 'smashing' occurs then the true nature of things bubbles up.

There's the other way, the road less traveled, which needs you to protect yourself regardless of what your heart tells you.
1. Take sex off the table
2. Take money off the table.

When you hear people talk about being heartbroken, it is usually a display of pain and hurt for being 'straffed' for free or being 'obtained' or worse being 'straffed and obtained'
for free.
If sex and money was not on the table, it would only be a case of time wasting.

Time is important to ladies, it's probably the most important reason they get desperate and throw money & sex at men even when they don't want to, but men also love their time and no man wants to waste time chasing a babe for sex when it's crystal clear right from day 1 that it is not going to happen.

"You don't know men, if you don't give them what they want, they'd leave you for where they can get it. Please, I can't let anyone take my man away for sex, after all, it's not like I won't enjoy it too".

Keep telling yourself that, it's the sort of mindset that helps keep straf candidates available.

Question: Do you know anyone whose genuine love relationship ended for refusing to have sex?

If he truly loves and intends to marry you, he'll stay even without sex and your money.

**Courageous**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Victoria(f) .:. Wed, 21 Oct, 2020 - 08:11:08:pm GMT

I wondered what it actually meant when you said not to keep anything that isn't yours. Growing up and even now, when I see things that don't belong to me but are extremely attractive, I find myself wanting to have it no matter what and that means I'm coveting what isn't mine. I know it isn't good but I can't help it. When I see this girl's clothes, trousers or shoes, I just get really jealous and wish I could have it. Even the Bible is against that as it states in the ten commandments that one should not cover anyone's property. It doesn't matter what circumstance you're in. Do not do it.
Imagine me getting all jealous and desiring someone's property, now imagine a worse scenario, desiring someone else's partner. That can be and should be classified as a no go area. That is something no one should ever do. No matter how bad you want someone, as long as the person belongs with and to another person, there is no right for you to go taking that person away from his or her partner. No matter how much you try to convince yourself that the person loves you and also wants you the same way you want him or her, you still have no right to go taking his or heart. It doesn't matter of truly the person like you for real. As long as the person is not willing to leave that relationship for you, it means the person definitely doesn't like you enough to let go of what he or she has at that moment so don't make it your life's aim to seduce or lure him or her into your bed and then into your life. It isn't right. Have you ever thought of someone else doing something like that to you. If you haven't ever thought about it, then it's time to do so. It would hurt wouldn't it? Don't deny it, it would hurt so bad.

**Live, love and heal...**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Flat(m) .:. Sat, 24 Oct, 2020 - 10:56:08:pm GMT

Hmmm! This is seriously serious. Well, this is what happens most times and most times I don't blame the guys but the ladies. You see, most times I do say my female folks that never allow your self to be blindfolded by the wind of love to the extent that you won't be able to know when deceit is setting in. Of a truth, their some guys that do play the game well, in-fact, they are perfect pretenders, but you see, the truth of the matter is their is a power that the ladies have that can make you unveil the truth no matter the extent of its coverage. How will you be in a relationship with someone and you won't be able to tell if the relationship is going to the promise land of marriage, how will you be in a relationship with someone and you can't tell if the person is already having another affair aside from you. You should be able to know when the person is just using you to catch fun (body benefit). Nobody is using you, you are the one that is allowing yourself to be used. It is time for you to be wise, it is time for you to wake up from that slumber, it is time to get your head straight up and know what best to do most especially when the years of relationship is taking longer than expected.
Nobody will keep you if you refuse to be kept. So, rather than wasting your time and think that it is one guy that is wasting your time. Sincerely, it is not an offence when you ask that egbon, where are we going out in this relationship. Most especially, when the time is growing and nothing like proposal is not coming forth. It is better you pick the race before it is too late to join the racer. May God help us.


