Love-Stories » Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Ogiejoe(m) .:. Fri, 22 Mar, 2013 - 09:53:24:am GMT

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Number 10

She detaches herself from your family

The fact that she no longer wants to attend your family's functions or http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_60/67_dating_advice.html">hang with your friends is one of our signs she's cheating on you. This sign may be indicative of cheater's remorse on her part, which means that she likely feels guilty about cheating. The less she immerses herself in your circles (which contain people who are painful reminders of her sins), the less mental anguish she'll have to endure.

Number 9

She nags you incessantly

Gone are the days when the two of you could communicate with harmonious precision. Now, every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you.

If such an about-face sounds familiar, she may be subconsciously trying to justify her little tryst. Nagging you helps eliminate or at least ease her nagging guilt. So if she habitually begins to point out your every flaw, you may want to get to the bottom of what's really going on because it's one of our signs she's cheating on you.

Number 8

She has a mysterious friend

A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when a mysterious friend inches his way into the picture. Whether it's someone she claims is a coworker or an old friend from way back, she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to share any general details about him, much less introduce you. And it doesn't take a Ph.D. to figure out why.

Number 7

She deflects simple questions

You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or answers questions only after repeating them back to you, which usually indicates a mind that's searching for a lie. Be wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks, "Why do you want to know what time I left the coffee shop?" If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone and it's one of the surest sings she's cheating on you.

Number 6

She shifts priorities away from you

If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with someone else, you'll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. Suddenly, there are no more implied Sunday dates at the movies or something always comes up on dance-lesson Thursday. There is a tendency for most philanderers to schedule meetings with their new flame as often as they can, which results in a complete disregard for previous engagements.


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Re: Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Bebeyequeen(f) .:. Thu, 05 Dec, 2013 - 03:22:22:pm GMT


Quote from ogiejoe: Cheating. It happens. Does it happen often? Not really. Will someone cheat on you? Hopefully not.

I beg to differ that cheating doesn't happen often.., and YES, it might not be an often occurance with people from the west, but in Africa (using Nigeria for instance) most men have cheated or would cheat on their wives or girlfriends and they won't see it as cheating rather, they would consider themselves smart actors: they even beat their wives or girlfriends when confronted with the acts. What a shame...

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Re: Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Sat, 26 Jan, 2019 - 06:17:31:pm GMT

Well said...and going the whole of it I found no wrong written. It is just the true sign of those who cheats judging from what I've witnessed so far. But my question now is: if you found out that your man or woman put on this signs and studying him or her very well. You realized he or she is truly cheating on you. Please what do you do to a cheating boyfriend or girlfriend? Please I need your advice.
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Re: Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Mizhbell(f) .:. Sun, 27 Jan, 2019 - 10:16:22:pm GMT


Quote from Ogiejoe: Cheating. It happens. Does it happen often? Not really. Will someone cheat on you? Hopefully not.

But if Robert Pattinson -- this generation's teen heartthrob -- can get cheated on, then what chance do you have that your partner will remain faithful?

In the 2012 Great Female Survey, over 30% of women indicated that they would be tempted to cheat if their partner could never find out (guys weren't any more honorable -- see the results here).

It's a sad fact, but there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. So, although you might be in love with your better half, there's always a chance that she might be cheating on you. Contrary to what your macho side might think, you may not be the center of her universe after all.

But you can rest easy. We've compiled a top 10 list of signs she's cheating on you. While all the cheating signs that follow may not imply that she is in fact cheating on you, each is definitely a warning that something is amiss with your ladylove.

Depending on the scenario, you may need to look further for more signs she's cheating on you, do some relationship maintenance or simply break up.

Number 10

She detaches herself from your family

The fact that she no longer wants to attend your family's functions or hang with your friends is one of our signs she's cheating on you. This sign may be indicative of cheater's remorse on her part, which means that she likely feels guilty about cheating. The less she immerses herself in your circles (which contain people who are painful reminders of her sins), the less mental anguish she'll have to endure.

Number 9

She nags you incessantly

Gone are the days when the two of you could communicate with harmonious precision. Now, every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you.

If such an about-face sounds familiar, she may be subconsciously trying to justify her little tryst. Nagging you helps eliminate or at least ease her nagging guilt. So if she habitually begins to point out your every flaw, you may want to get to the bottom of what's really going on because it's one of our signs she's cheating on you.

