You're very correct. You know personally, I can actually date someone who doesn't have much yet. As long as there's every indication that this guy is doing everything he can to hit it big and make it in life, I'm ready to be his support system.

The only but here is that I can't marry him while he's still struggling. See, regardless of my age, for my future kids sake, I'm ready to stick by him and wait for him. However in no situation will I marry a man that's not doing well financially.

For a fact this is actually coming from you as a guy, it really warms my heart. Don't mind me, I had to check out your profile to be sure of the poster.

I'm amazed because naturally guys like to say that girls are gold diggers who love and are only after money. At the end, I felt you decided not to join them, you choose to rather be realistic... That's really commendable!
**Wonders**

Hmm, its quite and interesting question. My own is that 'watin you go dey find relationship when you no get money?'. In Nigeria, love is rare especially when money is not in the picture. How will you stick with a person who is struggling to afford 500 airtime for you? Its not good, at least the person should earn a decent salary that will do to take care of him self before thinking of entering a relationship. Its all self-respect. You are dating a girl and you are struggling to afford airtime for her. Just break up and work on yourself. Love and money work hand-in-hand in a relationship. But not your basics of entering a relationship be sole depending on money.
**Samuel Kingsley**

You are right , money I needed to make love in a relationship , sometimes we are not talking about been very rich up to that level , there are some guy although they are not rich but at the same time they are still oky to some level.

Looking for a very rich person sometimes can affect the life of someone , we usually hear different types of news on the paper some people their money is not clean.

As for me a guy who is not a lazy person who is hard working and have a clean source of income .
To round it up if there is no money love can not stand on it feet between a man and a woman that is the real truth.
**Oladipupo **

Actually for this question I will say No, because love without money will not last. Personally for me I will not have an affair with any man without money if I was a girl. The reason is that it won't work, let say I am very in need of something special and I can't even get an help from my partner what kind of love is that. She is very beautiful, do you know what she does to keep that beauty my brother work so that you can make your queen more beautiful PLS. If you really love her.
**Prince Benjamin**

I must confess, love without money cannot work.
Money is like the oil or lubricant that greases a rusty engine.

If is easy for love to go sour when there's no money.

Any relationship without money will take the extra grace of God to stand the test of time.
There responsibilities to be met in a relationship and money drives the wheel in most cases.
In fact relationship without money is boring.
Truth be told.

**I love being me.**

Love without money can't work, especially nowadays when there is economic hardship in every part of the world. I so much like what @wonders has said concerning the whole scenario. When a guy is serious about his Future and working towards achieving a brighter future; a woman can stay in such a relationship because she is sure that he's doing something that will yield good returns.

When it comes to marriage. No man or woman is advisable to go into marriage without having a sustainable source of income. I know some will say love is not money but I strongly disagree with that point because when responsibilities hit you, you will know that love is money.

Have seen a lot of people ending their marriage while some of their love starts becoming cold simply because of insufficient/ no money. As you are loving and planning for marriage; make sure you are planning for responsibilities that are mostly on the finances.

**Always put God first **

There are many things involve in a relationship, and the things involve is dependent on the type of relationship.

If you guys are just friends the things involve are different, and if you guys are just dating-for-dating sake, then the things involve are different. also, if you are Dating to get married them the things involve are different, so is the expectations.

The truth is, you can't do anything in this world without money, you can't go anywhere, you can't really do the things or live the life or relate with people without money.

To keep a good relationship, you need money else how do you reach out to your friends.

Even if your dating-for-dating sake you will still need money, else what are you people doing.

Most of the help people need these days is financial, how do you intend to help your friend.

I can't even understand why a man will even think of getting married when he does not have a job, what is your plan, how will you take care of your family, not to talk of to assist others, or your plan is to beg people, or Soffer your wife and children.

For a man to think of getting married without a job is stupid.

You won't be jobless for ever so wait till you get a job, except you plan to be jobless forever.

wisdom, be wise.
**It is well**