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Flat(m) .:. Sat, 24 Oct, 2020 - 10:56:37:pm GMT

Hmmm! This is seriously serious. Well, this is what happens most times and most times I don't blame the guys but the ladies. You see, most times I do say my female folks that never allow your self to be blindfolded by the wind of love to the extent that you won't be able to know when deceit is setting in. Of a truth, their some guys that do play the game well, in-fact, they are perfect pretenders, but you see, the truth of the matter is their is a power that the ladies have that can make you unveil the truth no matter the extent of its coverage. How will you be in a relationship with someone and you won't be able to tell if the relationship is going to the promise land of marriage, how will you be in a relationship with someone and you can't tell if the person is already having another affair aside from you. You should be able to know when the person is just using you to catch fun (body benefit). Nobody is using you, you are the one that is allowing yourself to be used. It is time for you to be wise, it is time for you to wake up from that slumber, it is time to get your head straight up and know what best to do most especially when the years of relationship is taking longer than expected.
Nobody will keep you if you refuse to be kept. So, rather than wasting your time and think that it is one guy that is wasting your time. Sincerely, it is not an offence when you ask that egbon, where are we going out in this relationship. Most especially, when the time is growing and nothing like proposal is not coming forth. It is better you pick the race before it is too late to join the racer. May God help us.


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Abbey(m) .:. Sun, 25 Oct, 2020 - 08:27:38:am GMT

There some guys out there dating a girl who they did not have future for, some guys are in a relationship with a lady which their thoughts for the lady is of evil negative thoughts.

Lot of relationship don't end up in marriage because there is no sincerity in relationship this days, there are some people that would even go to the extent of promising a girl that he will marry her but later Leave her and dump her along the line.
Female heart are flexible they fall in love easily , why will you be keeping a girl for so many years and you already knew that you won't marry her it is unfear that is a bad habits if you don't know, what pain me most in this case is that the girl who you are treating badly is another person dream girl so if you don't have anything good plan for her let her go let her find another person who will show love to her and care for her someone who has it in mind to marry her and make her his future wife, not someone like you a lier and cheater, so many girls have experienced heartbreak from different types of guys that why they feel that there is no geniu love anymore, guy be careful how you treat any lady which comes your way.

**Abbey **


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Holashayo(f) .:. Sun, 25 Oct, 2020 - 12:36:37:pm GMT

Men are so heartless to the extent of dating a girl for a long years and instead of proposing marriage, he broke up with her. That is when they will be seeing so many faults and flaws in the girl. Did you just know that she not your type, after so many years?, Did you just noticed her physical appearance and characters?, You now wasted her precious time just for your selfish interest. Even if she didn't curse you, you have laid a curse on yourself.
We women are so flexible hearted, we easily fall for men's tricks and give our heart to them completely.
Should we say it is a crime for accepting your proposal or what?. The truth is that, ladies are more honest in a relationship than guys.
That is why most girls are afraid to go into serious relationship with a guy.
Please men, free us, if you know you can't marry us, stop wasting our time.

**Damiswag**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Omotayodavid(m) .:. Thu, 19 Nov, 2020 - 10:59:58:pm GMT

What isn't meant for you when kept only brings unrest and troubles. No matter how sweet and loving you can be as a man it's best you be way lady that accepts you for who you are, never force things.
**Caringheart**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Chamak(f) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 01:21:02:am GMT

This is indeed a nice topic and an issue that needs to be discussed. It is very true that there are men out there who keep ladies that they are very certain that they won't marry her but because of their self interest to satisfy their sexual pleasures or for reasons known to them, they keep these ladies and end up not marrying her.


This is a really big issue because I have witnessed ma y scenarios like this whereby you'll see a girl and a guy who are both dating and they really look good together. They'll date for a long time and one morning you'll just wake up and boom, you'll see the man with another lady and few weeks later, you'll hear that he is getting married to the new lady.

Men should learn to be truthful and quit a relationship on time especially when they know that they won't marry the girl so that they won't waste her time and a tangible period of her life only for them to dump her later. It is pure wickedness on the part of me who do such things.



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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Nagiano(m) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 01:38:33:am GMT


@Chamak:


This is true talk but I noticed you were focusing on the men alone in this issue. We should all know that as far as relationship problems are concerned, it always goes both ways irrespective of how we choose to view it.

There are many relationships out there whereby it is the ladies that actually stay and deceive the guy for a very long time knowing fully well that she doesn't actually have any intention of marrying him. Many ladies these days are in marriages not because the man is their choice but maybe because of his wealth.