Number 8

She has a mysterious friend

A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when a mysterious friend inches his way into the picture. Whether it's someone she claims is a coworker or an old friend from way back, she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to share any general details about him, much less introduce you. And it doesn't take a Ph.D. to figure out why.

Number 7

She deflects simple questions

You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or answers questions only after repeating them back to you, which usually indicates a mind that's searching for a lie. Be wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks, "Why do you want to know what time I left the coffee shop?" If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone and it's one of the surest sings she's cheating on you.

Number 6

She shifts priorities away from you

If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with someone else, you'll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. Suddenly, there are no more implied Sunday dates at the movies or something always comes up on dance-lesson Thursday. There is a tendency for most philanderers to schedule meetings with their new flame as often as they can, which results in a complete disregard for previous engagements.



... Why are these tips only referred to the Ladies ? Do you mean ladies cheat more than guys?
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Re: Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Mizhbell(f) .:. Sun, 27 Jan, 2019 - 10:18:46:pm GMT

Accurately said, these are true signs of cheating. Truth be told, cheating doesn't happen often, but it depends on individual's decision (choice) and his/her obligation. It's also sure that someone can cheat on his/her spouse. Lemme give an example on Uniform Men (Military) like, men in the armed forces are reliable in cheating becos of their nature of work, the times they spend on duty, distance from partner etc, these are common reasons why someone will cheat. But I observed that the cheating issue was just referred to the ladies and it not fair at all, cos both parties cheat. And I rate men as the high cheaters, thank you.
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Re: Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jul, 2019 - 07:23:43:am GMT

Dear Women:

Do you want your man to love, respect and stay faithful to you alone? I have a love portion you can give him. The ingredients of the love portion
include:
1. Always look beautiful and attractive.

2. Be diligent and always make sure the house is tidy.

3. Cook delicious meals for him at all times and always include his favourite food.

4. Give him good sex and romance.

5. Always pray for him.

6. Be humble and Submissive.

7. Avoid quarrelling with him and if there is any form of quarrel, always settle it before the next day.

8. You must be able to ENDURE. A woman that cannot endure will never last in a man's house.

9. Love his family members like your own family.

10. Always contribute to the development of the home. Don't have the mentality that it is the man that must buy everything. He will respect you for this.

NOTE THAT: Even If you use the most powerful charm on a man and your character is on a zero level, his eyes will surely be opened one day.

**Fearless**


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Re: Cheating Man: Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man by: Velisa(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jul, 2019 - 07:28:22:am GMT

Some women see their husband as a little weakling who has no brain of his own and can't think at all. They see him as an idiot who is too weak to resist any female attention so they swing into action to "protect" him by searching his phone, probing him, eyeing every female that hangs around him and caging him. No, they can't cage him 24/7. They pay cheap gossips at his office to monitor his every movement and eventually develop hypertension! Look, you will just kill yourself!

No one can snatch your husband like a handbag at Oshodi market. No one can steal your husband unless he is beaten to a state of comma and carried off. No woman can make him leave you unless he wants to. All these crap I hear from women that "My husband is innocent. He sat on his own when the lady came to meet him, seduced him, use juju on him and made him marry her" gets me worked up.

He slept with her because he WANTED to, period! She was able to seduce him because he WELCOMED her. If he said NO, she would stop dead in her track. He married her because he was sick and tired of your boring marriage and wanted something new and exciting, it's as simple as that.

You can't keep a man hell bent on straying. If he didn't do it with Ngozi, he will definitely run away with Bintu. A cheat will cheat whether you police him or not.

What you need to do is work on your marriage. Make your self so indispensable in your husband's life that no woman can snatch him. When a man is thoroughly satisfied at home, who is the witch that will carry him off?

When you totally adore him, creatively seduce him, generously feed him, lavishly make love to him, excessively forgive him, graciously accept his weaknesses, totally befriend him, completely trust him and ceaselessly pray for him, which woman from the pit of hell wants to carry your husband off?

Women will do well to focus on real things and stop chasing shadows. A successful marriage is not built on wishful thinking but HARDWORK. You can't fold your arms and let things slide only to wake up when another woman is chasing your husband.

Give your husband your best and he will not allow any woman to snatch him from you. God bless you. Cheers!

**Determined**


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