Alot of men have testified to situations like this whereby the lady will have another man that she intends to marry and when it ir time for her and the man to start marriage preparations, that is when she will now look for an excuse to break up with her current boyfriend so she can go and marry.

This situation is vice versa and affects both men and women. So it should be a topic channelled to both gender telling them that if you know that you won't marry your partner in your relationship then leave now while it has not gone too far and stop deceiving him or her. The essence of a relationship should be marriage and once there is a contrary feeling then that relationship is a waste of time.

**Man United for Life**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Phaithh(f) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 11:03:15:am GMT

Lol, I get your point but don't you think you are being sentimental? I mean it's not only the men that cheat and keep girlfriends, the female folks are into it too!

Every successful relationship is a defined relationship. Most relationships suffer wreckage just because of the nonchalant attitude towards the aspect of defining the relationship.
Men and women must understand why they are going into a relationship and what should be expected from it. When this is not done, it will lead to heartbreaks and crushed expectations. I don't see anything wrong with men who date girls and not marry them at the end as far as there had been an agreement -- a definition of the relationship. So girls! Wise up! Define your relationship with your partner!

This issue of double dating or multiple dating is rampant these days -- they call it the *new-normal*. I heard of lady who had numerous boyfriends, and their names were saved on her contact list according to her profit from them: sex boo, money boo, kiss boo, phone boo and so on, can you imagine?
I think the major cause of this is greed or uncontentedness -- not being satisfied with what you have or own.

The world is so perverse and wicked. Finding a faithful and true person/partner these days is an harculean task.
Although, most people who engage in this act of multiple dating often give the flimsy excuse of being scared of heartbreaks, they don't want to be too committed to a single partner who may break their hearts anytime. This is why the place of GOD in relationships is very paramount. He is the only one who searches the heart and knows the true partners. If we want a very wonderful relationship with the right partner without fear of heartbreaks, why don't we pray and ask Him to direct us?
The time has come when men would stop relying on their own abilities and prowesses. Let's admit that we're all limited, and we keep making mistakes.


**Jesus junkie**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Chamak(f) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 12:06:40:pm GMT


@Phaithh:


Nice comment.

Indeed the world is so perverse and wicked these days and finding a defined and truthful relationship these days is really a herculean task. You actually hit the nail on the head with all your comments.

Cheating in relationships the days is now seen as a norm. People who try to be truthful and loyal in their relationships are tagged as lover boy or lover girl, some people even go as far as calling people like that MUMU.


Sometimes I look at everything happening around us and I tend to wonder why everything is just turning upside down. As regards this topic, it is really a very wicked act and there is no action in this life that doesn't have consequences. To me, I feel people that do these things are actually acting based on their past relationships which is also another thing to be considered.

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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Krainaix(m) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 12:07:49:pm GMT

At times, it happens to be the females causing this because as you have said that male are wicked,know that female are the most ...

Females dates several guys they know wouldnt be their husby what of the prostitute type that juat play with guys for their money....

**Krainaix**


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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Abiodun(m) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 03:18:59:pm GMT

don't keep what is not yours. don't compare your life to others. there's no comparison between. quote you can't lose what you never had. you can't keep what not yours and I don't regret anything in my past whether good or bad. I am who I am because of others. you can't keep what was not yours true. yet we keep wanting what we don't have and crying over what was never ours to keep it. can't lost what you never had. can't keep what's not yours. and can't hold on to something that does not want to stay.
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   Re: Don't Keep What Is Not Yours. by: Francis(m) .:. Fri, 20 Nov, 2020 - 05:09:13:pm GMT

We men are the representatives of what they call us. Well, not all men does that but most men have stained the picture of who a responsible man should be.
I can't really blame some men for that act because they might have experienced the same from a lady and want to retaliate and the innocent ones will be affected. Most ladies pushed men to do evil at times. But not withstanding, we shouldn't pay evil with evil.
If you decided to close our eyes for the bad person to pass, the good person will pass without you noticing. That is how people are, we don't know who will favour us. Stop hurting the life of other people, less your heart be broken.
Men, do not suffer a girl you know you don't love or have a mind to marry, if she later die because of it, her blood will be on your head. Do not make her stay while you want her to go. Be honest to her before it's too late.

**Francis**


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